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sheshe2

(83,728 posts)
Sun May 3, 2015, 11:18 PM May 2015

'You will not win': Student writes powerful letter to man who sexually assaulted her



Two weeks later, Wells published the open letter:

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"I cannot address this letter to you, because I do not know your name," it begins. "I only know that you have just been charged with serious sexual assault and prolonged attack of a violent nature. And I have one question:"

When you were caught on CCTV following me through my own neighbourhood from the Tube, when you waited until I was on my own street to approach me, when you clapped your hand around my face until I could not breathe, when you pushed me to my knees until my face bled, when I wrestled with your hand just enough so that I could scream. When you dragged me by my hair, and when you smashed my head against the pavement and told me to stop screaming for help, when my neighbour saw you from her window and shouted at you and you looked her in the eye and carried on kicking me in the back and neck.

When you tore my bra in half from the sheer force you grabbed my breast, when you didn’t reach once for my belongings because you wanted my body, when you failed to have my body because all my neighbours and family came out, and you saw them face-to-face. When CCTV caught you running from your attempted assault on me… and then following another woman twenty minutes later from the same tube station before you were arrested on suspicion. When I was in the police station until 5am while you were four floors below me in custody, when I had to hand over my clothes and photographs of the marks and cuts on my naked body to forensic teams – did you ever think of the people in your life?

Wells tells her assailant that it's not just her he attacked. "I am a daughter, I am a friend, I am a girlfriend, I am a pupil, I am a cousin, I am a niece, I am a neighbour, I am the employee who served everyone down the road coffee in the café under the railway," she wrote.




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'You will not win': Student writes powerful letter to man who sexually assaulted her (Original Post) sheshe2 May 2015 OP
Thanks for posting, this is a crime which needs to stop. Thinkingabout May 2015 #1
Reality trumps fantasy again. She really got to the heart of the matter. Thanks for posting. n/t freshwest May 2015 #2
She damn well did get to the heart of the matter. sheshe2 May 2015 #5
Brave woman. oldandhappy May 2015 #3
Excellent! ismnotwasm May 2015 #4
This makes me cry. sheshe2 May 2015 #6
She is a very strong woman brer cat May 2015 #7

Thinkingabout

(30,058 posts)
1. Thanks for posting, this is a crime which needs to stop.
Sun May 3, 2015, 11:29 PM
May 2015

Females was not put on earth to be abused by males, it is NEVER their right to rape a female.

Thanks for posting, she

sheshe2

(83,728 posts)
5. She damn well did get to the heart of the matter.
Mon May 4, 2015, 12:22 AM
May 2015

Her strength amazes me, or maybe not, freshwest. We have always survived, some of us anyway. Some we lost.. For every rape, for every kick, for every punch, for every cruel word that was said to us, we still stand up. We are strong.

No one is going to make me believe I am worthless, yes, work is trying to again for reasons you know. We will see what happens.

love you~

sheshe2

(83,728 posts)
6. This makes me cry.
Mon May 4, 2015, 12:46 AM
May 2015
Wells tells her assailant that it's not just her he attacked. "I am a daughter, I am a friend, I am a girlfriend, I am a pupil, I am a cousin, I am a niece, I am a neighbour, I am the employee who served everyone down the road coffee in the café under the railway," she wrote.



Deep breath here.

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