Black people who talk white--What does talking white mean?
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Because at least in my experience - it's blacks towards blacks. 
As a caucasian woman in the South it wouldn't be in your realm.
Now I never heard those words until I started working retail in high school. My town was mostly white, my high school (parents sent me to a prep school in the city) was fairly diverse for the late 1980's, and those african americans I was exposed to outside of those environments tended to be the children of my parents peers.
It was black folks from the inner city (think Alphabet Soup in Rochester) who would say that. 
The only thing kind of offensive is this - Sometimes a young person of color may live in a community where there are white and he picks up the way they speak. Generally? My experience? My personal experience? And my experience in greater Rochester NY (the home of Frederick Douglas, underground railroad, huge abolitionist movement to give a a frame of reference) BUT having an AA father who grew up in Talladega Alabama. . .
It's not because I grew up in Scottsville NY with a lot of white folks. It's because my parents were both well educated and well spoken people. In Scottsville as a kid - I got picked on for saying things like: I know you were wanting . . . OR - I'm fixing . . .
As an adult - the only people I've experienced saying those things are Southerners at vendors - mostly caucasian.
It's not black or white - it can just sound *shyly here* "Ignorant Regardless of Race" to folks in a place like New Jersey or Manhattan.
Could have only THRIVED in the military. My parents met in 1967 while my mom was out east working at the Fort Dix Officers Club for the summer (her dad was in the Eisenhower circle in WW II so he pulled strings). They got married in 1969. They got stationed (run scared) to Fort Knox KY in a month after they got married.
Then thankfully moved abroad (I was born at Rammstein). Then we moved to Rochester NY in the late 1970's.
I hate to say it - - but my mom called it the military bubble. Don't get me wrong - my dad went into the Army in the late 1950's. And even being a Green Beret and an Army Captain did not insulate him from having 'the nerve' to marry a white woman. But it was probably better than living across the street from the Loving family! Bless their hearts!
But the military in general in the 60's/70's I think folks were more insulated from race issue at the personal level.
The reality of average black kid in America (that was me at 5 in 1978) was far different than a black little girl living on a base abroad. 
So my husband is from Italy. His uncles range in age from 75 to 93. Zio Nicolo is actually a Senator For Life - has pictures of himself in his home with Mussolini. The older guys were all in World War II - right? 
Space and place. 
He brings me home and the little old guys from Italy are like:
"Hey Giovanni! 
Good for you! 
You 
stole one back! And she's 
good looking! Good for 
you and Italy!"
You probably got chuckle reading that - they resented the hell out of the GI's taking "all the pretty Italian girls" so the fact that my dad and my mom's dad were both solid military men REALLY makes my Father In Law and his brothers ramp it up! I brought pics of my mom's dad with Eisenhower post WWII to tease them this past summer when we went to visit!
Good times! Good times in my family! 
...pointed out to me about it. For example, this question is typically asked by blacks of blacks--not usually of whites of blacks (bigoted white people, my friend noted with a sigh, will instead say to the young men like this, "you're so articulate!" as if it's a surprise 
Which is as bad if not worse). Also, it's not universal. It's usually asked by kids or teens of other kids/teens from certain, urban neighborhoods. What it translates to is "are you one of us?"
When seen in that light, it's actually no surprise. Kids/teens are always asking other kids/teens who don't fit in why they don't fit in--be it why they wear odd clothes or have different interests, etc. What's problematic about it, is that it associates a style of speech with a race rather than with a neighborhood; there may be an element of black pride in that, but, as my friend said, it troubled him that kids were pressuring kids not just to fit in, but creating/maintaining a racial stereotype. As if anyone born black talked this way rather than was raised to talk this way. He pointed out that white kids raised in such neighborhoods talked the same as their black friends and got asked by strangers why they were talking "black."
He likened it to thinking anyone with a Jersey accent was Italian.
I'll add that I think there is going to be less of this accusation in the future, as neighborhoods and families become more integrated and kids don't feel pressured to speak a certain way; also given Obama and others who talk like this as a matter of course, and make it evident to all kids, of all races, that speech style is not a matter of race.
all black community, all black teachers, and i learned to speak standard english 
some of our cousins in texas teased us about how "proper" we spoke, but that's what we learned.
Book smarts and streets smarts to match. Can't too many really muck with that.
You don't talk black (and yes, his response - "Neither does President Obama" .
You don't dress black. You don't "act black". "What does that mean?" he says. "No, I don't sag my pants, I don't say finna or any other made up word. I speak ENGLISH. Proper English. Why is that not "black enough? Does "talking black" mean I have talk poorly?"
Your name's not black. "Why, because it doesn't have a bunch of "Q's" in it or someone made it up because they thought it 'sounded cool' and made up some weird spelling to go with it? FYI, my name is the last name of three famous African Americans. Of course, you probably never heard of them because they don't play sports and they're not some singer or a movie star."
You don't ACT black. "ACT black? Why, because I make good grades? My butt's not showing? I'm a dancer and play the cello? What? What does "acting black mean"? I don't have to be all "ghetto" 'because that's not BLACK, that's just ghetto."
(Hopefully this offends no one. Around here "acting ghetto" is a thing - and synonymous with being black. Unfortunately, most of the black kids at his school do come from the lower-socioeconomic community. The PC word for projects now. He has that one white (former) friend who likes to dress and act ghetto (funny with his red hair and blue eyes and ultra pale skin.) My son is highly offended by this "friend" and tells him, that's as much a stereotype as saying I eat watermelon and fried chicken. Just be yourself and stop telling me you're "more black" than *I* am... Admittedly, in reality my son is a middle-class white boy whose skin happens to be black.
Of course - I've said it before that my son often says, why do people define themselves by the color of their skin? They're just PEOPLE. I'm glad he's strong in himself, but will it be enough in the long haul? In the "real world"?
Unfortunately, I have to try & get him to understand that it's society defining people by the color of their skin. And mistreating the ones who aren't "like them". That institutionalized racism will see his color first and everything else second. If he can "rise above that" by THEIR standards, then that's an exception and he has do to something "worthy" in their eyes of acceptance (Unfortunately, this is usually reserved for sports figures and actors, etc.) That even President Obama - our PRESIDENT - is reviled by parts of this country merely because of the color of his skin.
It's truly sad that the black kids at his school are also rejecting him because of the color of his skin. Because by their standards, his blackness is in question.
I'm afraid he has some very hard lessons to learn growing up - much harder than what middle school has brought. That the world will see the black and judge him merely by their prejudice and misconceptions. I wonder what highschool and college will bring. I wonder what being a football 'star" (and yeah, barring injury, he most likely will be) will do to people's perception of who he IS.
I wonder how he is going to come to terms with both worlds. There are kids who won't associate with him - some because he's black. And others because he's not "black enough". I tell him true friends come in all shapes, sizes, and color.
have heard this bs. my most unpleasant experience with this nonsense was in college. i took a year off from my home college and went to uc santa cruz. i enrolled in cowell college, for no particular reason. most of the black people went to oakes college, but i chose cowell fairly randomly for its central location. there was one other balck person in my dorm, a younger guy, and we became friends. there were two other black women at the neighboring college, stevenson, and we also became friends. however, when me and one of my black female friends went to a BSU meeting at oakes, we were accused of all kind of stupid shit (like trying to "act white" because we weren't oakes students. i never tried to deal with those idiots again, and i was quite content with my three blacks friends at our "white" colleges...and my other white, asian and latino friends. since then, i have no time for ignorant people who think being black limits how you speak or what you can do. i took archery, fencing, and went to all the classical concerts...and i am still black enough to get pulled over by the cops when they decided to profile me.
I've called friends who I haven't spoke to in a while and been told that I sound like a bill collector. I would say hello on the phone and the other end would go silent. So, I would have to quickly go ahead and say...hey, it's me....
Then the response would be...girl, you sounded like a bill collector, I was going to hang up???
Well, that was before outsourcing. I'll just leave it at that.