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Interesting that some so-called Lefty Liberals (Original Post) dbackjon Jan 2013 OP
I would hope that they mean that marriage ... DryRain Jan 2013 #1
Yup dbackjon Jan 2013 #2
Well, this DUer supports marriage equality for everybody. longship Jan 2013 #3
Thank you!! dbackjon Jan 2013 #4
Civil rights is a core principle in our nation eilen Jan 2013 #5
They've been saying that for a very long time MNBrewer Jan 2013 #6
Obama still thinks it is a state-rights issue dbackjon Jan 2013 #7
Well, true MNBrewer Jan 2013 #8
So do gay leaders that entered into the agreement DonViejo Jan 2013 #9
Sorry but that makes no sense. William769 Jan 2013 #10
I know for a fact LGBTQ folk don't agree on all things... DonViejo Jan 2013 #13
Well not 100% sure what you're talking about LostinRed Jan 2013 #15
What Gay Leaders? dbackjon Jan 2013 #11
Google it, same thing I did earlier today nt DonViejo Jan 2013 #12
Uh, little help? dbackjon Jan 2013 #14
Evan Wolfson from Freedom to Marry believes the best way we make our case for marriage equality JackBeck Jan 2013 #18
This is what we have to look for William769 Jan 2013 #23
+1 Fearless Jan 2013 #20
My response to you in your thread in META. stevenleser Jan 2013 #16
This was what was so disappointing dbackjon Jan 2013 #22
Marriage laws have always been under State purview, iirc. We're making progress state by state. pinto Jan 2013 #17
The same with the civil rights movement... Fearless Jan 2013 #19
Doesn't surprise me at all. Our rights aren't a "priority." Behind the Aegis Jan 2013 #21
Hurmm uriel1972 Jan 2013 #24
Technically, it's not "everybody else" being given a pony Creideiki Jan 2013 #25
 

DryRain

(237 posts)
1. I would hope that they mean that marriage ...
Wed Jan 23, 2013, 02:36 PM
Jan 2013

should be open to any two consenting adults, period. But I bet you found some posts on DU that don't quite say that, right?

longship

(40,416 posts)
3. Well, this DUer supports marriage equality for everybody.
Wed Jan 23, 2013, 03:01 PM
Jan 2013

Love is what is important. That's the only thing that matters.

I will stand next to the LGBT community any day.

eilen

(4,950 posts)
5. Civil rights is a core principle in our nation
Wed Jan 23, 2013, 03:19 PM
Jan 2013

so, I think the federal gov. should be concerned with it. If left to the states, we'd still have Jim Crow.

MNBrewer

(8,462 posts)
6. They've been saying that for a very long time
Wed Jan 23, 2013, 07:59 PM
Jan 2013

Obama himself used to be one of the. Now, after we refused to let that shut us up, he has seen the light. Maybe those people you referenced will see the light, too, because we're STILL not going to shut up about marriage equality at the Federal level.

MNBrewer

(8,462 posts)
8. Well, true
Wed Jan 23, 2013, 08:30 PM
Jan 2013

I was thinking more of his previous "hands off" approach. At least now he's on the side of equality. I marvel that he thinks of anything like marriage equality as a states rights issue, but he does.

DonViejo

(60,536 posts)
9. So do gay leaders that entered into the agreement
Wed Jan 23, 2013, 08:43 PM
Jan 2013

with the President; pursue equality as a state's rights issue.

William769

(55,145 posts)
10. Sorry but that makes no sense.
Wed Jan 23, 2013, 08:50 PM
Jan 2013

Even though I support President Obama in more ways than one, he does seem to send mixed signals.

Do you think that all LGBT are in agreement on all thing's? Better yet do you think all Democrats are in agreement on all things?

It's a two way street for both sides but it's only a one way street when it comes to equality for all. Just sayin.

DonViejo

(60,536 posts)
13. I know for a fact LGBTQ folk don't agree on all things...
Wed Jan 23, 2013, 09:15 PM
Jan 2013

but there are folks negotiating with political parties and elected officials to develop a strategy/strategies to win equality. To think otherwise is, imho, not very understanding.

LostinRed

(840 posts)
15. Well not 100% sure what you're talking about
Wed Jan 23, 2013, 10:21 PM
Jan 2013

But you have to admit President Obama has been the best on gay rights of any President ever. Sure we have a long ways to go but I certainly would never criticize him on his gay rights record. He pretty much guaranteed there will never be a Democratic presidential nominee that doesn't support marriage equality.

JackBeck

(12,359 posts)
18. Evan Wolfson from Freedom to Marry believes the best way we make our case for marriage equality
Thu Jan 24, 2013, 01:33 AM
Jan 2013

Is to win on a state-by-state level, so that we can show that momentum is on our side.

In the short term, let's look forward to the SCOTUS arguments at the end of March and the decision at the end of June.

William769

(55,145 posts)
23. This is what we have to look for
Thu Jan 24, 2013, 10:39 AM
Jan 2013

"In the short term, let's look forward to the SCOTUS arguments at the end of March and the decision at the end of June."

Not this "Is to win on a state-by-state level, so that we can show that momentum is on our side." even a broken clock is right twice a day.

Going State by State how many wins are there compared to the losses? That number is staggering.

Fearless

(18,421 posts)
20. +1
Thu Jan 24, 2013, 02:41 AM
Jan 2013

Civil rights are indeed NOT up to the states.

After all, I can think of a few who would ban interracial marriage, have banned same-sex marriage, would block equal rights for Black Americans, hell maybe even voting rights for women, and so on and so forth.

 

stevenleser

(32,886 posts)
16. My response to you in your thread in META.
Thu Jan 24, 2013, 12:43 AM
Jan 2013

I really dont know why the administration chose to respond this way. It's a mistake.

It doesnt get him anything and it certainly can hurt him. It's pretty obvious at this point where the president stands. He is in favor of gay marriage and equal rights so I do not understand the administration trying to make a fine point about whether marriage is a state or federal issue.

The administration is on record as not defending at least one part of DOMA on the grounds it is unconstitutional, OK, that makes some of the gay marriage issue a federal issue.

I dont have a direct line to anyone in the administration but I am going to see if I can get that point in via some back channels. This is a mistake with no upside.

Adding here: As it stands, the White house is going to make my hall of shame for worst nonsense of the week for this remark when I do my show on Sunday, and I will explain why. That will probably get their attention.

 

dbackjon

(6,578 posts)
22. This was what was so disappointing
Thu Jan 24, 2013, 10:14 AM
Jan 2013

And what we have seen in the past - flowering rhetoric, followed by a walking-back when pressed for details. And with a majority of Americans supporting gay marriage, an unneeded walking part under any circumstances, unless the Obama Adminstration truly believes this

pinto

(106,886 posts)
17. Marriage laws have always been under State purview, iirc. We're making progress state by state.
Thu Jan 24, 2013, 01:16 AM
Jan 2013

I think Obama's clear statement in his inaugural address and recent Federal actions have supported equality. And I was glad to hear him use such a public event, nationally and internationally, to make comments about equality.

Many of us wanted to see some "bully pulpit" from this President. I think he stepped up.

Fearless

(18,421 posts)
19. The same with the civil rights movement...
Thu Jan 24, 2013, 01:58 AM
Jan 2013

It is the job of the federal government to ensure that all Americans receive equal treatment under the law. The federal government had to force schools to integrate. This is no different.

Behind the Aegis

(53,952 posts)
21. Doesn't surprise me at all. Our rights aren't a "priority."
Thu Jan 24, 2013, 03:02 AM
Jan 2013

Dontcha know there are other more important things that require his and the Feds attention! Be patient! Be most importantly, BE QUIET!

uriel1972

(4,261 posts)
24. Hurmm
Fri Jan 25, 2013, 03:03 AM
Jan 2013

I think of it this way, "When everybody else is given a pony for free why are LGBTQI people criticized (did I say criticized, I meant mocked and ridiculed) for asking for theirs?" To me it seems a fair request, it won't break the bank.

Creideiki

(2,567 posts)
25. Technically, it's not "everybody else" being given a pony
Fri Jan 25, 2013, 08:55 AM
Jan 2013

Environmentalists are in the same boat we are.

Poor people are in the same boat we are.

Unions are in the same boat that we are.

Ethnic and racial minorities are in the same boat that we are.

People who want to end the drug war now are in the same boat we are.

People who want health care to be a human right that everyone has access to are in the same boat we are.

Basically the Human Beings are in the same boat.

The only ones that always get what they want are the conservatives. And while we're all getting scraps and promises and nothing much, I'd rather be in the boat that I'm in with everybody above who believes in making a better world. The conservatives can ask their rich corporate masters if that shine on the boot they just licked is good enough. And when their response is a kick and an order to get back to licking, they happily do it.

So given the choice at wanting things to get better for everyone and the people whose creed is, "I got mine..." I'll stick where I am.

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