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Ms. Toad

(34,062 posts)
11. This may change your mind.
Sun Feb 21, 2021, 05:05 PM
Feb 2021

All the children were removed from the home (and, unfortunately - from what I can find - returned). Here are some details.

https://www.houstonpress.com/news/a-fathers-retribution-6563698

Travis Gates arrived that Friday morning at Dickinson Elementary School, where he attends fourth grade, with a Ziploc bag full of empty Fig Newton wrappers stapled to his shirt and a note from Gary Gates explaining that Travis was to wear the bag all day, that he was not allowed to attend a school Valentine's Day party, that this was his punishment for stealing food.

Travis, who has an eating disorder that leads him to compulsively steal, hoard and binge on food, presumably related to "attachment" issues born of early neglect and fetal alcohol syndrome, had sneaked out of a window at home and back in another window into the kitchen, which is habitually locked at night to control the children's access. He took a bulk box of Fig Newtons back to his room and stuffed himself. A nanny discovered the wrappers hidden in the attic and told Gary.


The Gates children had told stories -- not entirely consistent in detail, but compellingly similar in gist -- of a household run by a disciplinarian who may have crossed the line. There were stories of ipecac syrup, "throw-up medicine," given to several children, and meals dosed with cayenne pepper as punishment. There were stories not just of hauling two-by-fours and bricks as discipline, but of spankings with a board. The children recounted having to do "wall sits" as punishment, sometimes with a 25-pound or 50-pound weight in their laps, sometimes for hours at a time. It was learned that several of the Gates children wet their beds, and that Gary and Melissa keep a chart downstairs on which these children must note in the mornings whether their diapers are dry. Children caught stealing food would have to miss the next meal. Several children spoke of Gary taping newspaper around their hands, or handcuffing them, to keep them from stealing food.
Well, we all have different resources at our disposal so I might not blame this guy for using abqtommy Feb 2021 #1
In his case, a private JET. NM Grins Feb 2021 #10
I would never vote for such a lying piece of crap...I hope Texas throws these people out. Demsrule86 Feb 2021 #18
Another GQP coward throws his family under the bus jpak Feb 2021 #2
THIS malaise Feb 2021 #22
What is "wife illness" ? Rustyeye77 Feb 2021 #3
This message was self-deleted by its author Prof. Toru Tanaka Feb 2021 #29
IF it is true that his daughter is handicapped and his wife was ill - harumph Feb 2021 #4
This message was self-deleted by its author pinkstarburst Feb 2021 #9
Yikes! LeftInTX Feb 2021 #14
I'll give him a pass. Ilsa Feb 2021 #25
oh dear Skittles Feb 2021 #31
My psychiatrist just upped Ilsa Feb 2021 #34
I cannot imagine what kind of people work with dementia patients Skittles Feb 2021 #37
Fine, if his story is true. Mr.Bill Feb 2021 #5
He and his wife have 11 adoptive children and frogmarch Feb 2021 #6
Whoa. Rustyeye77 Feb 2021 #8
This may change your mind. Ms. Toad Feb 2021 #11
I Hope That Isn't True ProfessorGAC Feb 2021 #12
Not charges - but his children were briefly taken away from him. Ms. Toad Feb 2021 #13
Benefits of fostering then adopting in Texas... littlemissmartypants Feb 2021 #26
Human trafficking for profit. joshcryer Feb 2021 #36
It did! WTF! frogmarch Feb 2021 #16
All I was looking for was what kind of handicap his daughter had. Ms. Toad Feb 2021 #17
You're right. I'm not going to cut him much slack. Ilsa Feb 2021 #35
He's also sitting on a bajillion US American Dollar Clams. Act_of_Reparation Feb 2021 #20
Please excuse my ignorance but what's a dollar clam? nt littlemissmartypants Feb 2021 #23
The current exchange rate of US American Dollar Clams to US Dollars is... Act_of_Reparation Feb 2021 #24
HA! Got it! littlemissmartypants Feb 2021 #27
Maybe Florida can be become the new Trumpfuckistan... Thomas Hurt Feb 2021 #7
Did the round trip ticket include the free multigraincracker Feb 2021 #15
i thought all us citizens had to be tested before returing to the us. AllaN01Bear Feb 2021 #19
I am fine with his family taking off. Him not so much. SlogginThroughIt Feb 2021 #21
I agree, but RicROC Feb 2021 #32
Dumber Than A Sack Of Rocks DallasNE Feb 2021 #28
why wouldn't he explain this stuff BEFORE taking the trip Skittles Feb 2021 #30
Maybe he should quit the Texas House so he "can spend more time with his family." LastLiberal in PalmSprings Feb 2021 #33
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