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(357 posts)
Sat Aug 25, 2012, 10:09 AM Aug 2012

NYTimes: Men, Who Needs Them?

Actually a great article. Written by a guy. Some pretty good lines like:

"your father’s 3.3 picograms of DNA comes out to less than one pound of male contribution since the beginning of Homo sapiens 107 billion babies ago"

"When I explained this to a female colleague and asked her if she thought that there was yet anything irreplaceable about men, she answered, “They’re entertaining.”"

Entertaining or not, this doesn't look good. Oh well.

http://www.nytimes.com/2012/08/25/opinion/men-who-needs-them.html?ref=global-home

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NYTimes: Men, Who Needs Them? (Original Post) marginlized Aug 2012 OP
Someone needs to retake biology 101 4th law of robotics Aug 2012 #1
Didn't you know that women can reproduce by budding? nt Bonobo Aug 2012 #2
Girl Power! 4th law of robotics Aug 2012 #3
I can't begin to say how much I dislike this article. MadrasT Aug 2012 #4
That's another good point 4th law of robotics Aug 2012 #5
Right there with you on that. n/t MadrasT Aug 2012 #6
Yes. The optimum human being is Nadia Suleman. lumberjack_jeff Aug 2012 #9
Excuse me while i not give a shit. Warren DeMontague Aug 2012 #7
It may one day be possible for us to replace all our food with tasteless little pills, or to Warren DeMontague Aug 2012 #8
The distance between CAN and SHOULD is measured in units of wisdom... ElboRuum Aug 2012 #11
I heard an interesting comment on this. 4th law of robotics Aug 2012 #10
There's no question that it's overt sexism even without comparing it to other groups Major Nikon Aug 2012 #13
That's why some groups felt the need to redefine sexism 4th law of robotics Sep 2012 #14
On occasion.... discntnt_irny_srcsm Aug 2012 #12
 

4th law of robotics

(6,801 posts)
1. Someone needs to retake biology 101
Sat Aug 25, 2012, 12:03 PM
Aug 2012
That’s good, since women are both necessary and sufficient for reproduction, and men are neither.


Some species practice parthenogenesis. Humans are not one of them.


When I explained this to a female colleague and asked her if she thought that there was yet anything irreplaceable about men, she answered, “They’re entertaining.”


Would an article decrying the uselessness of the female species be as well received?

Keep saying fathers are worthless. Then keep acting shocked when so few men step up and act like fathers.

MadrasT

(7,237 posts)
4. I can't begin to say how much I dislike this article.
Sat Aug 25, 2012, 12:21 PM
Aug 2012

It presumes the only purpose for existing is to bear children and if you don't you are literally worthless.

There are some pretty cool people around - both men and women - who will never bear a child.

So what if you can't (or just don't)? It does not devalue your very existence.

Yeah... I pretty much hate this article.

 

4th law of robotics

(6,801 posts)
5. That's another good point
Sat Aug 25, 2012, 12:24 PM
Aug 2012

it presupposes that reproduction is an individuals most valid (only valid really) contribution to the world.

At 7+ billion people I don't think reproduction is that great of a concern.

Actually women who wish to breed pose a unique threat to the world if you consider overpopulation to be a real problem (I do). Meaning that if you want to use that logic men and women who don't wish to breed are more valuable at the moment than women with healthy and eager wombs.

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
9. Yes. The optimum human being is Nadia Suleman.
Sun Aug 26, 2012, 10:40 AM
Aug 2012

But it's a useful splash of cold water onto the face of those of us who still think that men are atop some sort of hierarchy.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
8. It may one day be possible for us to replace all our food with tasteless little pills, or to
Sat Aug 25, 2012, 07:47 PM
Aug 2012

Transplant our brains into cold glass jars and live our lives without bodies or any sensory experience whatsoever.

So, obviously, that is what is going to happen.

 

4th law of robotics

(6,801 posts)
10. I heard an interesting comment on this.
Wed Aug 29, 2012, 04:12 PM
Aug 2012

I'm paraphrasing but basically remove the word male and replace it with any other group (blacks, jews, homosexuals, etc) and see if it comes across as bigoted.


"When I explained this to a gentile colleague and asked her if she thought that there was yet anything irreplaceable about Jews, she answered, “They’re entertaining.”"

I wonder if that op-ed would make the NY times.

/additionally if we eliminate half the population (doesn't matter by what qualifier) civilization will collapse. Look what the black plague and a 1/4 reduction in population did to a far less advanced and complicated european society. So this world he envisions would not be able to support the infrastructure necessary for in vitro fertilization, or freezers or any of the rest of it. They'd have a hard enough time feeding themselves let alone keeping the lights on.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
13. There's no question that it's overt sexism even without comparing it to other groups
Thu Aug 30, 2012, 11:35 PM
Aug 2012

If you look up the definition for sexism, here's what you find...

sex·ism
noun
1. attitudes or behavior based on traditional stereotypes of sexual roles.
2. discrimination or devaluation based on a person's sex...

 

4th law of robotics

(6,801 posts)
14. That's why some groups felt the need to redefine sexism
Tue Sep 4, 2012, 12:10 PM
Sep 2012

to include a power element.

Only those in charge can be sexist. And it's not based on immediate power structures, but rather on the vague concept of "The Patriarchy". So a female boss does not have power over her male employee. In fact he has all the power because of the patriarchy. So she cannot be sexist against him.

It's absurd of course but some people are always prone to these delusions.

discntnt_irny_srcsm

(18,479 posts)
12. On occasion....
Wed Aug 29, 2012, 10:06 PM
Aug 2012

...I've heard the odd male half of a heterosexual couple suggest parthenogenesis to his mate (although not in those words) which brings me to the movie quote with the Biology teacher asking "Who it was that first suggested asexual reproduction?" and tentatively answered by the student "Your wife?"

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