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F4lconF16

(3,747 posts)
Thu Oct 8, 2015, 06:03 PM Oct 2015

I just asked my transgender roommate about the RCC.

Ze's response?

You know, I try not to hate on religion much. I just wish it would go away. I don't like the Catholic Church at all, but I don't hate it. It would be nice if it disappeared and went away forever, though.

And yeah, I don't get why people like the Pope so much.

Ze also said that the RCC was very much a bigoted organization. It doesn't make a difference in zirs life if it's policy or if it's just that all the people in the Vatican are transphobic. Either way, it encourages the people around zir to be transphobic, and of course that doesn't end well. And of course, ze thinks the Pope is a bigot. Because of course he is.

Can we please, please, please stop defending, minimizing, and hiding their bigotry on here? Doing so is bigotry in itself, and has real effects on real people.
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I just asked my transgender roommate about the RCC. (Original Post) F4lconF16 Oct 2015 OP
"their" bigotry is whose bigotry exactly? rug Oct 2015 #1
At least try to be honest brokers who don't try to pretend that a hug mitigates all that trash talk Bluenorthwest Oct 2015 #2
Ok, you answer the question. Whose bigotry is "their" bigotry? rug Oct 2015 #3
I'll answer the question Cartoonist Oct 2015 #9
"Stop being ridiculous" is hardly an answer. rug Oct 2015 #12
Deflecting again Cartoonist Oct 2015 #13
No, that's called clarification. rug Oct 2015 #14
You're wasting valuable energy, cartoonist. cleanhippie Oct 2015 #26
Their bigotry being the RCC's, and more specifically, the Vaticans. F4lconF16 Oct 2015 #5
Thanks for the clarification. rug Oct 2015 #6
"I don't put any more stock in hugs than I do in broad-brushed statements." Lordquinton Oct 2015 #10
There's as much bullshit in that remark as there is in yours. rug Oct 2015 #11
Care to expand? Lordquinton Oct 2015 #15
No. rug Oct 2015 #16
I agree Lordquinton Oct 2015 #17
Do you mean the acronym that is widely known, available with a click if not, rug Oct 2015 #18
And yet you still can't provide it Lordquinton Oct 2015 #19
I just did. rug Oct 2015 #20
But you didn't? Lordquinton Oct 2015 #21
Much as I enjoy this . . . . rug Oct 2015 #22
Ok. Lordquinton Oct 2015 #23
No it is not more inclusive... LostOne4Ever Oct 2015 #24
It is more inclusive than the one he posted. rug Oct 2015 #25
Aww, the Pope hugged a transgender guy? gcomeau Oct 2015 #27
Would it make you feel better if he spit on him? rug Oct 2015 #28
Nope, wouldn't feel better at all. Now you answer a question. gcomeau Oct 2015 #29
No, I think it's an act of grace and humanity. rug Oct 2015 #30
Then WHY DID YOU POST IT gcomeau Oct 2015 #31
Why does it upst you (caps omitted). rug Oct 2015 #32
People wasting the time of everyone in a discussion always irritates me. gcomeau Oct 2015 #33
This must explain my current irritation. rug Oct 2015 #34
Better to flee than to defend your reason for posting the link huh? gcomeau Oct 2015 #35
Lol.Well, now you've got my attention back. rug Oct 2015 #36
Sorry, that's not how this game is played. gcomeau Oct 2015 #37
ust have been the all caps. rug Oct 2015 #38
As a first impression perhaps. gcomeau Oct 2015 #39
Outweighing all the things you alleged. rug Oct 2015 #40
When exactly did we switch from talking about bigotry to "inveterate transphobia"? gcomeau Oct 2015 #41
Inveterate transphobia is bigotry. You objected to the Pope hugging an transgendered person. rug Oct 2015 #42
In the same way my thumb is a finger. gcomeau Oct 2015 #43
You are comparing transphobia to a thumb? rug Oct 2015 #44
We can continue this discussion after you go back to school... gcomeau Oct 2015 #45
I think Ze's will be vindicated in a few decades Yorktown Oct 2015 #4
I agree with "Saint of the Day" -- often inspiring goldent Oct 2015 #7
yes, lots of funny, imaginative stories Yorktown Oct 2015 #8
 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
2. At least try to be honest brokers who don't try to pretend that a hug mitigates all that trash talk
Thu Oct 8, 2015, 06:43 PM
Oct 2015

and institutional discrimination. It is part of the RCC, own it or disown it, you can't pretend it does not exist.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
3. Ok, you answer the question. Whose bigotry is "their" bigotry?
Thu Oct 8, 2015, 06:47 PM
Oct 2015

That's a rather broad and ambiguous statement.

At least try to be honest in your answer.

Cartoonist

(7,315 posts)
9. I'll answer the question
Thu Oct 8, 2015, 11:40 PM
Oct 2015

Stop being ridiculous. Homophobic bigotry is ingrained in the RCC. It appears in many passages in the hate manual and has NEVER been repudiated by any prominent official of the Vatican.

If a priest comes out as gay, his career is over. If a priest denounces the homophobia, his career is over.

The more pertinent question, and one with fewer examples, would be, "who in the RCC isn't a bigot?"

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
12. "Stop being ridiculous" is hardly an answer.
Fri Oct 9, 2015, 02:23 PM
Oct 2015

You're the second person to step up to answer the question posed to another. This is like batting practice.

As to your question, by far, most are not.

Now Cartoonist, are you saying Catholic people are, by far, bigots? Let's hear your answer.

Cartoonist

(7,315 posts)
13. Deflecting again
Fri Oct 9, 2015, 03:44 PM
Oct 2015

When I say the RCC, I am referring to church officials. My guess is that over 95 percent of them toe the line of homophobic bigotry.

Feel free to give examples of priests in the RCC that openly welcome gays and afford them equal status in all things.

I doubt you'll hit over the Mendoza line.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
14. No, that's called clarification.
Fri Oct 9, 2015, 04:15 PM
Oct 2015

It's a useful tool when you're quick to throw around accusations of bigotry.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
26. You're wasting valuable energy, cartoonist.
Mon Oct 12, 2015, 03:07 PM
Oct 2015

Popeaholics will never admit to the inherent and overt bigotry of the RCC. Ever.

F4lconF16

(3,747 posts)
5. Their bigotry being the RCC's, and more specifically, the Vaticans.
Thu Oct 8, 2015, 06:57 PM
Oct 2015

I'm not saying all Catholics are bigots any more than I'm saying all Americans are bigots for the US government's actions overseas and towards minorities in the US.

But when you refuse to recognize that the institution you support and are a part of is bigoted, you become part of the problem.

Please stop pretending hugs make up for his statements in the past about LGBT folk and women, and the total lack of anti-discriminatory statements from the Church.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
6. Thanks for the clarification.
Thu Oct 8, 2015, 07:00 PM
Oct 2015

I don't put any more stock in hugs than I do in broad-brushed statements.

Lordquinton

(7,886 posts)
10. "I don't put any more stock in hugs than I do in broad-brushed statements."
Fri Oct 9, 2015, 12:25 PM
Oct 2015

That's funny, cause you sure love making them.

You also glossed over this line:

But when you refuse to recognize that the institution you support and are a part of is bigoted, you become part of the problem.


What's your response to that?

Lordquinton

(7,886 posts)
15. Care to expand?
Sun Oct 11, 2015, 04:03 PM
Oct 2015

the argument "Because I say so" doesn't work, your church apparently re-wrote bigoted beliefs within the last 100 years, so they can rewrite it again to remove the bigotry (I know, you claim it's not bigotry, but you, the cis-white-upper middle class-hetero catholic doesn't get to dictate when something your saying is being called out, no matter how self-righteous and abusive you get).

Oh, you still never confirmed that you know what LGBTQIA means, so that makes your whole righteous indignation even more out of place.

Lordquinton

(7,886 posts)
17. I agree
Sun Oct 11, 2015, 08:08 PM
Oct 2015

so please contribute to the discussion instead of verbally abusing everyone around who doesn't agree with you?

Perhaps answer a question, like my lowball easy one of what LGBTQIA means.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
18. Do you mean the acronym that is widely known, available with a click if not,
Sun Oct 11, 2015, 08:15 PM
Oct 2015

and the definition that you posted here some days ago?

That LGBTQIA?

The more inclusive term is ‎LGBTTIQQ2SA.

Lordquinton

(7,886 posts)
19. And yet you still can't provide it
Sun Oct 11, 2015, 08:19 PM
Oct 2015

And I'd stop relying on the Urban Dictionary for information, if I were you.

Lordquinton

(7,886 posts)
21. But you didn't?
Sun Oct 11, 2015, 08:33 PM
Oct 2015

Congratulations, you went to the second google link after Urban Dictionary. And I bet you don't even know why that's a less inclusive acronym than the one I'm asking about (Considering you don't even know what it means in the first place, for all we know)

Lordquinton

(7,886 posts)
23. Ok.
Sun Oct 11, 2015, 08:51 PM
Oct 2015

I mean this has gotten off topic, and really we need to focus on the acronym that is the antithesis of inclusiveness:

RCC

LostOne4Ever

(9,288 posts)
24. No it is not more inclusive...
Mon Oct 12, 2015, 05:36 AM
Oct 2015

[font style="font-family:'Georgia','Baskerville Old Face','Helvetica',fantasy;" size=4 color=teal]Any form of alphabet soup that puts the A as being ally is not inclusive...

In fact, it is pretty much exclusive of a major sexuality. My sexuality.


LGBTTQQI2SAAAPP

And not a single A stands for Ally.

Really, I think people should leave it as LGBTQ+. The abbreviation loses all purpose past that.[/font]

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
25. It is more inclusive than the one he posted.
Mon Oct 12, 2015, 05:44 AM
Oct 2015

Which is not to say it was the exclusive one.

In any event, the point was made.

 

gcomeau

(5,764 posts)
27. Aww, the Pope hugged a transgender guy?
Tue Oct 13, 2015, 03:19 PM
Oct 2015

That COMPLETELY negates his active campaign to deny them human rights if he hugs them while he does it! How wrong we all obviously were, clearly the Pope is a visionary champion of gay rights.

 

gcomeau

(5,764 posts)
29. Nope, wouldn't feel better at all. Now you answer a question.
Tue Oct 13, 2015, 03:58 PM
Oct 2015

Are you seriously under the impression that pointing out the Pope hugged a transgender person means that it's ok that he has traveled the world consistently and actively advocating for the denial of their human rights under the laws of the nations he addresses?

That a friendly embrace negates that and renders any claims of bigotry refuted?

 

gcomeau

(5,764 posts)
31. Then WHY DID YOU POST IT
Tue Oct 13, 2015, 04:05 PM
Oct 2015

...as a response to the OP under the post title asking "whose bigotry" as if it had anything whatsoever to do with whether the parties under consideration were being bigoted?

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
32. Why does it upst you (caps omitted).
Tue Oct 13, 2015, 04:08 PM
Oct 2015

FYI, it was one of several links I posted.

What, what is it, about this gesture that angers you?

You sound like someone who's carefully constructed strawman just blinked.

 

gcomeau

(5,764 posts)
33. People wasting the time of everyone in a discussion always irritates me.
Tue Oct 13, 2015, 04:10 PM
Oct 2015

If you had no reason for posting it, and you just avoided providing a reason again, then you were wasting everyone's time in this thread with a Red Herring designed to distract attention from the actual subject.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
36. Lol.Well, now you've got my attention back.
Tue Oct 13, 2015, 05:37 PM
Oct 2015

I can't resist that lame declaration of "victory".

No, you're not irritated. You're angry.

Take another stab at the question.

What, what is it, about this gesture that angers you?

 

gcomeau

(5,764 posts)
37. Sorry, that's not how this game is played.
Tue Oct 13, 2015, 05:51 PM
Oct 2015

You don't get to reject my answer to a question you already asked based on what... your ability to telempathically divine my emotional state from the text on your screen?

I answered your question, the answer hasn't changed, and I'm not pointlessly answering it again just so you can waste yet more time while trying desperately to direct the discussion away from the topic.

Now regarding the question which is still hanging there UNanswered:


Why did you post the link in a reply questioning the accusation of bigotry if it has no bearing on the accusation of bigotry?

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
38. ust have been the all caps.
Tue Oct 13, 2015, 05:55 PM
Oct 2015

And it does have bearing.

You, on the other hand, posited as outweighing all else.

Why is that?

 

gcomeau

(5,764 posts)
39. As a first impression perhaps.
Tue Oct 13, 2015, 06:12 PM
Oct 2015

But not on the second pass after it was pointed out to you otherwise by the person experiencing, and this the world's leading authority on, those emotions and you refused to accept the answer.

And it does have bearing.


Awesome. Do tell what that bearing is.

You, on the other hand, posited as outweighing all else.


Posited what as outweighing all what else?
 

rug

(82,333 posts)
40. Outweighing all the things you alleged.
Tue Oct 13, 2015, 07:28 PM
Oct 2015

Do you think an inveterate transphobe would hug a transgendered person.

Oh wait. You believe it's all pr, amirite?

 

gcomeau

(5,764 posts)
41. When exactly did we switch from talking about bigotry to "inveterate transphobia"?
Wed Oct 14, 2015, 11:08 AM
Oct 2015

Oh wait, we didn't. That's just you pulling a bait and switch because you know you can't actually defend the Pope or the RCC against the bigotry accusation. So quick! Deflect!!!!


 

rug

(82,333 posts)
42. Inveterate transphobia is bigotry. You objected to the Pope hugging an transgendered person.
Wed Oct 14, 2015, 12:39 PM
Oct 2015

Pay attention.

 

gcomeau

(5,764 posts)
43. In the same way my thumb is a finger.
Wed Oct 14, 2015, 01:01 PM
Oct 2015

But if we're talking about the properties of my index finger you don't get to start making arguments based on the characteristics of my thumb.

Transphobia does not cover the full breadth and scope of anti gay or even anti trans bigotry. And I'm pretty sure you damn well know it.


And I did not "object to" the Pope hugging a trans person. He hugged the uy, good for him.

I objected to YOU presenting it in the context of this discussion as if that somehow refuted or even had any relevance whatsoever to the claim that he was being bigoted towards gay and trans people, like that somehow counter-balanced his entire worldwide campaign to deny them basic human rights.

 

gcomeau

(5,764 posts)
45. We can continue this discussion after you go back to school...
Wed Oct 14, 2015, 03:26 PM
Oct 2015

...and learn what an analogy is.

 

Yorktown

(2,884 posts)
4. I think Ze's will be vindicated in a few decades
Thu Oct 8, 2015, 06:48 PM
Oct 2015

Polls show religion is on the way out in the West.

The RCC is on the decline despite Latino immigration with a RCC background.

The RCC and other superstitions will wither away as education compounds by generations.

To give Ze comfort, tell him/her to read who the saint of the day is daily:

most of the time, it's good for a laugh.



 

Yorktown

(2,884 posts)
8. yes, lots of funny, imaginative stories
Thu Oct 8, 2015, 10:46 PM
Oct 2015

I like the one where the sun did not rise for three days.

They didn't mention how hey kept track of the days.

Or why other countries didn't notice anything.

Good old Catholic Curch, always good for a laugh..

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