Welcome to DU! The truly grassroots left-of-center political community where regular people, not algorithms, drive the discussions and set the standards. Join the community: Create a free account Support DU (and get rid of ads!): Become a Star Member Latest Breaking News General Discussion The DU Lounge All Forums Issue Forums Culture Forums Alliance Forums Region Forums Support Forums Help & Search

vercetti2021

(10,156 posts)
Thu May 7, 2020, 12:46 AM May 2020

Had a severe panic attack today

I made a post the other day talking about how I got confronted at work by some customer demanding I take my mask off. He did he closer and that's when I snapped. I told him to fuck off.

Since then I've been rattled about it getting worse. People are getting more and more crazy and I'm at the point where I'm constantly worried about my life now. I went through many anxiety attacks today when I was stocking shelves. I kept looking over my shoulder each time people walked by.

This doesn't play well on my mental health right now. I had to drop my therapist because I could no longer afford it and now I can't talk about it.

I keep thinking about tomorrow and how I know I'm gonna have severe anxiety again. I don't know what to do

31 replies = new reply since forum marked as read
Highlight: NoneDon't highlight anything 5 newestHighlight 5 most recent replies
Had a severe panic attack today (Original Post) vercetti2021 May 2020 OP
... Wawannabe May 2020 #1
Any way you can look for a different job? SheltieLover May 2020 #2
No vercetti2021 May 2020 #3
Gawd... SheltieLover May 2020 #6
I'm checking it out vercetti2021 May 2020 #12
I'm sorry. onecaliberal May 2020 #4
+1. Beautifully said onecaliberal. MontanaMama May 2020 #5
I just don't want to be hurt vercetti2021 May 2020 #11
Just try to concentrate in why you're there. Have you talked to your employer about this? onecaliberal May 2020 #13
Sending you peace and love MLAA May 2020 #7
I'm sorry to hear this. RandySF May 2020 #8
That was my thought, can your employer Tumbulu May 2020 #9
Store manager did vercetti2021 May 2020 #10
I'm So Sorry to Hear This DarthDem May 2020 #14
I'm so sorry you're going through this, vercetti2021 - especially now! calimary May 2020 #15
That's why I've been writing more vercetti2021 May 2020 #28
A while back I had to deal with panic attacks and anxiety. Sloumeau May 2020 #16
Mine isn't blood sugar base though vercetti2021 May 2020 #27
May I suggest Cannabis? yuiyoshida May 2020 #17
Texas vercetti2021 May 2020 #26
understandable ... yuiyoshida May 2020 #29
I wish vercetti2021 May 2020 #30
----- Hekate May 2020 #18
I have a suggestion for the panic attacks, but not for the anxiety, it's warranted Rhiannon12866 May 2020 #19
I rather put a paper bag over my head vercetti2021 May 2020 #25
Hug shenmue May 2020 #20
I don't even like setting foot in a store for a quick run through. cwydro May 2020 #21
Trying vercetti2021 May 2020 #24
Hi! littlemissmartypants May 2020 #22
It was okay vercetti2021 May 2020 #23
I have the same issues XanaDUer2 Jul 2020 #31

vercetti2021

(10,156 posts)
3. No
Thu May 7, 2020, 12:55 AM
May 2020

I shouldn't even be stocking shelves. My main job was to load trucks in the warehouse. But so many people are out due to the virus they are shorthanded.

SheltieLover

(57,073 posts)
6. Gawd...
Thu May 7, 2020, 01:10 AM
May 2020

Sending calming vibes your way.

Try deep breathwork. It really helps!

Did you look at the free Yale course?

onecaliberal

(32,777 posts)
4. I'm sorry.
Thu May 7, 2020, 12:58 AM
May 2020

I can’t imagine how scared you must be. I have a lot of anxiety and I get to work from home right now. We are so grateful for you and the work you’re doing. I wish every good thing in the world for you.

MontanaMama

(23,295 posts)
5. +1. Beautifully said onecaliberal.
Thu May 7, 2020, 01:07 AM
May 2020

I will only add a hug for you vercetti2021...these are such hard days. I find myself closing my eyes and breathing deeply multiple times a day to get through the toughest moments. Keep wearing your mask...screw the naysayers.

vercetti2021

(10,156 posts)
11. I just don't want to be hurt
Thu May 7, 2020, 01:26 AM
May 2020

Fearing for my life because of the virus is one thing. But I fear for my life for protecting myself now because one person is having a bad day and takes it out in a mask wearing individual

onecaliberal

(32,777 posts)
13. Just try to concentrate in why you're there. Have you talked to your employer about this?
Thu May 7, 2020, 01:30 AM
May 2020

You have to wear the mask. It’s your only protection.

vercetti2021

(10,156 posts)
10. Store manager did
Thu May 7, 2020, 01:25 AM
May 2020

Doesn't say much for the other stores though. I can get barred from the store If i get into an altercation. My employer can fire me even I defend myself. It just solely depends on them

DarthDem

(5,255 posts)
14. I'm So Sorry to Hear This
Thu May 7, 2020, 01:35 AM
May 2020

Try to focus on getting through 10 minutes at a time. See if that helps. Work on your breathing. And when you get home, don't think about the situation any further. Negative thoughts aren't real and don't help you. Stay strong!! You can DO this!!

calimary

(81,109 posts)
15. I'm so sorry you're going through this, vercetti2021 - especially now!
Thu May 7, 2020, 02:24 AM
May 2020

Do you think it might help to write about it here?

Maybe share your unease here on DU, where others among us can read and offer comfort, support, and maybe advice? At least some empathy and understanding, maybe?

There are some very wise people here. Personally, the perspective I get from reading around here is always so valuable. And you can put your thoughts into words at any time of day or night. Remember what our own Skittles once said - "someone's always here." I swear, just that simple three-word message, all by itself, has really buoyed me up during funky times.

Don't struggle with this alone.

vercetti2021

(10,156 posts)
28. That's why I've been writing more
Thu May 7, 2020, 09:00 PM
May 2020

Well I mean on here. I write stories. I don't know I like talking to people it helps me calm down

Sloumeau

(2,657 posts)
16. A while back I had to deal with panic attacks and anxiety.
Thu May 7, 2020, 02:35 AM
May 2020

The most important thing that I did to stop it from happening was learning how to control my blood sugar. You see, when your blood sugar drops, your body often dumps chemicals into your bloodstream like cortisol or adrenalin, which can actually ramp up your level of anxiety. Please make sure that you are eating at least three balanced meals a day (balanced with roughly equal amounts of protein, carbohydrates, and fat). If at all possible, this is not the time to be on a diet. If you can, keep a backpack with you at all times with bottled water and something to eat that like protein bars or granola bars. Often, intense stress can make us feel like not eating, but often that is exactly when you should eat. Practice eating in a slow relaxed manner, drinking plenty of water, and thoroughly chewing your food. Focusing on your chewing can distract you from whatever you might be stressing about. I found that the better I got at eating slowly, the more relaxed I became overall.

Once you have your eating habits down, relaxation breathing exercises can help, along with gentle walks and making sure that you get plenty of rest. Overall, focusing on your own personal heallth can help you be more relaxed and distract you from other worries in your life. Good luck.

yuiyoshida

(41,818 posts)
17. May I suggest Cannabis?
Thu May 7, 2020, 03:02 AM
May 2020

If you are in legal state... it helps... If you don't smoke there are some Jellies..or you can try edibles..Like this:



Deep dark chocolate, infused with Raspberry flavor and cannabis oil. Stuff is yummy and is packed with THC.

vercetti2021

(10,156 posts)
26. Texas
Thu May 7, 2020, 08:59 PM
May 2020

I mean I still get it through other ways. But I haven't been able to afford a gram for a month now.

yuiyoshida

(41,818 posts)
29. understandable ...
Thu May 7, 2020, 10:08 PM
May 2020

Maybe we need to start a new program called "Send a joint to someone who needs it!" heh.

vercetti2021

(10,156 posts)
30. I wish
Thu May 7, 2020, 11:57 PM
May 2020

I'm not far from Colorado about 3 hours drive to Springs. But not worth the long trip just for cheaper weed. I have a friend that deals and I normally get it from them.

Rhiannon12866

(204,744 posts)
19. I have a suggestion for the panic attacks, but not for the anxiety, it's warranted
Thu May 7, 2020, 05:03 AM
May 2020

When I was in my 20s, I sometimes had bad panic attacks. I was told to breathe into a small paper bag and that really did help, I carried one with me for years. But about the anxiety, I agree with the others that you should speak to your boss. No one should be faced with abuse on the job and you can't be the only one - if there are others, you should speak to management together. Hang in there! I'm in New York and anyone I see working anywhere these days (only groceries and gas stations are open) is wearing a mask and usually gloves.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
21. I don't even like setting foot in a store for a quick run through.
Thu May 7, 2020, 12:22 PM
May 2020

I can’t imagine having to work in one.

Hang in there and ignore the Covidiots who don’t believe in wearing masks.

Latest Discussions»Support Forums»Mental Health Support»Had a severe panic attack...