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Fearless

(18,421 posts)
Wed Nov 6, 2013, 05:15 PM Nov 2013

Rob Portman Gave Up His Chance To Be Vice President To Protect His Gay Son

Double Down reports that although Will, (below) had come out to his father a year earlier, and was out to his friends at Yale, he did not want to face the country-wide reaction that would surely follow such an announcement. For the sake of his son, Senator Portman asked the Romney campaign to release a statement saying Portman asked not to be considered for VP. But according to Double Down, the campaign refused. They said such a position might make Romney unpopular. (Apparently Will Portman’s feelings were inconsequential to the Romney people.)

Senator Portman threatened the Romney camp, telling them that if chosen for the vice presidential slot, he would immediately come out in support of same-sex marriage. Romney eventually chose Wisconsin congressman Paul Ryan as his running mate.

Ultimately, the senator made a public announcement about Will’s sexual orientation in March of this year, pledging his own support for marriage equality going forward.

Senator Portman was one of seven Republican senators who crossed party lines to vote in favor of ENDA, the non-discrimination this week.

http://thenewcivilrightsmovement.com/rob-portman-gave-up-his-chance-to-be-vice-president-to-protect-his-gay-son/news/2013/11/06/78184#.UnqPN5EhvhU

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Good for him! And good for his son!

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Rob Portman Gave Up His Chance To Be Vice President To Protect His Gay Son (Original Post) Fearless Nov 2013 OP
I'm glad he did right by his son. LuvNewcastle Nov 2013 #1
Wow, a Republican with morals and empathy Freddie Nov 2013 #2
I was thinking the same thing exboyfil Nov 2013 #3
Look for him to get primaried from the right NewJeffCT Nov 2013 #12
Mitt is first class prick Botany Nov 2013 #4
Portman waited until after safely getting elected to inform his constituents of his positions Ikonoklast Nov 2013 #11
typical R stand on civil rights: all for it when their own are affected paulkienitz Nov 2013 #19
Good for him! n/t BeeBee Nov 2013 #5
Bless him for doing the right thing. nt Ilsa Nov 2013 #6
K&R. nt awoke_in_2003 Nov 2013 #7
Portman has ethics. SeattleVet Nov 2013 #8
I bet Portman would have fared better against Biden Dopers_Greed Nov 2013 #9
Isn't he also the one rumored to have told Reid about RMoney not paying taxes for 10 years? Myrina Nov 2013 #10
Nah, that was Jon Huntsman Sr. Fearless Nov 2013 #13
ah, yep. thx for the correction. Myrina Nov 2013 #16
No problem Fearless Nov 2013 #17
A Republican with integrity. iandhr Nov 2013 #14
While I don't doubt Rob is a good father and kudos for him about acceptance joeybee12 Nov 2013 #15
You mean like President Obama? dbackjon Nov 2013 #20
How is this different? Because he hasn't come out in favor of marriage equality... joeybee12 Nov 2013 #21
He is for Gay Marriage, exact same stance and "nuances" as Obama dbackjon Nov 2013 #23
Sounds like most of the stories I hear about Portman. marble falls Nov 2013 #18
That(!) is the true definition of a father, dad, pop, pa - love. Hestia Nov 2013 #22

Freddie

(9,256 posts)
2. Wow, a Republican with morals and empathy
Wed Nov 6, 2013, 05:37 PM
Nov 2013

Good for him although, as others say, it's typical of the breed to feel no compassion for others until you experience the problem firsthand. Looking forward to reading Double Down.

exboyfil

(17,862 posts)
3. I was thinking the same thing
Wed Nov 6, 2013, 05:50 PM
Nov 2013

The justice of the situation is not defined by your circumstances. On the other hand if self awareness came about because of his son, then that is a positive. It does beat the alternative (rejection of your child which happens all too often).

Botany

(70,447 posts)
4. Mitt is first class prick
Thu Nov 7, 2013, 11:16 AM
Nov 2013


Senator Portman asked the Romney campaign to release a statement saying Portman asked
not to be considered for VP. But according to Double Down, the campaign refused.

*******
Portman is not 100% clean on the gay rights front either because he used fear of "the gays"
in many many many campaigns here in Ohio and I believe he did so even after knowing his
son was gay

Ikonoklast

(23,973 posts)
11. Portman waited until after safely getting elected to inform his constituents of his positions
Thu Nov 7, 2013, 04:30 PM
Nov 2013

on gay rights.

Political cowardice in the first degree.

SeattleVet

(5,477 posts)
8. Portman has ethics.
Thu Nov 7, 2013, 01:29 PM
Nov 2013

Well, for a Repub....

Mitt, not so much.

Romney eventually chose Wisconsin congressman Paul Ryan as his running mate.

Yeah, and we see how well *that* worked out for him!

Dopers_Greed

(2,640 posts)
9. I bet Portman would have fared better against Biden
Thu Nov 7, 2013, 02:56 PM
Nov 2013

Or at the very least not looked like he was going to soil himself during the debate like Eddie Munster did.

Myrina

(12,296 posts)
10. Isn't he also the one rumored to have told Reid about RMoney not paying taxes for 10 years?
Thu Nov 7, 2013, 03:12 PM
Nov 2013
Sounds like he belongs to the wrong party - or REALLY hates Romney.
 

joeybee12

(56,177 posts)
15. While I don't doubt Rob is a good father and kudos for him about acceptance
Thu Nov 7, 2013, 08:14 PM
Nov 2013

of his son...I really have troubling buying this version of events. BTW, recently Portman HAS NOT come out in favor of marriage equality...he's taking the wishy-washy states approach...maybe that's what makes me doubt him.

 

dbackjon

(6,578 posts)
20. You mean like President Obama?
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 04:35 PM
Nov 2013

As Obama has "evolved", he gets kudos, and anyway that questions his evolution gets attacked here.

How is this different?

 

joeybee12

(56,177 posts)
21. How is this different? Because he hasn't come out in favor of marriage equality...
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 05:09 PM
Nov 2013

When there's actual evolution, then we can talk...Portman doesn't believe in marriage equality. That's why this whole scenario doesn't ring true to me...

 

dbackjon

(6,578 posts)
23. He is for Gay Marriage, exact same stance and "nuances" as Obama
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 05:58 PM
Nov 2013

So you are saying you think Obama doesn't ring true either?

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