I had a rough day. Mom had it worse.
So, today was a Very Bad Day. I'm just venting because sleep won't come easily tonight, if at all.
Long story kinda short, mom was walking our big dog and something caught his attention. He suddenly pulled, she fell on the driveway and broke her jawbone where the joint connects with the rest of the skull. It even punctured her ear canal a little (but not the eardrum - her hearing is fortunately intact). She's in a lot of pain, though we arranged for her to get better treatment for that before leaving the hospital this evening. It was hard to leave her. Dad was at work and I was alone and asleep when the neighbors woke me up. Fortunately, they saw it happen immediately. It was the first time when I - the disabled kid she normally takes care of - had to take responsibility for her and I don't know how well I did in the moment. That we'd had a fight the night before which I had not apologized for made me feel worse (but I did so when I saw her tonight).
Anyway. They weren't going to keep her overnight for her jaw, but everything changed when they got her blood work back. Mom had a heart attack years ago, and this past weekend, she was not feeling well in the chest and had almost suggested going to the ER. She's the stubborn type about getting help for herself and put it off, was to see her cardio tomorrow. As I said, the blood work came back and it showed enzymes indicative of possibly - probably - recently having had a mild heart attack. Hard to not blame myself for throwing my hands up when she refused to go to the ER. They're monitoring her blood frequently for twelve hours to see whether the enzymes are consistently going up or down. Up may mean another surgery for another stent, and the last was pretty brutal on her.
So, I guess without the jaw, we wouldn't have known about the heart - which really took priority for the doctors who admitted her in the end. They knew the situation with her jaw, but her heart is still an uncertainty. If all goes as planned, she may come home tomorrow, but that will change if her enzymes are consistently going up.
This is going to be a sleepless night for me, hopefully not for her. She's already been having a rough time of things lately. I feel badly for her and wish I could do something, but I can't even drive myself to the hospital.
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& about Your Mom's health issues! I am also dealing with stubborn Mama stuff, & feel guilty & sad about our phone conversation yesterday. I have no wisdom, except that WE do the best we can, & even when we disappoint our Mamas & ourSelves, KNOW that Love is still there. Take goood Care of YourSelf tonight.. & we will do our best tomorrow, & we will Love & Bless our Mamas. 
Don't blame your self too much.
Don't be so hard on yourself. Focus on your mom's recovery now.
we care
Glad to hear the Doc's found your Mom's blockage and will repair it before it caused real bad consequences. Everyone steps up in a family crisis; you, your Dad and even your puppy. Better times ahead I'm sure.
An 'accident' seems to have saved her Life!
Please take goood Care of YourSelf! & keep us updated, ok? Healing Thoughts on Your Mama,& strength & comfort to YOU.
& enJOY Your furry 4 legged Friend! 💚
All the best to you both.
she did a good job with you 
I noticed a few people had posted asking how things were going, so I thought I'd do a quick update.
Mom had a scan of her entire jaw/face in the hospital, on Tuesday morning. After that, we were allowed to take her home, and she was happy for it! She drained all of the hot water just sitting in the shower. Mom has to take it easy for a while because they closed the catheter entry point with some kind of bovine plug - I don't really understand it - and it will eventually kinda merge with her body. Once it does that and can't pop out, she'll be able to do more. About two weeks.
The heart surgery aspect of it all appears to have gone very well. I even caught her out walking the dachshund puppy this morning (she's breakin' the rules already!) because she just wanted the air. It'll just take time for her to be fully back to her old self. I'll feel better once the wound has healed, because it's so easy for her to forget that she can't do things like bend, etc.
As for mom's jaw, I don't *think* they're going to wire it. She was told they generally don't wire it for breaks way up at that joint by her ear. Now, the fracture on her chin more to the right side of her face, I'm not sure. She goes to the maxillofacial surgeon ASAP to find out the results of the scan and the action plan. Dad has already said he's gonna be a brick wall against wiring it, because it terrifies her. :S
So, for breaking one's jaw and having two stents placed at the same time, I would tend to say mom is bouncing back really well (but I wish she would ask me for help instead of breaking the rules like a rebel!). We appreciate your thoughts.
That all sounds like good news, even the rebellious part!