Religion
Related: About this forumCan we discuss religion in a fresh productive way? I'm ready.
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This post seeks to discuss the nature of religion as a positive value for some of us, while others legitimately and with good reason see it in a negative light. I realize that I have often responded belligerently before listening.
There is something of a dead-end in what has been happening here. I admit to being part of the problem, but what has been going on has gotten no one anywhereno growth, no new insight, no understanding of each other. We may joust about who is the bigger, the smarter, the most stupid and superstitious, but there is really little sharing of information, just each of us trying to make debaters points without success. Nobody is enlightened, let along changed. But perhaps we are not really at work to change anyone elsebut to listen.
So let me a suggest a different approach.
First of all, there are some things we all might admit.
1-Every perspective, discipline and point of view has within it both the positive and the negative. The accusation has often been made that religion has an abundance of evil in its history. That is an accurate observation. As a theist, there are many of the terrible works of religion and religious people which are part of my heritage. I must own them: The Inquisition, the Crusades, the Salem witch trials, apartheid, slavery and segregation, and much more right down to right-wing religion as captive of the political right wing.all are part of my history. It is a sad history. At the same time, atheism has its dark side. Like every other perspective good and evil are intertwined. Even science has its issues. The spoiling of the earth, atomic weapons and all weapons for that matter, are the products of a scientific discipline without a moral compass. To make points about who is worse gets us nowhere. We all share a mixed heritage.
2-The crisis facing America has little to do with who is right in our debates. The real issue lies in two very separate notions. One says every person for him/her self, and the devil take the hindmost. The other says that we are all involved in a community in which we need each other. The Christian fundamentalists who talk about their own personal salvation and the Objectivists who talk about the same thing in secular terms come from identical cloth. In both cases, thats the enemy, not each other. Here in the Democratic Underground we have a very different perspective. We are a community of mutual need and support. Government is one way we manage that perspective.
3-Hard as it sometimes seems, we have much to learn from each other. I need to hear why atheists have been persecuted over the centuries, and to stand with and for them in their persecution. Atheists need to know that underneath the dogma of religion is an ethical imperative with which they probably already agree.
If we can agree about these things, is there a way to become a positive force, particularly as we face the decisions that must be made this year? I am ready to admit the many ways I have been part of the problem, not part of the answer.
Here then is my proposal as to what I will do, only asking a similar response.
1-Instead of focusing on what is evil, wrong, negative about others with a different view point, I will leave that aside and listen to what positive ideas and actions each of us has to offer. Ill give up on Pol Pot and Ayn Rand. I will no longer try and point out the dark side of atheism, but listen to the positive things atheism and atheists have brought to the tableand ask the same from you.
2-I will immediately remove everyone on my ignore list from that designation, and try and listen with fresh ears to what all have to say.
3-I will quit trying to make smart debaters points, and try to find ways we can agree about action, even if we will not agree about points of view.
4-While this group is titled religion, the issue is not pro-religion or anti-religion, but how each of these perspectives adds to our store of wisdom, and moves toward positive outcomes in the crises facing our country.
5-When I receive anothers post, instead of immediately thinking how I will respond, I will stop and listen before I react.
Im ready for this transition whenever anyone else is.
Charles
rrneck
(17,671 posts)Albeit easier said than done.
Inspire people.
darkstar3
(8,763 posts)What business is that of yours?
saras
(6,670 posts)saras
(6,670 posts)One starting place I'd suggest is to support "spiritual" experience, a personal thing, from religion, a form of social organization.
Another is to start somewhere other than Christianity/Judaism/Islam
But whatever works for everyone.
longship
(40,416 posts)I am an atheist and have been as long as I can remember, in spite of having been a regular church attendee for the first 13 years of my life. No, I would not have called myself that back then. Nevertheless, I went through the various ceremonial observances. I suspect many do the same as I did.
Many of the issues you bring up have been discussed in This DUThread. I, too, have been attempting to bring these issues to the fore.
I will be a very willing supporter of any such effort that you suggest as long as it is ecumenical, so to speak.
Good for all of us here if people pay attention.
mr blur
(7,753 posts)as a member of The British Humanist Association rather than as an atheist.
...is the national charity working on behalf of non-religious people who seek to live ethical and fulfilling lives on the basis of reason and humanity. We promote Humanism, support and represent the non-religious, and promote a secular state and equal treatment in law and policy of everyone, regardless of religion or belief.
Humanists...
...are atheists and agnostics who make sense of the world using reason, experience and shared human values. We take responsibility for our actions and base our ethics on the goals of human welfare, happiness and fulfilment. We seek to make the best of the one life we have by creating meaning and purpose for ourselves, individually and together.
If we leave aside the fundmental difference between us then I would imagine that your goals and ours might coincide more than they clash.
Thats my opinion
(2,001 posts)"reason, experience and shared human values" will provide much of the common ground we need.
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skepticscott
(13,029 posts)you'd like us to fall in line with the same agenda you've been peddling for the last year, and stop mentioning the negative and evil things that have been done in the name of religion, but give religion credit for all of the good in the world. Tell you what...we'll keep pointing them out until they stop happening and until religion in any form stops trying to ram itself down other people's throats and intrude into every aspect of their lives. Deal?
Angry Dragon
(36,693 posts)You list some of the dark sides of religion and then you mention that atheism has a dark side.
What are some of the things of atheism come from the dark side??
You ask why atheists have been persecuted over the centuries. The only why to do that is to bring up the dark side of religion. And only the leaders of the church can truly answer that question.
Thats my opinion
(2,001 posts)Any center on anyone's dark side is productive of nothing but defensiveness and bad feelings. So why center on that?
Angry Dragon
(36,693 posts)mentioning it at least 2 times in your OP
You mentioned some of the dark side of religion and then make it seem atheism has a dark side.
I ask for examples of this
You make a false comparison of the dark side of both stances
The only dark side of atheism that I can see is that the non-believer, if there is a god, is going to go to hell.
Hurts no one except themselves.
In your OP you attack the dark side of atheism. Just by mentioning it is an attack. Without you stating what you consider the dark side, how can one debate or discuss the merits of your stance if you refuse to list what you consider what things are on the dark side of atheism.
Thats my opinion
(2,001 posts)I will not put you or anyone on ignore in the future, but I just won't respond. It gets no one anywhere positive.
Angry Dragon
(36,693 posts)then why do you bring them up and then refuse to discuss them??
Perhaps it is just me, but I find it very hard to see you attack atheists and then state that you will not discuss it. I do not respect people that attack and then hide.
I feel you have no respect for me when I question parts of your OP and refuse to back them up with opinions or facts.
opiate69
(10,129 posts)you won`t "put anyone on ignore"... you`ll just ignore them...... allrightythen..
2ndAmForComputers
(3,527 posts)You are not.
rug
(82,333 posts)Memo to the Blog-o-sphere: Saying Atheists R Stoopid is Lame
April 26, 2012 By Frank Weathers
Im going to go out on a limb here and say that witnessing to atheists, at least in the manner that seems to be popular in the Catholic blog-o-sphere nowadays, is in a sad state of affairs.
Posts thumbing our noses at atheists, posts basically saying that atheists are idiots, and posts attempting to stick their noses in what some believe to be atheist formed pools of pee-pee (I reckon), is pretty much de rigueur.
Oh, it looks like a lot of victory laps, and high fives are being exchanged everywhere in Catholic bubbleland when a good, snarky, post sticking it to the atheists is published. Dont it feel so goooood yall? But although folks may think you showed em up, and all, its not *cough* sharing the Good News. Nor will it ever be perceived as such.
Full Disclosure: Ive never been an atheist, so I honestly have no idea what standing in their shoes is like. I doubt Ill ever write a post with but the modern day atheist thinks
as a line ever. 932 posts into my blogging career so far, and Ive yet to do it. Because if faith is a gift, then I received it at an early age. And as for manners, well, my mamma taught me right.
http://www.patheos.com/blogs/yimcatholic/2012/04/memo-to-the-blog-o-sphere-saying-atheists-r-stoopid-is-lame.html
He's a wiser man than I.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)you don't get to determine what is a valid discussion topic in this group. Real-life attacks on human rights and the progressive agenda are happening today because of how some Christians think everyone else needs to live. You are exhibiting the same desire to control others' behavior and it's not welcome.
Now, on to your specific things "we all might admit":
1-Every perspective, discipline and point of view has within it both the positive and the negative.
False. Every PERSON has within them positive and negative. Certain points of view are more conducive to encouraging and rewarding the positive side of people. Others help bring out the negative. We should be able to point this out, and identify flaws in worldviews that are harming our country.
2-The crisis facing America has little to do with who is right in our debates.
Quite false. Is there a god who has a plan for our country? Yes or no. Pat Robertson and Fred Phelps and countless Republicans will answer with an enthusiastic YES, just like you do. Certainly your view of that plan differs from theirs, however it's still the same problem: doing what you THINK your god wants versus doing what's right for human society. I have no doubt you think those are one and the same. But so do Pat and Fred and their gang. In 2000 years, Christians have been unable to come to a consensus about what god wants us to do with our private parts, let alone how we should govern a society. Religion entrenches each side and blocks compromise. That's our crisis. We're paralyzed because each side thinks their agenda is what god wants - compromise is then a step away from god.
3-Hard as it sometimes seems, we have much to learn from each other. I need to hear why atheists have been persecuted over the centuries, and to stand with and for them in their persecution.
Is it really a mystery to you why atheists have been viewed so negatively as long as religion has had power? Seriously?
You claim to want a fresh start, but all I see is a threat like "I'll behave better, but only as long as no one brings up things I don't think we should talk about."
You're not the decider.
cleanhippie
(19,705 posts)Thats my opinion
(2,001 posts)cleanhippie
(19,705 posts)edhopper
(33,482 posts)This is a very wide forum. At times we discuss the nature of religion and belief. And area I see no reason to compromise with the ideas of a deity or supernatural component to the Universe. One side merely believes in something that does not exist and I see no reason to accept or be respectful of those beliefs.
On the other hand there are post about what religious and non religious people do. I don't see the need to condemn a person for acting in a positive way simply because the motivation was religious.
Basically I do applaud your support for a progressive agenda and at the same time see no reason to accept any of your beliefs about God.
Thats my opinion
(2,001 posts)I think common respect is at the core of what I am proposing.
Are you with that or not?
edhopper
(33,482 posts)But I think at times people (not you specifically) do not understand the difference between respecting a person and respecting their beliefs.
I respect many Catholics. I have no respect for the Catholic Church, nor any of it's beliefs.
I would say that we have usually replied with each other with respect.
Don't hope for more than your own interactions. Sometimes with others here I find that derision is the best response.
Thats my opinion
(2,001 posts)edhopper
(33,482 posts)to my line about Catholics. I guess my meaning wasn't clear. It wasn't "some of my best friends are Catholic." It was I can respect a person and still not respect some of their beliefs. I have friends that are conservative. I can respect them and still think their right wing think is drivel.
In this forum there seems to be a line of thinking by some that we should just accept and respect others beliefs and leave it at that. Since we don't do that for any other area of life, like politics or economics for instance, why should we with religion?
Thats my opinion
(2,001 posts)but listen respectfully and try to hear not only what a person says, but why.
edhopper
(33,482 posts)but also to not let conceptions that one finds inaccurate or incorrect go unchallenged in the conversation.
Thats my opinion
(2,001 posts)edhopper
(33,482 posts)one should try.
djean111
(14,255 posts)there is nothing of value for me in a discussion that seeks to link religion or atheism with good deeds.
There is not really a causality - unless, I guess, some religious people would do bad things if they weren't presented with those commandments.
Misuse of science? Caused by the corruption of power and money, nothing to do with religion.
Why not talk of good deeds and bad with no mention of religion, or lack thereof?
And I feel it a bit disingenuous to wonder why atheists are persecuted.
Thats my opinion
(2,001 posts)Why Syzygy
(18,928 posts)I used to come around R&T. I don't do much DU any longer. But I have to comment after a quick skim through old familiar territory; I don't get that you're trying to control anyone or set any agenda, yada. That's a deflection tactic. Since battle is so attractive to so many meaningful member's contributions here; partner there.
Fantasy football? pshaw I'm suggesting the battles of the bands DU/RT style. Team up. Name mascots. Do the little sports polls and stuff. (I am a conscientious objector to professional sports.) Why not know the score and hit one for the home team? And all that.
No need to fight over whether or not you all are going to fight! lol Or not. Some folks .. I don't know.