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I'm now in my 70s and driving makes me more anxious than it used to. (Original Post) raccoon Oct 2021 OP
Yes, I feel more anxious driving. gademocrat7 Oct 2021 #1
You are EXACTLY correct!! polmaven Oct 2021 #4
Drivers are much more aggressive, turn signals are obsolete and everyone drives a 50-ft. LoisB Oct 2021 #10
I gave up driving entirely a few years ago Glorfindel Oct 2021 #2
I started to slow down in my mid 60s. multigraincracker Oct 2021 #3
Lol!! polmaven Oct 2021 #6
What nerve! Lydiarose Nov 2021 #22
I haven't driven in nearly 20 months. rsdsharp Oct 2021 #5
Do get that cataract taken care of as soon as you realistically can. PoindexterOglethorpe Nov 2021 #24
I can relate. Keep getting out there. It helps. Joinfortmill Oct 2021 #7
It Faux pas Oct 2021 #8
same here..its a 20 mile rt to get milk. When it snows I have to be plowed out of the.. samnsara Oct 2021 #13
I just know I wanna die in my sleep like my grandpa... ret5hd Oct 2021 #9
... UpInArms Oct 2021 #11
LMAO Lydiarose Nov 2021 #23
Love it! Lydiarose Nov 2021 #25
same here! In fact I wont even go into town unless i ride in with hubby. We live 15 miles from town samnsara Oct 2021 #12
Me either. When will we get those autonomous cars? raccoon Oct 2021 #14
I guess it depends where you are. I am not more anxious, but what I see is more drivers JohnSJ Oct 2021 #15
I quit driving a few years ago,,,, KarenS Oct 2021 #16
In the last year, when the roads got busy again happybird Oct 2021 #17
Earlier in the pandemic I noticed some pretty wild driving that I ascribed to the fact that the Martin68 Oct 2021 #18
How is your upper arm strength? Lars39 Oct 2021 #19
Gettin' there... flotsam2 Oct 2021 #20
I'm more anxious too, but it is not about me. Yonnie3 Oct 2021 #21

gademocrat7

(10,656 posts)
1. Yes, I feel more anxious driving.
Wed Oct 27, 2021, 05:29 PM
Oct 2021

I am 70 and it feels like people are more aggressive on the roads now than before COVID.

polmaven

(9,463 posts)
4. You are EXACTLY correct!!
Wed Oct 27, 2021, 05:36 PM
Oct 2021

I have been seeing younger drivers being a lot more aggressive lately, although it seems to have started pre-COVID...at least it seems that way to me!

LoisB

(7,203 posts)
10. Drivers are much more aggressive, turn signals are obsolete and everyone drives a 50-ft.
Wed Oct 27, 2021, 05:48 PM
Oct 2021

behemoth of an SUV or truck that they absolutely MUST park next to my Ford Focus.

Glorfindel

(9,728 posts)
2. I gave up driving entirely a few years ago
Wed Oct 27, 2021, 05:35 PM
Oct 2021

Moving from south Mississippi where the roads are flat and level to north Georgia where the roads are crooked and curving contributed to my decision. My fear of heights (edges) also came into play. I'm perfectly happy with not driving, but thank goodness I have family who will let me tag along to the grocery store, etc.
I'm 76 years old, by the way.

multigraincracker

(32,674 posts)
3. I started to slow down in my mid 60s.
Wed Oct 27, 2021, 05:36 PM
Oct 2021

I've learn to look both ways and then look both ways again. I drive the speed limit or 5 under.
I've been rewarded with lots of other drivers holding up one finger to let my know I'm the #1 safe driver.

I did pull into a rest area once and a guy came up to ask me if I knew what the speed limit was. I answered, yes, do you know what the minimum speed limit is. He didn't know.

rsdsharp

(9,168 posts)
5. I haven't driven in nearly 20 months.
Wed Oct 27, 2021, 05:38 PM
Oct 2021

I last drove in early March 2020. My license expired in early May 2020. I have a cataract that would prevent me from passing the vision test. Between Covid, and other health issues which have required multiple hospitalizations, I haven’t gotten the cataract removed.

I hope to be able to do that soon, but I’ll have to pass not only the vision test, but the written and driving tests. I’m a little concerned about the driving test since it’s been so long since I drove (and will be even longer), and because we have a new car I have never driven except into and out of the garage to and from the driveway — much like Rainman.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,851 posts)
24. Do get that cataract taken care of as soon as you realistically can.
Fri Nov 12, 2021, 06:15 PM
Nov 2021

I tell people that cataracts were the very best thing that ever happened to my eyes. I'd been extremely nearsighted from a very young age. Couldn't really see the blackboard at school in first grade. Now, after cataract surgery, I feel as if i can read small signs on distant hills. So, even if you never plan on driving again, do deal with the cataract.

Faux pas

(14,668 posts)
8. It
Wed Oct 27, 2021, 05:44 PM
Oct 2021

might have to do with where you live. I live in the country. The farthest I go is probably 20 miles round trip. The total population of the three adjoining towns here is about 30 thousand. I'm 72 and I don't get stressed driving around here. I'm sorry you do.

samnsara

(17,622 posts)
13. same here..its a 20 mile rt to get milk. When it snows I have to be plowed out of the..
Wed Oct 27, 2021, 06:00 PM
Oct 2021

..driveway as i live on a hill. I was nervous in my 50s now 20 yrs later its no better.

ret5hd

(20,491 posts)
9. I just know I wanna die in my sleep like my grandpa...
Wed Oct 27, 2021, 05:45 PM
Oct 2021

Not screaming like everyone else in the car.

samnsara

(17,622 posts)
12. same here! In fact I wont even go into town unless i ride in with hubby. We live 15 miles from town
Wed Oct 27, 2021, 05:58 PM
Oct 2021

... and its along a curvy mtn road so scary anyway. i am finally returning to a weekly class at the adult activity center but other than that I dont feel comfortable driving. I spent most my adult life working at a job where i drove constantly. I'm so risk adverse now!

JohnSJ

(92,176 posts)
15. I guess it depends where you are. I am not more anxious, but what I see is more drivers
Wed Oct 27, 2021, 06:06 PM
Oct 2021

going faster, taking more chances, and running more lights


KarenS

(4,074 posts)
16. I quit driving a few years ago,,,,
Wed Oct 27, 2021, 06:12 PM
Oct 2021

My peripheral vision is not good and I was just getting too anxious,,,, I am married and my Husband still drives.
Before the pandemic I was using Uber for Hair & nail appts but I haven't used Uber since all of this started,,,, and I am not getting my nails done anymore and my hair is growing out

It is hard to give up that independence but I did.

happybird

(4,606 posts)
17. In the last year, when the roads got busy again
Wed Oct 27, 2021, 06:39 PM
Oct 2021

after the first phase of COVID, I’ve noticed waaay more stupid drivers. It’s like people forgot how to drive.

It’s a lot of what we used to call “Sunday Driver” stuff, like looky-looing around not paying attention to the road, no turn signals, not looking when yielding or merging. Some extra- aggressive drivers, too.

And, for the love of gawd, don’t get me started on the traffic circles that have been popping up everywhere around here. Most people don’t seem to understand how they work. Yield, people. YIELD.

I’ve always been a very defensive driver (I trust my driving but not other people’s), and that has been kicked up a couple notches to very-super-extra defensive driving.

Martin68

(22,794 posts)
18. Earlier in the pandemic I noticed some pretty wild driving that I ascribed to the fact that the
Wed Oct 27, 2021, 06:43 PM
Oct 2021

roads were almost empty. I haven't noticed that recently.

Lars39

(26,109 posts)
19. How is your upper arm strength?
Wed Oct 27, 2021, 09:10 PM
Oct 2021

Muscle loss can cause jerky steering movements that can make you hesitant or fearful to drive.
There are therabands on Amazon and plenty of ways to use them on Pinterest and YouTube. 🙂

flotsam2

(162 posts)
20. Gettin' there...
Wed Oct 27, 2021, 11:15 PM
Oct 2021

For the summer I did just very few medical trips and a half dozen visits to my brother and sister in law (a 52 mile round trip). After the first snow (in New Hampshire) I won't drive 'til spring because neuropathy in my feet-in an emergency I can't really tell on which pedal my feet are on...or if my feet are any pedal at all. I'll register and have my car inspected next month, but I'm not sure if I'll ever drive again... Relatively young (68 next month) but I'd rather choose to hang up my cleats than make an error and hurt someone.

Yonnie3

(17,434 posts)
21. I'm more anxious too, but it is not about me.
Thu Oct 28, 2021, 07:03 AM
Oct 2021

There are way too many inattentive drivers on cell phones. Way too many drivers running red lights and too many who believe that stop, yield, and speed limit signs are suggestions.

Almost all my driving is local now and on city streets and rural roads so there is much more interaction with said drivers. I used to drive a lot on interstates and even recently it seems much better than my local driving. I scan my mirrors often so I know when one is coming from behind.

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