First, and foremost, congratulations on your upcoming nuptials. I told my partner about the case being launched in Oklahoma (where we live), actually two cases, calling for marriage equality, and said, "so what do you think?" His response, "you want to sue?" LOL!
To me boycotts of states (or nations) is a tricky thing. One can usually find the same thing or something similar to boycott in other states, so when it is right to boycott? It really comes down to individuals and the community response. If we can coordinate something that really hits 'them' where they hurt, the pocketbook, then it is worth it. Though, on a personal level, boycotting states on your own has its own sense of accomplishment which can't be denied.
Currently, I don't boycott any state. One, we can't afford to travel; and two, if we could, we'd jump at the chance to get a breather from Oklahoma. I, like the rest of my immediate family, all live in very anti-gay states. Boycotting our own state is akin to cutting your nose off despite your face. Also, it is important to consider that even though a state can be a homophobic cesspool, there may be some very gay-friendly places contained therein, and in effect, by boycotting an entire state, we are also boycotting our own. The best example of this is Louisiana, which is as a state is quite hostile to gay people, but New Orleans, is VERY gay friendly and very gay positive, though it has its own issues too. Personally, when I see a state completely going over the top to be anti-gay (like Tennessee is doing with Muslims), then I think a state-wide boycott is warranted. When the boycott of Colorado took place, I know I helped pull several conferences from the state. They lost millions of dollars just with the conferences I helped affect. The gay community mobilized quite well. It doesn't seem to be that way anymore, sadly.
Business I will boycott, and do quite often. For me, it is easier to do successfully, but they can also have backlashes as well. Also, I understand when some don't want to boycott. That's fine, as long as my equality is not being made a joke or dismissed as inconsequential or "hey, just chill on the sex" nonsense. If a boycott of a state is well-organized, then I can see joining in, but when it is a haphazard type of thing, then it really is ineffective and can make us look silly. This is when our national organizations need to get off their lazy asses and do something!
The Olympics should never be boycotted over politics. That isn't what they are all about. However, the recent turn of events in Russia has made me consider backing a general boycott of the Olympics...if and only if, the reason is for the threats made against gay people coming to the games. I don't want our rights used because the US is mad at Russia for the Snowden incident. That's politics! I can understand why many wanted to boycott the games when the homophobic law was announced. I didn't agree, because that was internal politics. BUT, when gangs of skinheads are roving the streets unchecked, and unhindered by the police and are beating the shit out of gay people, I started to get worried. Then that pig of a Russian lawmaker came out and all but threatened every gay athlete and visitor to the games; my attitude toward a boycott changed. This was no longer about a shitty, anti-gay progrom, this was about the actual safety and security of any and every gay person who is going to that country to participate in the games. The IOC should have immediately involved itself! That said, if they (anyone) still wish to go, I hope they will at least protest by wearing something that says, "we know about your homophobic bullshit law and we are here to tell you to rightly and quickly, FUCK OFF!" My personal preference, as indicated in other threads, is for GLBTA athletes and spectators to wear the armbands that gay/bi men had to wear (pink triangles, like my avatar) or black ones which were worn by lesbians and dissidents. I don't make light of the Holocaust. I don't like when others use Holocaust imagery to try to make a cheap political point (or an anti-Semitic one). But, IMO, this rises to the level of the need to say "Godwin be damned" and put on the armbands.
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