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bravenak

(34,648 posts)
Fri Apr 25, 2014, 03:24 PM Apr 2014

You handled it strangely- my first hidden post!!

Unfortunately i recieved my first hidden post. Here it goes-

267. You handled it strangely.

This op, is not rude. He says noting but kind things. Other ops call our first black president terrible names and you did not choose to attack that op.
Manny wrote a quite racist op, i did not notice you lock it or chide him.

But this one is rude enough to merit a high level of dissapproval and it is not fair. We feel like we are being run off and judge by a strange standard. It changes based on who you are and i'm asking you to reflect on what i'm saying and to stop now. I will be looking for your name in rude ops of the future and i will be expecting call outs.
A Jury voted 5-2 to hide this post on Fri Apr 25, 2014, 04:47 AM. Reason: This post is disruptive, hurtful, rude, insensitive, over-the-top, or otherwise inappropriate.

I don't feel bad about it. I feel like it just super proved the point i was making in the post.
What do you think? Was it a horrible post that was utterly offensive to you??
Please use gifs liberally. I love them.

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You handled it strangely- my first hidden post!! (Original Post) bravenak Apr 2014 OP
I know you're not really asking about my opinion... Democracyinkind Apr 2014 #1
Noted. bravenak Apr 2014 #2
Yes, the setup is somewhat subjective. Feral Child Dec 2014 #222
Sometimes they just luck out on juries and get 12 simpletons in real life Warpy Apr 2014 #3
I'm more like thinking it's funny. bravenak Apr 2014 #6
I thought mine was funny and sad Warpy Apr 2014 #9
I sometimes wonder if most people are just hoping to be offended about something. bravenak Apr 2014 #11
Don't forget we're all black words on a white screen Warpy Apr 2014 #13
I disagree, quite strongly. kwassa Apr 2014 #18
kwassa, I agree with you 100%. Number23 Apr 2014 #21
and it is revealed in the comments on their jury decisions ... kwassa Apr 2014 #26
ITA JustAnotherGen Apr 2014 #27
We have to stand up to the bullshit. kwassa Apr 2014 #39
The posts in this forum prove that although DU is unmoderated, some unmoderated folks Number23 Apr 2014 #42
Consistency in moderation has never been a hallmark of DU. kwassa Apr 2014 #44
You noticed ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #128
Welcome to DU. kwassa Apr 2014 #132
No ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #127
Sounds like a south park reference. M0rpheus Apr 2014 #129
Story of my life BainsBane Apr 2014 #81
Am I unusual? I rarely look at the name roody Apr 2014 #177
Some people lead very, very pathetic lives. Their only power comes from a chance to be on a DU jury Sarah Ibarruri Apr 2014 #52
I might have to do a jury blacklist. bravenak Apr 2014 #75
You DEFINITELY have to do a blacklist BainsBane Apr 2014 #82
I agree. It's a god idea if you can identify the "problems." Jackpine Radical Dec 2014 #230
+ ellenrr Dec 2014 #220
of course heaven05 Dec 2014 #216
Things have not changed much around here... bravenak Dec 2014 #217
society getting worse heaven05 Dec 2014 #219
I got a hide for asking "Are you living under a rock"?... VanillaRhapsody Apr 2014 #28
It does actually. bravenak Apr 2014 #30
I was alerted on Mannys getting laid post. sheshe2 Apr 2014 #54
I believe he alerted me too. bravenak Apr 2014 #64
Oh, I do believe you are correct on the alert. sheshe2 Apr 2014 #90
I think some one else alerted on you, bravenak. Tuesday Afternoon Apr 2014 #165
Have to admit, I have been guilty of a couple of those myself. Tuesday Afternoon Apr 2014 #166
The flame I need to write Warpy Apr 2014 #185
It doesn't look hideable to me but you know as giftedgirl77 Apr 2014 #4
Yes yes. I know. bravenak Apr 2014 #8
Nope! JustAnotherGen Apr 2014 #5
Thank you for the lovely gif!! bravenak Apr 2014 #7
I take a good nap and all hell breaks loose. M0rpheus Apr 2014 #10
Nice one!! bravenak Apr 2014 #12
I actually have no idea. M0rpheus Apr 2014 #14
I think it might be from the film Gung Ho: a 70s - 80s comedy about Japenese business incursion in U hedda_foil Apr 2014 #15
Actually, I found it. M0rpheus Apr 2014 #19
I thought I recog'd that from a Jackie Chan film, couldn't place which one. Feral Child Dec 2014 #223
Welcome to AA! M0rpheus Dec 2014 #225
Thanks, MOrpheus! Feral Child Dec 2014 #239
LOL Cali_Democrat Apr 2014 #17
You have a gif, Mo, and you know how to use it~ sheshe2 Apr 2014 #91
Making them is an (mostly automated these days) art. I do a lot of finding. M0rpheus Apr 2014 #94
Thanks Mo, I will check out those links~ sheshe2 Apr 2014 #107
Ah ha! He's baaack! freshwest Apr 2014 #202
One thing I have learned is that certain posters here can call the president the most vile names Number23 Apr 2014 #16
I think it was a good thing because they know we know. bravenak Apr 2014 #31
And that thread also allows us to see who our friends are as well as the haters Number23 Apr 2014 #43
I noticed that the best of people, even though they didn't KNOW what was up, were cool as hell. bravenak Apr 2014 #45
You're making me blush ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #149
So you are saying/have observed ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #150
+1 Blue_Tires Apr 2014 #207
I have to give serious props to 1SBM. That thread exposed the haters MUCH better than whatever Number23 Apr 2014 #20
Oh god what a trip down memory lane JustAnotherGen Apr 2014 #24
I feel like certain people embarrassed themselves. bravenak Apr 2014 #32
I think the people you are referring to are not smart enough to be embarassed. Squinch Apr 2014 #89
We know that, they do not. bravenak Apr 2014 #122
I know. I did come late, but the thread was awesome. Squinch Apr 2014 #137
Best thing since the moon bombing. bravenak Apr 2014 #144
Well... You could do all those things to prove your worthiness, or you could just steal Squinch Apr 2014 #148
Well ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #152
I don't see Jamaal510 Apr 2014 #22
I like how i pointed out in that thread that black people get judged harsher. bravenak Apr 2014 #35
Yeah case in point. eom Jamaal510 Apr 2014 #80
Which is ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #153
So I finally found the post... M0rpheus Apr 2014 #23
I wish you had been around JustAnotherGen Apr 2014 #25
I didn't miss the knockoff thread. M0rpheus Apr 2014 #33
I didn't even know there was a knock off thread until you guys mentioned it Number23 Apr 2014 #47
Oh let me go look at the JustAnotherGen Apr 2014 #48
Ha ha ha JustAnotherGen Apr 2014 #49
LOL! that's worth a celebratory dance M0rpheus Apr 2014 #50
Wow ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #154
Do you have the link JAG? sheshe2 Apr 2014 #55
Spinoff of 1strongs Nov 5th thread JustAnotherGen Apr 2014 #83
Please post a link to it, I'm curious; but ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #155
See post 83 JustAnotherGen Apr 2014 #180
Some people, eh? bravenak Apr 2014 #34
The gifs!! The gifs are working again!! Number23 Apr 2014 #69
Go read 1Strongs thread again JustAnotherGen Apr 2014 #84
Hidden posts ... JEFF9K Apr 2014 #29
You said what about drugs? bravenak Apr 2014 #36
I will post a thread on Sunday. JEFF9K Apr 2014 #37
Ok. bravenak Apr 2014 #38
I think that a real Democrat will be open-minded ... JEFF9K Apr 2014 #135
Then we should welcome the discussion. bravenak Apr 2014 #143
I read that last night and the only thing offensive was having to be reminded of some posts here in lunasun Apr 2014 #40
Thank you for your answer and your art contribution. bravenak Apr 2014 #41
Ahh - I have that post for you JustAnotherGen Apr 2014 #46
Perhaps you shouldn't accuse someone of racist actions MannyGoldstein Apr 2014 #51
The written word speaks volumes Manny! sheshe2 Apr 2014 #56
No doubt: you are more experienced at reading between the lines MannyGoldstein Apr 2014 #57
etc ect etc~ sheshe2 Apr 2014 #59
BTW Manny... sheshe2 Apr 2014 #61
More that your crew? bravenak Apr 2014 #63
And UtahLib Apr 2014 #58
Nailed it UtahLib! sheshe2 Apr 2014 #60
But part of the entitlement is ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #156
You need to know that you are transparent. bravenak Apr 2014 #62
Bravenak, the condescending mockery started a long time before the gefilte fish post Number23 Apr 2014 #71
I think i need to go back and take a closer look. bravenak Apr 2014 #73
It's an awful behavior. Bobbie Jo Apr 2014 #102
This is what we were talking about on December 10th 2014 JustAnotherGen Dec 2014 #213
You already know how I feel about it... MADem Apr 2014 #53
I forgot you might need to see that. bravenak Apr 2014 #65
I think what's RUDE is when people hit the HIDE button on a jury and won't say why. MADem Apr 2014 #66
I think i'm fine with it standing as it is. bravenak Apr 2014 #67
They never would undo a hide anyway. MADem Apr 2014 #68
I knew not to post this in gd. The horror!!! bravenak Apr 2014 #70
We can always keep giffing up in here! MADem Apr 2014 #79
bad alert / bad hide Tuesday Afternoon Apr 2014 #118
I like how you expressed that. bravenak Apr 2014 #120
That thread was a lot of fun and I really did not understand the alert or the hide. Tuesday Afternoon Apr 2014 #157
But we should all just THANK GOD that bravenak didn't dare to mention... Number23 Apr 2014 #72
WTF?? bravenak Apr 2014 #74
"he who must not be named. Number23 Apr 2014 #76
Such a creepy pic!!! bravenak Apr 2014 #77
It's astounding, isn't it? MADem Apr 2014 #78
Good lord. That was pathetic. n/t Tuesday Afternoon Apr 2014 #119
That would have been deleted on DU2 also. Skinner Apr 2014 #85
No. bravenak Apr 2014 #86
I don't know what the op about the fish is. Skinner Apr 2014 #88
In my personal opinion, Manny ... kwassa Apr 2014 #92
The only person with issues that are "important" is Manny, you see. MADem Apr 2014 #126
It is about dishonesty. Also, narcissism. kwassa Apr 2014 #131
+1,000 nt MADem Apr 2014 #136
And this truth ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #158
Obviously you see no issue with racism or sexism on DU. boston bean Apr 2014 #93
Well ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #159
You read it though and have no idea what it was. bravenak Apr 2014 #96
This probably won't help, but just in case... MannyGoldstein Apr 2014 #98
Here you go. bravenak Apr 2014 #104
LOL ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #160
I know. bravenak Apr 2014 #190
Insensitivity can be caused by ignorance, which can then be racism. kwassa Apr 2014 #112
Your link goes nowhere. MADem Apr 2014 #130
The racially offensive schtick is very old and doesn't belong here. bettyellen Apr 2014 #139
I am just sick and tired of people being "sensitive" to criticism of their INSENSITIVITY. MADem Apr 2014 #140
Exactly right. It's like they want a pat on the back for tolerating us. bettyellen Apr 2014 #142
This is the OP JustAnotherGen Apr 2014 #99
"You can't make us have one iota of respect for someone who has ZERO respect for our voices" Number23 Apr 2014 #108
+1 nt MADem Apr 2014 #124
Great words of advice; but ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #161
being CALLED, or thought of as, a racist, is far worst the actually DOING something racist! seabeyond Apr 2014 #171
The reason is simple ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #174
i got sucked into the maher thread. a white hetero man being cheered almost exclusively by white seabeyond Apr 2014 #176
I just saw this past Friday's JustAnotherGen Apr 2014 #179
You know, I was beginning to think it was just me... M0rpheus Apr 2014 #181
I regard a lot of that as "performance art." MADem Apr 2014 #182
this. This. THIS! M0rpheus Apr 2014 #183
Why thank you. That is indeed high praise from the gifmaster!!! I am honored!!!! nt MADem Apr 2014 #184
Looks like that title is sticking. I'll take it. M0rpheus Apr 2014 #186
Heh--you've EARNED it! MADem Apr 2014 #189
I think this is a good point Dorian Gray Dec 2014 #211
Well .... 1StrongBlackMan Dec 2014 #212
The second article was interesting and Dorian Gray Dec 2014 #214
You mean ... 1StrongBlackMan Dec 2014 #215
Damn, why do y'all KEEP KICKING THIS THREAD??! Number23 Dec 2014 #243
Well he flat out denied it JustAnotherGen Dec 2014 #244
This is the smug JustAnotherGen Apr 2014 #101
Smug as any other Reagan voting idiot. bettyellen Apr 2014 #141
It is interesting to see which topics you choose to weigh in on, and how you weigh in on them. Squinch Apr 2014 #103
Spot on brilliant post. And once again, the people of color get told that not only do we not know Number23 Apr 2014 #105
That post obviously had the intent of antagonizing minority posters. It was obnoxious. Squinch Apr 2014 #133
yes, go into the black group, tell them (indirectly) not to point out when things are racist CreekDog May 2014 #210
Just more reinforcement so what we, PoC, suspect/know ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #162
I am not a person of color, and it is clear as day to me what is happening here. Squinch Apr 2014 #163
yes. all this an interesting read. yes. the very few that skinner will validate the hide. seabeyond Apr 2014 #167
well add this to your list of which topics and how: CreekDog May 2014 #209
The OP about the fish...there were several posts, the fish among them. MADem Apr 2014 #123
I almost posted a link to the 4th one JustAnotherGen Apr 2014 #125
Might as well put it all out there, I figure. MADem Apr 2014 #138
gets away with bloody murder. never read his OP. until a couple months ago. and OP calling out seabeyond Apr 2014 #168
I would like to add one more.. boston bean Apr 2014 #147
Somehow I missed that one. But Boston, its SATIRE! He can say any obnoxious, Squinch Apr 2014 #151
yup. you are right on. i soooo didnt know htis shit was going on. fug. i have really seabeyond Apr 2014 #170
don't forget to read this one~ sheshe2 Apr 2014 #187
now sheshe. i told you. i read one Op and that was enough. some people seabeyond Apr 2014 #188
ya. that. and thank you for your comment to skinner. i think it was spot on. nt seabeyond Apr 2014 #169
Hey, GALS! Ain't THAT special! MADem Apr 2014 #178
you're telling us, well, the AA group not to call arguments "racist"? CreekDog May 2014 #208
+1000000000000000 nt steve2470 Dec 2014 #218
I will be keeping a low profile. bravenak Apr 2014 #87
I'll be joining you. This is exactly why I have not had a star next to my name in like two years. Number23 Apr 2014 #106
I think i get whats going on and i think it may be time for reflection. bravenak Apr 2014 #109
You are just the cutest thing Number23 Apr 2014 #111
It's addictive. bravenak Apr 2014 #116
Ugh... M0rpheus Apr 2014 #117
You know, i was mad for less than a minute. bravenak Apr 2014 #121
hmmmmmm. really. deep thought here. cause i did not know any of this shit. hmmmm seabeyond Apr 2014 #172
Accusing people of being racist gollygee Apr 2014 #95
Oh i know. bravenak Apr 2014 #97
You know what's cool though? JustAnotherGen Apr 2014 #100
+1. nt seabeyond Apr 2014 #173
I don't think it was a horrible post at all. stage left Apr 2014 #110
Thank you. bravenak Apr 2014 #113
Don't stay away long. stage left Apr 2014 #114
I wont. bravenak Apr 2014 #115
unmodded DonCoquixote Apr 2014 #134
I so wish i could rec a post. bravenak Apr 2014 #145
no problem DonCoquixote Apr 2014 #146
Okay ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2014 #164
"Jury Nullification" Feral Child Apr 2014 #175
This entire thread has been interesting to read, Jamaal510 Apr 2014 #191
Aloha, bravenak~ Cha Apr 2014 #192
Hey!! bravenak Apr 2014 #193
I missed the whole Cha Apr 2014 #194
She was a big help. bravenak Apr 2014 #195
I know you can! Cha Apr 2014 #196
Is this happening soon?? bravenak Apr 2014 #197
Looks like Prez is already home.. amazing you are two miles from where Cha Apr 2014 #198
One day i'll get to meet him. bravenak Apr 2014 #199
I think I know how your Mom feels, bravenak .. Cha Apr 2014 #200
Thank you. bravenak Apr 2014 #201
Totally out of the loop. Not reading much at DU now. Somebody send me PM, okay? And here's the gif: freshwest Apr 2014 #203
It is troll paradise. bravenak Apr 2014 #204
Yup, that's what I mean by LU. Invaded by the Idiocracy. n/t freshwest Apr 2014 #205
I love that JustAnotherGen Apr 2014 #206
I thought it was Feral Child Dec 2014 #221
I thought I was being nice too. bravenak Dec 2014 #224
My first hide was equally stupid and even milder than that Warpy Dec 2014 #226
You are so right. bravenak Dec 2014 #228
sad but not surprised DonCoquixote Dec 2014 #227
Muthafucking DonCoquixote!!! bravenak Dec 2014 #229
Well welcome to the hidden post society. Cleita Dec 2014 #231
I could try to get banned from guns or something. bravenak Dec 2014 #232
is that kind of like DonCoquixote Dec 2014 #237
I am so sorry that happened to you. malokvale77 Dec 2014 #233
It was a while back, and I was a bit peeved. bravenak Dec 2014 #234
I'm right there with you. malokvale77 Dec 2014 #235
You know, if half these folks DonCoquixote Dec 2014 #238
What is a pet peeve and do you think my local pet store carries them? randys1 Dec 2014 #240
Dork... bravenak Dec 2014 #241
duck randys1 Dec 2014 #242
My first post was hidden Turbineguy Dec 2014 #236
Meanwhile . . . gollygee Dec 2014 #245

Democracyinkind

(4,015 posts)
1. I know you're not really asking about my opinion...
Fri Apr 25, 2014, 03:28 PM
Apr 2014

... but don't take a hide as an expression of what DU thinks as a whole. Jury verdicts are often rather random.

The Jury tends to work in mysterious ways...

Feral Child

(2,086 posts)
222. Yes, the setup is somewhat subjective.
Mon Dec 22, 2014, 03:24 PM
Dec 2014

I think that sometimes it's more of a popularity contest than an evaluation system. Not always, maybe not frequently, but certainly sometimes.

I also think that it often expresses jurors' opinions of the topic, or the poster's stance rather than the post itself.


I'm trying to be nice, but it altered my meaning. What I was trying to say was "bias".

Warpy

(111,245 posts)
3. Sometimes they just luck out on juries and get 12 simpletons in real life
Fri Apr 25, 2014, 03:31 PM
Apr 2014

and seven of them on DU. It happens.

It happened to me once, too. You can either wait for it to go away after a while or you can do a flounce out of here.



(stolen from one of the foulmouthed knitters I hang out with)

Warpy

(111,245 posts)
9. I thought mine was funny and sad
Fri Apr 25, 2014, 03:58 PM
Apr 2014

It was sad because there was somebody cruising around, hoping to be offended and 4 people who agreed to be offended, too.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
11. I sometimes wonder if most people are just hoping to be offended about something.
Fri Apr 25, 2014, 04:16 PM
Apr 2014

Probably.
I'm not going to take it to heart, it just shows how much work we need to do to help them.

I felt it was funny that i was saying that a white man calling the president piece of shit was accepted and cheered, but a black persons words would be scrutinized and judged harsher. Then they proved me right. Somehow i never feel like a winner when i'm right about something.

Warpy

(111,245 posts)
13. Don't forget we're all black words on a white screen
Fri Apr 25, 2014, 04:27 PM
Apr 2014

unless we've done some heavy dinking to our computers. People aren't going to see you as anything but another person here.

I find that refreshing.

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
18. I disagree, quite strongly.
Fri Apr 25, 2014, 06:46 PM
Apr 2014

People will see you as what they know about you, as well as what you write. Some may know few of your posts, some may know many of your posts. Many of the black posters on DU have revealed their race, beliefs, and political leanings, among other things, and other posters know that. Many posters on DU have revealed much about themselves, too.

So, it is quite possible for a jury to react to WHO is posting as much as WHAT they are posting about. I've seen it happen, more than once.

Number23

(24,544 posts)
21. kwassa, I agree with you 100%.
Fri Apr 25, 2014, 07:19 PM
Apr 2014

And often, it's the ones that do the "omg you're BLACK???!" thing that are the main ones that already know and are doing everything they can to run you off the site.

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
26. and it is revealed in the comments on their jury decisions ...
Fri Apr 25, 2014, 08:21 PM
Apr 2014

both spoken and unspoken.

Sometimes through comments reveal their distaste for a particular poster because of their history, not the post in question.

Even more interesting are all those who refuse to reveal their position at all, even when their jury decision on a specific post makes no rational sense. These are the "leave it alone" people on a clearly racist post or position.

This jury system sucks.

JustAnotherGen

(31,810 posts)
27. ITA
Fri Apr 25, 2014, 08:31 PM
Apr 2014

On both of your posts on this thread.

And I'm convinced they don't want us here - after that that dipshit bigot with his Jewish fish post and all of the Internet blow jobs he got - including a big pop from the person who did the cheap spinoff - I'm just saying.

They might not like it - but I see precisely what they are. So I'm just going to keep making fun of them in the margins.

I'm a master at TOS - I know how to stand on the line and I intend to keep doing so.

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
39. We have to stand up to the bullshit.
Fri Apr 25, 2014, 11:20 PM
Apr 2014

The present version of DU is essentially unmoderated. This works both ways.

We can do this.

Number23

(24,544 posts)
42. The posts in this forum prove that although DU is unmoderated, some unmoderated folks
Fri Apr 25, 2014, 11:51 PM
Apr 2014

are more equal than others. And as usual, it ain't us. So I would tread very carefully re: standing up to these folks.

The way things are going, we'd all be much more likely to have our posting privileges revoked (TRULY no great loss there) before we'd change anything around here.

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
44. Consistency in moderation has never been a hallmark of DU.
Fri Apr 25, 2014, 11:58 PM
Apr 2014

even in the better days. Only, it is far worse now.

The new libertarians, basically the selfish self-involved category, seem to be in ascendance around here. They be white, too.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
127. No ...
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 09:58 PM
Apr 2014

they want us here ... In the same way Me and Mrs. !SBM get invited to more dinners and cocktail parties then we could possibly attend,

Sarah Ibarruri

(21,043 posts)
52. Some people lead very, very pathetic lives. Their only power comes from a chance to be on a DU jury
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 12:42 AM
Apr 2014

It makes me realize how lucky I am that at least I have a life and don't have to LIVE for the chance to vote someone down. Hell, I never report anybody.

I think the "reporters" and the down-voters sit home all day, might be somewhat anti-social, hang out at the pro-NRA area of DU, and maybe are Repuke moles who get a DU subscription, then have to control themselves for a hell of a long time until they're finally caught and get busted, and their account goes bye-bye.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
75. I might have to do a jury blacklist.
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 04:31 AM
Apr 2014

That may help i think. Some people take themselves soooo seriously. They are always soapboxin.
Thank you for the insight though, it helps put things into perspective.

Jackpine Radical

(45,274 posts)
230. I agree. It's a god idea if you can identify the "problems."
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 12:24 AM
Dec 2014

I haven't done it myself, but I certainly know a few I would put on the list if I were to do it.

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
216. of course
Thu Dec 18, 2014, 03:27 PM
Dec 2014

and ignore their whining and crying about how fair and balanced they are and , and, and.......just give them back what they dished out is my creed, and I dish it back, most times, like a spoonful of castor oil with lemon flavor.... they realize things hours later usually...

sheshe2

(83,746 posts)
54. I was alerted on Mannys getting laid post.
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 01:00 AM
Apr 2014

I said~

Manny haz a sad.

Well to be honest I said much more...etc etc etc. However that was the one he alerted on.

The big man alerted on me himself. Wanted me off his thread. I got a pass and bravenak.... your alert was bogus. As was the hide.

So sorry, however you kicked ass yesterday. I love you for that!

and~

the me me me's~



Nope they get~

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
64. I believe he alerted me too.
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 02:53 AM
Apr 2014

Poor guy, loves himself dearly. Can't handle getting back what he dishes out.
I'm glad we had a good time together and thank you for making me feel better.

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
165. I think some one else alerted on you, bravenak.
Sun Apr 27, 2014, 10:43 AM
Apr 2014

I could be wrong. Moot point anyway. It was a bad alert whomever alerted and a horrifically bad hide.

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
166. Have to admit, I have been guilty of a couple of those myself.
Sun Apr 27, 2014, 10:45 AM
Apr 2014

Self Delete is one of my favorite features of DU3

Warpy

(111,245 posts)
185. The flame I need to write
Sun Apr 27, 2014, 04:32 PM
Apr 2014

to some jackass who richly deserves one never gets to "post." I've always been able to back out of the thread first.

There will soon come a day, I fear, when that will no longer be the case.

 

giftedgirl77

(4,713 posts)
4. It doesn't look hideable to me but you know as
Fri Apr 25, 2014, 03:33 PM
Apr 2014

well as I do that if you tangle with the wrong group you're bound to get an alert. The problem is this board can be very ignorant with their deeply held beliefs & it is usually difficult to actually explain reality to them.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
8. Yes yes. I know.
Fri Apr 25, 2014, 03:45 PM
Apr 2014

But we have to try to tell them so it doesn't take them by shock when they wake up one day and nobody lets them frame the narrative anymore. I tried.

JustAnotherGen

(31,810 posts)
5. Nope!
Fri Apr 25, 2014, 03:38 PM
Apr 2014

And I read it last night. And the person who 'alerted' is probably the one arguing with you in the thread. Probably never comes back 'here' so got this for ya!

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
7. Thank you for the lovely gif!!
Fri Apr 25, 2014, 03:43 PM
Apr 2014

I love how they proved the point i was making in that discussion for me. Shut up black lady!!! Damn!!
I had planned on leaving it alone anyway.

hedda_foil

(16,372 posts)
15. I think it might be from the film Gung Ho: a 70s - 80s comedy about Japenese business incursion in U
Fri Apr 25, 2014, 06:08 PM
Apr 2014

Imdb says:


Contact the Filmmakers on IMDbPro »
SEE RANK
Gung Ho (1986)
111 min - Comedy | Drama - 14 March 1986 (USA)
6.1 Your rating: -/10 Ratings: 6.1/10 from 7,866 users Metascore: 48/100
Reviews: 40 user | 11 critic | 9 from Metacritic.com
When a Japanese car company buys an American plant, the American liason must mediate the clash of work attitudes between the foreign management and native labor.

Director: Ron Howard
Writers: Edwin Blum (story), Lowell Ganz (story), 3 more credits »
Stars: Michael Keaton, Gedde Watanabe, George Wendt )

More here: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0091159/

It's very funny but presaged the loss of manufacturing jobs to foreign entities.

M0rpheus

(885 posts)
94. Making them is an (mostly automated these days) art. I do a lot of finding.
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 11:06 AM
Apr 2014

Generally, I save them as I find them.

If I'm looking for something specific, a google image search will usually get me in the general area.

There are places that people post what they have liberally and often such as:
Friday GIF party on IO9.com

Keep in mind that there's absolutely nothing wrong with appropriating a gif as long as you are providing the bandwidth to host it once you do. i use picasa to host at the moment.

Loook around. You'd be amazed at what you can find.
Enjoy!



sheshe2

(83,746 posts)
107. Thanks Mo, I will check out those links~
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 06:13 PM
Apr 2014

Oh and a special thank you for that first gif of Antonio Banderas, be still my heart~

Number23

(24,544 posts)
16. One thing I have learned is that certain posters here can call the president the most vile names
Fri Apr 25, 2014, 06:27 PM
Apr 2014

or openly mock black people or women, but God help ANYONE that dares to call them out on their shit.

And you hit both of those sacred cows (WP and MG) in that one post. It didn't matter that your post was not nasty or hostile in any way. And it sure as shit doesn't matter that every word you said was the truth.

Crap like this is just one more reason that I truly don't understand why I'm here.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
31. I think it was a good thing because they know we know.
Fri Apr 25, 2014, 09:42 PM
Apr 2014

I know what happened. The person who likes to shady make fun of black people did not like what i said and his followers followed.

I try my best to be clear with my meaning. I'm glad i let them know how i felt.

Number23

(24,544 posts)
43. And that thread also allows us to see who our friends are as well as the haters
Fri Apr 25, 2014, 11:57 PM
Apr 2014

HoF members and Obama supporters tend to be the ones that have our backs, loudly and consistently. Speaks volumes about our friends here and even louder about our detractors who also, SHOCKINGLY, seem to be some of the president's loudest ones as well.

Again, I'm sure that's just a coincidence. It's gotta be. Yeah.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
45. I noticed that the best of people, even though they didn't KNOW what was up, were cool as hell.
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 12:10 AM
Apr 2014

They just rolled with it and had some fun. The worst ones thought there was some mystery that somehow involved them personally. Hats off to hof, cool people, and those who know how to have a good time.

I want to thank 1SBM for doing that, what he did there. Really opened my eyes up to reality. That is a thread for the ages. He played 12th dimensional chess right there.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
149. You're making me blush ...
Sun Apr 27, 2014, 08:49 AM
Apr 2014

But yes ... that was my planned intent, not so much to identify "friends" versus "foe"; but rather, to hold up a mirror to DU so that every one willing could see PoC's, and other "minority" groups', chief grievance with DU ... an overwhelming sense of entitlement of certain DUers (accurately described by Kwassa's "ascendant group" comment above) that would have them free to intrude on others, who they believe (by word or deed) are "lesser than."

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
150. So you are saying/have observed ...
Sun Apr 27, 2014, 08:53 AM
Apr 2014

that those that, other out a doubt, make up the Democratic base (that includes Black folks) are less hostile to Black folks than those here that claim to be THE Democratic base?

Hmmm ... Let me think about that ...

Number23

(24,544 posts)
20. I have to give serious props to 1SBM. That thread exposed the haters MUCH better than whatever
Fri Apr 25, 2014, 07:17 PM
Apr 2014

he was originally planning to post. Or maybe this whole thing has been him playing some 9 dimensional Obama-esque chess and this was the original plan all along???

The haters didn't walk, shit they RAN to out themselves. I think that the person you were talking about in your post was the one that got your post hidden because they made a late appearance in the thread.

What really pisses me of is that someone openly and flat out accused 1SBM of trolling and that post was allowed to stand. Your post telling folks to stop taking all of this so seriously and getting so bent out of shape was hidden. It's unreal.

And I'm sure it's a coincidence of the highest order that the person who accused 1SBM of sitting in his basement trolling is the same one that accused me of not caring about black people. http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1187&pid=5013 I'm sure that's just a coincidence. Really.

JustAnotherGen

(31,810 posts)
24. Oh god what a trip down memory lane
Fri Apr 25, 2014, 08:16 PM
Apr 2014
Anything else I write in regards to "that one" will cause panty bunching, short sheeting, an alert and a hide.

Honestly - I'm just gonna wait until November 5th.

At that point - all the debates will be one.
 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
32. I feel like certain people embarrassed themselves.
Fri Apr 25, 2014, 09:45 PM
Apr 2014

They really think we can't see through their shit. They can handle praise, but criticism makes them act like the tea party.

Squinch

(50,949 posts)
137. I know. I did come late, but the thread was awesome.
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 10:32 PM
Apr 2014

Now, I see you saying you are going to be a bit quiet for a while. Just make sure it isn't for too long!

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
144. Best thing since the moon bombing.
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 11:14 PM
Apr 2014

By quiet i mean, normal. By normal, i mean staying in my designated zonage. Since i am not a prolific poster anyway. Too many books to read on my kindle. And its bbq season, lets not forget. Alaska is getting more sunlight by the day and midnight bbq's start in may. I should take pictures soon. Oh, and i'm trying to get on the cotton picking crew so i don't have to send my sons to jail this summer to keep them from sitting on the porch. Or my aborted daughters from having any more abortions. My ghost children will be so happy i'm picking cotton this year not just sitting around getting my subsidy with nothing to do.
We need an AA/Hof picture thread soon. Gotta see you all.

Squinch

(50,949 posts)
148. Well... You could do all those things to prove your worthiness, or you could just steal
Sun Apr 27, 2014, 08:45 AM
Apr 2014

millions of dollars in grazing fees for dozens of years, and then make terrorist statements to the media. Then people will think you are just peachy, too.

I wonder what would happen if you planted cotton on the grazing lands and then picked it... Heads would explode!

Enjoy that sunlight!

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
152. Well ...
Sun Apr 27, 2014, 09:05 AM
Apr 2014

To be honest, I have to say that "that thread" was more effective in pointing out what the original thread's message; but the resulting thread, was more effective because they ouited themselves.

Jamaal510

(10,893 posts)
22. I don't see
Fri Apr 25, 2014, 07:31 PM
Apr 2014

anything in your post that is against the rules. Obviously not everyone on here is who they claim to be (Democrats and liberals). I've seen people get posts hidden on here who call Ed Snowden names, in addition to having posts allowed that call Obama names (e.g. "sellout", "POS car salesman", "fascist", "authoritarian", etc.).

Even I was unlucky and had my first two posts hidden two months ago. One was a video on YouTube titled "Criminals Gone Wild", and a few people claimed it was "racist", yet I showed it to some other regulars of the AA group here, and nobody really had a problem with it! Some here have touched on this, but it's like people dictating to others what is offensive and what isn't.

The DU jury system works in strange ways. With some of the comments being alerted on, it's basically a matter of lucking out and not having a bunch of hyper-sensitive people or trolls working the jury (and not having people on there who may personally dislike you).

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
35. I like how i pointed out in that thread that black people get judged harsher.
Fri Apr 25, 2014, 10:04 PM
Apr 2014

Then i was convicted. For saying that.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
153. Which is ...
Sun Apr 27, 2014, 09:20 AM
Apr 2014
Some here have touched on this, but it's like people dictating to others what is offensive and what isn't.


Particularly offensive when it is a white person telling a Black person (or, a male telling a female) what is racist (misogynistic) or not.

M0rpheus

(885 posts)
23. So I finally found the post...
Fri Apr 25, 2014, 07:57 PM
Apr 2014

*that was a really good nap!

I didn't find not a thing worth hiding that post.

Sometimes, all you can do is just throw your hands up and let it go.

JustAnotherGen

(31,810 posts)
25. I wish you had been around
Fri Apr 25, 2014, 08:19 PM
Apr 2014

For the cheap two bit dimestore "spinoff" of 1Strongs thread.

All they had was craptastic static pictures of cats - which I'm allergic to. It needed some Chappelle and well that gif you did right there. Oh - and go look for an op by seabeyond in HOF.

She's loving this shit and I'm telling You - the woman gets it.

M0rpheus

(885 posts)
33. I didn't miss the knockoff thread.
Fri Apr 25, 2014, 09:59 PM
Apr 2014

I saw what I needed to see and did the very thing those other people won't do, I opted out because I had nothing nice to say.


I love it when people I like "get it". I don't poke my head into HOF often, but I like a lot of what I see over there.

Number23

(24,544 posts)
47. I didn't even know there was a knock off thread until you guys mentioned it
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 12:17 AM
Apr 2014

I just saw it. LORD that was some hot, corny, unfunny, unclever mess. That thread was a big old bowl of stale corn flakes. Of three week old popcorn that they give you at the movie theater in the bad part of town that gives you the runs.

The ONLY and I mean the ONLY thing even remotely funny about that thread is that the eternally bigoted and obnoxious OP who has fooled NO ONE and never has for so long that I truly don't even understand why he still posts here got a post hidden for talking about what he thinks is "their" (meaning black poster's here) shtick.

So he created a big pile of shit and was the only one that fell in it. It's like when conservatives tried to do their own version of the Daily Show. Stupid. Tone deaf. As funny as intestinal parasites and the four minutes it lasted were still way too long.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
154. Wow ...
Sun Apr 27, 2014, 09:29 AM
Apr 2014

if "first they ignore you; then they laugh at you; then they fight you; then you win", is the true life cycle of social struggle, then we're on our way ... and oh, yeah, they still get it wrong: they got the ignored part right, but they fought before they tried to laugh.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
34. Some people, eh?
Fri Apr 25, 2014, 10:03 PM
Apr 2014

You can't save everyone. Someone was trying to send us to the underground email road, because you know, we are so rude and arrogant. Yes the word was arrogant. Better than uppity, but still....

JustAnotherGen

(31,810 posts)
84. Go read 1Strongs thread again
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 07:42 AM
Apr 2014

M0rpheus and I had soooooo much fun with gifs on that - I've even got Robert Dowey Jr making lovey eyes on it!

JEFF9K

(1,935 posts)
29. Hidden posts ...
Fri Apr 25, 2014, 09:13 PM
Apr 2014

Reasons that I have been hidden:

1) questioning blind advocacy of drug legalization

2) hinting at the existence of overweight people

3) saying anything that may be illogically misconstrued by 0.00000000000001% of feminists.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
36. You said what about drugs?
Fri Apr 25, 2014, 10:08 PM
Apr 2014

Silence!! You know thats the end all be all around here. Most important thing besides the nsa.
I noticed that many place weed legalization above income inequality. I find it bizarre.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
38. Ok.
Fri Apr 25, 2014, 11:09 PM
Apr 2014

You know they will try to destroy your soul and question if you are a liberal, right? Stay strong.

JEFF9K

(1,935 posts)
135. I think that a real Democrat will be open-minded ...
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 10:25 PM
Apr 2014

... and wait for the experiment in Colorado to play out. My thread will be about my belief that the closed-minded, vicious people on the drug threads aren't real Democrats and shouldn't be allowed to post.

I plan to put up the thread at about 7:00 Eastern Standard time. Because of the content, there is a good chance it will be taken down. If you want to watch for it, the title will be "R.I.N.O.s ... D.I.N.O.s..... and ..."

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
143. Then we should welcome the discussion.
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 11:07 PM
Apr 2014

I will be reading along and if if feel my input is needed i will post on yr thread. Make sure to be careful of your wording, i want to see wht people think without it getting locked. I have strange views on drug legalization. I'm one of the few who do not believe more people will do drugs if legalized and that the taxes are better spent on treatment centers than for jails. But i'm crazy, never forget that.

lunasun

(21,646 posts)
40. I read that last night and the only thing offensive was having to be reminded of some posts here in
Fri Apr 25, 2014, 11:30 PM
Apr 2014

the past denying outright racist mock lunch menus and that smug counter OP fest
but that is my problem.

Your comment ? no and thanks for asking




 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
41. Thank you for your answer and your art contribution.
Fri Apr 25, 2014, 11:45 PM
Apr 2014

Sorry we had to bring up the past, i hated that mock lunch thing too.
Sound like your problem resembles my problem.
I love that gif.

 

MannyGoldstein

(34,589 posts)
51. Perhaps you shouldn't accuse someone of racist actions
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 12:39 AM
Apr 2014

Without presenting evidence and a really good argument as to why that evidence constitutes racism.

That's an awful accusation.

sheshe2

(83,746 posts)
56. The written word speaks volumes Manny!
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 01:19 AM
Apr 2014

You know that and we know that! Some can even read between the lines~

sheshe2

(83,746 posts)
61. BTW Manny...
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 02:18 AM
Apr 2014

Why is it that some posters seem to never respond to their own posts... Hmmm let me think a moment on those that hit and run! Oh my gosh! I think I got it!

Yet seem to have a lot to say here. As did another the other night ...on a different thread.

BTW...remember you are posting in AA. It is a group and not a forum!

And never ever underestimate the power of a woman.



Not ever!



UtahLib

(3,179 posts)
58. And
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 01:44 AM
Apr 2014

some people are much more transparent than they realize, and playing obtuse doesn't quite fly.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
156. But part of the entitlement is ...
Sun Apr 27, 2014, 09:45 AM
Apr 2014

being told by society that you are "smart" whereas, "the other" is stupid.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
62. You need to know that you are transparent.
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 02:49 AM
Apr 2014

I saw what you did. You should feel some shame, but all you feel is indignation at being figured out. You like to ridicule AA's with your gefilte (sp) fish post, and expect none of us to comment upon the bigoty mocking we received from you. We see you Manny. It wasn't funny, i found it racist. If it wasn't a mocking thread aimed at AA duers, then explain yourself. You didn't care that you hurt us then, but now we should care what you think? We get enough of that stuff in this country, secret codes aimed against us. You act like you want me to thank you for keeping it going. For being sneakier. No thanks manny. Apologize and i'll leave it alone. Otherwise it is fair game as long as you stand your ground and defend what you did there.

Number23

(24,544 posts)
71. Bravenak, the condescending mockery started a long time before the gefilte fish post
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 04:07 AM
Apr 2014

That was one in a long line of shit stirring and provocation.

One post from that person about six months or so ago went on and on and on about how horrible things are now (with Obama in office, of course) and if only we could just get back to FDR and the good old days. 2/3 of their posts are pining for the Good Old Days. When a couple of black posters reminded him that for us, the closest we've ever seen to the good old days is right now, he did his typical "what? Who me?" and hid behind his clueless fans who back then were of considerably higher numbers.

You're wrong if you think that the watermelon and fried chicken/gefilte fish was the beginning.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
73. I think i need to go back and take a closer look.
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 04:20 AM
Apr 2014

I wonder why he hasn't responded to me? I purposly rarely read what he writes and could never understand the popularity. I never will understand how the fish one got any recs. so fake funny.

And thank you for reminding me how stupid i think the fdr nostalgia is. Like i wanna go back and be some white folkses maid (getting raped) while my sons be lynched for eyeing a white girl. Maybe my man could get a job after the white men got theirs. Or he could be in the segregated military. Or fuck it. We'd just pick cotton so we could really suceed.

At least we do not see the BAR here anymore.

JustAnotherGen

(31,810 posts)
213. This is what we were talking about on December 10th 2014
Tue Dec 16, 2014, 09:29 AM
Dec 2014

You acknowledged it in this thread. I was like - huh? I know Manny knows what this is about. You even had Skinner come in here and back you up. He doesn't back up anyone - so that was pretty significant.


http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=5937790





MADem

(135,425 posts)
53. You already know how I feel about it...
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 12:54 AM
Apr 2014

I think it was a bogus hide.

Do they send you the jury comments when they tell you that your post is hidden?

I'm curious as to how they justified that. I'd also be interested to know what the alerter said, how he shaded the justification.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
65. I forgot you might need to see that.
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 03:01 AM
Apr 2014

Well here it goes. Lets play guess the alerter!

Accusing another member of being racist, with no basis in fact. Refuses to point out where the racism is (#354). It's an ugly accusation against someone who has never been known to make racist posts.

JURY RESULTS

A randomly-selected Jury of DU members completed their review of this alert at Fri Apr 25, 2014, 05:47 AM, and voted 5-2 to HIDE IT.

Juror #1 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: agreed about calling someone a racist, though the whole thread is an absurd joke..
Juror #2 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: While I find all the drama over Will Pitt after a month to be a lot of overblown whining at this point, I don't see bravenak as saying rrneck is racist, but pointing out a double standard on DU: if you are a member of an oppressed group, your posts and OPs are usually held to a higher level of scrutiny and criticism. That is what she is pointing out.
Juror #3 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: over the top attack against a member
Juror #4 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #5 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #6 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #7 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: No explanation given

CONSEQUENCES OF THIS DECISION

You will no longer be able to participate in this discussion thread, and you will not be able to start a new discussion thread in this forum until 6:47 AM. This hidden post has been added to your <a href="/?com=profile&uid=300456&sub=trans">Transparency page</a>.

IMPORTANT: Hidden posts remain on your Transparency Page for 90 days. If at any time your Transparency Page contains five or more hidden posts there are additional consequences: 1) your Transparency Page will be displayed and can be read by any logged-in member, 2) you will be unable to post until there are fewer than five hidden posts remaining on your Transparency Page, 3) if you are a forum or group Host and/or serving on the Malicious Intruder Removal Team (MIRT), you will lose those privileges.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
66. I think what's RUDE is when people hit the HIDE button on a jury and won't say why.
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 03:17 AM
Apr 2014

Un-frigging-believable. The alerter crafted a strawman, and people who didn't read the thread went along with it. You never accused anyone of being a racist.

You could alert on the email and call the whole mess to the attention of the admins. They won't do anything about the alert or hide, but it will put the alerter--whosoever he or she might be -- on their radar. The admins can see who alerted; they know and have a fuller picture than we do.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
67. I think i'm fine with it standing as it is.
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 03:30 AM
Apr 2014

Anybody reading it can clearly see that i'm so awesome that some dude wanted to shut me up. I got off lightly compared to what Seabeyond has to deal with.
I'm sure the alerter is very proud and small and strange. I should thank them really. I hope everybody gets to see my post and decide for themselves what to think.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
68. They never would undo a hide anyway.
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 03:57 AM
Apr 2014

It just helps them down the road, when their bullshit meters get pegged, if they have an awareness of who is acting in good faith, and who is playing games. Though I'll bet they saw that thread--it was a page clicker, and page clickers are money makers in the Internet World.

That alert was just a bridge too far, IMO, and it was all about shutting you up and shutting you out of that thread.

That playing field we were talking about, though, it's a little bit more level up in here!

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
70. I knew not to post this in gd. The horror!!!
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 04:06 AM
Apr 2014

Some people think they are so much smarter than the rest of us and it upsets their flow to realize that it is the opposite. they gotta shut that whole thing down!!
It was a stupid alert and a stupid hide. But i think thats normal. I always look at hidden posts and alot of them are stupid. There shoud be a review process so that groups don't gang up on people they don't like just for not kissing ass.
I was having so much fun too. I had planned to find some good gifs. Oh well.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
79. We can always keep giffing up in here!
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 05:12 AM
Apr 2014

Probably a better venue here, anyway!! Start up our OWN Gif Dance Party!!



Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
118. bad alert / bad hide
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 08:52 PM
Apr 2014

I have a few of my own. I have my own guess as to who alerted.
Sometimes you have to take a hit for the team.

It was a great thread.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
120. I like how you expressed that.
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 09:15 PM
Apr 2014

Yes, taking one for the team is something i do not mind. I loved that thread. I know why they wanted me gone. I am too much fun!

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
157. That thread was a lot of fun and I really did not understand the alert or the hide.
Sun Apr 27, 2014, 09:50 AM
Apr 2014

You were respectful in tone and the substance was quality.

Meh. It happens. I have four hides myself right now.

20% chance of Jury Duty ... I think they want me Out of the Jury Pool

Although, I never alert (well, rarely alert ,,, haven't alerted in months) and I rarely hide.

I have no blacklist. I go commando in this joint

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
74. WTF??
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 04:25 AM
Apr 2014

I really do not see what you did wrong there. Am i blind?? Help!!
I feel like Hellen Keller.

Oh, i see. You were not praising he who must not be named. Can't let that stand. I now know from experience not to say anything about that special guy.

The jury should be embarrassed.

Number23

(24,544 posts)
76. "he who must not be named.
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 04:33 AM
Apr 2014

The Voldemort of DU, huh??

I like it.

Too bad there was no scenes/images of Voldy at a computer. That would have been perfect.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
77. Such a creepy pic!!!
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 04:41 AM
Apr 2014

We need one of him at at computer with some flying monkeys to make it funnier. I wish i had a skillset for that.

Btw, did you ever recieve your du approval to be American, and discuss healthcare, even though you were born here and pay taxes?? That tripped me out yo. I loved the i have truely arrived thread. Good one.


MADem

(135,425 posts)
78. It's astounding, isn't it?
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 04:51 AM
Apr 2014

So much sensitivity when their ox is being gored...and none whatsoever to anyone outside their clique. I remember that thread, that was around the time when I'd decided I'd had enough, too!

I thought that post was hilarious--fair play, certainly. And it wasn't a personal attack, it was a warning to another DUer! I guess the only people who might be offended would be those who secretly knew they were a flying monkey, and were fronting like they weren't one, or something!!

Skinner

(63,645 posts)
85. That would have been deleted on DU2 also.
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 08:04 AM
Apr 2014

You called someone a racist, and implied that another member is a racist.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
86. No.
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 08:22 AM
Apr 2014

I called the op about the fish racist, not him.
I implyed that the other person was judging 1sbm, calling him rude, arrogant, childish, while not noticing much worse things by others. He said in fact, that this was the first time he noticed anything like that. Which i questioned and did not believe.

I do not mind that it was hidden. At all.

Skinner

(63,645 posts)
88. I don't know what the op about the fish is.
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 08:42 AM
Apr 2014

But your post clearly calls MannyGoldstein racist. And the implication of your post is that rrneck is also racist because he did not respond to MannyGoldstein.

You could certainly try to argue that you only called Manny's OP racist, but did not call Manny racist. But that is kind of like arguing that Cliven Bundy isn't racist, he just said some racist stuff. You can't really separate the person from the comments.

For the record, I am not going to argue whether or not I think your accusation was fair. My point is that the jurors had a reason to decide the way they did. Indeed, I can see the names of the jurors who voted to hide your post and I promise you that they are not all people who are sympathetic to MannyGoldstein's politics, nor are they clueless people.

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
92. In my personal opinion, Manny ...
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 10:35 AM
Apr 2014

plays this passive-aggressive game where he behaves in an offensive manner, and then pretends he is only joking, and that he should be left off the hook just for that. And, he has lots of friends who support this behavior.

I also took the gefilte fish OP as offensive mockery. And borderline racist, IMHO.

Just my opinion.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
126. The only person with issues that are "important" is Manny, you see.
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 09:54 PM
Apr 2014

Everyone else can be dismissed, or mocked, or they're "taking it too seriously." Because Manny is just a Big Kidder, and he's so....satirical, and "clever," and oh, doesn't he have a ...way with words... or something. It doesn't resonate with me.

It doesn't quite rise to trolling, but it does rise to "rude, hurtful, disruptive, etc." for a small group of people...who aren't a big enough "critical mass" to wind up on a jury all at the same time to express their displeasure.

That's why the passive-aggressive "game" goes on, but the game isn't funny and it isn't fun, either. It makes DU suck, as the saying goes.

The only thing to do is point it out...it might not do any good (and clearly, it hasn't thus far) but at least maybe it won't be IGNORED quite so readily.

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
131. It is about dishonesty. Also, narcissism.
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 10:14 PM
Apr 2014

Manny, in my opinion, is all about Manny. If he hasn't personally experienced it, it can't be true. This is not unusual.

This is the error many people make. If it hasn't happened to them, it can't be true.

Almost all of human experience happens outside the realm of the individual experience any one of us, but most don't think that. No matter how empathetic any white person is, or how actually knowledgeable any white person is, they can't actually have the experience of being black in America. The white people must actually learn to accept the perception of those who are black as actually being true.

That is all.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
158. And this truth ...
Sun Apr 27, 2014, 09:57 AM
Apr 2014
The white people must actually learn to accept the perception of those who are black as actually being true.


Is most resisted in white "Liberal/Progressive" circles because, then, it is suddenly, not about them!

boston bean

(36,221 posts)
93. Obviously you see no issue with racism or sexism on DU.
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 11:02 AM
Apr 2014

So sad. You leave the minorities on this board to fend for themselves, then decide that it's them who need to be spoken too about how wrong they are.

Sad is what it is.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
159. Well ...
Sun Apr 27, 2014, 10:01 AM
Apr 2014

if she hadn'tve gotten herself drunk/high and dressed like a hooker ...

Oh wait ... wrong topic. (The method of dealing with complaining about the original offense confused me.)

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
96. You read it though and have no idea what it was.
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 12:21 PM
Apr 2014

Ask around and you will see. It was what i said it was. I have no need to make things up. The reason i posted this in AA was because everybody in AA knows what i'm talking about.


He was making fun of black people complaining about a school serving fried chicken and watermelon lunches. That we would decide for ourselves what 'soul food' was. That was his response during black history month. To make fun of all of us. Thats why most of us knew what he was doing. Sorry you will not believe me. I personally do not think that saying something is racist is worse than doing something racist.

 

MannyGoldstein

(34,589 posts)
98. This probably won't help, but just in case...
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 01:25 PM
Apr 2014

Last edited Mon Apr 28, 2014, 12:12 AM - Edit history (1)

Here's a post from a while back, http://www.democraticunderground.com/10024478358 I've added this link to the infamous "gefilte fish" post.

There's a difference between insensitivity and racism. I'll freely admit to being stupid at times, but hopefully not racist.

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
112. Insensitivity can be caused by ignorance, which can then be racism.
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 06:55 PM
Apr 2014

All racism is ignorance, attitudes passed along without any real factual knowledge. Repeating the ignorance as if it is knowledge is, of course, racist, even if racist without intent to be so. Intent is not required to be factually racist.

The speaker of this ignorance needs to educate themself through listening to those offended.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
130. Your link goes nowhere.
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 10:06 PM
Apr 2014
Not Found

The requested URL /10024478358. was not found on this server.
Apache/1.3.34 Server at www.democraticunderground.com Port 80


Racism IS insensitivity. It's not just George Wallace with an ax handle, or that idiot with the American flag and the horse...not all "racism" is wrapped up in vicious, spitting and obvious hatred, replete with the "N" word. Sometimes, as the song says, it's carefully taught. And when ya get 'em young, all that racism stuff, why...it becomes part of the landscape. Nothing but a thing, doncha know...



If you are insensitive to the feelings of others when you talk about issues of race, that's racism. If you're insensitive to the feelings of others when you talk about issues of gender, that's sexism.

This isn't rocket science--why are you naively pretending it is? Oh, silly ole me...I'm just stupid, b'gosh! Silly me...I won't do it again!! But then, it DOES happen again....and again....and again.

Your "schtick" is getting old. It's not funny, and it's hurtful.

You should check yourself.
 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
139. The racially offensive schtick is very old and doesn't belong here.
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 10:54 PM
Apr 2014

You guys are right to call it out. Some posters make a mockery of this place with their daily rat fucking. Not shocked they think racism and sexism are "special interests" that do not deserve respectful discussion. It's pretty damned transparent.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
140. I am just sick and tired of people being "sensitive" to criticism of their INSENSITIVITY.
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 11:01 PM
Apr 2014

And that's probably as polite as I can manage to say it!

I really do think this is a thing that is making DU suck. When I see something, I'm gonna say something. I've had enough.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
142. Exactly right. It's like they want a pat on the back for tolerating us.
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 11:04 PM
Apr 2014

And my feeling is fuck you guys- we are turning up and winning these races. With little help from you jerks on soapboxes. Fuck that.

JustAnotherGen

(31,810 posts)
99. This is the OP
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 01:32 PM
Apr 2014

By the magical mythical Manny-

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10024472335

Skinner - I founded a community years ago - I stepped down from it entirely a few months ago as I'm no longer in step and haven't been for many years. You want tension? Try mixing second wives up whose marriages started with affairs with second wives who were first wives whose marriages ended due to their ex husband's affair. Try managing do not admit lists (extensive due to the nature of child custody cases), any posts related to political or social commentary (tried that board epic fail), and Mormons mixing with Atheists.

I'm sharing this because I understand the ebb and flow of online communities. There are STILL people out there and mad because I gave them the boot years ago. One thing I've learned - cliques form.

My feeling is either don't read someone's posts or put them on ignore. Take what you need and leave the rest.

After that thread by Manny - I decided not to read him anymore. I tried as did many of your other African American members - but we all decided his passive aggressive apology was a load of bullshit.

Now the thread I linked was done by him to mock and laugh at the very real stereotyping of black folks as fried chicken and water melon eating "porch monkeys". MrScorpio had a thread showing why a school was wrong - then Manny - always the peacock had to post that shit.

It's always "I'm so sorry no offense from him." I almost married a guy like that years ago and thank God I had the common sense to tread for daylight. I have very little tolerance for nonsense.

That thread was the nail in the coffin for him for MANY black members of DU and those non black members who saw what he did there. He did that. He did it to himself.

And he's free to do that. But the reality is that we DO "speak" entirely off this site and in the margins he is referred to as a bigot. On a go forward basis - we will keep it off site - but if he is going to behave like a cry baby and come into the AA group when most of us just pass over his posts in GD - it's going to cause discord.

He just had to deliver that punch on this thread didn't he? He can't leave well enough alone.

I'm just being honest with you. You can't make us have one iota of respect for someone who has ZERO respect for our voices - and well . . . Our votes.

Number23

(24,544 posts)
108. "You can't make us have one iota of respect for someone who has ZERO respect for our voices"
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 06:35 PM
Apr 2014

And at the end of the day, you have summed up the entire crux of the problem in one perfect sentence.

I went and found the OP's longing for the Good Old Days post that did it for me. By the time he'd posted this, I'd long since found him tedious and disruptive, but this was the thread that did it for me.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10024013403

The "It Getters" as Bobbie Jo calls herself and I love that phrase, are in that thread. Bobbie Jo, frazzled, Raine, J17 and more than a few others tried to get the OP to see how blind and offensive he was being but to no avail. Look at the recs, JAG.

I don't normally respond to this person or even post that often in his OP's but I damn sure did in that one. http://www.democraticunderground.com/10024013403#post28

And his responses were exactly as dismissive, uninterested and blithely uncaring as I would expect from an "Ivy League" educated "former" Republican. Or the responses he was allowed to give before his loud mouthed and even wronger self-appointed bodyguards jumped in were.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
161. Great words of advice; but ...
Sun Apr 27, 2014, 10:22 AM
Apr 2014

you're missing the factor, that will make/have your words ignored ... For white liberals, being CALLED, or thought of as, a racist, is far worst the actually DOING something racist!

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
171. being CALLED, or thought of as, a racist, is far worst the actually DOING something racist!
Sun Apr 27, 2014, 11:11 AM
Apr 2014

that is the reality for whatever messed up reason.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
174. The reason is simple ...
Sun Apr 27, 2014, 11:24 AM
Apr 2014

the white liberal, in his/her mind, is incapable of doing something racist ... which they limit to: uttering the N-word (except that time when that Black person made them really, really angry) or participating in lynchings, or other harmful acts, done for racial reasons.

So unless they do/have done those terrible things, they can't be racists ... even when they do stuff that others consider racist.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
176. i got sucked into the maher thread. a white hetero man being cheered almost exclusively by white
Sun Apr 27, 2014, 11:35 AM
Apr 2014

hetero men, whining that they get called out saying racist, sexist, homophobic slurs and they do not want blacks, women and gays to challenge their right using slurs.

a whole thread of almost exclusively white hetero men applauding a white hetero man.

i am racist/sexist cause i am pointing out the many white hetero men applauding maher, almost exclusively. and for ME, that would be a light bulb moment. or a wake up call. or a nudge into enlightenment.

but nah. nada. empty. nothing.

lmfao

totally blows me away.

JustAnotherGen

(31,810 posts)
179. I just saw this past Friday's
Sun Apr 27, 2014, 01:39 PM
Apr 2014

Episode of Bill Maher - the same one at the top of the show he ran the SCOTUS over the coals for their Affirmative Action decision, discussed ageism towards women, disparities in education and questioned why the two unarmed "new black panthers" at the polling place in 2008 were scarier than the sniper on the bridge protecting Bundy.

In context - that op in GD makes no fucking sense. See if you can catch it online - the content of the op is snotty and makes me want to register Republican come 2016 just to flip the bird at the Warren / Sandrs crowd. Snotty begets snotty.

M0rpheus

(885 posts)
181. You know, I was beginning to think it was just me...
Sun Apr 27, 2014, 02:04 PM
Apr 2014

noting the big Warren banners from certain posters.

Im finding myself feeling some kind of way when I see that banner now.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
182. I regard a lot of that as "performance art."
Sun Apr 27, 2014, 02:36 PM
Apr 2014

Some who use that banner, I believe, think it's like waving a flag in front of a bull--it's not about support, necessarily, it's about goading and baiting. Particularly when the putative candidate has made it clear as new glass that she's finishing her term, she has no national network, no "on the ground" strategy...and she goes HOME to her own state most weekends. No forays to Iowa, or NH, or Chicago, or the west coast.

Some would go so far as to call that whole banner waving business "trolling from the left." I'm not prepared to say that's the case, necessarily, but I do know that this kind of thing does happen--the Paulbots excel at it.

Funny how support for outsider, way left of mainstream candidates (or ones who are wrongly/falsely PERCEIVED that way) often--not always, mind (because you know someone will start whining, and if the shoe doesn't fit they should not wear it) -- is rather strangely accompanied by a dislike for attitudes they regard as "PC." Yeah, we're far left, but we don't acknowledge cultural, racial or gender-based sensitivities! There's also an enthusiasm for many POVs that the Paulbots hold near and dear, and a general unwillingness to acknowledge that people who say they are hurt or insulted have a point.

Majority rules, and if you're not in the majority, well...a big letter six of the alphabet to you!!!

M0rpheus

(885 posts)
183. this. This. THIS!
Sun Apr 27, 2014, 02:49 PM
Apr 2014
Funny how support for outsider, way left of mainstream candidates (or ones who are wrongly/falsely PERCEIVED that way) often--not always, mind (because you know someone will start whining, and if the shoe doesn't fit they should not wear it) -- is rather strangely accompanied by a dislike for attitudes they regard as "PC." Yeah, we're far left, but we don't acknowledge cultural, racial or gender-based sensitivities! There's also an enthusiasm for many POVs that the Paulbots hold near and dear, and a general unwillingness to acknowledge that people who say they are hurt or insulted have a point.


Is exactly what I see. Thank you for spelling it out, cause I didn't feel I could verbalize it as I see it.

M0rpheus

(885 posts)
186. Looks like that title is sticking. I'll take it.
Sun Apr 27, 2014, 04:42 PM
Apr 2014

My detailed thoughts just never seem to make it to the page due to self-censoring. That's why my posts are generally so short and all the gifs.

I'm always ready to give credit where it's due though. Cheers!

Dorian Gray

(13,491 posts)
211. I think this is a good point
Tue Dec 16, 2014, 06:54 AM
Dec 2014

(I am a white female, by the way... just to let you know where I'm coming from.) Prejudices and bigotry can be ingrained in societies/families/communities. It's why we need to be open and listen to other people all the time. Dismissing them when they tell us something as being too sensitive is really an asshole thing to do.

Life is our chance to work to be better (or worse people). If someone is going to hold his hands over his ears and scream LALALALALA, there isn't much we can do.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
212. Well ....
Tue Dec 16, 2014, 08:40 AM
Dec 2014
Life is our chance to work to be better (or worse people). If someone is going to hold his hands over his ears and scream LALALALALA, there isn't much we can do.


PoC know this ... yet we try anyway. But, read this:

http://www.democraticunderground.com/118710497

and more, this:

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=5954753

And then this:

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10025944287

Dorian Gray

(13,491 posts)
214. The second article was interesting and
Tue Dec 16, 2014, 03:59 PM
Dec 2014

indicative of a problem.

I think that lots of organizers are jumping in on these protests bc they are disaffected with society as a rule. But this particular movement should be led by black voices who rightfully want change in the way police approach and address people in black communities. I think white people should stand next to their peers and march, but let the voices speaking and leading should be black voices. (I do think NYC is doing this pretty well so far. Other areas seem a little more up in the air.)

This is a civil rights thing and I don't like to see people pushing others out or using this movement to put forward their own agenda.

Number23

(24,544 posts)
243. Damn, why do y'all KEEP KICKING THIS THREAD??!
Thu Dec 25, 2014, 08:30 PM
Dec 2014

I just went back and re-read all of those OPs, especially this one - http://www.democraticunderground.com/10024013403

and just got MAD AS SH*T all over again!!

Though it is beyond comforting that the subject of all of this misery isn't NEARLY as beloved in GD as he once was, the fact that he is still here and shit stirring more than ever just makes me

JustAnotherGen

(31,810 posts)
244. Well he flat out denied it
Fri Dec 26, 2014, 08:41 AM
Dec 2014

About a week and a half ago so I just thought since people were looking for links. Ahhhh - alas - I will be called a racist if I say anything more and Admin won't admonish and chastise the people go say it/write it.

See Number23 - it's only okay to call black people racist and bigots at DU. We have our boots on the necks of white Americans - doncha know?

JustAnotherGen

(31,810 posts)
101. This is the smug
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 02:28 PM
Apr 2014

I put you in your place non apology:

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10024478358


ETA: he notes years ago Republicans on that thread. He should know - I heard a rumor and asked him directly. Believe he voted for Reagan. The Reagan that got elected after his 1976 speech in Mississippi. You know - the guy that started that wave of The Help as Welfare Queens.

Squinch

(50,949 posts)
103. It is interesting to see which topics you choose to weigh in on, and how you weigh in on them.
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 04:06 PM
Apr 2014

Versions of this conflict have arisen on all kinds of topics, where someone says, "You said something that offended me and I am calling you out on it." Sometimes people are hidden and sometimes not, and you never weigh in.

But it appears to be important to you to instruct Bravenak about the error of her ways in calling out an offensive post. Essentially, you say, "I choose not to acquaint myself with the offensive fish post that sparked this, but clearly you called Manny a racist."

Which, by the way, she didn't. Saying he wrote a racist post is NOT the same as calling him a racist.

Number23

(24,544 posts)
105. Spot on brilliant post. And once again, the people of color get told that not only do we not know
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 06:02 PM
Apr 2014

what is and is not racist, but that CALLING something racist is so much significantly worse than actually BEING or doing racist things. This is a lesson we've learned a million different times in a million different ways. I have no idea why Skinner felt the need to remind us as if we'd ever forget.

And I don't care who says what, there is nothing that anyone could say to convince me that the fish post was not a deliberate poke in the eye to the few minority posters that remain here. It is entirely consistent with so many of that person's posts and the folks yukking it up in the thread also have antagonistic relationships with many of us as well. Coincidence? Like hell it is.

Squinch

(50,949 posts)
133. That post obviously had the intent of antagonizing minority posters. It was obnoxious.
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 10:22 PM
Apr 2014

And as you say, pointing that out seems to be a serious no-no, requiring instruction in proper behavior from on high.

It is all seriously backward.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
162. Just more reinforcement so what we, PoC, suspect/know ...
Sun Apr 27, 2014, 10:27 AM
Apr 2014

For white liberals, being CALLED, or thought of as, a racist, is far worst the actually DOING something racist!

Squinch

(50,949 posts)
163. I am not a person of color, and it is clear as day to me what is happening here.
Sun Apr 27, 2014, 10:34 AM
Apr 2014

So I can only imagine that it would piss me off even more if I were a person of color.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
167. yes. all this an interesting read. yes. the very few that skinner will validate the hide.
Sun Apr 27, 2014, 11:02 AM
Apr 2014

especially how it is generally a minority group challenging the "ism". yes. it is interesting. and so few times. with so few issues. and always.... it is the person that calls out the crap, that is the offender.

just how nicely, delicately, nonchallengingly must we call out "isms" to avoid the hide.

i did not know all this happened either. just find it

consistent, anyway

CreekDog

(46,192 posts)
209. well add this to your list of which topics and how:
Wed May 21, 2014, 01:17 PM
May 2014

and I'm going to first highlight a part of this. when a thread on "Jewish Privilege" is posted, maybe he'll see why he was wrong.


or the record: I did email Skinner early on about this thread and offered to delete it if he liked. It is his site. He told me basically I own the thread and the mods don't generally delete peoples' threads.




http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=4971508

The Straight Story (47,722 posts)
496. Good god almighty. What a clusterf*ck. A few notes if I may

1. Didn't know the whole living history of the source as I had never been there before. To be honest, still don't care as it was not relevant to the idea behind the posting. That others care so much and it freaks them all out is somewhat sad. Get over it. One post out of over 45,000 and people get all judgey like.

2. One jury, two host threads, 20 rec's and the thread is still here. If it scarred the adults around here so bad yell at your local neighborhood hosts who brought their personal fights here. Again, it is one thread out of a zillion on du. Seriously? This upsets people and motivates them to action. Probably 20 posts about missing girls in Nigeria but hey, they weren't white kids from Europe so let's just glide on by those posts. Lots of great places to have a discussion and you spent your time here whining about me. Nice. I am flattered.

3. People trying to goad me into replying: I had my say early on in this thread. Trying to bait me into replying to hide a post of mine or just get something off your chest - well , that would be allowing you to control me and my response. So I just sat back and observed. And wow is all I can say.

4. All I was trying to prove was a simple point. Talk about any race other than whites and add privilege and people suddenly get all hypocritical like on the issue. It is like they think white people are a special group, magical even. Talk about one race in one way but condemn those exact same words when using another race...I see a problem there. If you don't, maybe we should have a hundred more threads like this everyday until you do. Funny how that works.

5. Sorry about the source, never read them before, never really had a reason too. Google turns up a lot of things ya know. I have over 60k link karma on reddit, over 45k posts, and that covers a little of the surfing and reading I do. Go ahead. Judge me over it and think I am some while nazi racist over a post or two. Whatever you have to tell yourself to ignore the ideas behind some posts. But hey, I did a little digging myself once people got all up in arms. Checked out the twitter of the author. Not really a fun guy, last I saw he was interviewing someone named greenwald on fox business. I guess all such posts relating to that out to freak you out now.

6. Get out more. Have some fun. This thread turned quickly into a mess. And it wasn't me who did that. Grab a mirror. Trash thread, ignore, don't kick it (I pass by a lot of threads), bash the source like somehow that makes a lick of difference. Whatever. But if this thread was so bad you think for DU don't kick the daylights out of it.

7. For my host friends. What the hell are you doing? Two threads in hosts for about 200 posts. But let's not look at my post for a sec. You have one there with about 40 replies and a basic consensus to lock. But people are fighting that lock because a few hosts don't agree. All the damned infighting here about this post and you can't even bring yourself to from a thread that started Thursday and had more lock votes (looks like 7-2 that day) that day - it is still being debated and it is Monday AM here. If I had felt that strongly over my thread I would have locked it and dealt with it later. It ain't the end of the world if a post stands. Ignore it, move on, and for god's sake don't kick the hell out of something you personally feel is offensive to others (unless maybe you don't really feel that way and have some ulterior motive....)

8. Lastly. I don't see the value of continually replying to my own thread here. I had my say, I stand by it, and if you all see and take away from something is racism and hate based on my post I wish you would spend as much time on my other posts. But then, this being DU, I really don't see that happening. Easier to complain and flame away over some manufactured outrage - lord I wish people had this much emotion over the real issues people post about. Some folks really miss meta and some folks have went to a lot of trouble to make du more about du and how people discuss issues than intelligent commentary on issues.

Enjoy And if some folks hide this I won't be all upset, easier to bury things we don't like than to confront them. I'll see you all around. Oh - and for the record: I did email Skinner early on about this thread and offered to delete it if he liked. It is his site. He told me basically I own the thread and the mods don't generally delete peoples' threads. I got one email from someone asking me to. Again, nice job reaching out to people there hosts. Later.

JustAnotherGen

(31,810 posts)
125. I almost posted a link to the 4th one
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 09:49 PM
Apr 2014

But decided - eh? Guy gets away with bloody murder - I would rather he be banned from posting in this group. Since we are such a big effin joke then he can go make snotty little remarks in GD. He came onto this thread and just had to kick Bravenak in the teeth with hs uppity ivy League b.s.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
138. Might as well put it all out there, I figure.
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 10:40 PM
Apr 2014

Now, there's no question as to how people feel.

I only hope the admins are reading and taking onboard what people are saying, and feeling. This isn't just an inconsequential thing--this has the same vibe as what we used to call in the military a "pattern of misconduct" -- not any one big thing, but a buncha little things. I'll give 'em time, but I hope they get it.

And it's not about "not understanding sarcasm" or "Duuuuh--It's IRONY, you fool!" (no, it's NOT) or "not having a sense of humor." That kind of shit is not "sophisticated," it is the lowest and cheesiest kind of denigration going because it disrespects a person's humanity.

It makes Don Rickles look nuanced and subtle.

THAT is the thing I hope the admins start appreciating.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
168. gets away with bloody murder. never read his OP. until a couple months ago. and OP calling out
Sun Apr 27, 2014, 11:05 AM
Apr 2014

women. oh so subtle, (though if a person was following along no subtly at all), passive aggressive and insulting.

and people pretend.

that was the first manny OP i ever read.

and the last.

passive aggressive is dishonest and cowardly in my opinion. i have no respect for passive aggressive at all. none. nada. nothing.

Squinch

(50,949 posts)
151. Somehow I missed that one. But Boston, its SATIRE! He can say any obnoxious,
Sun Apr 27, 2014, 08:59 AM
Apr 2014

aggressively antagonistic thing he wants because it's SATIRE! That, plus the fact that he's a white male, are what make him SUPERIOR! And don't forget all his fans at the "Under the Rock" site. They're all tea baggers, yes, but they're COOL tea baggers.

So if we point out that what he's saying is totally inappropriate, we won't be cool anymore! And we might be chastised!

What to do, what to do, what to do????222threee??????

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
170. yup. you are right on. i soooo didnt know htis shit was going on. fug. i have really
Sun Apr 27, 2014, 11:08 AM
Apr 2014

stepped away from du.

yup

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
188. now sheshe. i told you. i read one Op and that was enough. some people
Sun Apr 27, 2014, 06:00 PM
Apr 2014

i simply refuse to do. people that are into passive aggressive, pretending, that kinda shit, i ignore. i cant do them. cause i cannot do dishonesty, story telling, pretend, jabs done only when soemones head is turned.

but

thanks for sharing, lol

MADem

(135,425 posts)
178. Hey, GALS! Ain't THAT special!
Sun Apr 27, 2014, 12:56 PM
Apr 2014

My grandmother used to use that word often, my mother as well. "Guys and gals" has a very specific vibe to it, in the right setting, in the right circumstances.

However, I know a put-down when I see it, and in this context, the word "gals" is being used as a cudgel:

Hey gals - what would *you* like to see in Hillary's gown? I think it'll be a great feat to pull off *elegant* and *serious* in one gown. Perhaps a pants gown?


He's certainly an equal opportunity offender! But hey...."lighten up!" It's just SARCASM, after all! Grow a thick skin! Manny being Manny! Oh, isn't he clever how he 'pushes the envelope?' Toughen up! It's all in "good fun!" Stop being so sensitive....stop being one of the "PC Nazis" that Bill Maher was talking about the other night!! What's the matter with YOU?

I could go on but I am sure you get the idea. Corrosive, divisive shit, and it doesn't matter what community gets "the treatment," it's like drain cleaner in plastic pipes--it's gonna fuck up the plumbing. It's not funny. It makes DU suck. It's mean-spirited. I'm tired of it.

I don't expect the DU administration to "do" anything about this particular business, but I think it would be nice if the feelings of the people who are griping, here, were at least recognized, acknowledged and validated.

I really don't think Skinner meant to come off sounding like he did, I don't think he holds any hateful views in his heart at all, but I am not heartened by his comment in this thread. He was too quick to excoriate the "bullied" while ignoring the provocation from Mister Page Click/Post Rec (Isn't he edgy?) that led to the HIDE in the first place.

I'm giving him the benefit of the doubt, but I think he needs to dig a little deeper. We all do; it's way too easy to be mean in an anonymous forum...don't yell at the kids, don't kick the dog, crap on a DUer!

And that IS just in case anyone is unclear.

CreekDog

(46,192 posts)
208. you're telling us, well, the AA group not to call arguments "racist"?
Tue May 13, 2014, 07:04 PM
May 2014

I'm really struggling with the idea that you just said that you don't seem to think it matters whether the argument being called racist actually is racist or not.

Just that you said, ostensibly to a safe haven group for African Americans and African American issues, that they should not call an argument racist because juries might hide it.

I can't believe you would look at this situation and decide the answer is for the racism to stand and people to not call it out.

I've seen a number of arguments for civility but this is beyond the pale.

You doubled down by saying you don't know whether there is racism or not, but that part is really immaterial to you. Really? I can't believe you mean that. I just can't.

...For the record, I am not going to argue whether or not I think your accusation was fair...


I also point out that you and I are white and male and it's pretty easy for us to make the observation that calling someone racist is worse than actually ignoring a statement that is racist.

The problem is, that's actually not true. Calling out racism, prejudice and differential treatment has been the key to ending it.

Why on earth even have an African American group if the one place we've heard to not call an argument "racist" is in this one group?

As a white person, I take exception to the argument that being silent in response to a racist statement is a more civil choice than responding to correct or point it out in hopes that it will stop.

Holy cow, I am incredulous at what advice was given and that it was first given here.

Number23

(24,544 posts)
106. I'll be joining you. This is exactly why I have not had a star next to my name in like two years.
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 06:09 PM
Apr 2014

I see so many people who joined around the same time as I did with like twice as many posts. Crap like what you've gone through is exactly why I don't post as much and don't start OP's outside of this forum anymore.

Bravenak, I know this is place is a tiny speck in the totality of your life, but I am still so sorry that you had to endure this. This place is supposed to be a place for lively, interesting conversation for people who support the Democratic party. But a handful of embittered, poorly educated libertarians have been squatting here for years and have run off so many quality people, particularly posters of color. And as this thread shows, the proprietors couldn't give less than a shit. I am really sorry.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
109. I think i get whats going on and i think it may be time for reflection.
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 06:40 PM
Apr 2014

I hear stuff like that all the time and i see it for what it is. Sometimes when people have a friendship with someone it is difficult to see them for what they are. Sometimes its hard to see the negative in ourselves. I will not apologize, for i did nothing wrong but point out the injustice of over noticing what black people do, while being blind to what others do.
I did not expect a pile on from, but i guess i did ask for it by reposting the post.
For the record, Manny admits to the insensitivity of that post, and the insensitivity was racial. Racial insensitivity is racist in my book. If nobody points this out to those who do it, how will they ever know that they are doing anything wrong.
And if they get backed up by other more powerful folks, even though they admit to what they did, what can i do? I can just do me. People that i showed that op to, white folks ( i'm in alaska) also though that it was what i thought it was. But they are younger and much more hip to the times. They have black spouses, kids, friends, and feel personally offended by lets make fun of black people jokes.

I would never pick a minority group and post a thread mocking them. How horrible that those things are seen as okay, but pointing it out is whats really offensive. I'd rather not let this place depress me. I don't like losing respect for people i thought were awesome. So, i will keep myself back here or something between living my life and practicing my spanish.

Number23

(24,544 posts)
111. You are just the cutest thing
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 06:52 PM
Apr 2014


Mi espanol es muy mal! I would be very sad to see you go but I wouldn't blame you. If I tried to type the names of every black poster that has walked away from DU -- not been tombstoned, WALKED -- I'd be here all day.

Many did the Liberal Stalwart goodbye thread (even though it says that she's posted again in the last few weeks??) but most just walked the fuck off and have never looked back. If you go to the old African American Interest Group (AAIG) on DU2, you will see a slew of names of posters that do not post here and I have it on good authority that many of them would not post here again if you begged. They were as sick and tired of the non-stop hatred of this president and dismissal of our community's concerns and voices (unless it's weed related of course and then all of a sudden the "disenfranchisement of black people" becomes the most important thing in the world!!1 ) as we are now.

So like I said, I would be very sad to see you go. Very sad. But I'd understand completely. To be honest, I have absolutely NO CLUE what's keeping me here. It sure as hell ain't the sparkling conversation and commitment to diversity and Democratic ideals.
 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
116. It's addictive.
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 07:40 PM
Apr 2014

I've noticed i can't stop looking even if i have nothing to say. i like to think that the blacks folks of yesteryear, look at the threads and laugh at us for doing this. Makes me feel so proud that one day, i'll be just like them.
My husband is laughing at me right now for posting this. Says i like pain. I love him to death, he is so funny. He could teach somebody we know how to tell a joke.

M0rpheus

(885 posts)
117. Ugh...
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 08:05 PM
Apr 2014

I'm just angry over this whole thing.



Like I said earlier, I get where you're coming from. You do what you have to. Because this place is not worth the angst in it's current state.

C'mon back when/if you're ready. Until then, we'll keep an eye on the place.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
121. You know, i was mad for less than a minute.
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 09:25 PM
Apr 2014

It show that some people cannot stand not being on control of things that do not pertain to them. True colors shining through an all that. I'll leave you with a musical interlude...














Let me know if something i need to know happens. I'm usually low pro anyway so chillin out is my usual thing. that song is how i feel now.
 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
172. hmmmmmm. really. deep thought here. cause i did not know any of this shit. hmmmm
Sun Apr 27, 2014, 11:13 AM
Apr 2014

and getting pissed.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
95. Accusing people of being racist
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 11:43 AM
Apr 2014

is considered the worst thing you can do. It's worse than actually posting something racist, and if the fish thing was the thread about fried chicken and watermelon, I think a large portion of that whole thread was racist. But it's worse to say that than push racist stereotypes.

JustAnotherGen

(31,810 posts)
100. You know what's cool though?
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 02:17 PM
Apr 2014

You don't care what someone's perception of you is.

You don't have that severe defect of using the Internet as a source of power and validation. Honey - you HAVE a life.

Now go look at my finished family room on Facebook. Our new chaise lounge arrived and The Gio is putting his juried artist skills to good use laying out our wall flare!

stage left

(2,961 posts)
110. I don't think it was a horrible post at all.
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 06:47 PM
Apr 2014

You never called anyone a racist, Bravenak. You said that MG posted a racist Op. I read the gefilte fish op and I thought it was mocking and completely insensitive to the feelings of African Americans. Jewish food has never been used to attempt to diminish Jewish Americans in the way that certain foods have been used to try to diminish African Americans. The Op that really shocked me, though, was the one that called our President a POS used car salesman. I felt like I'd been personally punched in the gut. If that one was not universally denounced and expunged, and it wasn't, then nothing at all will ever be bad enough to be hidden on DU, in my opinion. But then, I'm just a Newbie.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
113. Thank you.
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 07:14 PM
Apr 2014

I agree. I would not call someone a racist over a racially insensitive op, in part because i think i try to chalk it up to ignorance. Alot of people say racist things that they don't know are hurtful, but do not behave that way in practise. I do not know him to know if he is like that at home, i would guess not.
That op stuck with me because i saw it as a right wing tactic, make fun of the blacks and then pretend you don't know what they are talking about. And the POS op. I have no words to describe how that felt like a punch in the gut, but worse. I had really liked that poster, so i felt a bit hurt.
I read it to my family and they told me to stay the hell away from people like that, they are only on their own side and will only be cool until they don't get what they want. They could care less about you and your needs, because it is all about them. That is life.

Black people are not allowed to call it like it is because it might hurt feelings. Our hurt feelings mean nothing in the world. Were are mocked and then told to grin and bear it. I have other things to do, so they can have their playground for themselves. I'll stay back in the quarters for a while.

DonCoquixote

(13,616 posts)
134. unmodded
Sat Apr 26, 2014, 10:23 PM
Apr 2014

The problem is that the BS artists have cranked their activity so much that the mods are not try to keep up, that and, if we went back to Du2s system (which was superior, despite flaws) then you would have a whole chorus of the usual suspects going "you just won because the mods know you give them more money!"

Now, it is possible for all sorts of tomfoolery to happen,especially as the jurors can do their business with "no explanation given." Now, I realize why anonymous ids are needed, but the fact we do not demand someone to grunt out a sentence for why they imposed their "sentence" is a joke. I have seen people harass feminists on this board, to the point where they brag about getting people canned.

Do not let the scum get you down. The reason they are being sneaky is because they know that there are enough people angry to demand actual change, which means that, no, people of certain social backgrounds will NOT get the default victory anymore.

DonCoquixote

(13,616 posts)
146. no problem
Sun Apr 27, 2014, 12:39 AM
Apr 2014

Twas an honor, duty, privilege and pleasure.

and really, since the damage done to the feminists is still there, this angry Puerto Rican boy knows that if they take out the women and Afro-Americans, they will gun for Latinos as well.

SOLIDARITY!

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
164. Okay ...
Sun Apr 27, 2014, 10:41 AM
Apr 2014

Negros (and Negro-lovers, IOW ... traditional Democrats) ... you've had our gripe session. Now, NSA/Snowden's a Hero/Jail the Bankers/Prosecute Bush and Chaney/Legalize Weed/(and let's not forget) INCOME INEQUALITY!

Signed,

Management

Jamaal510

(10,893 posts)
191. This entire thread has been interesting to read,
Sun Apr 27, 2014, 10:06 PM
Apr 2014

to say the least. I'm learning more and more about the behaviors of certain posters, and what usually has been passing as acceptable on DU.

Cha

(297,154 posts)
192. Aloha, bravenak~
Tue Apr 29, 2014, 12:32 AM
Apr 2014

Just wanted to give you my love and support, sweetie~



to all racists, bravenak~


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bravenak

(34,648 posts)
193. Hey!!
Tue Apr 29, 2014, 12:34 AM
Apr 2014

Good photo choice!! We need to spread the message!!

Thank for coming to say wassup!!!

Cha

(297,154 posts)
194. I missed the whole
Tue Apr 29, 2014, 12:37 AM
Apr 2014

dust up but sheshe was kind enough to let me know. I gotta check in here more!

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
195. She was a big help.
Tue Apr 29, 2014, 12:42 AM
Apr 2014

It felt like i was on another planet for a bit. You know i can take quite a bit of flack.

Cha

(297,154 posts)
196. I know you can!
Tue Apr 29, 2014, 12:53 AM
Apr 2014

It's good you have this beautiful AA Forum to write it out and talk it out for catharsis sake!

I just saw this.. President Obama is stopping in your state on the way home..


12:05 PM: Departs Manila, Philippines en route Elmendorf Air Force Base, Alaska


President Obama embraces an unidentified Filipina World War II veteran after he addressed troops in Manila

TOD

bravenak~

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
197. Is this happening soon??
Tue Apr 29, 2014, 01:01 AM
Apr 2014

I'm like two miles from elmendorf but no base access.
I'm excited anyway. We need to get this state back blue. The koch ads are running all the time. Yuck!

Cha

(297,154 posts)
198. Looks like Prez is already home.. amazing you are two miles from where
Tue Apr 29, 2014, 01:20 AM
Apr 2014

he was!

Alaska Time (4 hours behind EDT)

5:25 AM: Arrives in Anchorage, Alaska and Air Force One refuels

****

7:50 AM: Departs Elmendorf Air Force Base en route Washington, DC

****

EDT

5:45 PM: Arrives Joint Base Andrews

****

6:0 PM: Arrives the White House

Same link as above~

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
199. One day i'll get to meet him.
Tue Apr 29, 2014, 01:25 AM
Apr 2014

Thank you for letting me know, my mom is having a sad since we missed him. She was ready to hop in the ol' suv and race over there.

Cha

(297,154 posts)
200. I think I know how your Mom feels, bravenak ..
Tue Apr 29, 2014, 02:26 AM
Apr 2014

if I would have been that close and found out later I had missed a chance to at least see him in person.. well..

If I ever hear of him being in your state again I will try to let you know in advance the next time.

freshwest

(53,661 posts)
203. Totally out of the loop. Not reading much at DU now. Somebody send me PM, okay? And here's the gif:
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 02:18 AM
Apr 2014

Last edited Wed Apr 30, 2014, 05:35 PM - Edit history (1)



Honest, all I see are trolls at DU.

All that I don't already know are trolls to me until proven otherwise, my patience is at an end. I have no use to see the willfully ignorant toss their feces in the air and call it performance art.

I'm never ugly to them even though they tell me to shut up, for trying to discuss things with logic and facts. Those posts are allowed to stand, or so I found out from someone who juried one. The troll did it to many and was tombstoned, and most of his posts were auto-removed. But the one to me was allowed to stay as not being insulting, 6-1, so I got the message. Hurray, LU!

Your post wasn't ugly. There was nothing wrong with that post, but that's how it is here at LU. I'm wondering when this thread is going to be locked.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
204. It is troll paradise.
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 03:58 AM
Apr 2014

We have been remarking on the libertarian element. It has been n experience.

JustAnotherGen

(31,810 posts)
206. I love that
Wed Apr 30, 2014, 11:50 AM
Apr 2014

Yeah - Libertarians are the total idiocracy!

^Last I checked the Libertarian Party exists with a platform - so fair game at DU - right?^
https://www.lp.org/

Will be in interesting to see how the Libertarians in our midst handle being called idiots (insulted) when they aren't even Democratic Party members and don't adhere to the Democratic Party platform. Or a DU jury for that matter.

Feral Child

(2,086 posts)
221. I thought it was
Mon Dec 22, 2014, 03:18 PM
Dec 2014

extremely gentle and polite. I'm guessing that they chose to interpret you last sentence as "stalking" and "threatening."
Those are just excuses. Your post was quite appropriate to the situation.


Off topic: I've just subscribed to this group. My eyes have recently opened a bit and I can see the covert racism expressed by many DUers. I couldn't see it before. POV, I suppose, but it's out there and it's shameful.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
224. I thought I was being nice too.
Mon Dec 22, 2014, 08:30 PM
Dec 2014

You should check out the thread titled 'you can say the craziest things to or about black people..."

During the time period I was labeled the worst racist on DU. YAY!!
Madflo wrote an op about me with hundreds of recs on how horribly racist and ageist I am for some of the posts in my journal. DU lapped it up like a cat with cream and applauded themselves for outing the horrible racist/ageist young black woman. Hundred of older, white, mostly wealthier than me liberals congratulating themselves on destroying me with the written word. Since that day, I am never shocked by Liberals acting like conservatives.
If you want, I'll find you a link.

Warpy

(111,245 posts)
226. My first hide was equally stupid and even milder than that
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 12:11 AM
Dec 2014

but some self appointed arbiter of DU orthodoxy and perfect manners alerted and got lucky with a jury.

That's all that happened to you, pure dumb luck. Don't take it personally, it's the result of a bunch of people who go around looking for things to be upset over.

And yes, they invariably prove our point when they get lucky with a jury. Chances are that your posts have been alerted on multiple times and the alerter lost by a landslide. I know people have sent me alert pages when it's happened to me. It happens to anybody who tells uncomfortable truths to the comfortable.

Just realize you'd rather see them than be them and move on. You are doing fine here.

It's just annoying when we haven't gotten to enjoy telling people what we really think when a post gets hidden for nothing. It seems like a waste.



 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
228. You are so right.
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 12:18 AM
Dec 2014

Since this op, I have been sent alert pages on the most innocuous of posts. And lately the juries have seemed like popularity contests.
I made damn sure that if it thought i was going to get a hide, to make sure it was worth it. And it was. I got two more for direct fuck yous to somebody. I almost broke my screen on my Ipad typing it out.

DonCoquixote

(13,616 posts)
227. sad but not surprised
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 12:18 AM
Dec 2014

I will never be a GOP, nor will I fail to vote against the GOP, because I know that helps them get power. I will affirmatively vote for a ham sandwich covered in Maggots than allow a GOP member to win an election, which, at this moment, if you do not vote against whoever is the main oppostion to the GOP someone is doing..

However, there has been a bit of a sad jounrey where i realize I might not ever to be able to happily vote FOR people again, even if they are democrats. You know, I really wish Bill Clinton would apolgize for blowing all those racist and ageist dog whistles in 2008, but he won;t, and he will blow them again if need be in 2016, and we all know many in DU will be blowing them at full volume like some cathedral pipe organ!

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
229. Muthafucking DonCoquixote!!!
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 12:22 AM
Dec 2014

Me too dammit, me too. I find myself voting against the worst, but i'm not really voting for anybody. Just filling in my bubble to prevent the worst.
The Clinton's hurt my feelings and behaved nastily. They would throw us under the bus, drive over us, and back up. I had never though they would do that. Especially him. I expect nothing from them in the future.

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
231. Well welcome to the hidden post society.
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 12:26 AM
Dec 2014

In the present DU If you don't have hidden posts you aren't doing your due diligence. Next step is acquiring a stalker or two and being banned from some groups you never posted in.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
232. I could try to get banned from guns or something.
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 12:31 AM
Dec 2014

Although they seem to like conversation. Can't wait to get a stalker.... Then I'll know I have arrived!!

DonCoquixote

(13,616 posts)
237. is that kind of like
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 06:19 AM
Dec 2014

The old quote that "I would not want to be part of a group that would have me as a member", ion other words, if we have not ticke d people off, we have not dione our job?

malokvale77

(4,879 posts)
233. I am so sorry that happened to you.
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 12:50 AM
Dec 2014

I got 2 hides within minutes of responding to a troll last week.

My account was suspended, and then suddenly reinstated.

The troll is still here.

Be careful.

 

bravenak

(34,648 posts)
234. It was a while back, and I was a bit peeved.
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 01:05 AM
Dec 2014

But I have been paying attention to the way the jury system operates and have come to the conclusion that it is hit and miss. You probably had yourself a little alert stalker.
I had a suspension once after two hides in a row. If you say too much true shit at the wrong time, bam!!
I now try not to take DU too seriously.

DonCoquixote

(13,616 posts)
238. You know, if half these folks
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 06:22 AM
Dec 2014

went to discussionist, they would be happy, if all they wanted was freedom,
but no, they see us as the other, and they want to punish the other, because to them, our existence is the offense.

And sadly, that nasty element wears all flags and faces. I remember when Bill Cosby would slam young people and get lauded because he was the Abel to a rivhard Pryor's cain. Funny what happens when the veils are lifted.

Turbineguy

(37,319 posts)
236. My first post was hidden
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 02:59 AM
Dec 2014

As I recall the title was "Hannity tells the truth!" In the body of the post I quoted him as saying "But what do I know, I'm an idiot."

One of the older members spoke up for me and I was restored to full membership at full salary and no loss of social benefits.

It's how things go sometimes.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
245. Meanwhile . . .
Fri Dec 26, 2014, 02:04 PM
Dec 2014

A great number of people were called out as a racist, but it's OK when white people call people racist.

On Thu Dec 25, 2014, 06:39 PM you sent an alert on the following post:

Anyone who believes in racial appropriation is a segregationist and instant racist.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6004237

REASON FOR ALERT

This post is disruptive, hurtful, rude, insensitive, over-the-top, or otherwise inappropriate.

YOUR COMMENTS

Several members of the African American group have had posts out for suggesting people were racist, and they were less blatant about it than this. I wonder if white people also get posts hidden for calling people racist.

JURY RESULTS

A randomly-selected Jury of DU members completed their review of this alert at Thu Dec 25, 2014, 06:52 PM, and voted 2-5 to LEAVE IT ALONE.

Juror #1 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #2 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #3 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #4 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #5 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #6 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: This is a statement, not directed at anyone. Others may choose to agree or disagree.
Juror #7 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given

Thank you.

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