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Mon Dec 17, 2018, 10:07 PM Dec 2018

Why helicopter parenting may jeopardize kids' health - PBS NewsHour

Has protective parenting gone too far? Several high-profile news stories, along with increasing rates of childhood obesity, anxiety and depression, have sparked a movement encouraging parents to allow their children greater freedom. The nonprofit Let Grow is leading the call for what’s known as “free range parenting,” in which kids can just be kids

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Why helicopter parenting may jeopardize kids' health - PBS NewsHour (Original Post) question everything Dec 2018 OP
When I was a kid in the 50's my mom put us out of the house wasupaloopa Dec 2018 #1
Same here question everything Dec 2018 #2
Same here, but in the 60's and early 70's PBC_Democrat Dec 2018 #3
same here KT2000 Dec 2018 #4
"I was raised free range" is not a valid argument. JayhawkSD Dec 2018 #5
 

wasupaloopa

(4,516 posts)
1. When I was a kid in the 50's my mom put us out of the house
Mon Dec 17, 2018, 10:20 PM
Dec 2018

in the morning and said to come back at supper time.

PBC_Democrat

(401 posts)
3. Same here, but in the 60's and early 70's
Mon Dec 17, 2018, 10:53 PM
Dec 2018

By today's dumb-ass rules our parents would have been a ton of trouble with Child Protective Services.

In 1970 I was given a Yamaha 125 ... way cooler than my friend's mini-bikes. I would blast out of the yard in the morning and only come home for lunch and gas. BTW, I was 15 and no license.

We're robbing kids of the opportunity to learn, make mistakes and learn from them, and just explore the world.

KT2000

(20,576 posts)
4. same here
Mon Dec 17, 2018, 11:02 PM
Dec 2018

my mom had a boat whistle to call us for dinner. My rule at the time was - If my mother didn't know what I was doing, I could do anything I wanted. Did get caught a couple times riding my bike to the next town and got in trouble only because I was too late to hear the boat whistle for dinner. Lesson learned - get back before the boat whistle.

 

JayhawkSD

(3,163 posts)
5. "I was raised free range" is not a valid argument.
Tue Dec 18, 2018, 02:22 AM
Dec 2018

I happen to think it is a better way to raise kids, but the fact that I was raised that way is not an argument. Yes, I think I turned out fine, but that's only my opinion. How many people will tell you they didn't turn out okay. A few, but not many.

More to the point is that kids learn from their mistakes. If you never let them touch the stove, then they are okay as long as you are hovering over them not letting them touch the stove. Once they are on their own, they don't just get a minor burn, they get killed because what they touch is far hotter than the stove.

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