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Thats my opinion

(2,001 posts)
Mon Apr 30, 2012, 01:05 AM Apr 2012

Can we discuss religion in a fresh productive way? I'm ready.

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This post seeks to discuss the nature of religion as a positive value for some of us, while others legitimately and with good reason see it in a negative light. I realize that I have often responded belligerently before listening.

There is something of a dead-end in what has been happening here. I admit to being part of the problem, but what has been going on has gotten no one anywhere—no growth, no new insight, no understanding of each other. We may joust about who is the bigger, the smarter, the most stupid and superstitious, but there is really little sharing of information, just each of us trying to make debater’s points without success. Nobody is enlightened, let along changed. But perhaps we are not really at work to change anyone else—but to listen.

So let me a suggest a different approach.
First of all, there are some things we all might admit.
1-Every perspective, discipline and point of view has within it both the positive and the negative. The accusation has often been made that religion has an abundance of evil in its history. That is an accurate observation. As a theist, there are many of the terrible works of religion and religious people which are part of my heritage. I must own them: The Inquisition, the Crusades, the Salem witch trials, apartheid, slavery and segregation, and much more right down to right-wing religion as captive of the political right wing.—all are part of my history. It is a sad history. At the same time, atheism has its dark side. Like every other perspective good and evil are intertwined. Even science has its issues. The spoiling of the earth, atomic weapons and all weapons for that matter, are the products of a scientific discipline without a moral compass. To make points about who is worse gets us nowhere. We all share a mixed heritage.

2-The crisis facing America has little to do with who is right in our debates. The real issue lies in two very separate notions. One says every person for him/her self, and the devil take the hindmost. The other says that we are all involved in a community in which we need each other. The Christian fundamentalists who talk about their own personal salvation and the Objectivists who talk about the same thing in secular terms come from identical cloth. In both cases, that’s the enemy, not each other. Here in the Democratic Underground we have a very different perspective. We are a community of mutual need and support. Government is one way we manage that perspective.

3-Hard as it sometimes seems, we have much to learn from each other. I need to hear why atheists have been persecuted over the centuries, and to stand with and for them in their persecution. Atheists need to know that underneath the dogma of religion is an ethical imperative with which they probably already agree.

If we can agree about these things, is there a way to become a positive force, particularly as we face the decisions that must be made this year? I am ready to admit the many ways I have been part of the problem, not part of the answer.

Here then is my proposal as to what I will do, only asking a similar response.
1-Instead of focusing on what is evil, wrong, negative about others with a different view point, I will leave that aside and listen to what positive ideas and actions each of us has to offer. I’ll give up on Pol Pot and Ayn Rand. I will no longer try and point out the dark side of atheism, but listen to the positive things atheism and atheists have brought to the table—and ask the same from you.

2-I will immediately remove everyone on my ignore list from that designation, and try and listen with fresh ears to what all have to say.

3-I will quit trying to make smart debater’s points, and try to find ways we can agree about action, even if we will not agree about points of view.

4-While this group is titled “religion,” the issue is not pro-religion or anti-religion, but how each of these perspectives adds to our store of wisdom, and moves toward positive outcomes in the crises facing our country.

5-When I receive another’s post, instead of immediately thinking how I will respond, I will stop and listen before I react.

I’m ready for this transition whenever anyone else is.
Charles

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Can we discuss religion in a fresh productive way? I'm ready. (Original Post) Thats my opinion Apr 2012 OP
It seems really easy to me. rrneck Apr 2012 #1
You are once again telling others how you believe they should participate in this forum. darkstar3 Apr 2012 #2
Exactly the same business as the alert button, but more subtle. Have a problem with civility? saras Apr 2012 #3
I think it would/could be very useful saras Apr 2012 #4
I, too, have been transformed by the DU Religion forum longship Apr 2012 #5
I would like to respond to your plea in a more positive way than I have previously, mr blur Apr 2012 #6
Good! I have a solid repect for humanists, and what they stand for. Thats my opinion Apr 2012 #21
This message was self-deleted by its author mr blur Apr 2012 #7
In other words skepticscott Apr 2012 #8
The Dark Side Angry Dragon Apr 2012 #9
I am not about to talk about the dark side of atheism. Thats my opinion Apr 2012 #15
If that is the case then you had no business Angry Dragon Apr 2012 #20
This is the sort of thing I hope we can get beyond. If you want to stay there, do so. Thats my opinion Apr 2012 #22
If there are things you wish to get past Angry Dragon Apr 2012 #24
So..... opiate69 Apr 2012 #26
No. 2ndAmForComputers Apr 2012 #10
Apropos, rug Apr 2012 #11
While I applaud you for your attempt at a fresh start, trotsky Apr 2012 #12
If you are really ready, take everyone OFF your ignore list and LISTEN to what they have to say. cleanhippie Apr 2012 #13
i have already done that nt Thats my opinion Apr 2012 #17
Awesome! Thanks. I really hope we can get somewhere. cleanhippie Apr 2012 #25
I understand what you are saying. edhopper Apr 2012 #14
No one has asked you to accept my "beliefs about God." Thats my opinion Apr 2012 #16
Yes edhopper Apr 2012 #19
"I'm not prejudiced," she said, "some of my best friends are Negroes." nt Thats my opinion May 2012 #28
I suppose that is in reference edhopper May 2012 #30
no no no--certainly not accept--that would be false Thats my opinion May 2012 #31
Yes, edhopper May 2012 #32
of course--after really listening without prejudging agreed? nt Thats my opinion May 2012 #33
Well, edhopper May 2012 #34
Thinking about it, djean111 Apr 2012 #18
A group titled "religion" just may have some mention of the subject. nt Thats my opinion Apr 2012 #23
Hey .. Why Syzygy Apr 2012 #27
I'll take any mascot except Izzy. rug May 2012 #29

darkstar3

(8,763 posts)
2. You are once again telling others how you believe they should participate in this forum.
Mon Apr 30, 2012, 01:57 AM
Apr 2012

What business is that of yours?

 

saras

(6,670 posts)
4. I think it would/could be very useful
Mon Apr 30, 2012, 02:21 AM
Apr 2012

One starting place I'd suggest is to support "spiritual" experience, a personal thing, from religion, a form of social organization.

Another is to start somewhere other than Christianity/Judaism/Islam

But whatever works for everyone.

longship

(40,416 posts)
5. I, too, have been transformed by the DU Religion forum
Mon Apr 30, 2012, 04:00 AM
Apr 2012

I am an atheist and have been as long as I can remember, in spite of having been a regular church attendee for the first 13 years of my life. No, I would not have called myself that back then. Nevertheless, I went through the various ceremonial observances. I suspect many do the same as I did.

Many of the issues you bring up have been discussed in This DUThread. I, too, have been attempting to bring these issues to the fore.

I will be a very willing supporter of any such effort that you suggest as long as it is ecumenical, so to speak.

Good for all of us here if people pay attention.

 

mr blur

(7,753 posts)
6. I would like to respond to your plea in a more positive way than I have previously,
Mon Apr 30, 2012, 05:40 AM
Apr 2012

as a member of The British Humanist Association rather than as an atheist.

The British Humanist Association...

...is the national charity working on behalf of non-religious people who seek to live ethical and fulfilling lives on the basis of reason and humanity. We promote Humanism, support and represent the non-religious, and promote a secular state and equal treatment in law and policy of everyone, regardless of religion or belief.
Humanists...

...are atheists and agnostics who make sense of the world using reason, experience and shared human values. We take responsibility for our actions and base our ethics on the goals of human welfare, happiness and fulfilment. We seek to make the best of the one life we have by creating meaning and purpose for ourselves, individually and together.


If we leave aside the fundmental difference between us then I would imagine that your goals and ours might coincide more than they clash.

Thats my opinion

(2,001 posts)
21. Good! I have a solid repect for humanists, and what they stand for.
Mon Apr 30, 2012, 02:57 PM
Apr 2012

"reason, experience and shared human values" will provide much of the common ground we need.

Response to Thats my opinion (Original post)

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
8. In other words
Mon Apr 30, 2012, 06:09 AM
Apr 2012

you'd like us to fall in line with the same agenda you've been peddling for the last year, and stop mentioning the negative and evil things that have been done in the name of religion, but give religion credit for all of the good in the world. Tell you what...we'll keep pointing them out until they stop happening and until religion in any form stops trying to ram itself down other people's throats and intrude into every aspect of their lives. Deal?

Angry Dragon

(36,693 posts)
9. The Dark Side
Mon Apr 30, 2012, 06:57 AM
Apr 2012

You list some of the dark sides of religion and then you mention that atheism has a dark side.
What are some of the things of atheism come from the dark side??

You ask why atheists have been persecuted over the centuries. The only why to do that is to bring up the dark side of religion. And only the leaders of the church can truly answer that question.

Thats my opinion

(2,001 posts)
15. I am not about to talk about the dark side of atheism.
Mon Apr 30, 2012, 12:53 PM
Apr 2012

Any center on anyone's dark side is productive of nothing but defensiveness and bad feelings. So why center on that?

Angry Dragon

(36,693 posts)
20. If that is the case then you had no business
Mon Apr 30, 2012, 01:56 PM
Apr 2012

mentioning it at least 2 times in your OP

You mentioned some of the dark side of religion and then make it seem atheism has a dark side.
I ask for examples of this
You make a false comparison of the dark side of both stances
The only dark side of atheism that I can see is that the non-believer, if there is a god, is going to go to hell.
Hurts no one except themselves.

In your OP you attack the dark side of atheism. Just by mentioning it is an attack. Without you stating what you consider the dark side, how can one debate or discuss the merits of your stance if you refuse to list what you consider what things are on the dark side of atheism.

Thats my opinion

(2,001 posts)
22. This is the sort of thing I hope we can get beyond. If you want to stay there, do so.
Mon Apr 30, 2012, 03:02 PM
Apr 2012

I will not put you or anyone on ignore in the future, but I just won't respond. It gets no one anywhere positive.

Angry Dragon

(36,693 posts)
24. If there are things you wish to get past
Mon Apr 30, 2012, 03:25 PM
Apr 2012

then why do you bring them up and then refuse to discuss them??

Perhaps it is just me, but I find it very hard to see you attack atheists and then state that you will not discuss it. I do not respect people that attack and then hide.

I feel you have no respect for me when I question parts of your OP and refuse to back them up with opinions or facts.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
11. Apropos,
Mon Apr 30, 2012, 07:24 AM
Apr 2012

Memo to the Blog-o-sphere: Saying Atheists R Stoopid is Lame

April 26, 2012 By Frank Weathers

I’m going to go out on a limb here and say that witnessing to atheists, at least in the manner that seems to be popular in the Catholic blog-o-sphere nowadays, is in a sad state of affairs.

Posts thumbing our noses at atheists, posts basically saying that atheists are idiots, and posts attempting to stick their noses in what some believe to be atheist formed pools of pee-pee (I reckon), is pretty much de rigueur.

Oh, it looks like a lot of victory laps, and high fives are being exchanged everywhere in Catholic bubbleland when a good, snarky, post sticking it to the atheists is published. Don’t it feel so goooood ya’ll? But although folks may think you showed ‘em up, and all, it’s not *cough* sharing the Good News. Nor will it ever be perceived as such.

Full Disclosure: I’ve never been an atheist, so I honestly have no idea what standing in their shoes is like. I doubt I’ll ever write a post with “but the modern day atheist thinks…” as a line ever. 932 posts into my blogging career so far, and I’ve yet to do it. Because if faith is a gift, then I received it at an early age. And as for manners, well, my mamma taught me right.

http://www.patheos.com/blogs/yimcatholic/2012/04/memo-to-the-blog-o-sphere-saying-atheists-r-stoopid-is-lame.html

He's a wiser man than I.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
12. While I applaud you for your attempt at a fresh start,
Mon Apr 30, 2012, 07:29 AM
Apr 2012

you don't get to determine what is a valid discussion topic in this group. Real-life attacks on human rights and the progressive agenda are happening today because of how some Christians think everyone else needs to live. You are exhibiting the same desire to control others' behavior and it's not welcome.

Now, on to your specific things "we all might admit":

1-Every perspective, discipline and point of view has within it both the positive and the negative.

False. Every PERSON has within them positive and negative. Certain points of view are more conducive to encouraging and rewarding the positive side of people. Others help bring out the negative. We should be able to point this out, and identify flaws in worldviews that are harming our country.

2-The crisis facing America has little to do with who is right in our debates.

Quite false. Is there a god who has a plan for our country? Yes or no. Pat Robertson and Fred Phelps and countless Republicans will answer with an enthusiastic YES, just like you do. Certainly your view of that plan differs from theirs, however it's still the same problem: doing what you THINK your god wants versus doing what's right for human society. I have no doubt you think those are one and the same. But so do Pat and Fred and their gang. In 2000 years, Christians have been unable to come to a consensus about what god wants us to do with our private parts, let alone how we should govern a society. Religion entrenches each side and blocks compromise. That's our crisis. We're paralyzed because each side thinks their agenda is what god wants - compromise is then a step away from god.

3-Hard as it sometimes seems, we have much to learn from each other. I need to hear why atheists have been persecuted over the centuries, and to stand with and for them in their persecution.

Is it really a mystery to you why atheists have been viewed so negatively as long as religion has had power? Seriously?

You claim to want a fresh start, but all I see is a threat like "I'll behave better, but only as long as no one brings up things I don't think we should talk about."

You're not the decider.

edhopper

(33,482 posts)
14. I understand what you are saying.
Mon Apr 30, 2012, 09:46 AM
Apr 2012

This is a very wide forum. At times we discuss the nature of religion and belief. And area I see no reason to compromise with the ideas of a deity or supernatural component to the Universe. One side merely believes in something that does not exist and I see no reason to accept or be respectful of those beliefs.
On the other hand there are post about what religious and non religious people do. I don't see the need to condemn a person for acting in a positive way simply because the motivation was religious.
Basically I do applaud your support for a progressive agenda and at the same time see no reason to accept any of your beliefs about God.

Thats my opinion

(2,001 posts)
16. No one has asked you to accept my "beliefs about God."
Mon Apr 30, 2012, 12:59 PM
Apr 2012

I think common respect is at the core of what I am proposing.
Are you with that or not?

edhopper

(33,482 posts)
19. Yes
Mon Apr 30, 2012, 01:55 PM
Apr 2012

But I think at times people (not you specifically) do not understand the difference between respecting a person and respecting their beliefs.
I respect many Catholics. I have no respect for the Catholic Church, nor any of it's beliefs.

I would say that we have usually replied with each other with respect.

Don't hope for more than your own interactions. Sometimes with others here I find that derision is the best response.

edhopper

(33,482 posts)
30. I suppose that is in reference
Tue May 1, 2012, 03:16 PM
May 2012

to my line about Catholics. I guess my meaning wasn't clear. It wasn't "some of my best friends are Catholic." It was I can respect a person and still not respect some of their beliefs. I have friends that are conservative. I can respect them and still think their right wing think is drivel.
In this forum there seems to be a line of thinking by some that we should just accept and respect others beliefs and leave it at that. Since we don't do that for any other area of life, like politics or economics for instance, why should we with religion?

Thats my opinion

(2,001 posts)
31. no no no--certainly not accept--that would be false
Tue May 1, 2012, 04:44 PM
May 2012

but listen respectfully and try to hear not only what a person says, but why.

edhopper

(33,482 posts)
32. Yes,
Tue May 1, 2012, 05:04 PM
May 2012

but also to not let conceptions that one finds inaccurate or incorrect go unchallenged in the conversation.

 

djean111

(14,255 posts)
18. Thinking about it,
Mon Apr 30, 2012, 01:49 PM
Apr 2012

there is nothing of value for me in a discussion that seeks to link religion or atheism with good deeds.
There is not really a causality - unless, I guess, some religious people would do bad things if they weren't presented with those commandments.

Misuse of science? Caused by the corruption of power and money, nothing to do with religion.
Why not talk of good deeds and bad with no mention of religion, or lack thereof?

And I feel it a bit disingenuous to wonder why atheists are persecuted.

Why Syzygy

(18,928 posts)
27. Hey ..
Mon Apr 30, 2012, 04:20 PM
Apr 2012

I used to come around R&T. I don't do much DU any longer. But I have to comment after a quick skim through old familiar territory; I don't get that you're trying to control anyone or set any agenda, yada. That's a deflection tactic. Since battle is so attractive to so many meaningful member's contributions here; partner there.

Fantasy football? pshaw I'm suggesting the battles of the bands DU/RT style. Team up. Name mascots. Do the little sports polls and stuff. (I am a conscientious objector to professional sports.) Why not know the score and hit one for the home team? And all that.

No need to fight over whether or not you all are going to fight! lol Or not. Some folks .. I don't know.

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