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ismnotwasm

(41,967 posts)
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 11:32 PM Aug 2014

California Passes Affirmative Consent Bill; Rape Apologists Retreat Into Fantasy

Hot damn

In a landmark piece of legislation, the California Senate yesterday passed an “affirmative consent” bill for colleges throughout the state. The first of its kind, SB 967 explicitly requires schools to adopt a standard of affirmative consent, defined in the bill as:

Affirmative, conscious, and voluntary agreement to engage in sexual activity. It is the responsibility of each person involved in the sexual activity to ensure that he or she has the affirmative consent of the other or others to engage in the sexual activity. Lack of protest or resistance does not mean consent, nor does silence mean consent. Affirmative consent must be ongoing throughout a sexual activity and can be revoked at any time. The existence of a dating relationship between the persons involved, or the fact of past sexual relations between them, should never by itself be assumed to be an indicator of consent.
The bill goes on to describe in detail what does and does not count — protecting, for example, people who are raped while incapacitated due to the influence of drugs, alcohol, or medication. If signed by Governor Jerry Brown, the bill will require all public colleges and other institutions receiving state funding for student aid to implement comprehensive prevention and outreach programs addressing sexual assault, domestic violence, dating violence and stalking.


This image represents both affirmative consent and how I feel about this bill. Via Shutterstock.

Unfortunately, many news outlets have ‘balanced’ coverage of this important piece of anti-rape legislation by giving concerned citizens and rape apologists a platform to propagate misinformation.

The Washington Post included the following quote:

“I feel like their hearts are in the right place, but the implementation is a little too excessive,” Henry Mu, a 24-year-old biology major at California State Long Beach told the Press-Telegram. “Are there guidelines? Are we supposed to check every five minutes?”


http://www.autostraddle.com/california-passes-affirmative-consent-bill-rape-apologists-retreat-into-fantasy-252946/
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California Passes Affirmative Consent Bill; Rape Apologists Retreat Into Fantasy (Original Post) ismnotwasm Aug 2014 OP
“Are there guidelines? Are we supposed to check every five minutes?” NYC_SKP Aug 2014 #1
My guess is Henry is a virgin. littlemissmartypants Aug 2014 #2
I never considered that possibility theHandpuppet Aug 2014 #4
LoL ismnotwasm Aug 2014 #6
LOL! Kath1 Aug 2014 #7
LOL! Kath1 Aug 2014 #8
I think I saw that movie Sopkoviak Aug 2014 #3
Non sequitur ismnotwasm Aug 2014 #5
I accidentally alerted on that. JTFrog Aug 2014 #11
It's a baiting comment ismnotwasm Aug 2014 #13
Hint to whoever alerted on this post: Nye Bevan Aug 2014 #10
I'd hate for them to have to use their own judgment. n/t JTFrog Aug 2014 #12
... littlemissmartypants Aug 2014 #9
 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
1. “Are there guidelines? Are we supposed to check every five minutes?”
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 11:42 PM
Aug 2014

If you have to ask, then you need to pull up your pants and make sure that your "date" has a ride home or is otherwise in good hands.

Because your hands are not good.

Seriously,

theHandpuppet

(19,964 posts)
4. I never considered that possibility
Fri Aug 29, 2014, 11:59 PM
Aug 2014

I just figured he's never spent more than five minutes on any woman, so how would he know?

 

JTFrog

(14,274 posts)
11. I accidentally alerted on that.
Sat Aug 30, 2014, 01:11 PM
Aug 2014

Yes, it's possible. I had a bad alert yesterday and I was checking to see if my alerting privileges were back yet and I accidentally hit send instead of cancel and it went with no comment. So pissed at myself for that. But hey, it was an honest mistake. Here were the results:


On Sat Aug 30, 2014, 12:29 PM you sent an alert on the following post:

I think I saw that movie
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1255&pid=49823

REASON FOR ALERT

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Juror #1 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
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Apparently the alerting comments are much more important than the offending message.





Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
10. Hint to whoever alerted on this post:
Sat Aug 30, 2014, 01:10 PM
Aug 2014

many jurors take exception to alerts in which the alerter cannot be bothered to provide a comment. It was 4-3 to leave.

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