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I think there were (Original Post) boston bean May 2014 OP
yeah gollygee May 2014 #1
VN's behavior in that thread BainsBane May 2014 #2
Had VN pegged ages ago. MadrasT May 2014 #3
Good God! I had seen that thread early on, but then missed all the astonishing nastiness! Squinch May 2014 #4
I doubt that either VN or Apostrophe are through sufrommich May 2014 #5
I have to wonder if Skinner saw that shocking statement...I would guess so because it had to CTyankee May 2014 #6
I imagine he saw it as a teachable moment. Squinch May 2014 #11
And, to me, I wonder if it is something of a warning of fears of the future of DU? CTyankee May 2014 #12
I'm guessing he would say the guy is PPRed, problem solved BainsBane May 2014 #13
i am sorry you got a post hidden, for letting du know how disgusting those comments are in that seabeyond May 2014 #8
Here you go,Sea. It was well worth the hide: sufrommich May 2014 #31
mouth hanging open. he was BANNED as a TROLL by earlg and you got a fuckin hide for calling him a seabeyond May 2014 #32
Yeah,since when is calling a banned troll a troll sufrommich May 2014 #34
stupid hide. nt seabeyond May 2014 #35
juror 2 actually did his/her job. nt seabeyond May 2014 #33
This message was self-deleted by its author Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #9
Seems like not a lot of women left, really, who post on a regular basis. And for good reason. Squinch May 2014 #16
i ma really having an issue with all this in so many directions. seabeyond May 2014 #7
Me too, Sea. And not least because, in the wake of that abuse that was handed to you, Squinch May 2014 #14
yes. i agree. that is a trend. nt seabeyond May 2014 #15
This message was self-deleted by its author Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #10
That thread illustrates UtahLib May 2014 #17
eventually. it usually does. nt seabeyond May 2014 #18
in the meantime, they are alerting and sitting on juries (in judgement) of DUers in good standing. Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #28
One of my hidden posts is to Vashta. Personally, I think it should be removed from my record and Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #19
i think so too. seabeyond May 2014 #20
sea, would you mind posting yours? You understand, I can NOT believe that a simple Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #21
ya. i dunno. once the hides fall off the 90 days i would have to know where to look for the posts seabeyond May 2014 #22
ok, I see. Yes, that is understandable since yours has already dropped off. Mine is still on Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #23
we had troll fitman, (ya, name says something about this 50 yr old man huntin' youth desperately) seabeyond May 2014 #24
This whole "self-moderating system" has a real "game" feel to it all (for me anyway) -- Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #25
that one would be rolling the dice in my opinion. since one can argue, seabeyond May 2014 #26
ah true ... I have a bad habit of watching people's actions to make sure they coincide Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #27
this is my problem. if i see that happening, then i would see that honestly putting a reality out seabeyond May 2014 #29
yes, the bad behaivor is accepted ... the calling out of it -- not so much. Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #30

BainsBane

(53,029 posts)
2. VN's behavior in that thread
Fri May 2, 2014, 07:09 PM
May 2014

was not , I suspect, terribly surprising to any of us here in HOF who had communicated with him. (Two of the banned posters who made the worst comments were proved to be his socks). He kept the worst manifestations of his misogyny in check for most of his time on DU, but it was simmering beneath the surface the whole time. I think we know the kind of hostility toward women expressed by some men is reflective of a far deeper hatred and level of disturbance than is immediately apparent to the casual observer.

So you see peanut gallery, misogyny exists, even among so-called Democrats. Vashta Neranda, and whatever his prior user name was, is a perfect example of it.

His case also shows the link between denial and overt misogyny. He began by arguing he has never seen anything like that and ended by wishing a feminist would be raped and killed. Denial enables misogyny (and all forms of injustice) to continue unchecked because if one refuses to accept that something is a problem, there is no way to combat it.

MadrasT

(7,237 posts)
3. Had VN pegged ages ago.
Fri May 2, 2014, 07:27 PM
May 2014

I don't even waste my time with these types of jackasses anymore. They live to argue, derail, and thrive on the attention they receive. I prefer to starve them now.

Glad some people do have the energy to devote to "education" though - there were some spectacular comments in that thread.

Squinch

(50,944 posts)
4. Good God! I had seen that thread early on, but then missed all the astonishing nastiness!
Fri May 2, 2014, 07:39 PM
May 2014

Vashta and Apostrophe or whatever the hell his name was should have been gone a long time ago. That was disgusting.

I would bet money that they were the same person and they were Loli in their last incarnation.

But the post by Tansy was fabulous.

There is so much anger when you point out the obvious around here. It makes me wonder what kind of fairyland some people live in.

sufrommich

(22,871 posts)
5. I doubt that either VN or Apostrophe are through
Sat May 3, 2014, 09:17 AM
May 2014

here. I honestly admire my sister's in HoF who manage to keep fighting this shit here daily. I don't have the stomach for it anymore. Tired of the constant obvious MRA shit that's allowed to fester here as long as they're liberal on other issues and the women who cheer them on. .So very sorry to see Sea brutally attacked like that.Disgusting.

CTyankee

(63,901 posts)
6. I have to wonder if Skinner saw that shocking statement...I would guess so because it had to
Sat May 3, 2014, 10:01 AM
May 2014

be one of those horrifying moments on DU when everyone seeing it stops cold and confronts it...

CTyankee

(63,901 posts)
12. And, to me, I wonder if it is something of a warning of fears of the future of DU?
Sat May 3, 2014, 06:50 PM
May 2014

I am sure that he and his other co-founders started DU with the highest of intentions of noble progressivism.

But somewhere, along the way, there were two snafus that he had to deal with: guns and the men's rights movement. They seemed to have happened fairly close to each other. What was the rationale that led the admins to change course on these two seemingly bedrock issues of gun control and feminism?

I ponder this sometimes...

BainsBane

(53,029 posts)
13. I'm guessing he would say the guy is PPRed, problem solved
Sat May 3, 2014, 07:48 PM
May 2014

However, VN had been here for months and served on juries. Moreover, he wasn't even close to the worst of the misogynists, until he made those final comments to Sea. The fact is there remain a few people who consider feminism as advanced by HOF more offensive than the threats of death and rape VN made against Sea. That people continued to attack feminists and feminism in general in that thread even after VN made those awful comments demonstrates as much.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
8. i am sorry you got a post hidden, for letting du know how disgusting those comments are in that
Sat May 3, 2014, 10:56 AM
May 2014

thread. 4 mens egos were not coddled, i am sure, with your disappointment of behaviors. can you please let me see that jury result.

sufrommich

(22,871 posts)
31. Here you go,Sea. It was well worth the hide:
Sun May 4, 2014, 11:15 AM
May 2014

Sat May 3, 2014, 09:16 AM an alert was sent on the following post:

This may be the sickest thread I've ever read on DU.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=4904107

REASON FOR ALERT

This post is disruptive, hurtful, rude, insensitive, over-the-top, or otherwise inappropriate.

ALERTER'S COMMENTS

Calling other members (by name) trolls is expressly forbidden in the TOS. If you disagree with someone, make your case, name-calling is not the way to do that.

JURY RESULTS

A randomly-selected Jury of DU members completed their review of this alert at Sat May 3, 2014, 09:26 AM, and voted 4-3 to HIDE IT.

Juror #1 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #2 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: This Alerter should be banned for LYING. The TOS does NOT forbid call outs or troll calling. This message is used all of the time by TROLLS and some jury members still buy into it. Further, the members mentioned in this post have already been BANNED as returning TROLLS. I hope someone notifies the ADMIN about this alert and message. The Alerter should be PPRed.
Juror #3 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #4 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: Understandable frustration with the reflexive and unconscious misogyny that appears whenever even the mildest of feminist talk is done on DU. "Troll" is probably wrong if it means someone dispatched by a Them, right if it means someone obsessively activated by red flags to push a permanent agenda altogether immune to evidence.
Juror #5 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: Expressing your opinion is one thing, but breaking the rules by calling out another DU member is another. The bashing from both sides of this subject is out of control. Each group pushes the others buttons just because they can. Equality and respect for women is a very important topic and should be discussed but neither side is making a valid argument... they are just baiting each other and arguing. It's becoming tedious.
Juror #6 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #7 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: No explanation given

CONSEQUENCES OF THIS DECISION

You will no longer be able to participate in this discussion thread, and you will not be able to start a new discussion thread in this forum until 10:26 AM. This hidden post has been added to your <a href="/?com=profile&uid=153380&sub=trans">Transparency page</a>.


I'd like to add that I love you,Juror #2.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
32. mouth hanging open. he was BANNED as a TROLL by earlg and you got a fuckin hide for calling him a
Sun May 4, 2014, 11:19 AM
May 2014

troll?

what a bullshit, fuckin lying piece of shit hide this is. the alerter should absolutely be checked out.

now. i will read replies. i cannot believe a person is kicked off as a TROLL and you get a hide for calling him a troll.

Response to sufrommich (Reply #5)

Squinch

(50,944 posts)
16. Seems like not a lot of women left, really, who post on a regular basis. And for good reason.
Sun May 4, 2014, 12:09 AM
May 2014

Same with minority posters.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
7. i ma really having an issue with all this in so many directions.
Sat May 3, 2014, 10:41 AM
May 2014

isms thread she just put up, i spoke a bit about it.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/125542664#post2

this is what we so often talk about. that too many men dismiss really happening. yet, feel the need.

i am really really... experiencing a lot of different thoughts. du looks different.

Squinch

(50,944 posts)
14. Me too, Sea. And not least because, in the wake of that abuse that was handed to you,
Sat May 3, 2014, 11:49 PM
May 2014

when everyone on DU should be at least being careful not to throw salt in that wound, there are now a spate of anti-women threads in which all the good old boys are talking about how manipulative and money grubbing women are. I don't think it's coincidence that so many cropped up right after that vile crap was directed at you. I think it's kind of a high five to the pieces of trash that wrote those things to you.

I don't see much that's liberal about this site any more. If they aren't bashing women, they're bashing minorities, or bashing labor or any other progressive group you can think of.

Response to boston bean (Original post)

UtahLib

(3,179 posts)
17. That thread illustrates
Sun May 4, 2014, 12:35 AM
May 2014

that some people are simply not who or what they claim to be. The hate and malice will eventually explode to the surface for everyone to see.

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
28. in the meantime, they are alerting and sitting on juries (in judgement) of DUers in good standing.
Sun May 4, 2014, 11:02 AM
May 2014

I have a Real Problem with this aspect of our current moderating system.

I don't think "newbies" should be allowed to sit on juries or have alerting privileges until they have over 500 posts.

While this would not have affected the latest brouhaha it might go far to solve future problems.

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
19. One of my hidden posts is to Vashta. Personally, I think it should be removed from my record and
Sun May 4, 2014, 12:53 AM
May 2014

my 20% given back to me.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
20. i think so too.
Sun May 4, 2014, 12:59 AM
May 2014

i think i got one months ago. asking him who he was. i know i asked. i think i got a hide asking him.

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
21. sea, would you mind posting yours? You understand, I can NOT believe that a simple
Sun May 4, 2014, 10:19 AM
May 2014

asking of a question was alerted much less hidden. I will be glad to post mine. It was over the SI cover brouhaha.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=4537038

please move on Vashta. the whole thing is so NOT about SI.

that thread was posted by a woman trying to please some boys in TMG. She lives for the attention. She craves it, needs it.

It validates her existence.

Good for her.

Who Cares.

I know I don't care.

It is not about SI.
 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
22. ya. i dunno. once the hides fall off the 90 days i would have to know where to look for the posts
Sun May 4, 2014, 10:23 AM
May 2014

right? and i cannot remember.

i have like three times gotten a hide for challenging low post counts that zero in on me (which is a huge clue in) with a simple who are you, or who are you to be so familiar, as a newbie. or the like.

i mean. without using the word troll or anything offensive.

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
23. ok, I see. Yes, that is understandable since yours has already dropped off. Mine is still on
Sun May 4, 2014, 10:27 AM
May 2014

my record and I am being penalized 20% for a post to someone who proved their self to be a troll (duh! knew it all along).

I don't think I should be currently penalized for a post to a banned troll.

meh.

Really, starting to not care much, one way or the other, about these silly reindeer games.

It just seem so pointless, sometimes. yanno.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
24. we had troll fitman, (ya, name says something about this 50 yr old man huntin' youth desperately)
Sun May 4, 2014, 10:39 AM
May 2014

send a handful of us a nasty, ugly, disgusting pm. he also posted to me in hof with a snarky dismissal. after reading his pm, then seeing is snark in the thread, i told him to fuck off.

that was a hide. he was tos'ed minutes later.

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
25. This whole "self-moderating system" has a real "game" feel to it all (for me anyway) --
Sun May 4, 2014, 10:52 AM
May 2014

-- tit for tat --

However, of course I think their hides are legitimate and our hides are in retaliation for their hides.

but, Honestly ... sea, was what I said above so very wrong?

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
26. that one would be rolling the dice in my opinion. since one can argue,
Sun May 4, 2014, 10:57 AM
May 2014

the poster went from thread to thread, and still does, saying me me me me. that was me.

that you accurately interpreted actions.

one can say

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
27. ah true ... I have a bad habit of watching people's actions to make sure they coincide
Sun May 4, 2014, 10:59 AM
May 2014

with their words. If they talk the talk but, are not walking the walk then I consider them to be ... Un-True ... not authentic.

I don't care for that type of behavior in real life and I guess that attitude goes so far on a message board, too.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
29. this is my problem. if i see that happening, then i would see that honestly putting a reality out
Sun May 4, 2014, 11:08 AM
May 2014

there should not be hide worthy.

it does not work like that.

someone may say something stupid. i can just give the words back and get a hide. i feel i should not get a hide, presently the reality, a truth. others see it as offensive or wrong. lol

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
30. yes, the bad behaivor is accepted ... the calling out of it -- not so much.
Sun May 4, 2014, 11:12 AM
May 2014

I got a hide once for describing a very offensive picture. My words were hidden, the picture was not although, in full disclosure, I don't know if the picture was alerted because I did not alert. This was before all the penalties were attached.

I got Nine hides in Fifteen minutes in the process of cussing out a Troll in The GC&RKBA group. This was very early on DU3.

Still, they were gone and my Transparency Page was open for all to see ...

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