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theHandpuppet

(19,964 posts)
Sun Oct 5, 2014, 06:39 AM Oct 2014

Well, we made it official on Friday

Celebrated our 24th anniversary and got married on the same day! The Clerk who officiated was so sweet and there were a few tears shed.

Thank you Maryland! We may not be legal here at home (WV) but no one can take this away. It won't be long, I hope, before we all find equality in the eyes of the law -- we've already found it in our hearts.

Lots of these for our friends here who shared in our happiness.

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Well, we made it official on Friday (Original Post) theHandpuppet Oct 2014 OP
Congratulations! In_The_Wind Oct 2014 #1
Auguri!!! Many years of happiness!! nt MADem Oct 2014 #2
Congratulations and best wishes! kaiden Oct 2014 #3
Congratulations! RKP5637 Oct 2014 #4
Mazel tov! ColesCountyDem Oct 2014 #5
Congratulations from us straight folks DFW Oct 2014 #6
Best Wishes! Kath1 Oct 2014 #7
Well Done Half-Century Man Oct 2014 #8
Congratulations!!! TxDemChem Oct 2014 #9
Congratulations!!!! giftedgirl77 Oct 2014 #10
Love is in the air! Kath1 Oct 2014 #11
Mazel Tov - TBF Oct 2014 #12
Congratulations! Sure needed a little good news this morning. mountain grammy Oct 2014 #13
How wonderful! Rose Siding Oct 2014 #14
congratulations! irisblue Oct 2014 #15
This shouldn't be threatening to anyone... theHandpuppet Oct 2014 #16
What lovely rings! Staph Oct 2014 #29
We chose the rings to reflect our heritage theHandpuppet Oct 2014 #34
Congratulations to you both!! Behind the Aegis Oct 2014 #30
Thank you... theHandpuppet Oct 2014 #33
Congratulations and best wishes. nm rhett o rick Oct 2014 #17
Best wishes to you both. I hope you have 24 more happy years together. justhanginon Oct 2014 #18
Me too! theHandpuppet Oct 2014 #35
congratulations and happy happy happy oldandhappy Oct 2014 #19
Congratulations! Best wishes to you both. pinto Oct 2014 #20
Congrats LostOne4Ever Oct 2014 #21
Congratulations! And wishing you all the best! Rhiannon12866 Oct 2014 #22
Wow, it was about time! babylonsister Oct 2014 #23
CONGRATULATIONS! Prophet 451 Oct 2014 #24
On this momenteous occasion perhaps you can be of help... Fearless Oct 2014 #25
When we got home I noticed our dogs were looking at us kinda funny theHandpuppet Oct 2014 #36
Sounds wonderful. Fearless Oct 2014 #38
Congratulations. Cleita Oct 2014 #26
Mazel tov! shenmue Oct 2014 #27
Yay libodem Oct 2014 #28
mazeltov! barbtries Oct 2014 #31
YAY!! Congrats!!! PeaceNikki Oct 2014 #32
Congrats!!! Very happ for you both!! dbackjon Oct 2014 #37
Glad to hear it! Congratulations! nomorenomore08 Oct 2014 #39
Congratulations!!!! stevenleser Oct 2014 #40
You're now legal in West Virginia! Staph Oct 2014 #41
YEAH!!! theHandpuppet Oct 2014 #42

DFW

(54,365 posts)
6. Congratulations from us straight folks
Sun Oct 5, 2014, 08:32 AM
Oct 2014

We're all pulling for you to see the day where it isn't a big deal for you to be able to have the same rights we do.

Kath1

(4,309 posts)
7. Best Wishes!
Sun Oct 5, 2014, 08:38 AM
Oct 2014

We worked hard for marriage equality here in Maryland. It is wonderful to see a true story of the happiness it brings.

Peace and love always to both of you!

Kath1

(4,309 posts)
11. Love is in the air!
Sun Oct 5, 2014, 09:04 AM
Oct 2014

My daughter will be moving in with her boyfriend this week!

So happy for them and for both of you!

TBF

(32,055 posts)
12. Mazel Tov -
Sun Oct 5, 2014, 09:25 AM
Oct 2014

crazy that we are even talking about this being illegal. You'd think people would encourage love.

Rose Siding

(32,623 posts)
14. How wonderful!
Sun Oct 5, 2014, 09:36 AM
Oct 2014

Blessings and best wishes!

I was born in WV and it is so frustrating that with all the rugged independence going on -so many sweet and helpful people!- there is still so much systemic bigotry.

Staph

(6,251 posts)
29. What lovely rings!
Mon Oct 6, 2014, 02:39 AM
Oct 2014

And, I suspect, what lovely ladies those rings are attached to! My congratulations to you both. Some day, West Virginia law will catch up. Though we can be bigoted and small-minded in general (like much of the rest of the world), we can be very loving and accepting in the specific. I hope that your friends and neighbors are as happy for the two of you as those of us on DU.


theHandpuppet

(19,964 posts)
34. We chose the rings to reflect our heritage
Mon Oct 6, 2014, 01:33 PM
Oct 2014

My wife has a lovely collection of bi-color jewelry she inherited from family in Mexico, whilst the Celtic knot design is a nod to my Scots-Irish forebears. Believe me, we laugh about how in the world did a very cultured Latina lady from Texas end up with an old hillbilly like me? (Though I have a very mixed heritage, myself.)

We've gotten many well wishes from friends and family. My, how times have changed -- and hopefully the law will, too. Right now we're still illegal in the eyes of WV law.

Thanks for the well wishes!

Fearless

(18,421 posts)
25. On this momenteous occasion perhaps you can be of help...
Mon Oct 6, 2014, 12:47 AM
Oct 2014

They say that marriage equality leads to bestiality and incest...

Was there any of this to be found during or after the ceremony? I think Fox News would like to know.




Seriously though... Congratulations! And I hope you both bring each other 24 more years or more of wedded misery... bliss! I mean bliss!



theHandpuppet

(19,964 posts)
36. When we got home I noticed our dogs were looking at us kinda funny
Mon Oct 6, 2014, 01:40 PM
Oct 2014

Yes, this is what happens when you've already been together for nearly a quarter century -- we wanted to have a nice dinner in Frederick but after driving 'round and 'round and not finding a single spot to park, we decided to drive home to WV since we were already exhausted. So our honeymoon dinner was at the Waffle House! Then we got home not to a celebratory welcome but the discovery that one of our dogs need to have his butt cleaned (I won't go into details). So that's how we spent a good portion of the evening. Ain't it romantic??

Staph

(6,251 posts)
41. You're now legal in West Virginia!
Thu Oct 9, 2014, 11:08 PM
Oct 2014

The first couples have applied for marriage licenses in Cabell and Kanawha counties today. Though you had to be married in Maryland to do it on the same day as your anniversary, you should be able to apply for the legal rights of a married couple in West Virginia.


Yeah for West Virginia! And yeah for the two of you!



theHandpuppet

(19,964 posts)
42. YEAH!!!
Fri Oct 10, 2014, 12:01 AM
Oct 2014


The Charleston Gazette
Thursday, October 9, 2014
West Virginia drops gay marriage ban
By Erin Beck Staff writer

Same-sex couples and civil rights advocates celebrated a historic victory Thursday after West Virginia government officials said they no longer would fight efforts to allow couples of the same gender to marry in the state.

Shortly after 1 p.m., Attorney General Patrick Morrisey said his office would not defend against the lawsuit challenging the state’s same-sex marriage ban and Gov. Earl Ray Tomblin said he would direct state agencies to follow the law as interpreted by the U.S. Supreme Court, which recently refused to hear appeals of several challenges to marriage bans in other states.

A few hours later, clerks in some counties were giving marriage licenses to gay and lesbian couples.

“Our state is known for its kindness and hospitality to residents and visitors alike,” Tomblin said in his statement. “I encourage all West Virginians — regardless of their personal beliefs — to uphold our statewide tradition of treating one another with dignity and respect.” -

See more at: http://www.wvgazette.com/article/20141009/GZ01/141009221/1419#sthash.4z4kq8FP.dpuf
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