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GoneOffShore

(17,339 posts)
Wed Oct 11, 2017, 03:14 PM Oct 2017

Got my prostate out - Ask me anything!

So, I was diagnosed with prostate cancer back in June - not too aggressive, but enough to necessitate treatment.
Decided on surgery as the best course, as I'm only 69, and in fairly good health.
Had the operation last Wednesday.
Rock star surgeon here in Philadelphia, who has done 5000+ procedures.
One night in hospital. One shot of Tramadol that night, then on to Tylenol. Off that for the last three days.
Catheter came out yesterday (so I now have a pair of yellow shoes and no bag to match).
Walking around.
Taking it easy for the next three weeks, but otherwise all seems well.
And the pathology report? Clean!

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Got my prostate out - Ask me anything! (Original Post) GoneOffShore Oct 2017 OP
Awesome! My dad underwent the same procedure almost 20 years ago now. Coventina Oct 2017 #1
Thank you. GoneOffShore Oct 2017 #2
Yes, my dad struggled for awhile. Coventina Oct 2017 #5
And they probably weren't doing the Cialis thing at that time. GoneOffShore Oct 2017 #12
Dad died of prostate cancer. Brother had his removed in his late 40's appleannie1943 Oct 2017 #3
Clean! Phentex Oct 2017 #4
Stay well! Freddie Oct 2017 #6
Cancer-free...SWEET! babylonsister Oct 2017 #7
Congrats....esp. for the relief from worry. dixiegrrrrl Oct 2017 #8
Effects are 'interesting' GoneOffShore Oct 2017 #10
Nicely worded reply.... dixiegrrrrl Oct 2017 #13
From what I can gather the idea is not to do 'open' surgery if they can avoid it these days. GoneOffShore Oct 2017 #14
How do you feel? Jeroen Oct 2017 #9
The flippant answer is - With my hands. GoneOffShore Oct 2017 #11
Glad you do Jeroen Oct 2017 #17
Fan*TAS*tic! Congrats UTUSN Oct 2017 #15
Excellent news on the clean report! Solly Mack Oct 2017 #16
Glad you're doing well with a free and clear report! Bet your family is thrilled as well. Fla Dem Oct 2017 #18
Yes, they are. GoneOffShore Oct 2017 #19
Do they let you keep it in a jar? nt hack89 Oct 2017 #20
That would creepy in the extreme GoneOffShore Oct 2017 #21
So glad you're doing well, yay! steve2470 Oct 2017 #22
Good luck indeed. GoneOffShore Oct 2017 #23
haha! nt steve2470 Oct 2017 #24

Coventina

(27,101 posts)
1. Awesome! My dad underwent the same procedure almost 20 years ago now.
Wed Oct 11, 2017, 03:17 PM
Oct 2017

He is still cancer free!

Best wishes to you in your recovery.

GoneOffShore

(17,339 posts)
2. Thank you.
Wed Oct 11, 2017, 03:19 PM
Oct 2017

The worst is the whole 'depends' aspect, and TMI, I can't start doing Kegels again until tomorrow.

Coventina

(27,101 posts)
5. Yes, my dad struggled for awhile.
Wed Oct 11, 2017, 03:35 PM
Oct 2017

Things improved for him, slowly, but he never got back to 100%

But, he is otherwise healthy.

Maybe you will do even better than he has!

My personal thought is that my dad probably hasn't tried all that hard.

GoneOffShore

(17,339 posts)
12. And they probably weren't doing the Cialis thing at that time.
Wed Oct 11, 2017, 05:55 PM
Oct 2017

I'm told that the reason for it is to improve continence as well as helping the nerves heal.

appleannie1943

(1,303 posts)
3. Dad died of prostate cancer. Brother had his removed in his late 40's
Wed Oct 11, 2017, 03:28 PM
Oct 2017

He just celebrated his 71st birthday and he and his wife just came home from their 4th cruise and he and two friends will be leaving for a trip to Viet Nam and Cambodia in a couple weeks. He still plays softball in a senior league.

Think positive and enjoy all the extra years you will now have.

Freddie

(9,259 posts)
6. Stay well!
Wed Oct 11, 2017, 04:09 PM
Oct 2017

My cousin had the operation 6 years ago (he was 58) and he's doing great. He just retired and is traveling about the whole country with his wife. It gets better!

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
8. Congrats....esp. for the relief from worry.
Wed Oct 11, 2017, 04:27 PM
Oct 2017

So what are the effects of no prostrate? Do you have to take hormones or anything? (asking for a friend...seriously)

GoneOffShore

(17,339 posts)
10. Effects are 'interesting'
Wed Oct 11, 2017, 05:47 PM
Oct 2017

Have to retrain my bladder and have to be conscious of lifting anything heavy for the next several weeks.
The other thing is that because they remove the prostate and the seminal vesicles, there is no fluid produced to carry sperm, so it's not so much shooting blanks as not shooting anything at all.
I do have to take 5mg. Cialis tablets once a day for a year. Not for ED but because it's a vasodilator and increases blood flow to the pelvic region and promotes healing the nerves and the bladder.
Your friend should get the best surgeon that he can find.
As I said, mine is a rock star.
I had robotic surgery which is performed laparoscopically. Ended up with 7 incisions sealed with SuperGlue and a Foley catheter for a week.
At the moment I'm dealing with the little bit of urinary leakage that happens when surgeons mess around with the plumbing.
The pain from the surgery wasn't minimal, kind of like being hit across the stomach with a 2x4. I've had gout attacks and the pain from that was magnitudes greater.
Hope this answers the question.
Oh, and the removal of my prostate didn't leave me prostrate.

GoneOffShore

(17,339 posts)
14. From what I can gather the idea is not to do 'open' surgery if they can avoid it these days.
Wed Oct 11, 2017, 08:35 PM
Oct 2017

It's too invasive, the risks of infection and complications are higher, and the recovery time is much longer.

This was at UPenn and the surgeon used a DaVinci machine. I would post the website, but it might be against the DU TOS.
Easy to find on google.

GoneOffShore

(17,339 posts)
11. The flippant answer is - With my hands.
Wed Oct 11, 2017, 05:53 PM
Oct 2017

In reality?
Pretty damn good.
The worry of what was going to happen if I didn't have the operation is gone.
The pain was annoying but nowhere near gout pain.
The worst of the experience?
In order:
The Foley catheter for a week. And I never got the shoes to match.
The compression devices they put on your legs to prevent clotting. It's like sleeping with a restless python who keeps switching legs.
Uncomfortable bed.
Hospital food - never fails to disappoint.

GoneOffShore

(17,339 posts)
19. Yes, they are.
Thu Oct 12, 2017, 02:11 PM
Oct 2017

I've had lots of support with this.

Friends sending good wishes and such.

And now, we'll be able to go back to our other home in Aix en Provence with clear minds. No nagging thoughts of an impending operation or disease. The entire time we were working on the flat, this was at the back of our minds.
I had posted an update, but didn't mention the cancer.
https://www.democraticunderground.com/1018988644

'Provence is a country to which I am always returning, next week, next year, any day now, as soon as I can get on to a train' - Elizabeth David - French Provincial Cooking - 1960

GoneOffShore

(17,339 posts)
21. That would creepy in the extreme
Thu Oct 12, 2017, 03:28 PM
Oct 2017

No, it goes to the pathology lab.

They can keep it. I have no further use for it.

And I don't think it would be any good with fava beans and Chianti.

Though at 66 gms it would have been appetizer sized.

GoneOffShore

(17,339 posts)
23. Good luck indeed.
Thu Oct 12, 2017, 10:53 PM
Oct 2017

And if they want to do a prostate biopsy, be sure that they give you the same anesthetic that you get for a colonoscopy.

When my brother had his they told him it was going to be just a 'little pinch'. They lied.

But here's a joke you can tell the anesthesiologist:

This anesthesiologist is out at a bar and he picks up a woman. She asks what he does, and because he doesn't want her to feel weird about what he does, he says that he works in medicine, but really doesn't want to talk about. She's fine with that and at the end of the evening they hook up.
Next morning as they're having coffee she looks at him as says: 'You're an anesthesiologist, aren't you?'
'That's amazing! How did you know?'
'Easy', she says. 'It was only a little prick and i don't remember a thing.'

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