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H2O Man

(73,535 posts)
32. I agree.
Tue Mar 22, 2022, 05:01 PM
Mar 2022

Now, I've been retired for some time, but I worked with DV (among other things) for decades. I do think that anyone who assaults a family member/ significant other should -- at least -- spend some time locked up. And many should spend a lot of time incarcerated.

For years, I worked primarily with parents who were abusing their children. That, of course, tends to create a vicious cycle. Not always, of course, but often. It is possible, in many cases, to teach young parents the "parenting skills" that their parents lacked. There are interventions that can break the cycle.

Later, when employed at the MHC, I did DV groups at the clinic, and in the county jail. The success rate was, in my opinion, lower than working with young parents. The clinic groups were mixed, with both male and female offenders, and I found that was better than all male of female groups. A few years back, when I was shopping, a former group member approached me to say thank you, the group changed his life, both as a husband and father. But far more were repeat offenders.

While I'm not a fan of our system of incarceration over-all, I do think there is significant benefit in cases of DV.

Republicans I_UndergroundPanther Mar 2022 #1
+1000 smirkymonkey Mar 2022 #16
Isn't murder and violence KT2000 Mar 2022 #2
Thats why I would feel no regret I_UndergroundPanther Mar 2022 #3
Oh, dear lord. PoindexterOglethorpe Mar 2022 #4
Yes! KT2000 Mar 2022 #5
That's a great point Johnny2X2X Mar 2022 #11
+1000 smirkymonkey Mar 2022 #17
And toxic I_UndergroundPanther Mar 2022 #21
What in the world does "LGBT stuff" have to do wirth it? And, stop blaming victtims obamanut2012 Mar 2022 #33
Didn't mean to say anything offensive. PoindexterOglethorpe Mar 2022 #34
How do you address it? maxsolomon Mar 2022 #6
Tony Soprano would know how to resolve this situation if his daughter was the victim. nt albacore Mar 2022 #7
How many of us have a Tony Soprano in our corner? Jilly_in_VA Mar 2022 #9
He's lucky she didn't end him with one of his own weapons. gldstwmn Mar 2022 #8
Should preclude half this country from owning one Jilly_in_VA Mar 2022 #10
All of the Russian money that gldstwmn Mar 2022 #12
What is the loophole? DVRacer Mar 2022 #13
Well maybe it's because she's the girlfriend, not the wife FakeNoose Mar 2022 #18
Financial abuse I_UndergroundPanther Mar 2022 #22
I learned in my mispent youth...marrying an abusive man-child in my teens that...you Demsrule86 Mar 2022 #14
Yeah Jilly_in_VA Mar 2022 #19
Just Charges? Bow To The Robots Mar 2022 #15
So all the Jan 6 rioters should be on the streets? dpibel Mar 2022 #24
Again, careful what you wish for. Bow To The Robots Mar 2022 #25
I see no evidence dpibel Mar 2022 #26
Fallacy. Argumentum Ad Hominem. Bow To The Robots Mar 2022 #27
Temporary or permanent? Reviewable? dpibel Mar 2022 #28
I'm still not the topic. Bow To The Robots Mar 2022 #29
I'm fascinated dpibel Mar 2022 #35
Recommended. H2O Man Mar 2022 #20
These fuckers will get guns, I_UndergroundPanther Mar 2022 #23
I agree. H2O Man Mar 2022 #32
Any felony... Bow To The Robots Mar 2022 #30
Yet not all H2O Man Mar 2022 #31
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