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left-of-center2012

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Sun Mar 7, 2021, 12:59 PM Mar 2021

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this may have been more common in the past rampartc Mar 2021 #1
My mother's wedding ring was 'lost' when she was in a nursing home. left-of-center2012 Mar 2021 #2
This must be way too common pandr32 Mar 2021 #4
I took my mom's rings, when she was in the last months of her life. (Alzheimer's) Siwsan Mar 2021 #3

rampartc

(5,385 posts)
1. this may have been more common in the past
Sun Mar 7, 2021, 01:03 PM
Mar 2021

before he died my father told me to be sure to remove his ring and st christopher medal "so they don't take it at the funeral home."

left-of-center2012

(34,195 posts)
2. My mother's wedding ring was 'lost' when she was in a nursing home.
Sun Mar 7, 2021, 01:13 PM
Mar 2021

The home said it probably fell down the drain when she was being given a shower.

Uh huh.

pandr32

(11,548 posts)
4. This must be way too common
Sun Mar 7, 2021, 01:44 PM
Mar 2021

Same thing happened with my grandparents.

Siwsan

(26,241 posts)
3. I took my mom's rings, when she was in the last months of her life. (Alzheimer's)
Sun Mar 7, 2021, 01:31 PM
Mar 2021

She had lost weight and I worried about them simply falling off or her tossing them out, like she'd done with some other items. Like my birth certificate.

We did the same thing with my Dad's wedding ring, after he started losing weight. Now I wear it, and have my mom's rings in my jewelry box. The engagement ring needs reinforcing so I need to start getting recommendations. After that I might start wearing it, again. They will go to my niece, after I'm gone.

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