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left-of-center2012

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Thu Aug 16, 2018, 10:20 AM Aug 2018

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Fair enough. GeorgeGist Aug 2018 #1
I hope it's true. Crutchez_CuiBono Aug 2018 #2
I believe you. Kittycow Aug 2018 #3
Thank you for sharing that. PoindexterOglethorpe Aug 2018 #4
Yes left-of-center2012 Aug 2018 #5
Thank you again. PoindexterOglethorpe Aug 2018 #6
... orleans Aug 2018 #7
I had a cat die all of a sudden at around 6 years old blue cat Nov 2018 #8

GeorgeGist

(25,311 posts)
1. Fair enough.
Thu Aug 16, 2018, 10:24 AM
Aug 2018

Crutchez_CuiBono

(7,725 posts)
2. I hope it's true.
Thu Aug 16, 2018, 10:34 AM
Aug 2018

For all of our sake.

Kittycow

(2,396 posts)
3. I believe you.
Thu Aug 16, 2018, 10:52 AM
Aug 2018

I think it's kind of a privilege that you were there to witness this.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,812 posts)
4. Thank you for sharing that.
Thu Aug 16, 2018, 11:49 AM
Aug 2018

Did any other patients communicate any such things to you while you were a hospice nurse?

left-of-center2012

(34,195 posts)
5. Yes
Thu Aug 16, 2018, 12:58 PM
Aug 2018

Last edited Thu Aug 16, 2018, 02:14 PM - Edit history (1)

I had a deaf patient who told me he kept hearing beautiful music coming from 'up there',
pointing toward the ceiling during the week preceding his death.
(We were on the top floor. No one was on the roof. Just the sky above.)

I did a private duty 'in home care' for a retired physician who kept pointing toward an empty couch
a number of times during the week prior to his death.
He asked me on a number of occasions "Who is that woman? She looks like she's waiting for something."
I saw no one there. He told me what she looked like and I asked the family. They knew no one who resembled the woman.

I was doing the night shift 'in home' for a man who had made millions selling insurance.
We were alone in the house. Around 3 A.M. I heard the metal folding doors of a hall closet rattling.
I searched the house. All doors and windows were shut and locked. No one else was there but me and the patient.
The next morning his daughter came around 8 A.M. to take over. I told her about the noise.
She said "Oh, you heard our ghost." We went into the hall and looked at the folding doors on the closet.
They were wood. She said they used to be metal but kept sticking, so they replaced them with wood.
But the 'ghost' keeps rattling the old (no longer existing) metal doors.
After that night, the first thing I did when I came on duty each night was to walk through the house and turn on all the lights.
I never heard the 'ghost' again, and the patient died about 10 days later.

These are a few that stand out in my mind.

I think when you work with and around the dying, there are forces that you come in contact with, whether you know it or not.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,812 posts)
6. Thank you again.
Thu Aug 16, 2018, 01:54 PM
Aug 2018

I always love hearing such stories.

orleans

(34,040 posts)
7. ...
Fri Aug 17, 2018, 09:43 PM
Aug 2018

"There are more things in heaven and earth, Horatio, Than are dreamt of in your philosophy" (Hamlet) Shakespeare

thank you for sharing.

blue cat

(2,415 posts)
8. I had a cat die all of a sudden at around 6 years old
Mon Nov 5, 2018, 09:50 AM
Nov 2018

He had no symptoms prior. He played with something not there in the days preceding his death, and I had never seen him do it before.

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