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sinkingfeeling

(51,438 posts)
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 08:13 PM Mar 2022

I must now be officially OLD!!

I discovered a written check still in my checkbook from Feb. 24 for my Comcast bill. Checked online and it was past due.

I mailed them the invoice statement but not the check. Wasted a stamp.

My son wants to put me in the home now.

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I must now be officially OLD!! (Original Post) sinkingfeeling Mar 2022 OP
Let us know which care home you wind up in, sinkingfeeling True Dough Mar 2022 #1
I'll bring tea and cookies irisblue Mar 2022 #2
Years ago Rebl2 Mar 2022 #3
LOLOLOL! elleng Mar 2022 #4
Auto pay will help w/ that. Deuxcents Mar 2022 #5
I autopay everything Freddie Mar 2022 #8
My sewer and Rebl2 Mar 2022 #11
Me, too...my mortgage n credit card gets a check Deuxcents Mar 2022 #14
I pay those automatically with eft. trof Mar 2022 #18
Extra Nanuke Mar 2022 #15
Don't feel bad! Diamond_Dog Mar 2022 #6
Old is piddyprints Mar 2022 #7
Ah, the good old days! Aussie105 Mar 2022 #9
His home? LakeArenal Mar 2022 #10
Good one! Rebl2 Mar 2022 #12
Tell him you will mail the application. keithbvadu2 Mar 2022 #13
ALL of my bills are either auto pay or PoindexterOglethorpe Mar 2022 #16
That is old Maine Abu El Banat Mar 2022 #17

Rebl2

(13,475 posts)
3. Years ago
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 08:37 PM
Mar 2022

before I used a debit card, I would write a check, usually at the grocery, then close the check book without handing over the check. I was in my 30’s-not exactly old. Just to much on my mind.

Deuxcents

(16,095 posts)
5. Auto pay will help w/ that.
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 08:43 PM
Mar 2022

I decided to do that after my electric bill was overdue..if found it between the seat in my car! Now, I’m never late. They send an email saying it’s due n then another saying it funded. Easy for this old lady.

Freddie

(9,257 posts)
8. I autopay everything
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 08:47 PM
Mar 2022

Except the mortgage as I have to make sure there’s enough $ there, and I put extra into principal when I can. Usually the only checks I write are to the local sewer and water authority. They are so low-tech they have no online pay feature.

Rebl2

(13,475 posts)
11. My sewer and
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 10:08 PM
Mar 2022

water want to charge extra if I use their on line pay system, so I write checks to them.

trof

(54,256 posts)
18. I pay those automatically with eft.
Wed Mar 16, 2022, 07:43 PM
Mar 2022

Electronic Funds Transfer/bank draft.
We write checks only for yard work, electrician, etc.

Nanuke

(486 posts)
15. Extra
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 10:19 PM
Mar 2022

I started putting a little “extra” on my mortgage checks to whittle down the principal. Over the years it added up. I retired at 60 with a full paid mortgage.

Diamond_Dog

(31,929 posts)
6. Don't feel bad!
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 08:46 PM
Mar 2022

At Christmas time, we usually donate some $ to 5 or 6 charities (whichever ones we decide on that year)

Last year, among others, we donated $ to a food bank and an animal shelter.

Well my husband sent the food bank check to the animal shelter and the animal shelter check to the food bank.

Both places were more than forgiving, sent our checks back in a timely manner, and we eventually got them to the right places. The woman from the animal shelter said “this happens more than you’d think. People just have too many things on their minds these days.”

piddyprints

(14,637 posts)
7. Old is
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 08:47 PM
Mar 2022

Writing and mailing a check instead of paying online. 🤪

When I was in my 30s (many moons ago), we still mailed checks. I managed to mail the electric company check to the phone company and the phone company check to the electric company. Can’t remember who sent the check back first, but they told me it was common. No late penalties or anything.

Make sure to leave a forwarding address to your new home.

Aussie105

(5,334 posts)
9. Ah, the good old days!
Tue Mar 15, 2022, 09:02 PM
Mar 2022

Checking your bank account, working out which bills needed paying, writing the checks, finding envelopes and stamps, making sure the right check goes into the right envelope, licking stamps, hating the taste of the glue, driving down to mail them.

Now, 10 minutes on the computer pays the bills, instantly.

Seems like a lost art, writing checks. (Thank goodness!)

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,817 posts)
16. ALL of my bills are either auto pay or
Wed Mar 16, 2022, 12:10 AM
Mar 2022

I pay on line.

When I wrote checks, I hated having to do that, tended to postpone it and some of my bills would be paid late. Now, as soon as I get a bill, I go on line and set up the payment. Nothing is ever late.

I do love modern technology.

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