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undeterred

(34,658 posts)
Mon May 19, 2014, 10:50 PM May 2014

We're Namibia's first gay married couple: any questions for us?


Ricardo Amunjera, 31 and Marc Themba, 30, the first known gay couple to be married in Namibia. Photograph: International HIV/Aids Alliance

Ricardo Amunjera and Marc Themba are credited with being Namibia's first gay married couple. Though homosexuality is criminalised in Namibia, the pair tied the knot in South Africa and returned to Namibia to become prominent LGBT rights campaigners.

Amunjera, 31, says he believes "the best way you can help somebody is by telling them your story". His activism has earned him the title of Mr Gay Namibia 2013 and is he is the process of setting local support group in his home town, joining a countrywide support network for LGBT. His work is not without it's risks; another winner of the Mr Gay Namibia title, Wendelinus Hamutenya, was attacked as he walked home days after winning the competition. According to the rights group OutRight Namibia, LGBT people in Namibia encounter homophobia and transphobia on a daily basis.

In a film about their lives, made by the International HIV/Aids Alliance and Positive Vibes, the couple discuss their activism, their religious beliefs and their experience of conducting a loving relationship in a country where being gay is against the law. It also shows Amunjera fielding calls and texts, and using social media, to answer questions and comments from people seeking support around the country.

Amunjera and Themba will join the Guardian Africa Network for a live Q&A from 1pm - 2pm BST on Tuesday 20 May, to answer your questions about living as an openly gay activist in Namibia. What would you like to ask? Post your questions in the comments below.

http://www.theguardian.com/world/2014/may/19/africa-gay-marriage-namibia-any-questions

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We're Namibia's first gay married couple: any questions for us? (Original Post) undeterred May 2014 OP
Wow shenmue May 2014 #1
Just how Happy are you?! Thank you for telling your story, Ricardo Amunjera and Marc Themba.. Cha May 2014 #2
I wish them both happiness and safety! Behind the Aegis May 2014 #3
With gratitude and best wishes for a happy and LONG marriage. merrily May 2014 #4

Cha

(297,123 posts)
2. Just how Happy are you?! Thank you for telling your story, Ricardo Amunjera and Marc Themba..
Tue May 20, 2014, 01:53 AM
May 2014

Cuties!

thank you, undeterred~

merrily

(45,251 posts)
4. With gratitude and best wishes for a happy and LONG marriage.
Tue May 20, 2014, 03:33 AM
May 2014

I just looked up courage in the dictionary and found the same photo as is in the OP.

PS. That T shirt would make a perfect fundraiser for them. I'd buy several!

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