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MineralMan

(146,262 posts)
Thu Nov 22, 2018, 11:22 AM Nov 2018

I Respect People's Right to Believe Whatever They Are Able to Believe.

Last edited Thu Nov 22, 2018, 12:16 PM - Edit history (1)

That does not require me to respect the things they believe. Respect for people's rights is not the same as respect for beliefs I think are false, or that have no valid evidence of being true. Not in any way. Normally, out of respect for people, I will not try to convince them that their beliefs are incorrect, in normal social situations.. I expect reciprocity in this, and consider direct attempts to convince me to believe as they do to be rude. I will respond to such rudeness with a request that it end.

However, in places where discussion of beliefs is the reason for the existence of that place, I have no qualms about talking about false beliefs directly and declaring them to be false. DU's Religion Group is one such place. Here, as in other discussion areas that are dedicated to the open discussion of Religion and related issues, there is no disrespect in stating disbelief. Here, opinions about religious issues and organizations are welcomed, both positive and negative.

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I Respect People's Right to Believe Whatever They Are Able to Believe. (Original Post) MineralMan Nov 2018 OP
"I Respect People's Right to Believe Whatever They Are Able to Believe." Comatose Sphagetti Nov 2018 #1
In the United States, people absolutely have the right to believe in absurdities. Mariana Nov 2018 #2
Yep. n/t Comatose Sphagetti Nov 2018 #3
There is a difference between belief and acting on those beliefs. MineralMan Nov 2018 #5
Some people are so heavily invested in their mythology... Major Nikon Nov 2018 #4
That is true, of course. When beliefs cause harmful actions, MineralMan Nov 2018 #6
It doesn't have to be complicated Major Nikon Nov 2018 #9
Concisely Put and Illustrated MineralMan Nov 2018 #10
Help me understand... Comatose Sphagetti Nov 2018 #7
I can't answer that, in your case. MineralMan Nov 2018 #8
Thanks Comatose Sphagetti Nov 2018 #11
One way or another, and for one reason or another, MineralMan Nov 2018 #12
It seems that way to me too. marylandblue Nov 2018 #15
I think there is some sort of random number generator MineralMan Nov 2018 #16
It need not have consequences, and the consequences need not be negative marylandblue Nov 2018 #13
Yes. Behavior in general seems to have little to do with religion, really. MineralMan Nov 2018 #17
And yet we have this huge "religious" voting block. Voltaire2 Nov 2018 #20
Simply knowing someone's religious belief is not enough to predict their vote marylandblue Nov 2018 #21
Yes that is true. It doesn't change the fact Voltaire2 Nov 2018 #22
Well belief is certainly an important factor marylandblue Nov 2018 #23
Odd statement but ok. Voltaire2 Nov 2018 #24
Put it in the context of Comatose Spaghetti's comment at the top of this subthread marylandblue Nov 2018 #27
I think that is obvious and evident. Voltaire2 Nov 2018 #19
I extend my respect to beliefs, not just persons marylandblue Nov 2018 #14
Well, we're somewhat alike. MineralMan Nov 2018 #18
I respect peoples RIGHT to believe edhopper Nov 2018 #25
Yes, exactly. MineralMan Nov 2018 #26

Comatose Sphagetti

(836 posts)
1. "I Respect People's Right to Believe Whatever They Are Able to Believe."
Thu Nov 22, 2018, 12:00 PM
Nov 2018

With all due respect MM, (I like your posts), I do not.

I see a lot of "You believe as you wish" these days, but the religious often vote based on their beliefs. I see it no different than telling a delusion/denial-riddled substance dependent person to "carry on," as if it didn't effect me and everyone else.

I, like you, will push back when/where appropriate, but people do not have the "right" to believe in absurdities. There is no "right" to eschew critical thinking, or embrace delusion, denial and willful ignorance. And there is no leeway between the right to believe and the things believed.

If humanity is ever to break the bonds of religion; education, critical thought, open-mindedness, humility, fearlessness and courage will be necessary.

Mariana

(14,854 posts)
2. In the United States, people absolutely have the right to believe in absurdities.
Thu Nov 22, 2018, 12:12 PM
Nov 2018

Amendment I: Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances.

MineralMan

(146,262 posts)
5. There is a difference between belief and acting on those beliefs.
Thu Nov 22, 2018, 12:20 PM
Nov 2018

I needn't even know what individual people believe. Frankly, I don't care all that much. I do, however, see what people do. I do not claim to be respectful of actions. If someone acts badly, whatever they believe or do not believe, I have the right and the responsibility, I believe, to speak out against those bad actions.

Beliefs, in themselves, are not actions. One may believe he or she is a supernatural entity. If I do know know about that belief, it is not important. However, if that person acts in a way that denies the rights of others, I will speak right up, I guarantee, supernatural entity or not.

Major Nikon

(36,818 posts)
4. Some people are so heavily invested in their mythology...
Thu Nov 22, 2018, 12:17 PM
Nov 2018

they can't differentiate between intolerance of a bad idea and intolerance of a person who may subscribe to the bad idea. This often leads to ad hominem attacks by those who are incapable of making such distinctions.

MineralMan

(146,262 posts)
6. That is true, of course. When beliefs cause harmful actions,
Thu Nov 22, 2018, 12:23 PM
Nov 2018

all bets are off. If a person attributes their bad actions to their beliefs, then I am no longer required to be tolerant of those beliefs, since they cause bad actions.

Beliefs are individual, personal, and should be internal. Acting on beliefs often interferes with others. That's the main reason to hold beliefs internally. Avoiding undue influence on others is a staple element of proper behavior in society.

Comatose Sphagetti

(836 posts)
7. Help me understand...
Thu Nov 22, 2018, 12:51 PM
Nov 2018

If I believe in and am an adherent of "Absurdity A," that will never influence my behavior/actions/decisions?

MineralMan

(146,262 posts)
8. I can't answer that, in your case.
Thu Nov 22, 2018, 01:16 PM
Nov 2018

I imagine you are the only one inside your own head. Certainly I am not.

I'm not an adherent of any supernatural absurdities, so I can't really answer for myself, either. My behavior/actions/decisions are influenced by a general ethical compass. I strive to behave/act/decide in ways that do not harm others. I am usually successful, I think.

It seems I will be unable to help you understand, for which I humbly apologize.

Comatose Sphagetti

(836 posts)
11. Thanks
Thu Nov 22, 2018, 01:30 PM
Nov 2018

I do not adhere to supernatural absurdities either and my behavior/actions/decisions are also influenced by a general ethical compass.

My premise would be that any absurd belief (religious or otherwise) will have corresponding absurd thoughts/actions/behavior/consequences for the believer and everyone else inhabiting this rock.

MineralMan

(146,262 posts)
12. One way or another, and for one reason or another,
Thu Nov 22, 2018, 01:34 PM
Nov 2018

people in general seem to lean toward absurdity. At least, so it seems to me after 73 years of observation of myself and others.

At least absurdity offers fodder for laughter. So, there is that.

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
15. It seems that way to me too.
Thu Nov 22, 2018, 02:13 PM
Nov 2018

We seem to have an absurdity generator in our brains. Maybe this is why magical things can happen in dreams.

MineralMan

(146,262 posts)
16. I think there is some sort of random number generator
Thu Nov 22, 2018, 02:16 PM
Nov 2018

in our brains somewhere. Occasionally it feeds one of those into whatever we're doing, causing absurdity sometimes and creativity other times. Often, it's hard to tell the two things apart, of course.

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
13. It need not have consequences, and the consequences need not be negative
Thu Nov 22, 2018, 01:43 PM
Nov 2018

Many religious people have the same ethical compass you do. They just believe the compass is set by God, not by civil society or reason. But in their daily actions, they act exactly the same as people who don't share that belief.

MineralMan

(146,262 posts)
17. Yes. Behavior in general seems to have little to do with religion, really.
Thu Nov 22, 2018, 02:17 PM
Nov 2018

It's a function of other things, I think.

Voltaire2

(12,965 posts)
20. And yet we have this huge "religious" voting block.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 10:44 AM
Nov 2018

And a “religious” subculture associated with it. This seems to directly contradict your observation.

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
21. Simply knowing someone's religious belief is not enough to predict their vote
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 06:51 PM
Nov 2018

White evangelicals and black evangelicals have the same religious beliefs, but they vote in opposite numbers. That's because only one party will protect black evangelicals' civil rights. So skin color is a better predictor of how someone votes than religious belief.

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
23. Well belief is certainly an important factor
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 07:47 PM
Nov 2018

But people are just too complicated to draw a direct line from belief to action.

Voltaire2

(12,965 posts)
24. Odd statement but ok.
Sat Nov 24, 2018, 07:22 AM
Nov 2018

Of course it’s not a direct line. In terms of human behavior pretty much nothing is that simple. You seem to be avoiding any causality between religious beliefs and actions.

The Republican Party knows the link exists.

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
27. Put it in the context of Comatose Spaghetti's comment at the top of this subthread
Sat Nov 24, 2018, 12:11 PM
Nov 2018

He said:

"My premise would be that any absurd belief (religious or otherwise) will have corresponding absurd thoughts/actions/behavior/consequences for the believer and everyone else inhabiting this rock."


That's much too strong of a statement, and does imply a direct line. That's what I was denying.


But if you are trying to sway a large group of voters, and you already know they disapprove of abortion, then putting an anti-choice plank in the center of your platform is a good way to get their votes.

Voltaire2

(12,965 posts)
19. I think that is obvious and evident.
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 10:42 AM
Nov 2018

I don’t understand the contrary position here. Perhaps the confusion is over the rights issue. People of course have the right to believe any idiocy, but they do not have the right to act out any idiocy.

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
14. I extend my respect to beliefs, not just persons
Thu Nov 22, 2018, 01:49 PM
Nov 2018

I am willing to entertain all sorts of absurd even frightening or dangerous ideas. I think I am unusual in this way. But I do find it gives me some insight into how people think. I think I would have made a good psychologist or intelligence analyst.

MineralMan

(146,262 posts)
18. Well, we're somewhat alike.
Thu Nov 22, 2018, 02:19 PM
Nov 2018

I find all sorts of ideas to be absurd and entertaining. I know I'm unusual in that way.

edhopper

(33,484 posts)
25. I respect peoples RIGHT to believe
Sat Nov 24, 2018, 10:44 AM
Nov 2018

that does not mean I need to respect either that person's beliefs nor that person. Just the Right.

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