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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsGot my prostate out - Ask me anything!
So, I was diagnosed with prostate cancer back in June - not too aggressive, but enough to necessitate treatment.
Decided on surgery as the best course, as I'm only 69, and in fairly good health.
Had the operation last Wednesday.
Rock star surgeon here in Philadelphia, who has done 5000+ procedures.
One night in hospital. One shot of Tramadol that night, then on to Tylenol. Off that for the last three days.
Catheter came out yesterday (so I now have a pair of yellow shoes and no bag to match).
Walking around.
Taking it easy for the next three weeks, but otherwise all seems well.
And the pathology report? Clean!
Coventina
(27,101 posts)He is still cancer free!
Best wishes to you in your recovery.
GoneOffShore
(17,339 posts)The worst is the whole 'depends' aspect, and TMI, I can't start doing Kegels again until tomorrow.
Coventina
(27,101 posts)Things improved for him, slowly, but he never got back to 100%
But, he is otherwise healthy.
Maybe you will do even better than he has!
My personal thought is that my dad probably hasn't tried all that hard.
GoneOffShore
(17,339 posts)I'm told that the reason for it is to improve continence as well as helping the nerves heal.
appleannie1943
(1,303 posts)He just celebrated his 71st birthday and he and his wife just came home from their 4th cruise and he and two friends will be leaving for a trip to Viet Nam and Cambodia in a couple weeks. He still plays softball in a senior league.
Think positive and enjoy all the extra years you will now have.
Phentex
(16,334 posts)That's all we need to know. Continued good health!
Freddie
(9,259 posts)My cousin had the operation 6 years ago (he was 58) and he's doing great. He just retired and is traveling about the whole country with his wife. It gets better!
babylonsister
(171,056 posts)My brother had his removed last year and is also free of the dreaded disease. Yay!
dixiegrrrrl
(60,010 posts)So what are the effects of no prostrate? Do you have to take hormones or anything? (asking for a friend...seriously)
GoneOffShore
(17,339 posts)Have to retrain my bladder and have to be conscious of lifting anything heavy for the next several weeks.
The other thing is that because they remove the prostate and the seminal vesicles, there is no fluid produced to carry sperm, so it's not so much shooting blanks as not shooting anything at all.
I do have to take 5mg. Cialis tablets once a day for a year. Not for ED but because it's a vasodilator and increases blood flow to the pelvic region and promotes healing the nerves and the bladder.
Your friend should get the best surgeon that he can find.
As I said, mine is a rock star.
I had robotic surgery which is performed laparoscopically. Ended up with 7 incisions sealed with SuperGlue and a Foley catheter for a week.
At the moment I'm dealing with the little bit of urinary leakage that happens when surgeons mess around with the plumbing.
The pain from the surgery wasn't minimal, kind of like being hit across the stomach with a 2x4. I've had gout attacks and the pain from that was magnitudes greater.
Hope this answers the question.
Oh, and the removal of my prostate didn't leave me prostrate.
dixiegrrrrl
(60,010 posts)Interesting to learn they can do it via laparoscopically.
GoneOffShore
(17,339 posts)It's too invasive, the risks of infection and complications are higher, and the recovery time is much longer.
This was at UPenn and the surgeon used a DaVinci machine. I would post the website, but it might be against the DU TOS.
Easy to find on google.
Jeroen
(1,061 posts)GoneOffShore
(17,339 posts)In reality?
Pretty damn good.
The worry of what was going to happen if I didn't have the operation is gone.
The pain was annoying but nowhere near gout pain.
The worst of the experience?
In order:
The Foley catheter for a week. And I never got the shoes to match.
The compression devices they put on your legs to prevent clotting. It's like sleeping with a restless python who keeps switching legs.
Uncomfortable bed.
Hospital food - never fails to disappoint.
Jeroen
(1,061 posts)I wish you a speedy recovery and healthy years to come!
UTUSN
(70,683 posts)Solly Mack
(90,762 posts)Fla Dem
(23,650 posts)GoneOffShore
(17,339 posts)I've had lots of support with this.
Friends sending good wishes and such.
And now, we'll be able to go back to our other home in Aix en Provence with clear minds. No nagging thoughts of an impending operation or disease. The entire time we were working on the flat, this was at the back of our minds.
I had posted an update, but didn't mention the cancer.
https://www.democraticunderground.com/1018988644
'Provence is a country to which I am always returning, next week, next year, any day now, as soon as I can get on to a train' - Elizabeth David - French Provincial Cooking - 1960
hack89
(39,171 posts)GoneOffShore
(17,339 posts)No, it goes to the pathology lab.
They can keep it. I have no further use for it.
And I don't think it would be any good with fava beans and Chianti.
Though at 66 gms it would have been appetizer sized.
steve2470
(37,457 posts)My doc is sending me to a urologist about mine. Wish me luck.
GoneOffShore
(17,339 posts)And if they want to do a prostate biopsy, be sure that they give you the same anesthetic that you get for a colonoscopy.
When my brother had his they told him it was going to be just a 'little pinch'. They lied.
But here's a joke you can tell the anesthesiologist:
This anesthesiologist is out at a bar and he picks up a woman. She asks what he does, and because he doesn't want her to feel weird about what he does, he says that he works in medicine, but really doesn't want to talk about. She's fine with that and at the end of the evening they hook up.
Next morning as they're having coffee she looks at him as says: 'You're an anesthesiologist, aren't you?'
'That's amazing! How did you know?'
'Easy', she says. 'It was only a little prick and i don't remember a thing.'