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Coolest Ranger

(2,034 posts)
Mon Oct 3, 2016, 06:43 AM Oct 2016

For the first time in her life

My grandmother has never voted. Even when Barrack Obama ran in 2008 she never saw the need to register to vote. I worked her good that year trying to run up the tally for the President. In the end though I couldn't convince her to register to vote.

Thursday of last week, we were talking about the upcoming election. I told her that everyone here in my small North Carolina town was voting for Hillary Clinton. In this small town of Cofield, NC where I live, I'm related to nearly everyone. We've been talking for the last few months and paying attention to the news. Even the young people here are terrified about Trump being in office. Based upon my conversations with them, Clinton going to win our town. Of that I'm certain about.

But what really made me want to post this here today is for the first time in her life, she'll turn 82 years old on October 9th, my grandmother, a woman who has sometimes given me stress, sometimes made me want to scream at the top of my lungs, my biggest critic, but also has my back, has been there for me when I first lost my eye sight in my left eye in 2003, has been my biggest supporter when I came out to her in 2013 has decided to register to vote and she's voting for the first time in her life for Hillary Clinton.

I am so very happy and I hope you'll support and congratulate her for me. I won't be able to be with her on election day as i live one county over but I am proud of her for stepping up

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For the first time in her life (Original Post) Coolest Ranger Oct 2016 OP
Congrats to her and to you! This is a heartwarming story. apcalc Oct 2016 #1
My 101 year-old mother will vote absentee MadCrow Oct 2016 #31
I love hearing stories like this. sarae Oct 2016 #2
Fantastic! klook Oct 2016 #3
GRITS (girls raised in the south) are going to vote for Hillary... Sancho Oct 2016 #4
What about voter ID in North Carolina? UCmeNdc Oct 2016 #5
She still has her drivers license Coolest Ranger Oct 2016 #9
Courts have overturned it: no voter id will be required in NC for this election mnhtnbb Oct 2016 #20
K&R! stonecutter357 Oct 2016 #6
That's wonderful to hear! Thank you so much for sharing. -Steph- Oct 2016 #7
Spending time with family last night Coolest Ranger Oct 2016 #23
She sounds remarkable. How fortunate you are and she is too. Demsrule86 Oct 2016 #8
That is sooooo cool! Way to go Grandma! Liberal In Red State Oct 2016 #10
Please tell her congratulations from me as well! She will be so happy and proud on election day, Tanuki Oct 2016 #11
Congratulations to Grandmom Coolest Ranger! Kind of Blue Oct 2016 #12
That is news to celebrate! brer cat Oct 2016 #13
Thank you... mountain grammy Oct 2016 #14
Congratulations Grandmother and Ranger! Ligyron Oct 2016 #15
Mazel Tov, Grandmom! MarianJack Oct 2016 #16
The Republicans in that state are lashing out like cornered animals Maru Kitteh Oct 2016 #17
Every little helps - esp in a usually Rep town whatthehey Oct 2016 #18
Holy Cow Coolest Ranger Oct 2016 #25
It is rather sad how common they are whatthehey Oct 2016 #27
You should notify the Clinton campaign LittleGirl Oct 2016 #19
Awesome!! Good for you and for her. :-). N/T Upthevibe Oct 2016 #22
congrats to her, and you. and please, give her our warmest wishes for an incredibly happy niyad Oct 2016 #21
Please give her our love and thanks amuse bouche Oct 2016 #24
Thank you for sharing this! Farmgirl1961 Oct 2016 #26
Show her this MFM008 Oct 2016 #28
Wonderful news. sheshe2 Oct 2016 #29
My sister, who is 67, just registered for the first time, as well. hamsterjill Oct 2016 #30
I also have a friend voting for the first time for Hillary jimlup Oct 2016 #32
I am very glad to hear this, PoindexterOglethorpe Oct 2016 #33
I hope you're going to have a big election day party and bake grandma a cake... Moonwalk Oct 2016 #34
That is so cool. kstewart33 Oct 2016 #35

MadCrow

(155 posts)
31. My 101 year-old mother will vote absentee
Mon Oct 3, 2016, 06:39 PM
Oct 2016

My mother was born before women had the right to vote. She will be 101 years old on Wednesday. I arranged for her to vote absentee, so I expect to be able to give her the ballot at her birthday party on the 15th in front of all the family. I'm not sure how she will vote. She has been a life-long Republican, but she did admit to me a couple of years ago that she voted for Obama. She has also expressed her dislike of Hillary in the past. But she was born and raised in New York and her comment when she heard Trump was running for president was, "The real estate guy? He's a crook!". She also made the comment that Trump proves that having money, doesn't mean you have class. So I hope she takes advantage of the opportunity to vote for a woman candidate for President in her lifetime.

klook

(12,154 posts)
3. Fantastic!
Mon Oct 3, 2016, 07:15 AM
Oct 2016


Grandmas all over this country are going to kick Trump's ass in a few weeks. So glad yours is part of the wave! I bet she will love the feeling she gets from voting and will want more.

Coolest Ranger

(2,034 posts)
9. She still has her drivers license
Mon Oct 3, 2016, 08:14 AM
Oct 2016

and her birth certificate. This is a smart woman who knows what they are trying to do

mnhtnbb

(31,382 posts)
20. Courts have overturned it: no voter id will be required in NC for this election
Mon Oct 3, 2016, 10:00 AM
Oct 2016

Voter ID Requirements in NC

On July 29, a panel of the U.S. Court of Appeals for the Fourth Circuit struck down photo ID requirements and associated laws in North Carolina (S.L. 2013-381, as amended by S.L. 2015-103). The state is considering its options. Barring a different outcome on appeal, photo ID will not be required in the upcoming general election. Further details will be posted as they become available.

http://www.ncsbe.gov/Voter-Registration/Voter-Id-Req

You go, Grandma!

-Steph-

(409 posts)
7. That's wonderful to hear! Thank you so much for sharing.
Mon Oct 3, 2016, 07:34 AM
Oct 2016

I think there's going to be a lot more people coming out to vote for Hillary than the MSM would have us believe. I'm predicting a landslide.

Coolest Ranger

(2,034 posts)
23. Spending time with family last night
Mon Oct 3, 2016, 01:44 PM
Oct 2016

Trump was the topic of conversation and it was clear to me that everyone was going to vote and they bringing other family members out and letting their friends and co-workers know about it. My cousin Dee told me this morning as we were shopping and paying bills that she and her husband James are going to be making sure they are registered to vote this week. She wants to vote against Trump badly

Demsrule86

(68,539 posts)
8. She sounds remarkable. How fortunate you are and she is too.
Mon Oct 3, 2016, 07:42 AM
Oct 2016

I loved my Grandma so much and miss her every day. Congratulations on voting for the fist time and what a year to do it in...the first woman president.

Tanuki

(14,918 posts)
11. Please tell her congratulations from me as well! She will be so happy and proud on election day,
Mon Oct 3, 2016, 08:23 AM
Oct 2016

to know that she was part of Hillary's historic victory. Kudos to you, Coolest Ranger, for keeping at it and helping to GOTV!

brer cat

(24,555 posts)
13. That is news to celebrate!
Mon Oct 3, 2016, 08:38 AM
Oct 2016

Congratulations to Grandmother Coolest Ranger. We are delighted to have you on our side and voting!

Ligyron

(7,624 posts)
15. Congratulations Grandmother and Ranger!
Mon Oct 3, 2016, 09:13 AM
Oct 2016

Great decision .

Be sure and study the down ballot candidates for what's going on in your part of NC, (obviously). We need to turn that state blue and get rid of the stranglehold that racist GOP old boy's club has on the good people of that state.

Maru Kitteh

(28,333 posts)
17. The Republicans in that state are lashing out like cornered animals
Mon Oct 3, 2016, 09:24 AM
Oct 2016

Or that thing in alien . . .

Congrats to Nana Coolest Ranger and to you!

Coolest Ranger

(2,034 posts)
25. Holy Cow
Mon Oct 3, 2016, 01:47 PM
Oct 2016

i had no idea we had sexual offenders in the area. Thankfully though none of them look familiar to me

whatthehey

(3,660 posts)
27. It is rather sad how common they are
Mon Oct 3, 2016, 01:58 PM
Oct 2016

In both real and legal terms. There have always been deviants and people who cannot restrain urges and so pose a real threat to others, and the registry of sex offenders is a good thing for letting us know who they are. It's unfortunately also a bad thing for lumping in less, or rather not, dangerous folks with them. It's amazing that "sex offenders" were put on the registry for peeing in bushes when they couldn't make it home in time, or walking about in their own home without enough clothes on for prudes. There are even kids on the list. Real kids not 17.9 year old testosterone-soaked hulks. Without serious google-fu or access to LEO data, it's impossible to tell which your local ones are.

LittleGirl

(8,282 posts)
19. You should notify the Clinton campaign
Mon Oct 3, 2016, 09:31 AM
Oct 2016

about this remarkable change of heart! She could be famous (or not). I love this!
I want to broadcast this to the hills! Whoo HOO!

Farmgirl1961

(1,493 posts)
26. Thank you for sharing this!
Mon Oct 3, 2016, 01:54 PM
Oct 2016

What an honor it will be for her! This is a story worth sharing at the HRC website...who knows??? maybe it will get picked up and talked about.

hamsterjill

(15,220 posts)
30. My sister, who is 67, just registered for the first time, as well.
Mon Oct 3, 2016, 03:40 PM
Oct 2016

It took a lot of encouragement, but she finally submitted the voter application. I'll be accompanying her to the polls the first day of early voting.

Of course, she will be voting for Hillary!!!

Congratulations to you and your grandmother, and my thanks to her for her vote for sanity.

jimlup

(7,968 posts)
32. I also have a friend voting for the first time for Hillary
Mon Oct 3, 2016, 11:20 PM
Oct 2016

Her faith is the reason she doesn't vote as her religion teaches that politics isn't of spiritual importance. This year she sees things differently.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,841 posts)
33. I am very glad to hear this,
Tue Oct 4, 2016, 01:06 AM
Oct 2016

but I still must ask, What the fuck has she been thinking has she been thinking all these years that she never registered to vote? If she's 82, she was born in 1934, well after women got the right to vote. Has she been living under a rock?

I realize I don't know enough about her, and it's probably very unfair to treat her like this, but I'm still horrified. She came of age during and after WWII. She was a young woman in the 1950's, the very height of sexism and anti-women nonsense. I suppose she married at age 20 or so, spent fifteen or so years raising children and then invested another decade or two taking care of her husband. But still, didn't she EVER think about herself as and individual? And even if she didn't, why in fuck's sake did she never register to vote?

I'm appalled.

In 1968, when I was too young to vote myself, my sister-in-law said she wasn't sure she should be voting that year since her husband (my brother)'s vote would cancel hers. Brother was a Republican. Sister-in-law was a Democrat. I told her she absolutely should vote to offset his.

We all should vote. Although, if you're a Republican, I'll point out that a lower voter turnout favors Republicans so, (at the risk of repeating myself) if you're a Republican, don't vote.

Moonwalk

(2,322 posts)
34. I hope you're going to have a big election day party and bake grandma a cake...
Tue Oct 4, 2016, 02:49 AM
Oct 2016

...to celebrate her vote and Hillary's victory. You need to reinforce the goodness of voting by associating it with partying and cake

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