2016 Postmortem
Related: About this forumHillary seems manic
It's like the accelerator is all the way to the floor.
Maybe she'll calm down.
elias49
(4,259 posts)Aggressive.
CoffeeCat
(24,411 posts)And she's coming into this trying to regain losses.
elias49
(4,259 posts)getting carried away playing the Israel card!
AgingAmerican
(12,958 posts)It means hyper
InAbLuEsTaTe
(24,122 posts)Bernie & Elizabeth 2016!!!
InAbLuEsTaTe
(24,122 posts)... I'd rather have the real thing!
Bernie & Elizabeth 2016!!!
DiehardLiberal
(580 posts)zazen
(2,978 posts)Let's not call her strident or criticize her for being animated and passionate when we don't apply the same standard to men.
Punkingal
(9,522 posts)InAbLuEsTaTe
(24,122 posts)merrily
(45,251 posts)"You're likeable enough, Hillary."
Apparently, she confuses authoritarian droning in a loud voice with strength.
zazen
(2,978 posts)I don't like a different standard being applied to her high spirits, even if they're just caffeinated or something (and we've all been there, right?), and I especially don't like the term strident, which was used against so many feminists for so many decades that it basically became associated with telling women to shut up.
I don't think our poster meant that, but I believe it is very important to focus on our policy differences with her and not get any where near double standards where a powerful woman's strong voice or animated physical gestures are criticized as "over the top."
merrily
(45,251 posts)zazen
(2,978 posts)Look, I agree that it seemed out of character, but our commenting on her "tone" is a losing strategy here. If I had the friggin energy I'd start on OP on this.
And frankly, and the CT accusers on the HRC side will be all over me for this one, but if there were ever a trap it'd be this--intentionally coming out on stage and being loud and animated and passionate and then people accuse her of yelling or whatever.
Were I her consultant and someone had assigned me to do Machiavellian tricks I would analyze his voice cadence and volume clip for clip and tell her exactly how fast and loud she could go while still within his parameters.
Then, after the fact, you play the clips side by side with a speech analyst on CNN and voila, it proves to the research-wonk-leftists they indeed they've been rejecting her because of unconscious sexism. THAT would be the gotcha and if I were her paid analyst I'd be screaming it to the rooftops.
Frankly, and this is hard to do because I find her manipulation of feminism for personal gain so odious, her critics almost got me sympathetic last night.
People need to be quiet about her tone and focus on her comments. There's plenty to rip apart there.
We both support the same candidate and I dislike having to openly disagree like this, but does this make sense?
merrily
(45,251 posts)I think double standards--saying we cannot criticize female candidates for the same things for which we criticize male candidates-- are damaging to women. As far as posting to me about words or anything in some other poster's post, I really don't see the point. I am willing to be accountable only for what I post.
polly7
(20,582 posts)we need to be held to the same standards - including behaviour in public. I've read so much about about Bernie Sanders' 'screaming', 'pointing', 'waving his arms' - totally hypocritical to not be able to comment on the same from a woman. Makes women look like weak, soft little flowers who can't withstand the slightest breeze. It's insulting.
merrily
(45,251 posts)If US employers are sexist, they can be liable. Even if they are wrongly charged with sexism, they need to defend themselves, which requires them to divert time and energy, even if they don't hire lawyers. If they do hire lawyers, add financial expense to their downside. If charges of sexism come up every time people hear something about Hillary that they would prefer not to hear, it makes headlines. As an employer--or someone who makes hiring decisions in a business, male or female, sexist or not, reading those headlines, what might you think to yourself the next time a woman applies to you for a job?
polly7
(20,582 posts)merrily
(45,251 posts)business. I know the kinds of things that people who make hiring decisions discuss among themselves. I also know that discrimination while on the job is much easier to prove than discrimination at the hiring stage---unless you give a prospect really stupid reasons for not hiring them.
polly7
(20,582 posts)This is one I'd never even considered though .... being in the position of even a possible lawsuit for gender discrimination, but it makes sense that it would be. That's so sad to think about, that many women probably are refused jobs they're well qualified for because of it. There definitely is unequal treatment of women in the workforce .... these headlines would just fuel the fire, once again, why would any woman stand by and allow it when it's untrue in the first place, let alone push it.
merrily
(45,251 posts)So we did treat minorities and women differently by outreach and by favoring them, all other things being equal or near equal.
However, if we had legitimate reasons not to hire a candidate who happened to be in a protected class, the concern about being wrongly accused of discrimination if we did not hire him or her came up often. Same for when we had legitimate reasons for dismissal. Businesses don't like to be accused of breaking the law, period, especially over something like telling people to watch their tone with clients or other employees.
polly7
(20,582 posts)Such a tough situation to be in.
InAbLuEsTaTe
(24,122 posts)Hillary is toast... and everyone knows it! Go Bernie!
Bernie & Elizabeth 2016!!!
polly7
(20,582 posts)zazen
(2,978 posts)When you respond to my response to someone else, the context is important. You jumped into my conversation with poster #22.
You are mis-using the concept of double standards according to the same line of thinking that critics of affirmative action use (one unfair criticism has happened to a man's behavior! therefore we can criticize women all we want!). You're acting blind to centuries of history, just like people who get furious because one qualified white student is turned down for a program so that a minority person can get the slot.
You're acting like the level playing field only should begin at the point that the injustice to the majority person occurred (in this case, mocking Bernie's passion as "yelling" and ignore everything prior to that.
Constricted standards of tone, behavior and appearance are overly applied to women every day of our lives (and to minority males to some extent).
To pretend otherwise is minimizing the very real silencing that African Americans get for showing human anger (another angry Black person!--God forbid Obama show 1/10th the anger of Donald Trump) and the daily tightrope that women have to walk so that they are "just right"--not too cold, not too warm, not too demure, not too angry, not too soft-spoken, not 'yelling.'
Go right ahead offending women with this line of attack if it's that important to you. You and the other posters doing this are hurting our cause.
merrily
(45,251 posts)Stop digging, stop directing ad homs at me and stop false accusations. And, btw, Hillary is white.
polly7
(20,582 posts)That's no cause - it's 'sexism' you're promoting yourself.
zazen
(2,978 posts)polly7
(20,582 posts)Sanders has been subjected to (mercilessly) here, and even in the MSM.
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zazen
(2,978 posts)That's why I wish we'd be quiet about it because it's only fueling the Clinton argument that we don't support her because of unconscious sexism.
I know she's pandered and lied and the insinuation that Sanders was sexist with that whole "people are shouting about guns thing" infuriated me more than anything. I've been blasted by the Clinton camp here on several occasions and was banned from their group after one posting and called a misogynist!
However, what I saw last night struck me as partly uncontrolled. Whether it was a bad execution of a strategy of seeming animated, or just natural frustration, or as the poster above said, too much Red Bull, the reality is, as a woman, she had a tighter bandwidth within which to operate. She's still facing near impossible standards for her behavior--different and tougher ones than he's facing. And Sanders knows this and calls out the inappropriate comments.
So when she seems over the top in some way I just wish we'd drop it, because we can't be sure what's unconscious sexism and what's the recognition of some familiar pandering strategy.
since we have more than enough material on which to criticize her, we're better just leaving it alone. I'm sure that's what Senator Sanders is doing.
kath
(10,565 posts)YMMV, but historically I think people have had much more of a problem with "shrill". "Strident" I see as being pretty gender-neutral.
zazen
(2,978 posts)Words don't have an inherent authoritative meaning--just what a dictionary snapshot says plus general cultural usage--so I'm good with some people trying "to take it back." But yes, there's a long history of it being used against strong women. Just FYI.
Amanda Hess in Slate:
http://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2013/09/06/jennifer_weiner_tweets_that_strident_is_a_sexist_term_is_it.html
"Historically, the word has been conspicuously applied to women who are characterized as obtrusive or discordant for airing their opinions (particularly, their opinions about being women). In the 1930s, books referred to a strident feminist more than it did a strident critic. Now, they refer to a strident critic much more frequently, but the gender of the critics to whom the term is applied is unclear. Caitlin Moran, in her book How to Be A Woman, suggests that women take back strident feminist as a badge of honor. Its been so wrong for so long that its back to being right again, she wrote. They have used it to abuse us! Lets use it right back at them! Of course, that kind of reclamation only really works when women are using it to refer to themselves."
cherokeeprogressive
(24,853 posts)John Poet
(2,510 posts)thinks that might be what's making him rise in the polls...
or maybe she's trying to fly to New Hampshire,
and save money on airfare because her campaign is going broke...
InAbLuEsTaTe
(24,122 posts)Bernie & Elizabeth 2016!!!
Purveyor
(29,876 posts)Awknid
(381 posts)She is chewing out the questioners.
winter is coming
(11,785 posts)TIme to break out the Nerf balls!
cwydro
(51,308 posts)But of course he's a man...
PyaarRevolution
(814 posts)So don't think I gave him a pass. While Bernie could be intense, most of the time he was just concise and strong.
CoffeeCat
(24,411 posts)KittyWampus
(55,894 posts)CoffeeCat
(24,411 posts)You're being ridiculous.
KittyWampus
(55,894 posts)as the other two.
But tell us all Coffeecat, how did Sanders sound? Hmmmm?
CoffeeCat
(24,411 posts)hyper is sexist?
Wow. You don't like someone's opinion, so you cry sexism?
John Poet
(2,510 posts)was "chicken" about something,
and another poster kept saying that was "sexist"?
Not just one post either, they kept posting it over and over and over...
I guess ya gotta keep that "sexist" card handy,
you can play it in almost any situation....
evidently...
InAbLuEsTaTe
(24,122 posts)They'll be on the Bernie bandwagon soon enough!
Bernie & Elizabeth 2016!!!
Matariki
(18,775 posts)while waiting their turns.
DemocratSinceBirth
(99,710 posts)A person saying I can't be such and such because I'm such and such is as lame an excuse as I can't be such and such because my wife, best friend, whatever is such and such.
BainsBane
(53,029 posts)And women are not exempt from sexism toward other women.
The fact that many people display more animosity toward Clinton than any figure in public life, including Republicans and genocidal dictators, has everything to do with misogyny. People can have legitimate disagreements about policy, but I see virtually no interest in that. The criticism is all about how people here don't like her. They take statements out of context and then express great glee in declaring her a liar. Social science research demonstrates that women are far more likely to be distrusted than men. That has to do with sexism in society and not because there is some chromosomal determination making women less honest.
Then when they insist the only reason people support her is because she is a woman, when no other candidate approaches her experience, breath of knowledge, or intelligence, it becomes obvious their opposition has everything to do with gender.
Patriarchy could not have survived for thousands of years without collaboration from women. People can rail about Wall Street, but its power is temporary, whereas patriarchy is far more entrenched precisely because so many benefit from it.
1StrongBlackMan
(31,849 posts)One would think that "liberals"/"progressives" would have that concept down ... but I see things have changed.
BlueMTexpat
(15,366 posts)Starry Messenger
(32,342 posts)And it's pretty funny since Bernie's whole act is yelling.
DemocratSinceBirth
(99,710 posts)To grab a metaphor it would be like walking up to Brock Lesnar and sucker punching him.
KUDOS
P.S. Braying about one's unyielding antipathy to billionaires and millionaires does not make one a progressive.
Empowerer
(3,900 posts)treestar
(82,383 posts)and Strident and Shrill are buzzwords. Whoever hears them used describing men?
polly7
(20,582 posts)People here have posted articles and proof day after day of her involvement with big-money, her unwillingness to abandon it for the radical change needed to improve the lives of millions of people, her 'it's hopeless' attitude when it comes to single-payer health-care, her warmongering history and intent to continue it in the future - despite the world seeing the horror it's resulted in so far.
You do women everywhere a disservice trying to hide this all away behind your dishonest claims of 'sexism!'.
It's pathetic, actually and you are the one being sexist, in reality, for trying to shelter her by using it.
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Segami
(14,923 posts).....continue...
virtualobserver
(8,760 posts)old habits are hard to break......
winter is coming
(11,785 posts)InAbLuEsTaTe
(24,122 posts)Think I'll stick with the true passionate progressive in this race... Berniiieeeeee!
Bernie & Elizabeth 2016!!!
Empowerer
(3,900 posts)Bonobo
(29,257 posts)She doesn't seem to be able to stop herself though.
Divernan
(15,480 posts)HRC (aka HAL 9000): "I'm sorry Dave, I'm afraid I can't do that"
Avalux
(35,015 posts)KittyWampus
(55,894 posts)elias49
(4,259 posts)or going through a manic swing. Jeez!
CoffeeCat
(24,411 posts)...and she's doing better.
She's more measured and effective now.
trueblue2007
(17,203 posts)MariaThinks
(2,495 posts)berni_mccoy
(23,018 posts)Sunlei
(22,651 posts)I'd rather she just smile or smurk and relax those eyes, take a lesson from Obama
Autumn
(45,048 posts)elias49
(4,259 posts)Autumn
(45,048 posts).......
KittyWampus
(55,894 posts)Autumn
(45,048 posts)it looks strange
winter is coming
(11,785 posts)trueblue2007
(17,203 posts)Awknid
(381 posts)But out of character for Hill.
trueblue2007
(17,203 posts)all 3 of them can be dramatic. bernie is not the only one who has the right to act like that.
Empowerer
(3,900 posts)When he's soft-spoken, he's cool. When she is, she's low-energy.
Got it?
1StrongBlackMan
(31,849 posts)BlueMTexpat
(15,366 posts)misogyny.
DemocratSinceBirth
(99,710 posts)zazen
(2,978 posts)I suspect the candidate himself would be as well.
Oh well--it's a big tent. That's the point.
arcane1
(38,613 posts)Paulie
(8,462 posts)silenttigersong
(957 posts)She is so loud I feel like shutting her off ,still listening though yet she calming down a bit.She is very fake.
restorefreedom
(12,655 posts)cherokeeprogressive
(24,853 posts)marlakay
(11,448 posts)I think she is just trying to copy Bernie with anger and passion.
CoffeeCat
(24,411 posts)Whatever her initial hyperdrive was, it seemed fake.
She did calm down and she seemed to find her stride.
Nyan
(1,192 posts)But you have to have something to be angry/passionate about, if it were to come off authentic and in character. That was not the case for her.
retrowire
(10,345 posts)made a big deal of Bernie's booming voice in the intimate setting, but they won't point out Hillary's yelling at all. FFS
Ferd Berfel
(3,687 posts)and watching her candidacy fade away in front of her eyes
pangaia
(24,324 posts)This deserves to be an OP>>>
I almost lost my yamakake...
draa
(975 posts)It's a perfect explanation of what she stands for. Nothing.
Segami
(14,923 posts)Segami
(14,923 posts)840high
(17,196 posts)FrenchieCat
(68,867 posts)Not that I expect that he will be elected,
if he wins the Nomination!
Hardy har-har!
Betty Karlson
(7,231 posts)Bit I agree: the new slogan can be used in connection with specific proposals.
Ferd Berfel
(3,687 posts)asuhornets
(2,405 posts)but smart as hell!!! I can't wait to vote for HER!!!
840high
(17,196 posts)the dickens does that even mean?
BlueMTexpat
(15,366 posts)retrowire
(10,345 posts)@IAStartingLine
"I can see why they gave you this question" Uh... did that young man just admit CNN wrote all these questions? #DemTownHall
zappaman
(20,606 posts)Punkingal
(9,522 posts)FrenchieCat
(68,867 posts)But then, I don't dislike any of the candidates, so I don't judge them like that....
If she were a man, I don't know if she would have seemed manic!
Bernie seemed as wired and his volume was about similar....IMO!
lovemydog
(11,833 posts)She looked to me like someone who has a lot of energy and will continue fighting to expand and improve upon President Obama's great legacy.
Sunlei
(22,651 posts)quickesst
(6,280 posts)There, fixed that for you.
840high
(17,196 posts)gets her coughing spells.
quickesst
(6,280 posts)That's really telling me!!!:
Kentonio
(4,377 posts)I think her media team are trying copying some of the mannerisms and tone that Bernie uses. Politicians have their mannerisms and vocal pattern drilled into them these days, and for her to suddenly completely change the way she behaves on stage is extremely telling.
BainsBane
(53,029 posts)What disturbs you? Not enough anger and pesimmism? She didn't spit and snarl enough to make you feel she was "honest"? Or was it that she demonstrated an ability to talk about more than one subject rather that stick to a set script for five debates in a row? I know I just hate it when a candidate actually answers questions and demonstrates a breadth of knowledge. I want my president repeat the same slogans regardless of what is asked. After all, the job isn't about competence. How can that compare to cable TV sound bites?
Empowerer
(3,900 posts)All of the candidates were very good.
NCTraveler
(30,481 posts)I might buy this as not being nefarious coming from an O'Malley supporter, but considering Sanders personality, there is only one way to take it.
DemocratSinceBirth
(99,710 posts)Armstead
(47,803 posts)MineralMan
(146,285 posts)She sounds fired up. There's no need for her to "calm down." That's a really sexist sort of thing to say, I think. Do you think she's "hysterical?"
You want her to speak with a soft, "womanly" voice? Is that it?
polly7
(20,582 posts)Criticism of Sanders' on the trail speaking - "he screams, he points, he waves his arms!" shouldn't be considered in the same way against a woman? THAT is sexism. Women shouldn't be held to the same standards - we aren't tough enough to take it.
MineralMan
(146,285 posts)He is who he is. Hillary is who she is, as well.
People who would be President are generally strong-willed, intense personalities. I see that as a plus, not a minus.
polly7
(20,582 posts)You probably missed those.
MineralMan
(146,285 posts)I am responsible only for my own posts on DU. Telling me what others say is irrelevant.
I won't participate in discussing what others are saying in a third-party way. If I object to someone's post, I will reply to that person and express my concerns. Why would I talk to anyone else about my concerns with someone's post? Why would I discuss "hundreds of posts" at all with anyone?
Such conversations have zero value, in my opinion. No doubt it would be easy enough to find examples of just about anything on this website. I neither have time for nor interest in doing that.
I replied to a poster here. I objected to a specific characterization of a candidate that was written by that poster. How on Earth does that concern you? Right now, I'm replying to you. I reply directly to people, rather than discussing what they say with others endlessly.
polly7
(20,582 posts)MineralMan
(146,285 posts)merrily
(45,251 posts)shouting, gesturing and maybe a thousand other things.
MineralMan
(146,285 posts)I'm supporting Clinton, because I believe that Sanders cannot win in November. That doesn't mean that I don't like him. Politics is serious business, and I want the best possible chance of putting a Democrat in the White House.
You might feel differently about the campaign. That's up to you.
merrily
(45,251 posts)but rather not say so.
MineralMan
(146,285 posts)about candidates. I'll agree with that, certainly. I can only speak for myself, though.
merrily
(45,251 posts)Bonobo
(29,257 posts)"emotional". "manic", "angry", "shrill", "weepy", "sad", "furious", "bitter" or just about any description of an emotional state that could be deemed negative.
polly7
(20,582 posts)could be used to correctly describe them.
I love your gif, cracks me up every time I see it.
InAbLuEsTaTe
(24,122 posts)FlatBaroque
(3,160 posts)by the district school superintendent.
Bonobo
(29,257 posts)Prepare to be called sexist.
FlatBaroque
(3,160 posts)my favorite character on the teevee.
InAbLuEsTaTe
(24,122 posts)We need a candidate with a positive vision for the future... we need Bernie!
Bernie & Elizabeth 2016!!!
libdem4life
(13,877 posts)Thank you for voting!
Bernie Sanders 89.41% (15,560 votes)
Hillary Clinton 8.11% (1,412 votes)
Martin O'Malley 2.48% (431 votes)
Total Votes: 17,403
Return To Poll
http://www.syracuse.com/politics/index.ssf/2016/01/poll_who_won_mondays_democratic_2016_presidential_town_hall_forum.html
Rosa Luxemburg
(28,627 posts)LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)Sanders seems shrill and hysterical.
There-- one irrelevant, petulant, biased bumper-sticker answered with another just, as irrelevant, petulant and biased.
Hopefully (and let's keep our fingers crossed on this one, 'kay?) we'll both move on to posts of actual substance and relevance rather than repeating ourselves in our poor imitations of third grade school children (unless of course, you desire to rationalize your post as somehow adding to a well-educated discourse... which would bemuse me until I peed).