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Related: About this forumWill Pope Francis’ annulment reforms impact U.S. Catholics?
http://www.religionnews.com/2015/09/08/pope-francis-streamlines-annulment-process-but-will-it-affect-u-s-catholics/Thats largely because in recent decades American dioceses have taken a number of steps to make the process less cumbersome and time-consuming, some of which were reflected in the new procedures announced Tuesday (Sept. 8) in Rome.
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Annulment rulings can currently take up to a year, or more, and cost upwards of $1,000, though in the U.S. fees can be waived.
Like everything else the wonderpope has done, however, this is just fancier window dressing on a very bad policy. Much like the fanfare with which it was announced women who had abortions could be "forgiven" for making their own reproductive choices. The core policy doesn't change - a single abortion is still worse than genocide to the RCC - but instead a "feel good" announcement is supposed to make everyone think things are changing. They aren't.
No, the core problem that the RCC refuses to address is this:
People change. People grow. Sometimes they can grow apart. They can have a perfectly fine and valid marriage for decades, but then make the mutual decision to move on. It's not necessarily someone's fault. Pretending that a marriage can never simply end, the church continues to cause misery and suffering for its members.
Warren Stupidity
(48,181 posts)becase words and stff.
cleanhippie
(19,705 posts)Goblinmonger
(22,340 posts)After they had been married for decades and had 7 kids. SEVEN KIDS. And after that, they church agreed that the marriage never happened. Annulments are a fucking joke. I told my wife she's going to hell now because she's an out-of-wedlock bastard.
I mean, they want to act like a marriage can never end, but all they are doing is putting lipstick on a pig if they are going to annul marriages like my in-laws. Just change to policy to say it's OK to divorce, because that's what you are effectually doing.
Asshats.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)Many Catholics, perhaps even some in the leadership, realize that there are horribly wrong doctrines.
But the problem is, they've built their whole church on the foundation that they CANNOT POSSIBLY BE WRONG. Admitting they were wrong about just one little thing will send the whole structure crumbling.
cleanhippie
(19,705 posts)The whole thing is a fucking joke.
rug
(82,333 posts)uriel1972
(4,261 posts)Is something of a lie.
Act_of_Reparation
(9,116 posts)We should be tripping over ourselves to praise Pope Francis for finally bringing the Roman Catholic Church into the previous century.