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Proud Woman-Hater Declares War on the Dictionary
Manboob,
You throw this misogynist term around like it is an insult. But you know me, who I am, what I write. And I honestly believe I am not a misogynist.
I am a Woman Hater. There is a world of difference.
Misogynist is a clever little Femcentric term that women created to hurl at men or society whenever men or society dont fall to their knees for the little dears. Sort of like Racist, something that the thinking man, the educated men would never wished to be levied at him.
But Im woman hater. And it came from a long, long time of seeing, watching, and being with women, and knowing the creepy, greedy, scummy, black hearted little bitches that they are. You cant hurl that you just get didnt get any thing women that like to toss at mens bloggers, because I did and I know them to their fucking core, literally and figuratively. My number dwarfs the number of the average man.
A woman hater knows women, to their core, to their little black hearted center, and hates them as they are for who and what they are. I could less if the little dears get all the institutional things they want. Heck I want them to have it and create their little world that they are over there with them, and men are over here.
Hurl your epithets at me, your misogynist accusations and I dont care other than, in a correct verbal sense, you are using the wrong term. Its a little insulting from that standpoint, but I find it fitting that you cant tell a misogynist from woman hater. You defend them because you dont know them.
See, being a woman hater is a sign of good sense, a realistic appreciation of the world, the way things are, and especially the way women are.
PS, Im here because my name showed up with you bashing me over something and I wish you would do it more. It really gives me better cred with the fellows. Fuck, were even good for each other. I give you shit to write about so you can play your beta/omega game, Look I stood for you against those bad bad men. Please dont reject me. and your slamming me gives me more cred in the Sphere.
Toddles Manboob
Mark Minter
http://manboobz.com/2013/04/05/proud-woman-hater-declares-war-on-the-dictionary/
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All About the Menz: Douchey Vintage Douche Ads Edition
http://manboobz.com/2013/04/09/all-about-the-menz-douchey-vintage-douche-ads-edition/
D.H. Lawrence Righteously Rages Against Misogyny in Newly Discovered Essay
Continued JHR, "No doubt, the evil growth is derived from Eve, who certainly did or thought something wicked beyond words."
Murry invited readers to respond to JHR, and Lawrence a regular contributor to Adelphi did so.
Lawrence argued that JHR was projecting, basically:
The hideousness he sees is the reflection of himself, and of the automatic meat-lust with which he approaches another individual...Even the most 'beautiful' woman is still a human creature. If he approached her as such, as a being instead of as a piece of lurid meat, he would have no horrors afterwards.
Meat-lust! The revolutionary idea that women are human! Advice about how to approach the opposite sex that would still work today! Point to D.H.
http://jezebel.com/d-h-lawrence-righteously-rages-against-misogyny-in-new-472510692
Well well
694 Anti-Choice Bills In Just 3 Months, Republicans Continue To Attack Women’s Rights
A new report released on Thursday by the Guttmacher Institute takes a comprehensive look at how the War on Women has continued past the election cycle and into 2013. It shows that the new legislatures across the country are still very much dedicated to restricting sex education, availability of medication, and abortion access for women. Indeed, 47 percent of the 694 provisions were directly related to abortion.
You heard that right, 694 times in three months, states have sought to pass unconstitutional pro-life pro-fetus, anti-woman laws.
http://www.addictinginfo.org/2013/04/12/694-anti-choice-bills-in-just-3-months-republicans-continue-to-attack-womens-rights/
You know--- this is really fucked up.
Time to Talk About Misogynist Bullying
Harvard law professor Diane Rosenfeld teaches the Gender Violence Legal Policy Workshop and has been working for years to push the federal government to fund programs like MVP in schools. "It is definitely in a school's best interest to do as much on the prevention side as possible," she said, noting that the Steubenville event--sensational as it was--was hardly a one-off, but a growing phenomenon among students at high schools and colleges.
Group sex attacks against girls are statistically on the rise. For the last quarter-century, since numbers have been kept, sexual violence has also become more brutal, the age of perpetrators is dropping, and attacks by multiple perpetrators are up. According to U.S. Department of Justice statistics provided by University of Arizona Public health professor Mary P. Koss, the percentage of rapes involving two or more offenders went from 7 percent in 1994-1998 to 10 percent in 2005-2010.
Easier access to violent and dehumanizing Internet porn has coincided with the increases, and many observers believe the trends are related.
And it isn't just teenage boys who are complicit. Among the many disturbing aspects of the Steubenville case were the attitudes of the female bystanders, and the haters who took to Twitter to threaten the victim after the verdict.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/nina-burleigh/time-to-talk-about-misogy_b_3069764.html
But, but---I was told right here on DU that things are getting better! (Ok, i trashed that thread) And I Should be grateful!
The Power of a Girl
Yet following the family trend didnt come naturally to me. When I moved to Cancun in my twenties, I envisioned a quiet life, a slightly nostalgic existence, in which I would stare out at the sea, paint and write novels. Fortunately, my journalistic instincts soon took hold. Cancun was a male-made paradise built with the principal purpose of making money and catering to the whims of holiday-goers from Mexicos neighbors to the north. The city was devoid of its original, authentic population so I went in search of the displaced people who had been relocated to the surrounding countryside. There, few had running water; most lacked food and the bare essentials for a dignified existence. I met a malnourished woman whose baby had just died of hunger just a few miles away from the lush beach resort I was trying to call home, presenting a stark contrast to the luxury and hedonism of Cancun. True to my mothers legacy, I began writing about what I encountered in the local paper, unaware at the time that my lifes course would take a dramatic change.
Through my work as a journalist in the ensuing years, I have tracked and reported on organized crime rings that sexually exploit girls the world over. I have built a secure shelter for battered women. I have brought paedophiles to justice. I have fought sexual tourism, human trafficking, child pornography and every other type of brutality inflicted upon women and girls.
For my efforts, I have been rewarded with incarceration, threats and harassment. I have been beaten and demonized in the public eye. Yet I havent taken a step back, not because I am unaware of the dangers surrounding me. Fear is all too real and violence remains an efficient means by which to silence people like me. But my strength comes from girls and their power has become my own. Here is why:
https://www.chimeforchange.org/stories/the-power-of-a-girl?pillar=justice
Some people are just perceptive
A family member, on a moments introduction, somehow knew I like to read, and I'm interested I'm obscure history. How did he know?
"I have a book you'll really like" they said, pulling it out. I made a mental groan--it's title is "Chastity"-- but I put my game face on and smiled.
And was completely surprised.
He says,
"This is a story about a women back in, you know the Victorian era, well she, she was--raped--he says lowering voice respectfully, and the rapist came to trial, but it was all men back on those days, women couldn't be on juries, and her rapist was released out on bail. Well she saw him in the field, you know, bothering her and she thinks no one was ever going to believe her, because it was such a shameful thing, you know and he had a couple of buddies to back him up, so you know what she did?"
He leans back, gleam in eye. "What did she do" I asked, recognizing my cue.
"Why, she went in that courtroom at the trial and shot him five times! And THEN she had to go on trial for murder. And you know what happened at that trial?" I shake my head.
The WHOLE courtroom was filled with women!! They came out to support her. And she was exonerated.
I thank him, and gently hand him the book back and thought "how did he know?"
Witness after witness testified to seeing Lunney shoot McEnroe, 26, but Lunney told jurors McEnroe earlier had raped her. After 17 hours of deliberation, the all-male jury acquitted her.
"It's a case of a woman being raped, and she just decided that he had taken the most valuable thing she had -- her chastity," Yocom said.
Lunney, who had seen McEnroe in a field several days after he had been arrested for raping her, felt threatened by him, Yocom said.
"She believed she needed to take (matters) into her own hands," he said. "I think the jury didn't have any question that he was the rapist. The jury didn't like to send a woman to prison and certainly didn't want to put her to death."
After learning of the story, Yocom traveled to Norton several times to unearth the details from Norton County Court records and newspaper stories from the Norton County Library. The newspaper stories about the trial ran on Page 1 each day and covered most of that page.
"It was just something that was crying to be written," Yocom said of his decision to write "Chastity."
http://cjonline.com/stories/120405/boo_murder.shtml
I Am Not Oppressed
I am tired, and I am speaking out for the rights of my and other fellow Muslim sisters to be able to dress and be how they wish to be.
When I first heard about the 'titslamism' campaign that the radical feminist organization FEMEN was undertaking, I regarded it with apathy. Their original mission seemed to be intended to raise awareness around the Tunisian activist Amina Tyler, a woman who posted a photo of her bare breasts to the FEMEN Tunisia Facebook page and received backlash from the Tunisian government for doing so. As a result, FEMEN opted to begin protesting in front of Islamic centers around the world, baring their breasts in an effort to deal with Islamism.
Or so they purported.
In actuality, however, their campaign is not aligned with what they supposedly intended. FEMEN and its supporters have banked on what they feel is 'politically correct' these days to tap into: a healthy dose of Islamophobia with a heavy dash of sex appeal. Inna Shevchenko, the leader of FEMEN, backs up these allegations in a response she wrote addressing the very Muslim women who protested the efforts of her campaign to 'free' them:
So, sisters, (I prefer to talk to women anyway, even knowing that behind them are bearded men with knives). You say to us that you are against Femen, but we are here for you and for all of us, as women are the modern slaves and it's never a question of colour of skin. ... And you can put as many scarves as you want if you are free tomorrow to take it off and to put it back the next day but don't deny millions of your sisters who have fear behind their scarves, don't deny that there are million of your sisters who have been raped and killed because they are not following the wish of Allah!"
Wow.
As the very woman who is supposedly being 'freed' by these protests, I am offended and disgusted. As a covered Muslim woman, I am greeted on a daily basis with passersby who tell me that I no longer need to wear the headscarf because I am in America. In this exact statement supposedly freeing Muslim women from the clothes they seem 'forced' to don, there is a level of oppression being expressed, as though there is only one way to be 'free.' The same beliefs are employed in FEMEN's offensive and ultimately pointless protests.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/laila-alawa/i-am-not-oppressed_b_3052001.html
This topic continues to interest me because of its complexity--which was not apparent at first. I support the right to protest, naked or otherwise. It was never about breasts so much to me as the attention those breasts garnered, and why. Anyway, I have a Muslim friend who is both devout and liberal (he's from The Gambia--you should hear HIM on the topic of Margret Thatcher, he couldn't believe the American press was defending her record) I tease him and ask him when he's getting his 'second' wife. We have several co-workers from Israel, so there's a lot of good natured teasing that has developed---he dishes it out as well as takes it.
Anyway, he and I have had many talks, in his family, it's a responsibility to represent Islam accurately. One of the things we agree on is there are different forms of oppression, taking your clothes off can be as oppressive as covering up, depending on reasons and circumstance.
He said, when women from Iran fled after the fall of the Shah, women were not wearing the Hijab, but many of their daughters voluntarily DID when they grew up. He said this has happened in other Islamic cultures as well. His own wife does not cover. He said it is a sign of modesty, but in the sense of being humble, a spiritual modesty. (I forgot to ask him why men didn't cover their hair as well) Modesty is considered a virtue males and females in the Islamic religion.
FEMEN breaks my heart, they try so hard, risked so much in what will be an ultimately futile movement.
I am not religious, I find something I dislike in all religions. An Islamic fundamentalist state is a dangerous place for women. But that doesn't represent all Islamic women.
Are you fucking kidding me?
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/world/rest-of-world/North-Korea-keeps-world-on-edge-over-missile-launch-praises-Kim-dynasty/articleshow/19492328.cms
Look at the picture of North Korean women soldiers. Their shoes, my God. I know Kim Jong un is a nut job, and I admit shoes aren't my first or even 30th concern here-certainly not why I was reading the article---but WTF?
The Three Tragedies of Shulamith Firestone
But the thing I found saddest about that New Yorker piece is that Firestones brand of truly renegade feminism was once considered mainstream and has since fallen out of fashion. Her 1970 polemic, The Dialectic of Sex, was a best-seller. In it, Firestone advocated for a total overthrow of the family structure and for babies grown in artificial wombs. She also reinterpreted Karl Marx through a feminist lens. It was a deeply intellectualand, sometimes, thoroughly bonkersbook. Millions of women bought it, discussed it, and were changed by it.
Contrast that with the feminist manual thats currently No. 1 on the New York Times nonfiction best-seller list: The ubiquitous Lean In. Yes, I know, I know, youre all sick of reading about it. But Sheryl Sandbergs book is undeniably a phenomenon, and the phrase lean in has become part of the culture in just a few monthsno small feat. Instead of encouraging women to overthrow or revolutionize or even really change any existing structures, Lean In tells young women the path to parity is buying into a conservative, corporate world.
This is not to say that I believe Firestone was always right. Faludi quotes a New York Times reviewer, who calls Dialectic both brilliant and preposterous, which sounds about right. But theres something heartrending about the fact that whats now called radical is a book advising women to play the corporate game the same way that men always have. Its all pretty bland and boring in comparison to a book that compared childbirth to shitting a pumpkin.
http://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2013/04/10/shulamith_firestone_was_the_last_of_the_renegade_feminists.html
I love the 'Dialectic of Sex', even if it leans on Freud a bit too much for my taste. When I first read it, I thought it an incredible vision, almost Science fiction like. I like this article because we are seeing this, this---acquiescence---for lack of a better word of a number of American women. So many are placid and content in their privilege; Stepford like in choices. This isn't restricted to gender or even sexual orientation. True revolutionaries are far and few between, and it's debatable ala FEMEN, how women can even find a way toward revolution that doesn't, at heart acquiesce to the demands of patriarchy.
Others agonize over not being sexually attractive enough, thin enough, have the right kind of hair or makeup. I haven't read 'Lean in' I will eventually.
On the other hand, young feminist movements like Hollaback are awesome. There's a lot of awareness being raised out here and around the world. The Internet, for all it's faults allows, at least voices to be heard.
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