Pets
Related: About this forumThe worst news has arrived. I have lost two pets within a 24 hour period
The damage to Morgan's colon, which they are pretty sure is a congenital problem, is too great. She would have a short life filled with hospital visits, surgeries, discomfort and medications. The wonderful veterinarian who saw her agrees with my decision.
I can't believe this has happened. It's like a nightmare.
MacKasey
(983 posts)Demovictory9
(32,421 posts)Diamond_Dog
(31,914 posts)TWO losses in so short a time! That is unimaginable.
Wishing you strength to get through this difficult time.
Phoenix61
(16,993 posts)irisblue
(32,929 posts)I am so so sorry
🕯️🕯️
sinkingfeeling
(51,438 posts)I lost 4 dogs in 2004, it's heartbreaking.
Groundhawg
(543 posts)secondwind
(16,903 posts)soo much!
zeusdogmom
(987 posts)Words seem so empty when your heart is broken
CurtEastPoint
(18,622 posts)janterry
(4,429 posts)I am so sorry.
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SheltieLover
(57,073 posts)I am so sorry.
hlthe2b
(102,131 posts)But, I hope you know that your Sophie and Morgan (and all the others you have helped) had the life that they had (no matter how short) because of you.
I know you still have ferals and you, of course, have Madoc. May you find some healing from each other.
So very sorry, Siwsan. It is wrenching to read this morning. Loving thoughts to you during this most difficult of times.
Yorkie Mom
(16,420 posts)That's brutal.
CousinIT
(9,225 posts)Short maybe but they were loved and cared for.
EDIT: realize one kitty was older - had a GREAT long life with you! BECAUSE of you.
IrishAfricanAmerican
(3,813 posts)so sorry for your loss.
Walleye
(30,980 posts)niyad
(113,074 posts)and comfort to her grieving Siswan.
I am so very sorry, so heartbroken for you. Sending love and prayers that you will find comfort and peace. Please remember that you gave both your girls so much love and care and joy. Hold Madoc close.
Your DU family is grieving with you.. we are here for you.
samnsara
(17,605 posts)..solids. A quick trip to the vet confirmed much the same as your Morgan. When the babies die they leave the biggest hole in your heart.
Godspeed, sweet Morgan.. what a GOOD little friend you are..
peacefreak2.0
(1,023 posts)Your loss leaves me breathless. Holding you in my heart.
Random Boomer
(4,167 posts)I've been there myself far too many times. There was one horrible month in which we lost four of our beloved pets, each to a different cause but bunched up until we were reeling.
And we've rescued several feral kittens who died before growing up. I keep reminding myself that we gave them a few months of love, safety, and food. If not for us, they would have died alone, scared, hungry and never having experienced any joy in their short lives.
Cats live in the moment. If you made their moments wonderful, then they were blessed.
Midnight Writer
(21,717 posts)As sad as it is to lose a pet, it would have been sadder for those poor cats if you had not come into their orbit and cared for them.
NJCher
(35,620 posts)Nanuke
(486 posts)You made their lives the best they could be. I am sorry for the pain you are going through. The more we love, the more we hurt. I will be thinking of you and will give my kitties extra ear rubs and chin scratches.
johnthewoodworker
(694 posts)Freddie
(9,257 posts)As a fellow Cat Mom I love your posts. My heart is with you today. I once lost a kitten wed adopted to severe flea anemia, we only had him a week. Its such a horrible helpless feeling to know theres nothing you can do.
Ziggysmom
(3,394 posts)MiHale
(9,664 posts)but necessary. Kindness toward and love shared never will be forgotten it will be rewarded.
lark
(23,065 posts)It's so hard to lose one of these small ones, especially one you have nursed yourself. That creates such a strong bond. I know how much this hurts, it happened to me year before last with the rescue of a 3 week old cat. I still mourn the life she should have had, but glad she had a month of comfort of love before she met her end.
MLAA
(17,251 posts)❤️❤️💕💕💖💖
PatrickforB
(14,559 posts)CaptainTruth
(6,576 posts)I know that pain, you should know that you gave them happy lives & they knew they were loved. I've come to believe that's what's most important, to know you are loved.
we can do it
(12,173 posts)cate94
(2,810 posts)radical noodle
(7,997 posts)I'm so sorry.
spooky3
(34,406 posts)And the foster kitties the very best life and they loved you.
piddyprints
(14,637 posts)I can see from the responses to all your threads that our hearts are collectively breaking with yours.
Please let us know how we can help. This must have been a very expensive venture. Do you have a vehicle to accept donations? It won't heal your broken heart, but I, for one, am looking for any way at all to help.
Picaro
(1,513 posts)Polly Hennessey
(6,788 posts)Your love, patience, and compassion has been what gave Sophie and Morgan many moments of kitty joy. It has been wonderful taking the journey with you. We all wish for happy endings sometimes that is not possible.
mountain grammy
(26,598 posts)I am glad you have a wonderful veterinarian.. they are truly a gift.
brer cat
(24,524 posts)That is a terrible loss and your grief must be overwhelming.
bamagal62
(3,244 posts)Naio
(165 posts)LyndaG
(683 posts)They were sweethearts, and you took very good care of them and gave them lots of love.
ananda
(28,835 posts)Sigh
MontanaMama
(23,296 posts)My heart aches for you. Im just so sorry for your loss, Siwsan. This takes my breath away.
Ocelot II
(115,597 posts)I can't do much but offer all my sympathy. I've been following your posts about the kittens and kept checking in all day yesterday to find out what was going on with Morgan - so very sad to hear about Sophie all of a sudden, and now Morgan.
Be comforted by the fact that you gave them good lives and they had your love. And Madoc and the outdoor cats still need you.
Fla Dem
(23,590 posts)I logged on this morning to see how Morgan was doing. I'm devastated for you Siwsan. To lose one cherished pet is difficult enough, but 2 in the same day, I weep for you. The only consolation you have is that Sophie will be there at the "Bridge" to take Morgan by the paw and guide her over.
Morgan gave you lots and lots of love for the short time she was with you. Almost like she knew her time with you was going to be short and she got as much hugging and loving in as she possibly could.
As far as Sophie going, how heartbreaking you weren't there with her. For 14 years you were there for her and she was there for you. My girl is 15 and I can't imagine not being with her when her time comes. But then we don't always have a say in that.
Both you and Madoc will need each other in the coming days. While you at least have some understanding of what happened, poor Madoc will have no understanding about where all his buddies have gone and he will need you more than ever.
Be in peace Siwsan. I wish I could give you a hug. Just know in your heart, you gave Sophie and Morgan love and caring. They had a beautiful life whether short or long because of you.
2naSalit
(86,330 posts)You poor dear! All that kitten love was so wonderful and good, it brought light to all of us. Get as much rest as you can, you still have one baby to care for, he will really need you too now that he's the only one in the house with you.
It is a nightmare. There's no way to make it sound any better than it is.
mnhtnbb
(31,374 posts)I am so sorry.
Trueblue Texan
(2,420 posts)I know how you've nurtured those little ones and how attached you can quickly get. I am so sorry for your broken heart.
slightlv
(2,769 posts)I was so hoping they could do anything to help him. My heart is breaking just thinking of yours. May he find many of our friends as he crosses the Rainbow Bridge. Peace to you. Hug him in your heart and know you did all you could.
femmedem
(8,197 posts)I'm weepy-eyed just reading this so I can imagine how devasted you are.
You were the best, the very best caretaker for Morgan and Sophie, right down to this painful decision which hurts you so much and which spared Morgan such pain.
leighbythesea2
(1,200 posts)How heartbreaking to hear this. You did such a wonderful thing and I enjoyed your posts. Rescued a runt kitten from my uncles farm, and something congenital was wrong. It's shattering, and the only comfort is what others have stated here---your babies were/are loved and cared for by a huge-hearted human.
wnylib
(21,341 posts)I could barely read the other posts through wet eyes, but others have said it better than I can. Know that you are not alone in your grief. Loss is part of the risk of opening ourselves up up to such joy and love as these little beings bring to our lives. While you regret the loss, the joy and love will always be part of you. Morgan lived a little longer and a much better life in your care than she would have had without you. Sophie lived a longer, better, and happier life in your home. Cherish the good memories and give Madoc a hug and a kiss from me.
3catwoman3
(23,949 posts)Her short time with you was filled with love and warmth, going both ways.
LisaM
(27,794 posts)That's a big load of grief to bear.
DelMar dem
(36 posts)Losing a pet leads to a special kind of grief. They are such an integral part of our daily lives and routines that we don't know how to move forward. Losing two in one day is horrible. "They" say you aren't given more than you can handle, but of course that's a lie. Take comfort in the fact that you gave them the best possible care and attention. They knew they were loved.
Thank you for the daily pictures and updates. They brought joy to many of us.
StarryNite
(9,435 posts)There really are no words.
KY_EnviroGuy
(14,488 posts)and our hearts are there with you today. You were the very best fur baby mom they could ever have.
Lots of big DU hugs coming your way.
KY........
Heartstrings
(7,349 posts)Backseat Driver
(4,381 posts)All my deepest sympathies as you prepare their resting place among the spring flowers. (((((hugs))))).
lame54
(35,262 posts)Bayard
(22,011 posts)But they knew you loved them.....
Vinca
(50,237 posts)back and it was so difficult. I can't imagine losing 2 in one day. You did the right thing with Morgan - even though it's the hardest thing decision to make. Sadly, we can't control the length of their lives and sometimes there are very sad surprises.
onlyadream
(2,165 posts)Im so sorry, thats just too much.
sheilahi
(277 posts)I am so sorry for your loss........and for ours. We here at DU loved your kitties too and a sense of sadness has settled over DU.
pansypoo53219
(20,955 posts)samplegirl
(11,463 posts)Just not fair.
Duppers
(28,117 posts)I've ever had to do. I dearly loved them all but had to end their suffering.
Hugs and tears for you, Siwsan.
catrose
(5,059 posts)and the only comfort is that in their tiny lives they were cared for and loved as Morgan was, not that any length of time is enough, as you know from Sophie. I will picture Sophie caring for Morgan, free of pain. You did wonderful things for your Sophie and the 4 babies. I wish you had a better reward than this heartache. Give Madoc an extra hug from all of us.
calimary
(81,119 posts)mysterious decline. One of those "kitten killer" diseases got her - and way too early.
I can both sympathize and empathize. The Rainbow Bridge must be some kind of WUNNNNNNNNNNNNderful place - so many of our little friends are up there in residence now. When my time comes, I plan to try to seek them out.
catrose
(5,059 posts)And there's nothing to be done. So sorry for you and Siswan.
calimary
(81,119 posts)We recently lost Betty, and that was hard enough, even knowing she was elderly and fading and she'd had a good life. But losing TWO!? And so young?!?!? And in just a day or so?!?!?!?
That's a huge blow. A double blow, right to the heart. I can hardly even imagine.
And you would do anything to make it better. MAN do I get that one.
calimary
(81,119 posts)What a terrible double blow.
At the very least, I'm glad you're sharing with us. LOTS of good strong pairs of shoulders here to buoy you up.
Having recently lost one, ourselves, I know a little bit of how you feel.
I wish these little fur babies lived longer.
Rhiannon12866
(204,779 posts)And how Sophie was adjusting. This has to be heartbreaking, I have no words. One of my dearest friends in my life had a puppy who turned out to have a similar congenital condition. Her grandson bought her a puppy, he wasn't from around here, obviously went to some breeder, and the little guy was a Maltese and just the most personable and adorable little thing.
When he started having issues, I took her and the pup to my vet who sent us to a specialist who was trained at Cornell. We had to leave the little one there overnight and when we picked him up, she had bad news, there was no surgical correction like we hoped, nothing to be done. And it broke my heart since I had reassured my friend, an older lady, that he was my dog too. I loved him like my own dog.
But, like you, we gave him love and the best life possible. I still think of him all the time. But at least you still have a little one to love and who needs you. You've done such an amazing job and thank you so much for sharing them with us.