No one becomes an owner of a B+B without a business plan, and a desire to succeed.
If you don't want to be a business owner, if you don't have the strength and the fortitude to change dirty bed-sheets daily, if you don't want to be equally nice to homophobes who happen upon your B+B by chance as you do to the gay couples, if you don't want to deal with the public 24/7/365, then this is NOT a business for you!
Calling a doctor or dentist at 2 AM when one of your guests comes down with a medical/dental problem. Making a breakfast and having the guest say that they never eat what you have laboriously prepared. Taking calls from potential guests at all hours, finding soiled underwear in strange places, cashing bouncing checks from guests who just had to pay by check. Getting cancellations at midnight the night before a guest is to arrive, having the health department inspect your kitchen after someone complains.
Few B+B's make it, unless you have a 24/7/365 location, and a fabulous house and great cooking skills, are located next to a worldwide destination, and can put up with arrogant thoughtless guests that treat you like hired help.
If you're not up for lots of abuse, if you're not obsessed with running your own company, and giving it 365 day management, you're out of luck.
Wedding ceremonies add hours and hours of preparation to the B+B concept. The wedding could be at 10 AM or 5 PM... with a reception during daytime hours when usually the B+B is empty, (when you're doing the sheets and towels laundry) and when you have a few hours of peace without guests around to ask for another cup of coffee. Nope, being a B+B manager is a half time job every day of the week. Adding the wedding host to it adds hundreds of other hours to your private life, and dozens of other complications to deal with.
If you don't want to be a business person in that environment, don't ever try to get into it.
My aunt did this in her palacial coastal home in the Northeast USA for 5 years. She burned out. She could only have us visit her in her "slow" season, (winter), when we could only stay a day or two before someone would take our bed the next night. She had few guests each week, but seemed to work 30 hours a week just for a couple hundred dollars over cost each week. She gave it up and sold the B+B to someone who ran it into the ground the next year, her B+B reputation was ruined. She just retired and gave up all her dreams about $10,000 ahead of where she entered it..this after 5 yrs of work.
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