It Doesn’t Need An Explanation: 9 Reasons Catcalling Is Harassment
It Doesn’t Need An Explanation: 9 Reasons Catcalling Is Harassment
. . . . . .
The response to this video has been one of mixed reactions and dispute. But, some of the loudest voices have been those of men, those who don’t consider this type of interaction to be “harassment.”
. . .
Catcalling IS harassment. Here’s why:
It Makes Us Feel Unsafe
I have literally been chased — CHASED — down the street by a man screaming, “Bitch, I’m talking to you!” Onlookers watched me run by, none of whom attempted to help me.
. . . . . t.
You Don’t Know Me — Don’t Tell Me To Smile
How could you possibly know who I am? How could you possibly know whether or not I am happy? Maybe I am having a day from hell. Maybe this is just my face! For some reason, many men expect women to look happy at all times, with smiles stretched across our faces.
. . .
It Is Not Flattering
No, it is not flattering when a man follows you down the street, whistling, hissing, winking or making lewd comments. Similarly, looking a woman up and down and undressing her with your eyes doesn’t feel like much of a compliment, either. In fact, it feels like a violation.
. . .
Women Are Not Here To Please Men
Women are human beings. We don’t owe men anything. We are not obligated to flirt with them, reciprocate conversation with them or even acknowledge men who attempt interacting with us. All of these things are our choice.
. . . .
http://elitedaily.com/life/culture/bitch-im-talking-catcalling-harassment/840861/