History of Feminism
Related: About this forumBook rec: Revolution from Within.
This Gloria Steinem classic is excellent. I dug out my copy from storage the other day, and find it as thorough and sensitive a discussion of why and how damage to self esteem occurs, and what we can do to heal it up if we find ourselves lacking.
It gets bonus points for not shying away from labeling emotional abuse as a real form of abuse, and for having some humorous moments. At one point, Steinem jokes about then-persistent rumors she might be expecting a baby ('Unless there is another star in the East, I am not pregnant...' Funny.)
http://www.amazon.com/Revolution-Within-A-Book-Self-Esteem/dp/0316812471
Tumbulu
(6,267 posts)I love re-reading "books from my past"....
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)Because all these situations have made me wonder why is there no sense of female sisterhood, no sense of women speaking up for other women? Where is all the conflict and contention coming from? Recently, in an interview with the Observer, Gloria Steinem explained her thoughts on why people so often complain that groups of women can be catty, do women compete for the favors of men? Yes. Theyve spent 5,000 years competing. It is true of any subordinated group. But once you get a sense of possibilities and shared experience, it becomes the most powerful community. I see a form of it when I travel. Ill be walking through an airport, say, and my plane will be four hours late, and a woman cleaner will say: Here, take these magazines Ive collected, or: When Im tired, I sleep in the closet over there. Would you like to use it? Its the same with the flight attendants. Its a floating community.
So it seems that women, just as other oppressed groups, often perpetuate the same prejudicial thoughts or behavior that theyve experienced in a way to separate themselves from the oppressed group and be accepted as part of the positive majority. Competition is formed in order to be ingratiated to those in positions of power or those seen as possessing positive characteristics. And yet, Steinem explains, when an opportunity is created for the sharing of experiences, a sense of community emerges. A sense of sisterhood, if you will.
I admit, Ive had my own problems with the notion of sisterhood. It always seemed like this sense of camaraderie between women was based upon some opposition to men (granted that was probably a very ill conceived notion of sisterhood but its the one I understood). But in thinking about it now this sense of sisterhood is important in that it should lead us to a greater sense of community, which in turn leads us to a better understanding of the oneness of humanity as a whole. It might just be a first step. If women can see other women as more than just these characteristics assigned to them by culture and tradition then we can use this same outlook towards men.
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But in response to this pattern of behavior, of underestimating and insulting women, so endemic to our culture and perpetuated by both men and women, and by social structures and institutions, lets promote this idea of sisterhood (men can promote it too!). Lets promote this idea that groups of women as well as individual women arent dramatic, catty, manipulative gossips. They are human beings endowed with the capacity to love, reason, understand, acquire knowledge and serve their community. Lets move beyond stereotypical tropes that have been perpetuated and supported by years of subjugation, lets question cultural norms of thought and behavior, and lets support each other in the process, as we move towards an understanding of the oneness of humanity.
http://engenderingequality.wordpress.com/2011/11/14/sisterhood/
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ya. i hadnt paid much attention way back when, but every interview i have listened to, most recent colbert, i have enjoyed her. a lot of years of saying the same thing