I am unable to assist anyone now. I am stepping back, from everyone

[irisblue]

Best wishes and good luck.
I am not willing nor able to help you

[RandySF]

1. Just take care of yourself and reach out if you need any help.

[Deuxcents]

2. I wish I had words to comfort you. We will be here waiting to hear from you when you're ready

Be good to yourself 🫶

[irisblue]

3. I am unable to assist any other a specific DUers. I fell into more then I can do

I wish the best for others, but I cannot help him/others

[Deuxcents]

4. What do you need that can be of help..even temporarily, if you'd like.

How are your kitties and are they with you?

[vercetti2021]

5. I'm so sorry

I hope things get better for you. I always appreciate the help you tried to give me

[LoisB]

6. Believe me, I understand. You must take care of yourself. Something I learned the hard way.

[Cha]

8. Sweet irisblue

[alwaysinasnit]

9. ...

[pazzyanne]

10. ...

[GPV]

11. Be well

[kozar]

12. You gotta take

Care of you first. It’s what we all do here. I did.

Koz

[irisblue]

19. Leave me be Koz. Do not text me call me again. Leave be me

[2naSalit]

13. Oh dear!

I don't know what happened but I hope that you can recover quickly. It's okay to stop and tend to your needs, you are not obliged to fix others' problems, even when you can see clear solutions. You might make suggestions but in many cases, altruism is a dangerous place.

You have put out great energy for someone and they seem to have drained you. Take the time and do what you need to recharge, we're here for you.

[XanaDUer2]

14. I had to block a DUer

I reached out and it went sideways fast.

[BlackSkimmer]

15. Take care of yourself.

Sometimes we try to help people who just turn around and take advantage of our good intentions. It can be very upsetting.

You're a good person, and you've done nothing but act with empathy and generosity.

[XanaDUer2]

16. I'll never reach out again like that

I was bombarded with strange, inappropriate PMs. Nope.

[BlackSkimmer]

17. Yes, you're not the only one that's happened to, I'm sure.

Last edited Wed Apr 26, 2023, 12:36 PM - Edit history (1)

I've had similar experiences.

Even one in which a poster insisted I answer his pms RIGHT FUCKING NOW, but I'd received no pms lol.

Later I did a little research and found I'd blocked him previously - for the same thing, odd messages.

[hamsterjill]

22. There are some posts at times that really scream for professional help.

There have been a few that I’ve read and been really fearful for the poster. In situations like that, there’s no one on a message board who is qualified to offer help - even having the very BEST of intentions. Those people need solid, professional help.

I’ve refrained on several occasions because of that worry, and that’s sad in and of itself because it’s natural that we all want to help.

There is no excuse for any poster to send inappropriate PM’s, etc. and you were absolutely correct to block them.

[Scrivener7]

18. Irisblue, this is a REALLY healthy response. Well done. I hope you feel stronger soon.

[BlackSkimmer]

21. +1000.

[JudyM]

20. .

[debm55]

23. Wish you well irisblue. Love, Debbie