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NeoGreen

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Tue Dec 4, 2018, 01:47 PM Dec 2018

The Catholic Church is Threatening Its Own Existence By Driving Away Mothers

https://friendlyatheist.patheos.com/2018/11/29/the-catholic-church-is-threatening-its-own-existence-by-driving-away-mothers/




The Catholic Church is Threatening Its Own Existence By Driving Away Mothers
By Hemant Mehta, November 29, 2018

Caitlin Flanagan of The Atlantic has a message for the Catholic Church: You’re losing your mothers.

In a short video, she explains how she grew up in the Church and had every intention of raising her kids that way. That included sending them to Catholic schools just as she had done. But the recent grand jury report in Pennsylvania, documenting hundreds of acts of “torture” (her word) by priests, convinced her that a Catholic school — and the Church in general — was no place for them.

And if the Church is losing someone as devout as her, how many other mothers are heading down a similar path?

… They are not known, these clergymen, of thinking too highly of women as leaders or decision makers. But who do they think chooses a family’s church? Gets the children ready each Sunday? Prepares them for First Communion, and carnivals, and the Christmas pageant? Mothers.

If I could tell the pope one thing, it would be this: You are losing the mothers. And without us, your Church will crumble.


Flanagan doesn’t elaborate in the video, but she makes it sound like a crumbling Church would be a problem. I find that hard to believe. For all the genuinely decent things the Church does, secular institutions with the same amount of money could arguably do far more, with more oversight, and without the systemic sexual abuse of children.
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matt819

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I don’t like what he’s doing but I’ll stick with him. I don’t like what priests have done or how the church has responded, but I’ll remain devout.

Okay.

As for the good work the church does, why not dedicate your time and money to secular organizations doing the same good work but without the stain of child abuse?

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