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Response to Cyrano (Original post)

Tue Apr 7, 2020, 09:55 AM

52. My empathy is extraverted, selfish, and inherent.

I feel both the joy and the pain of every being that I encounter. I canít help it. Itís an inherent feature of my being, and it is getting stronger as I get older.

I am a healer who wants to ease the pain of the world. I can not stop feeling the pain of others, so I want to make the pain of others go away. My motive is selfish. I prefer to ease the pain of others because I donít want to feel their pain myself, as I nearly always do. I canít help it.

For a highly empathic person, empathy canít be abandoned or lost. It is both a blessing and a curse that one merely learns to live with.



-Laelth

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