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"How can we get men to vote for a woman for President?" (Original Post) BeyondGeography Nov 2019 OP
Is Warren implying that Hillary Clinton was not tough or smart? Gothmog Nov 2019 #1
Clearly BeyondGeography Nov 2019 #2
Well..... Turbineguy Nov 2019 #3
No, she wasn't. Act_of_Reparation Nov 2019 #4
Judging by the replies to that tweet, other people heard it that way. And I saw a lot of similar highplainsdem Nov 2019 #5
So if female D's for Prez don't pay homage to HRC whenever they say something positive BeyondGeography Nov 2019 #6
I'm pointing out that some people heard the answer that way. It would have taken Warren just highplainsdem Nov 2019 #7
I refuse to focus on her popular vote win because it overshadows what James Comey did. StevieM Nov 2019 #24
Some people literally jump on BlueMTexpat Nov 2019 #13
I'm not "wishing for" anything or jumping on what Warren said. I'm pointing out that highplainsdem Nov 2019 #18
She's explaining how she can appeal. It's not a knock on anyone else. thesquanderer Nov 2019 #8
ROFL aikoaiko Nov 2019 #10
Oh FFS, Gothmog! BlueMTexpat Nov 2019 #12
Ditto nt spooky3 Nov 2019 #14
I am not the only one taking this comment that way Gothmog Nov 2019 #20
See my reply 18 for why her specific wording made it sound that way. highplainsdem Nov 2019 #21
I read your post and agreed with your analysis Gothmog Nov 2019 #25
Thanks, Gothmog! highplainsdem Nov 2019 #37
Well, I am not the only one BlueMTexpat Nov 2019 #23
Well, I'm a woman and a feminist, and I pointed out in my reply 18 (to your reply 13) exactly WHY highplainsdem Nov 2019 #36
You are almost always quick to dis BlueMTexpat Nov 2019 #38
Well if more than one person does a thing, it can't be wrong. Act_of_Reparation Nov 2019 #29
I did too. Maybe she doesn't consider Hillary tough and smart so it didn't occur to her. betsuni Nov 2019 #32
Hillary Clinton is very tough and very smart Gothmog Nov 2019 #33
I saw it as a dig at HRC as well. n/t PhoenixDem Nov 2019 #43
It sounds that way to me. Words matter. Skya Rhen Nov 2019 #17
Yes words matter Gothmog Nov 2019 #31
Oh good gawd, that's enough. Iggo Nov 2019 #30
It does BlueMTexpat Nov 2019 #39
Smart answer nevertheless louseb Nov 2019 #9
Is this sexist? left-of-center2012 Nov 2019 #11
only thing I think might work, is promising legislation to free the nipple Fresh_Start Nov 2019 #15
I've seen statistics that suggest that women are more reluctant than men to vote for women. LAS14 Nov 2019 #16
That's how it is in my house BannonsLiver Nov 2019 #34
Sadly, there are many women who are reluctant to vote for a woman. cwydro Nov 2019 #19
No matter how people talk shit about this or make it about something it isn't.... TidalWave46 Nov 2019 #22
Recommended. guillaumeb Nov 2019 #26
Being a moderate would help demosincebirth Nov 2019 #27
sadly, in some cases, you cant evertonfc Nov 2019 #28
that's actually... myohmy2 Nov 2019 #35
What about the women who voted for Trump? dansolo Nov 2019 #40
"The weak effects of gender consciousness are not surprising. Unlike racial solidarity among betsuni Nov 2019 #41
This is not a great answer. WhiskeyGrinder Nov 2019 #42
We gave them a strong woman to vote for mcar Nov 2019 #44
 

Gothmog

(144,933 posts)
1. Is Warren implying that Hillary Clinton was not tough or smart?
Tue Nov 12, 2019, 11:33 AM
Nov 2019
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Turbineguy

(37,291 posts)
3. Well.....
Tue Nov 12, 2019, 11:34 AM
Nov 2019

She did get more votes than trump....

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Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
4. No, she wasn't.
Tue Nov 12, 2019, 11:36 AM
Nov 2019

Feeling some insecurities, are we?

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highplainsdem

(48,917 posts)
5. Judging by the replies to that tweet, other people heard it that way. And I saw a lot of similar
Tue Nov 12, 2019, 11:44 AM
Nov 2019

comments on Twitter whenever this reply of Warren's was mentioned.

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BeyondGeography

(39,351 posts)
6. So if female D's for Prez don't pay homage to HRC whenever they say something positive
Tue Nov 12, 2019, 11:51 AM
Nov 2019

about themselves they are guilty of slamming HRC? You're good with that?

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highplainsdem

(48,917 posts)
7. I'm pointing out that some people heard the answer that way. It would have taken Warren just
Tue Nov 12, 2019, 11:55 AM
Nov 2019

a few seconds to remind her audience that HRC won the popular vote in 2016.

She would have been applauded for doing that. And it would have given anyone hearing that question and wondering about the electability of a female candidate for president the strongest possible reminder that a woman CAN win.

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StevieM

(10,500 posts)
24. I refuse to focus on her popular vote win because it overshadows what James Comey did.
Tue Nov 12, 2019, 03:50 PM
Nov 2019

Had it not been for his illegitimate actions she would have destroyed Trump.

It is frightening the way we have normalized Comey's actions.

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BlueMTexpat

(15,365 posts)
13. Some people literally jump on
Tue Nov 12, 2019, 12:33 PM
Nov 2019

ANYTHING Warren says to take a dig at her.

Do we really want to play that game with any of our top Dem candidates?

Be careful what you wish for.



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highplainsdem

(48,917 posts)
18. I'm not "wishing for" anything or jumping on what Warren said. I'm pointing out that
Tue Nov 12, 2019, 12:53 PM
Nov 2019

some people did hear it as suggesting she was a better candidate than Clinton.

I think the problem was the specific wording she used.

The "how about we" wording.

Since that's normally used only when you're suggesting an alternative to what's been done before. "How about we try this?" as an alternative to an earlier approach that didn't work.

See what I mean?

I don't think Warren meant it that way, that she was tougher and smarter than HRC.

But the particular wording she used led some people to hear it that way.

And I really do think it would have helped Warren, a lot, to mention HRC at that moment.

She'd have gotten widespread applause if she'd said:

"We give them a tough, smart woman to vote for. Like we did in 2016, when Hillary Clinton won the popular vote. We give them a woman candidate who knows what needs to be done and who'll fight for it."

That last line would have stressed her own qualifications without leaving any possibility that she was suggesting HRC wasn't smart enough or tough enough.

And btw, I do know that to be grammatically correct, that should be "as we did in 2016," but "like we did" is very common in casual speech, and I don't know offhand if Warren is more likely to use "like" or "as" in that type of clause.

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thesquanderer

(11,972 posts)
8. She's explaining how she can appeal. It's not a knock on anyone else.
Tue Nov 12, 2019, 12:01 PM
Nov 2019

That alternate reading didn't even occur to me. But maybe people who were strong HRC supporters in the first place are more sensitive to finding things that could be perceived that way. My thought about it is that old saying about "it's not all about YOU." Not everything about a woman candidate is somehow about Hillary.

Occam's razor, Warren is talking about why you should vote for Warren. I doubt Hillary was anywhere in her consciousness when she was taking audience questions. She was simply promoting her own candidacy. Certainly not looking for ways to unnecessarily knock people who aren't even in the race. Besides, it would be stupid to knock someone when there are no doubt many fans of that person in your audience... and Warren is not stupid.

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aikoaiko

(34,163 posts)
10. ROFL
Tue Nov 12, 2019, 12:19 PM
Nov 2019



so much gluteus maximus discomfort.

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BlueMTexpat

(15,365 posts)
12. Oh FFS, Gothmog!
Tue Nov 12, 2019, 12:28 PM
Nov 2019

You know better than that.

I was - and remain - a staunch Hillary supporter and certainly did not take Warren's remark that way.


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Gothmog

(144,933 posts)
20. I am not the only one taking this comment that way
Tue Nov 12, 2019, 01:18 PM
Nov 2019
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highplainsdem

(48,917 posts)
21. See my reply 18 for why her specific wording made it sound that way.
Tue Nov 12, 2019, 01:28 PM
Nov 2019
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Gothmog

(144,933 posts)
25. I read your post and agreed with your analysis
Tue Nov 12, 2019, 04:33 PM
Nov 2019
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BlueMTexpat

(15,365 posts)
23. Well, I am not the only one
Tue Nov 12, 2019, 03:43 PM
Nov 2019

getting teed off by those who are "taking this comment that way" either.

Isn't it silly to continue like this? Taking any opportunity to tear down a good candidate simply because you don't support her candidacy?

That's exactly what happened with Hillary in 2016 and I, for one, am STILL mightily pissed off about that.

I don't know what your gender is but I AM a woman. And I am VERY sensitive about the rampant sexism shown towards women candidates generally.

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highplainsdem

(48,917 posts)
36. Well, I'm a woman and a feminist, and I pointed out in my reply 18 (to your reply 13) exactly WHY
Tue Nov 12, 2019, 10:11 PM
Nov 2019

Warren's comment has been getting negative reactions.

It was because of a few words she used that are normally used only for contrast, to point out an alternative to what's been done previously. Her using those words did make it sound as if she felt a tough, smart female candidate, by which she obviously meant herself, would be a contrast to previous candidates. Which could easily be viewed as a dismissal of HRC (whom I supported).

See reply 18, which you didn't bother to respond to.

As I said there, I don't think Warren INTENDED to give that impression. But it was unfortunate wording on her part, and I believe it's unfair of you to accuse people of sexism or deride them in other ways just because the way Warren phrased her remark did make it sound as though she thought she was smarter and tougher than previous candidates.

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BlueMTexpat

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38. You are almost always quick to dis
Wed Nov 13, 2019, 04:24 AM
Nov 2019

Warren, so I am not generally rising to your bait.

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Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
29. Well if more than one person does a thing, it can't be wrong.
Tue Nov 12, 2019, 05:05 PM
Nov 2019
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betsuni

(25,380 posts)
32. I did too. Maybe she doesn't consider Hillary tough and smart so it didn't occur to her.
Tue Nov 12, 2019, 06:23 PM
Nov 2019

Otherwise, when she heard herself say it she would've added something else. And it's not like this was an out-of-the-blue question. Naturally she had an idea of what she would say about the topic.

Thing is, for many people who know Hillary's life, tough and smart are the first things that come to mind. In August of 2016, the LA Times asked their readers to describe Hillary. Top pro-Clinton remarks were "qualified" and "experienced" -- referring to the race -- but next were "smart" and "strong."

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Gothmog

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33. Hillary Clinton is very tough and very smart
Tue Nov 12, 2019, 06:25 PM
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PhoenixDem

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43. I saw it as a dig at HRC as well. n/t
Wed Nov 13, 2019, 08:49 AM
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Skya Rhen

(2,701 posts)
17. It sounds that way to me. Words matter.
Tue Nov 12, 2019, 12:51 PM
Nov 2019
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Gothmog

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31. Yes words matter
Tue Nov 12, 2019, 06:23 PM
Nov 2019
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Iggo

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30. Oh good gawd, that's enough.
Tue Nov 12, 2019, 05:56 PM
Nov 2019
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BlueMTexpat

(15,365 posts)
39. It does
Wed Nov 13, 2019, 04:25 AM
Nov 2019

get old.

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Fresh_Start

(11,330 posts)
15. only thing I think might work, is promising legislation to free the nipple
Tue Nov 12, 2019, 12:36 PM
Nov 2019

so that they can expect to see more boob-age in the future

and that makes me very sad

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LAS14

(13,769 posts)
16. I've seen statistics that suggest that women are more reluctant than men to vote for women.
Tue Nov 12, 2019, 12:39 PM
Nov 2019

Maybe it's in some subset of the population, but I've seen it more than once.

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BannonsLiver

(16,313 posts)
34. That's how it is in my house
Tue Nov 12, 2019, 06:36 PM
Nov 2019

I like Warren and Harris but my wife is still so shaken from 2016 she doesn’t believe the country will vote for a woman anytime soon. She’s not open to any of the women. I’ll probably vote for Warren in my states primary on March 3. She’s from my hometown and I like her energy, as well as many of her policies. I also have a lot of affection for Biden, so he is a solid No. 2 with me.

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cwydro

(51,308 posts)
19. Sadly, there are many women who are reluctant to vote for a woman.
Tue Nov 12, 2019, 01:04 PM
Nov 2019

Hard to believe, but true.

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TidalWave46

(2,061 posts)
22. No matter how people talk shit about this or make it about something it isn't....
Tue Nov 12, 2019, 01:28 PM
Nov 2019

This is a serious issue. We are dealing with it and I think we are about to see our first generation of women, who as a whole, go about things in a different way. Historically, both boys and girls have been taught from a young age that there is a proper way to behave. While it is fair to neither it is has been flat out oppressive toward women. The gist of it is that women must be more tolerant and submissive while men must be more dominate and assertive.

Smile when you feel it, Senator Warren.

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guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
26. Recommended.
Tue Nov 12, 2019, 04:41 PM
Nov 2019

Warren is aware that HRC received more votes than Trump, but she is also aware of the persistent misogyny in the US.

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evertonfc

(1,713 posts)
28. sadly, in some cases, you cant
Tue Nov 12, 2019, 04:50 PM
Nov 2019

It's men.who torpedoed Clinton in 2016 if you look at exit polling. We just need to perform a few points better and we will win big. Biden will do that. Warren won't.

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myohmy2

(3,141 posts)
35. that's actually...
Tue Nov 12, 2019, 06:37 PM
Nov 2019

...a very good question...

...I'd suggest, by on-job experience...

...a hypothetical situation:

...Bernie and Elizabeth are very close politically...they can live with each others positions...

...let's say Bernie ran as President and Elizabeth ran as Vice President on the same ticket...let's say they win the White House...

...what are the odds of Bernie surviving two terms as President?


...I voted for Hillary and I'm convinced she would have made an excellent President...

...men, voting for a woman for President, we have nothing to fear but fear itself...

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dansolo

(5,376 posts)
40. What about the women who voted for Trump?
Wed Nov 13, 2019, 07:29 AM
Nov 2019

It seems like men aren't the only problem?

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betsuni

(25,380 posts)
41. "The weak effects of gender consciousness are not surprising. Unlike racial solidarity among
Wed Nov 13, 2019, 08:11 AM
Nov 2019

African Americans or racial attitudes among whites, gender consciousness has not typically been a substantial force in modern American politic behavior. As political scientists Nancy Burns and Donald Kinder have written, 'The social organization of gender emphasizes intimacy between men and women; the social organization emphasizes separation between whites and blacks. Separation fosters solidarity among African Americans. Integration impairs solidarity among women."

From "Identity Crisis"

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mcar

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44. We gave them a strong woman to vote for
Wed Nov 13, 2019, 10:03 AM
Nov 2019
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