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Cross posted from Appalachia Grouphttp://blogs.indiewire.com/bent/a-queer-film-festival-in-the-middle-of-appalachia-yes-please-20141028
A Queer Film Festival In The Middle of Appalachia? Yes, Please.
By Valentina I. Valentini for Bent
October 28, 2014
"Our Agenda Is Equality"
My expectations for traveling to Lewisburg, West Virginia for the first-ever Appalachian Queer Film Festival were mixed. Mostly, I kept my expectations in check, though, and kept my eye on the prize when else would I get to check out queer art in a rural town of 3,800 in the middle of Appalachia?
If were lucky, next year would be the answer. Although they didnt boast huge attendance numbers (what first-year fests do?), something incredibly special happened this past weekend, on the heels of West Virginia becoming one of now 32 states to allow same-sex marriage: "We found out that we are a place where the words Appalachian and Queer can exist in the same sentence without consequence," says festival founder and WV-native Tim Ward. "Not only is it important to give LGBTQ West Virginians a space to see themselves in film, but also to show the world that our state and our people are no different than anywhere else."...
..."Outside of the state, we hope people take away that there is a thriving arts community and a thriving queer community here," says Ward as we meander along back roads to find my rental car. "Is there pushback at all? Yes. Are we any different from any other state? No. Thats the gist of what were trying to say. You dont have to search far and wide for tolerance and acceptance. We are putting on a festival with the words 'Appalachia' and 'Queer' in the title. Weve had articles written about us on the statewide level and some of them have included comments that were not very nice, but I think that would happen in any rural part of New York or even California. Thats not what makes us unique. What does make us unique is that we have been received far more generously then anyone on the planning committee could have anticipated, both from outside of the state and inside. Just the fact that we got the kind of financial support that we did is proof of that, and the attention weve gotten in the local media as well."
"Patriarchy insists that there are specific duties in gender roles and our society is very much into the honor-shame system," admits Reverend and mother of a gay son, Shauna Hyde, during the panel "Raising an LGBTQ Kid in Appalachia." "Either honor our families by being what they want or shame them. Its used like religion as another weapon. I, as a clergywoman, am set up on a pedestal and have the privilege of my voice being heard even if they dont agree with my voice, but its always a struggle. There are a lot of scripture that lend themselves to talking about (being LGBTQ) where Philip meets the Eunuch, for one. Its whats 'wrong' with American churches today. Somewhere along the way, religion became a social club of do-gooders and people that had the right to judge other people. I am told that Im too socially justice oriented, but Im not the one whos on the fringes of Christianity. Most Christians in my experience cannot really explain their faith nor the things they dont have answers for in their faith, so they just get mad. When you have a limited knowledge base it can become a brick wall. What happens if you take out a brick? Everything falls. First, we have to make them not afraid."....
For more information on the Appalachian Queer Film Festival, visit their website at http://aqff.org/
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)theHandpuppet
(19,964 posts)Brick by brick, the walls come tumbling down.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)I hope all of us get the opportunity. I'm stuck in a Red State, but I am hopeful.
theHandpuppet
(19,964 posts)Between N'Orleans' liberal reputation and Baton Rouge, a major college city, you'd think there would be a really vigorous Democratic base. Yet it's saddled with some god-awful teabagger politicians. Perhaps you could provide some insights.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)has a majority population of hillbillies. I don't use that term lightly. I mean hardcore, hunt deer to feed the family meat, Bible thumping offended by anything and everything hillbilly.
theHandpuppet
(19,964 posts)Ouch! Gosh, Aerows, you would have to use the one word that pushes all my buttons. As the host of Appalachia group, one of my goals has been to discourage the use of the word "hillbilly" as a blanket pejorative. I'm a hillbilly myself.
I do understand the kind of voters you're talking about, though. I'm not sure how to break through a voting bloc so wrapped up in xenophobia and fundamentalist claptrap. Attitudes are certainly changing, albeit much more slowly for people in some areas of the country -- which is why I firmly believe our rights cannot be put to a vote. Some folks have to be dragged kicking and screaming into the 21st century. We learned that lesson during the era of desegregation. Hopefully there will be a case brought before the SC within the next year (fingers crossed) and we'll settle this matter once and for all.
I'm pinning a lot of my hopes for the country's future on the younger generation, who are increasingly ditching the old baggage. What will the Republicans do then when their voting base disappears?
Aerows
(39,961 posts)Always have been, always will be. I apologize if the use of the word hillbilly offended, because I could probably be characterized as a hillbilly myself by the standards of people that don't live in the Deep South.
You are right. I probably shouldn't use such an offensive term. I don't know what else to call those folks, though.
Again, I apologize. That was a rude statement for me to make.
theHandpuppet
(19,964 posts)All those bigoted, hateful people we have to battle day in and day out? I call them Republicans!
Seriously, for too long we have let those in positions of power define and divide us. That applies especially to those who have traditionally been marginalized by society -- women, gays, the poor, minorities, et al. At times they've even had us fighting amongst ourselves for a few scraps from their table. Well I say to hell with that! Stronger together!
To me one of the great things about DU is that via groups such as LGBT and Appalachia we can help to break down all the myths and stereotypes. Getting a dialogue going is just the beginning. I'd invite anyone to drop by Appalachia group for the other side of the story, so to speak.
Again, we're okay here. Onward and upward, as they say!
Aerows
(39,961 posts)Thanks for teaching me something, tHp. You are absolutely right that it only serves to divide us.