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fizzgig

(24,146 posts)
Sat May 5, 2018, 09:22 AM May 2018

i'm helping mira cross the rainbow bridge in a few hours

i want to thank everyone for their advice and support in my thread the other night. as always, the du family was there for me when i needed it most.

we spent a few hours of family time in the yard yesterday so that she could enjoy the sun and grass and i kept her by my side all last night.



i'm having her cremated and will leave some of her with fat cat when i visit home in a few weeks, something neither of them will be terribly pleased about but is how it should be.

you were my shadow for so long, little one, and i will miss you so very much. thank you, my sweet girl, for loving me when i didn't even like myself.

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i'm helping mira cross the rainbow bridge in a few hours (Original Post) fizzgig May 2018 OP
I am so sorry. Laffy Kat May 2018 #1
What a great very best friend. She's beautiful! democratisphere May 2018 #2
shes beautiful....visit The Rainbow Bridge, you can set up a memorial for her there.. samnsara May 2018 #3
Hugs to you..... Ohiogal May 2018 #4
It is always so hard. I am sorry you will lose her. nt tblue37 May 2018 #5
My sincere sympathy. CurtEastPoint May 2018 #6
Safe journey, Mira. Polly Hennessey May 2018 #7
I've escorted many of my beloved pups to the Rainbow Bridge... Dennis Donovan May 2018 #8
The hours between having made this pnwest May 2018 #9
What you said is perfect Zoonart May 2018 #10
:) pnwest May 2018 #12
I hesitated to open your post because I get so emotional... PearliePoo2 May 2018 #11
I'm so sorry fizzgig. Hugs for you and your beautiful livetohike May 2018 #13
Sorry to hear that. My Shadow is nearly 20. How old is your cat? nt raccoon May 2018 #14
Always leaves an empty space in your heart packman May 2018 #15
"Loving me when I didn't even like myself" Sailor65x1 May 2018 #16
peaceful crossing, mira. mopinko May 2018 #17
Betcha you will feel her hop up on your bed tavernier May 2018 #18
You have my sympathies... so sorry. CaptainTruth May 2018 #19
(((Mira))) (((Fizz))) irisblue May 2018 #20
I'm so sorry, fizzgig. brer cat May 2018 #21
Hugs for you and sweet Mira. My heart hurts with you today. onecaliberal May 2018 #22
My heart goes out to you. Ferrets are Cool May 2018 #23
So sorry about this but glad you had her. cpamomfromtexas May 2018 #24
I'm so very sorry, fizzgig. catbyte May 2018 #25
Brings tears to my eyes. Have a buddy just like that. So glad we have/had them. Take care. Hoyt May 2018 #26
She will always be with you in your heart and memories. raven mad May 2018 #27
Hugs shenmue May 2018 #28
There are never any words I can say defacto7 May 2018 #29
Sorry fizz.... Glamrock May 2018 #30
Been with you. elleng May 2018 #31
... CountAllVotes May 2018 #32
These are horrible, horrible days for a pet lover. BobTheSubgenius May 2018 #33
Oh, I'm so sorry. My broken heart feels for your broken heart. Honeycombe8 May 2018 #34
I cannot say how sorry I am, fizz. I am going to light two candles this evening, one for both of Leghorn21 May 2018 #35
You have my sincerest sympathies. TexasTowelie May 2018 #36
So very sorry samplegirl May 2018 #37
So sorry. Been there too many times. coeur_de_lion May 2018 #38
For fizzgig and Mira Leghorn21 May 2018 #39
P.S., it's fizz' birthday today. elleng May 2018 #40
I'm sorry fizzgig. iscooterliberally May 2018 #41
I am so sorry. Hardest thing to do when you love your girl so much and she loved you. Fla Dem May 2018 #42
Oh! I am so sorry... Texasgal May 2018 #43

samnsara

(17,622 posts)
3. shes beautiful....visit The Rainbow Bridge, you can set up a memorial for her there..
Sat May 5, 2018, 09:28 AM
May 2018

..Godspeed sweet Mira.. what a GOOD girl you are!

(((hugs)))

CurtEastPoint

(18,639 posts)
6. My sincere sympathy.
Sat May 5, 2018, 09:32 AM
May 2018
When I am gone release me and let me go.
I have too many things to see and do.
You must not tie yourself to me with tears.
Be thankful for our wonderful years.

I gave to you my love, you can only guess . . .
how much you gave to me in happiness.
I thank you for the love you have shown,
but now it's time I travelled on alone.

So grieve a while for me if grieve you must.
Then let your grief be comforted by trust.
It's only for a time that we must part,
so bless the memories within your heart.

I won't be far away, for life goes on.
So if you need me call, and I will come.
Though you can't see or touch me, I'll be near.
And if you listen with your heart, you'll hear.
All my love around you soft and clear.

And then when you must pass this way alone,
I'll greet you with a purr and say "Welcome Home!"

Dennis Donovan

(18,770 posts)
8. I've escorted many of my beloved pups to the Rainbow Bridge...
Sat May 5, 2018, 09:37 AM
May 2018

It's an act of extreme love and extreme sorrow.

pnwest

(3,266 posts)
9. The hours between having made this
Sat May 5, 2018, 09:49 AM
May 2018

decision and carrying it out are the most heartbreaking, love-filled, sorrowful, gut-churning and bittersweet. Just the effing worst. My heart goes out to you.

PearliePoo2

(7,768 posts)
11. I hesitated to open your post because I get so emotional...
Sat May 5, 2018, 10:00 AM
May 2018

but I did so out of respect for you and your precious Mira.

And yes, I got the expected lump in my throat.

May your memories of your sweet 'Shadow' always bring smiles and happiness and your tears of grief fewer and less often.

(I still grieve for my sweet Border Collie 'Pearl', who passed 2 years ago at the age of 16)

livetohike

(22,140 posts)
13. I'm so sorry fizzgig. Hugs for you and your beautiful
Sat May 5, 2018, 10:25 AM
May 2018

girl as you say goodbye. She'll live in your heart forever .

 

packman

(16,296 posts)
15. Always leaves an empty space in your heart
Sat May 5, 2018, 10:33 AM
May 2018

Still missing mine after many years. You'll see her in the shadows still watching you with love.

tavernier

(12,381 posts)
18. Betcha you will feel her hop up on your bed
Sat May 5, 2018, 11:09 AM
May 2018

at night, right before you fall asleep. I felt my departed cats do that several weeks after leaving me. I guess they wanted to make sure i’d be ok before they took off to play with friends.

cpamomfromtexas

(1,245 posts)
24. So sorry about this but glad you had her.
Sat May 5, 2018, 11:35 AM
May 2018

Celebrate her life. Eventually you will smile when you think of her.

catbyte

(34,374 posts)
25. I'm so very sorry, fizzgig.
Sat May 5, 2018, 11:36 AM
May 2018

I'm in tears reading this and seeing your beautiful Mira enjoying the sunshine one last time. The only time they are ever capable of breaking our hearts is when it's time for them to leave us. Again, I'm so very sorry.

raven mad

(4,940 posts)
27. She will always be with you in your heart and memories.
Sat May 5, 2018, 11:44 AM
May 2018

You never lose the beauty given by a kitty. I hurt for you.

Glamrock

(11,795 posts)
30. Sorry fizz....
Sat May 5, 2018, 11:51 AM
May 2018

Sincerely. Been there, done that. It's hard. Really hard. But it's the right thing to do. And, perhaps, in a few months you can help another little homeless soul....

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
34. Oh, I'm so sorry. My broken heart feels for your broken heart.
Sat May 5, 2018, 12:19 PM
May 2018

I recently lost my precocious Cocker Spaniel, and am left with a broken heart, so I feel for you right now. At least you had some final moments. It comforted me to think there really was a Rainbow Bridge...I couldn't bear it otherwise. Who knows.

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Leghorn21

(13,524 posts)
35. I cannot say how sorry I am, fizz. I am going to light two candles this evening, one for both of
Sat May 5, 2018, 12:22 PM
May 2018

you.

((((((tiny girl Mira))))) ((((((fizzgig))))))

samplegirl

(11,476 posts)
37. So very sorry
Sat May 5, 2018, 08:44 PM
May 2018

I’m so sad for you. My cat is almost 17 don’t know how much longer I will have him. Your in my thoughts. Sounds she was very lucky to have you.

Fla Dem

(23,654 posts)
42. I am so sorry. Hardest thing to do when you love your girl so much and she loved you.
Wed May 9, 2018, 01:45 PM
May 2018

Peace to both of you.

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