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Laelth

(32,017 posts)
49. Which is the optimist and which is the pessimist?
Fri Jan 15, 2021, 11:28 AM
Jan 2021

This thought just occurred to me recently. Traditionally, we say an optimist sees the glass as half-full while a pessimist sees the glass as half-empty. I think we’ve got it backwards.

A pessimist sees the glass as half-full. The pessimist thinks, “Well, it could be WORSE” because that’s what a pessimist naturally expects. A half-full glass is better than nothing, and a pessimist, who naturally expects the worst, can be satisfied with a half-full glass.

The optimist, on the other hand, sees the glass as half-empty because the optimist thinks, “Well, it could be BETTER.” The optimist is filled with hope—as opposed to being resigned to its miserable fate. The optimist expects better and strives to make things better because the optimist believes that “better” is possible whereas the pessimist has little faith that things can be better and comforts itself with the knowledge that things could be worse.

Just an aside.

-Laelth

"The arc of the moral universe is long, but it bends toward justice". soothsayer Jan 2021 #1
My thought as well. nt NoRoadUntravelled Jan 2021 #4
Might as well throw in Longfellow soothsayer Jan 2021 #5
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Jan 2021 #11
Ah, yes. This is a good one to contemplate now. NoRoadUntravelled Jan 2021 #14
I dunno. A little too exact for me I guess. Speed it up KPN Jan 2021 #33
Which is the optimist and which is the pessimist? Laelth Jan 2021 #49
Interesting way to look at it. There's also: the upside of being a pessimist KPN Jan 2021 #52
Undoubtedly. Pessimism is not a bad thing, per se. n/t Laelth Jan 2021 #53
This message was self-deleted by its author Laelth Jan 2021 #54
I have had a feeling for some time the mills of the Gods will grind Trump and PatrickforO Jan 2021 #42
Yep, after a life of scamming, cheating and stiffing people... brush Jan 2021 #16
And we get to keep up with it in real time. NoRoadUntravelled Jan 2021 #17
Haven't given up yet. flying rabbit Jan 2021 #13
Same thought. IsItJustMe Jan 2021 #25
Pretty words with no basis DavidDvorkin Jan 2021 #56
Well you just have to wait long enough soothsayer Jan 2021 #57
Forever. DavidDvorkin Jan 2021 #59
I feel the same way. NRaleighLiberal Jan 2021 #2
fhe future will be revealed in the 2022 mid terms nt msongs Jan 2021 #3
except that's not justice choie Jan 2021 #12
Every time I remind myself of this, I end up getting to see how it plays out: Sogo Jan 2021 #38
I get what you're saying canetoad Jan 2021 #6
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Jan 2021 #7
Everybody knows the dice is loaded, everybody rolls with their fingers crossed Walleye Jan 2021 #8
R.I.P. ResistantAmerican17 Jan 2021 #43
I'd about given up on the idea of karma, but starting to believe again captain queeg Jan 2021 #9
It is overwhelming. madaboutharry Jan 2021 #10
I could have written your post. Ohiogal Jan 2021 #15
I don't want to sound Pollyanna, but since you've hit a limit I'll ask you consider a possibility... JHB Jan 2021 #18
Do we know for sure the item belongs to the State? KY_EnviroGuy Jan 2021 #55
I know how you feel. These days have been and are, very dark. MerryBlooms Jan 2021 #19
More than 70 million voters...it's mess. great post appalachiablue Jan 2021 #20
Evil happens so easily and good is a very hard long fight. Irish_Dem Jan 2021 #21
Action is an antidote to despair. struggle4progress Jan 2021 #22
Sadly I agree Frerotte Jan 2021 #23
Ditto! BigmanPigman Jan 2021 #24
We just won both of Georgia's Senate Seats. As for the bust of Lincoln we don't really know what is JI7 Jan 2021 #26
GWB skated off scot free to live life of gated communities and opulent wealth, badboy67 Jan 2021 #27
There is rarely a day goes by that I don't lament the fact that this war criminal got off Ferrets are Cool Jan 2021 #30
It's not a good time to be Trump BannonsLiver Jan 2021 #28
I understand completely. It's demoralizing, to say the least. Ferrets are Cool Jan 2021 #29
Would you want to be tRump? njhoneybadger Jan 2021 #31
Tough call world wide wally Jan 2021 #32
That nutso Justice Dept shield for sitting presidents ends for him as of next Wednesday. thenelm1 Jan 2021 #34
I'll never in my life understand it n/t hibbing Jan 2021 #35
I'm signing on to your post. dchill Jan 2021 #36
None of us have seen anything like this during our lifetimes. byronius Jan 2021 #37
Too Furious marieo1 Jan 2021 #39
If evil wins, it would have vanquished all good by now. It's always a push and pull. lutherj Jan 2021 #40
+1000,000 ancianita Jan 2021 #60
I understand how you feel, but have we verified that the bust was stolen? CaptainTruth Jan 2021 #41
I saw the bust walking out the door Wawannabe Jan 2021 #51
How did Caligula get away with it ... until he didn't/ soldierant Jan 2021 #44
Actually, you are completely rational under the circumstances. The most powerful creature on the dameatball Jan 2021 #45
I feel differently nam78_two Jan 2021 #46
It helps to develop a long view Warpy Jan 2021 #47
There's this flotsam Jan 2021 #48
+1 Laelth Jan 2021 #50
No, you're being rational DavidDvorkin Jan 2021 #58
Thanks so much everybody choie Jan 2021 #61
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