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Siwsan

(26,257 posts)
Sun Oct 17, 2021, 10:46 AM Oct 2021

Chasing away my blues is hard work. My little champion needed to rest up.

We've been playing, snuggling, grooming, exploring and snuggling some more, all morning. The look he gets on his face if he sees me crying is heart breaking so I'm determined to take more deep breaths and concentrate on what I have, rather than on what I've lost. I can carry Madoc in my arms, but I will always carry Boudicca, Sophie Stinky Toes and Morgan in my heart. Still working up the energy to put together some photos of my angels. Maybe by tomorrow.

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Chasing away my blues is hard work. My little champion needed to rest up. (Original Post) Siwsan Oct 2021 OP
Makes me want to take a nap! Tomconroy Oct 2021 #1
It makes me want to adopt another kitten or two. calimary Oct 2021 #9
He's got You and You have Him. Together. Fla Dem Oct 2021 #2
That's love right there.❤️ bamagal62 Oct 2021 #3
Cats can be very perceptive about their humans. wnylib Oct 2021 #4
awwwwww. Your champion hard at his well-earned rest. He is such a precious niyad Oct 2021 #5
Awwwww SheltieLover Oct 2021 #6
Take heart dear friend samplegirl Oct 2021 #7
Too sweet! That's right--while your loss is painful, you have this little RestoreAmerica2020 Oct 2021 #8
And yes, this little sweetie will help you get through it. calimary Oct 2021 #10

calimary

(81,193 posts)
9. It makes me want to adopt another kitten or two.
Sun Oct 17, 2021, 01:14 PM
Oct 2021

Preferably two - so they have each other. Litter mates can cure a broken heart, and pretty quickly too.

wnylib

(21,420 posts)
4. Cats can be very perceptive about their humans.
Sun Oct 17, 2021, 11:29 AM
Oct 2021

Madoc no doubt misses his companions, even though he doesn't know why they are gone. Since it is now just him and you, he is probably feeling closer to you for company. So he picks up on your moods easily. You perceived sadness in him when you first got him and gave him attention to perk him up. Maybe it's not too much of a stretch to think that he is ready to return the favor. Cats learn from imitation and experience. You came to him when he was sad and now he perceives that you are sad.

It's healthy to focus on what you have, while also letting yourself grieve when you need to. Madoc's need for company will assure that you don't forget what you have.

niyad

(113,232 posts)
5. awwwwww. Your champion hard at his well-earned rest. He is such a precious
Sun Oct 17, 2021, 11:53 AM
Oct 2021

little being. I am so glad that you two have each other.

It does get easier, eventually. I promise.

SheltieLover

(57,073 posts)
6. Awwwww
Sun Oct 17, 2021, 11:56 AM
Oct 2021

Look at that little kitty face. So sweet.

I'm sure he knows you are sad, and is likely missing Sophie & Morgan, too.

I'm amazed at the length of his whiskers - wondering if he will grow into them as a jumbo kitty.

He is quite a blessing to you - and all of us who are grieving along with you.

samplegirl

(11,474 posts)
7. Take heart dear friend
Sun Oct 17, 2021, 12:13 PM
Oct 2021

I lost my dear boy who was 19 during the Covid.
I clutched him like glue until he left me.
Now I have Scarlett.
You are going to be so stunned and amazed when you feel your babies-curling up to live in the epicenter of your heart hence forth. Make room for them beautiful Siwan. They are with you in infinitely more powerful ways than the embodied spirit. You are so blessed. Let the tears wash your heart clean to create a peaceful nest.
Hold that Madoff close.
I still feel my boy when I need him.

Hugs to you.

RestoreAmerica2020

(3,435 posts)
8. Too sweet! That's right--while your loss is painful, you have this little
Sun Oct 17, 2021, 01:05 PM
Oct 2021

..bundle of joy to help you through it. Take care.

Paz

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