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Cyrano

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Mon Apr 6, 2020, 01:36 PM Apr 2020

My capacity for empathy has become selective [View all]

During most of my life, I can't recall wishing death on my worst enemy. We all have our own values, and although mine are not based on religion, (I'm a devout agnostic), I have encountered people whom I hated.But I never wished them dead. (And no, I'm not a saint. I've just always believed that you only go around once and that human life is precious.)

I have now lost most of my empathy for most Republicans. I really don't care if they live or die. And yes, I know that's a horrible fucking statement and concept. I can't believe I've reached a point where I've said "fuck you and your life" to so many human beings. But there is some broad-based kind of "them" that I hate and with whom I really don't want to share this planet.

The concept of evil was always one I wrestled with. Yet, I believe we're seeing that abstract quality now in far too many people. And it's one I've come to believe in.

In general, the Republican Party couldn't give a shit who lives or dies, as long as they can profit from it and retain power. And their current "Beloved Leader" is the worst offender in these values. The creature currently inhabiting the White House is an empty, soulless man who barely meets the definition of being a human being. And tens of thousands may die because of him during this horrible time.

I regret the loss of my capacity for empathy. Is Trump responsible for that? Are Republicans responsible for that? Yeah, partially. And it's also partially due to my own inability to withstand the assault with which they have attacked our values and our sense of decency.

After we get through this horrible virus, I believe that the future of our country, and perhaps the world, depends on defeating the even worse virus that is called The Republican Party. They are a danger to the concept of human freedom. They are a threat to human decency. They are evil.

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They have no empathy. So it's hard to give them any. LakeArenal Apr 2020 #1
You are not alone. Jamastiene Apr 2020 #2
I pretty much feel that same way Rorey Apr 2020 #3
Right there with ya. Laffy Kat Apr 2020 #28
I don't wish any of them dead. However... Thomas Hurt Apr 2020 #4
"they have to hit bottom and be shocked into change." MyOwnPeace Apr 2020 #51
I have a short list of people that, given the chance, I would shoot off hand... Wounded Bear Apr 2020 #5
Brave post!!! And good on ya!!! ResistantAmerican17 Apr 2020 #6
Sadly Timewas Apr 2020 #7
I don't really understand modifying ones morals for current day politics fescuerescue Apr 2020 #8
Well said. crickets Apr 2020 #15
Agreed in full. Stevegberg Apr 2020 #25
I'm sorry for your loss. Seriously, I really am. Girard442 Apr 2020 #9
I crossed that rubicon years ago. However... DEbluedude Apr 2020 #10
I believe as you do. As MLK said, Cyrano Apr 2020 #12
Yes. And "hopeful thinking" is what has kept me sane for most of my life. DEbluedude Apr 2020 #13
I wish we could live separate from the Sociopaths and whatever happens MarcA Apr 2020 #11
+1000 smirkymonkey Apr 2020 #14
I have empathy, and I don't wish anyone dead. But I am seeing people willfully Squinch Apr 2020 #16
When one loses all empathy, evil and the "bad" humans have prevailed. PufPuf23 Apr 2020 #17
Yup! Stevegberg Apr 2020 #26
I'm Not Sure That Empathy Is A One Way Transaction ProfessorGAC Apr 2020 #43
K and R x 1000 Ferrets are Cool Apr 2020 #18
I was raised to turn the other cheek. William769 Apr 2020 #19
I couldn't agree more BunnyMcGee Apr 2020 #20
I appreciate this post. Kicked and recommended. Stevegberg Apr 2020 #21
Welcome to DU, Stevegberg. calimary Apr 2020 #44
I agree completely. warmfeet Apr 2020 #22
Behold the field.... Arthur_Frain Apr 2020 #23
I don't want people to die, in general. ooky Apr 2020 #24
I understand. bluescribbler Apr 2020 #27
Good for you. EarnestPutz Apr 2020 #42
I Faux pas Apr 2020 #29
same here....... samnsara Apr 2020 #30
Me too...nt Sophiegirl Apr 2020 #31
"An empty, soulless man who barely meets the definition... 3catwoman3 Apr 2020 #32
Right there with you. Empathy means I know Phoenix61 Apr 2020 #33
like I have always said about rebukes. Javaman Apr 2020 #34
This is a great post malaise Apr 2020 #35
Agreed x 2 (spouse and I). n/t Deep State Gnostic Apr 2020 #36
Republicans have felt that way about democrats for decades. Glad it sank in finally. ffr Apr 2020 #37
I'm with you when it comes to being an agnostic. Butterflylady Apr 2020 #38
I'm right there with you. Pepsidog Apr 2020 #39
Same here. Thanks for letting me know I'm not the only one with these feelings. n/t SpankMe Apr 2020 #40
Just heard that Boris Johnson has been put into intensive care. My response was... EarnestPutz Apr 2020 #41
Feel the same about Boris Johnson Cyrano Apr 2020 #45
I care too much about who I am to allow them to take my empathy away... cynatnite Apr 2020 #46
Kick and rec!..n/t bluecollar2 Apr 2020 #47
Our future depends on defeating the Republican Party Martin Eden Apr 2020 #48
I really believe we should consider a Czechklosvakia style divorce. Blue_true Apr 2020 #49
A great post hangaleft Apr 2020 #50
My empathy is extraverted, selfish, and inherent. Laelth Apr 2020 #52
Absolutely! nancy1942 Apr 2020 #53
I have some empathy for friends & family who are Cons dustyscamp Apr 2020 #54
Whether or not Chainfire Apr 2020 #55
No ones a saint. And empathy costs nothing. And its healthy. marble falls Apr 2020 #56
republicants have always tested my better nature... Harker Apr 2020 #57
Evil. There is no other word for it. dalton99a Apr 2020 #58
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