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xmas74

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Sat Mar 25, 2023, 11:26 AM Mar 2023

I've been here since 2004 and I'm tired [View all]

It's exhausting how often I see people disparage or outright ridicule residents of other states.

We have plenty of people here who are from those red states. They work their butts off trying to elect Dems. It's hard, especially when your state party receives nearly zero funds from the DNC. It's hard to campaign when the GOP is outspending you by large amounts of money.

I live in Missouri. Kansas City, St Louis and Columbia are blue. What hurts us is how much of the state is rural. The rural areas have elected politicians who go to the state capital, pass laws that fight voting rights, realign district maps to purposely break up purple areas into larger red areas that counteract any votes for Democrats. In many of these rural areas Democrats no longer run, allowing for a GOP stronghold. Why don't they run? They can't afford it, knowing they'll receive no funding from the state party because the state party receives very little national funding.

I see it over and over again about how we just don't "try hard enough". I worked in an essential job during the pandemic where I put in 90 hour weeks. I still did my damnedest to campaign, make phone calls, write and mail post cards, etc. I ran a local club. We were involved. Did I mention how we lost several members to covid and a few were also fighting cancer, myself included?

I've had several in my personal life ask how I could even post here. They've read the comments left about red states and felt they wouldn't be accepted here. Posters here don't realize that others do read their comments.

I'm not leaving. This isn't a departure post. It's just a reminder that we were created to be a haven for Dems. In our bashing we seem to forget that not everyone here lives in a city in a blue state.

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I hear ya. Liberal In Texas Mar 2023 #1
Yep. xmas74 Mar 2023 #3
A hell of a lot of Republican crap has been tested in Texas hamsterjill Mar 2023 #43
so true! All of the big cities and most of the counties yellowdogintexas Mar 2023 #77
Fort Worth being blue is proof of how hard Dems are working! summer_in_TX Mar 2023 #174
Thank you. I take your reminder seriously. delisen Mar 2023 #2
Posters here forget that new people look at places like this. xmas74 Mar 2023 #7
Excellent post. AbnerBunny Mar 2023 #4
Kentucky tries so hard xmas74 Mar 2023 #9
Kick zuul Mar 2023 #5
Thank you nt xmas74 Mar 2023 #11
I agree. murielm99 Mar 2023 #6
Outside of Chicago it gets red fast. xmas74 Mar 2023 #16
Pennsylvania too Freddie Mar 2023 #48
MontCo? Tree-Hugger Mar 2023 #71
Upper Bucks Freddie Mar 2023 #93
He is awful Tree-Hugger Mar 2023 #99
I doubt many progressives are voting for him, that would be centre to centre right, moderate to Celerity Mar 2023 #144
"Progressive Democratic Party voters are almost always far more partisan in favour of PufPuf23 Mar 2023 #163
Yes, without a doubt. Centrist, centre right , moderate, and conservative Democrats Celerity Mar 2023 #164
The Sierra foothills of California are pretty red... Whatthe_Firetruck Mar 2023 #161
I'm one of them samplegirl Mar 2023 #8
Ohio is so tough to crack! xmas74 Mar 2023 #18
Someone in here samplegirl Mar 2023 #78
Some here seem to think I should do more xmas74 Mar 2023 #148
Don't pay any attention samplegirl Mar 2023 #179
Well said and thank you for all your work. Evolve Dammit Mar 2023 #186
Thank you for this OP. MontanaMama Mar 2023 #10
Thank you for fighting what feels like a losing battle. xmas74 Mar 2023 #15
I don't think that, Mama, cilla4progress Mar 2023 #36
Hey my friend... MontanaMama Mar 2023 #52
You got some great young people, there - cilla4progress Mar 2023 #57
That lawsuit gets a huge gold star, it's exactly what the country needs. JudyM Mar 2023 #67
I live in Oregon but a conservative city Tree Lady Mar 2023 #12
People forget or don't realize xmas74 Mar 2023 #22
I'm in eastern Washington. cilla4progress Mar 2023 #58
Exactly xmas74 Mar 2023 #66
I remind DU people as often as possible about inland California because of the enduring fantasy... Hekate Mar 2023 #138
If one wants some rural California insanity, take a look at Shasta County. PufPuf23 Mar 2023 #162
I am in Medford southern Oregon Tree Lady Mar 2023 #116
back in the mod days, mopinko Mar 2023 #13
We've been here for so long! xmas74 Mar 2023 #19
i spent a few years in the hot tub, and yeah, i think about it often. mopinko Mar 2023 #45
I remember it well. xmas74 Mar 2023 #47
Thanks for this fair criticism. ancianita Mar 2023 #125
I also miss being able to comment on alerts. It made a difference to be able to say something like... Hekate Mar 2023 #136
yeah, that's another thing- looking at a whole thread. mopinko Mar 2023 #142
I agree 100% with this comment and subthread. Thabks. n/t ms liberty Mar 2023 #181
New York gave us Donald Trump, George Santos, and a Republican-controlled House dalton99a Mar 2023 #14
Exactly xmas74 Mar 2023 #21
Keep in mind that there are way more Koch dark money info/influence campaigns going on than get ancianita Mar 2023 #126
Thank you for this observation, ancianita. I am glad to hear that young people are paying attention. Hekate Mar 2023 #141
Well-spotted, dalton! Hekate Mar 2023 #140
Thank you blogslug Mar 2023 #17
It really is. Nt xmas74 Mar 2023 #23
Just want to shout out a big AMEN to ya! bluestarone Mar 2023 #20
Missouri used to be a bellwether. xmas74 Mar 2023 #25
:) I'm in a blood-red district in Georgia, and I'm grateful to Hortensis Mar 2023 #61
It's so hard sometimes xmas74 Mar 2023 #69
Ten people a year! That's...incredible. Hope that's fast-tracked Hortensis Mar 2023 #106
The state legislature has done everything possible xmas74 Mar 2023 #168
A big thank you from Wisconsin! Talitha Mar 2023 #24
I'm originally from Wisconsin. xmas74 Mar 2023 #26
I agree Marthe48 Mar 2023 #27
And thank you for replying. xmas74 Mar 2023 #28
Humans are inclined to disparage and ridicule "others" Model35mech Mar 2023 #29
I do know that xmas74 Mar 2023 #31
+1000. And I'm so glad this is not a "departure post." Hortensis Mar 2023 #30
You knew I wasn't departing. xmas74 Mar 2023 #32
:) A reflection of the extreme intolerance that's now horribly mistaken Hortensis Mar 2023 #88
A big K&R! Bayard Mar 2023 #33
Even here in Missouri xmas74 Mar 2023 #34
Everyone has the right to disparage us WhiteTara Mar 2023 #35
No one has the right to disparage you. xmas74 Mar 2023 #37
that, my dear, is why WhiteTara Mar 2023 #51
But why is it apathetic? xmas74 Mar 2023 #62
I believe they actually agree with the current WhiteTara Mar 2023 #103
I could not disagree more Seinan Sensei Mar 2023 #127
Well put, and I truly felt for Arkansas after that bad election. txwhitedove Mar 2023 #40
IT's hard to participate WhiteTara Mar 2023 #53
K&R. Thanks for your post and keep up the good fight. c-rational Mar 2023 #38
Thank you nt xmas74 Mar 2023 #39
I am from KCMO Rebl2 Mar 2023 #41
I'm there all the time. xmas74 Mar 2023 #42
Same exact situation in North Carolina. yardwork Mar 2023 #44
Missouri could do better xmas74 Mar 2023 #49
I am from Iowa and I feel the same way.. I keep posting don't give up on us! Peacetrain Mar 2023 #46
Iowa has a strong union history xmas74 Mar 2023 #54
I live in Missouri. Fuck Missouri!! aeromanKC Mar 2023 #50
Or do something xmas74 Mar 2023 #70
Red state dweller here. Hope22 Mar 2023 #55
I understand xmas74 Mar 2023 #73
So we can't disparage States edhopper Mar 2023 #56
How about nit disparaging the citizens of those states xmas74 Mar 2023 #74
How about edhopper Mar 2023 #90
Is it the majority of voters xmas74 Mar 2023 #150
You can't gerrymander edhopper Mar 2023 #166
There are plenty of Dems still living in those states xmas74 Mar 2023 #167
They do edhopper Mar 2023 #169
Is it really the vast majority xmas74 Mar 2023 #171
I think there are a lot of States edhopper Mar 2023 #172
Is it the majority of voters xmas74 Mar 2023 #151
Just quit saying wtf is wrong with the people in that state Cheezoholic Mar 2023 #75
This message was self-deleted by its author Cheezoholic Mar 2023 #80
Can we qualify it edhopper Mar 2023 #89
Of course, thought that was self explanatory n/t Cheezoholic Mar 2023 #94
I thougt edhopper Mar 2023 #98
Obviously this thread disagrees Cheezoholic Mar 2023 #111
I always edhopper Mar 2023 #114
In that case, you're being amazingly disingenuous about this OP. BlackSkimmer Mar 2023 #137
++ Bravo! Red State Rebels, like the Resistance. 🧢 appalachiablue Mar 2023 #154
Exactly Seinan Sensei Mar 2023 #194
The comments that bother me Chautauquas Mar 2023 #76
I remember seeing pics like this posted here a decade ago BumRushDaShow Mar 2023 #101
I wish I could rec this 100 times. piddyprints Mar 2023 #59
Thank you for this post Hekate Mar 2023 #60
Could not agree more, thanks! randr Mar 2023 #63
I complained quite a bit about posts about the racist south as if it isn't everywhere. TNNurse Mar 2023 #64
It's called "placism" jayschool2013 Mar 2023 #65
To be fair, doesn't CO have to put up with tourists from all over? Beartracks Mar 2023 #117
In my NC hometown, they moonscape Mar 2023 #123
Not tourists. jayschool2013 Mar 2023 #165
You are correct. whathehell Mar 2023 #68
YES. ancianita Mar 2023 #177
I live in the red state of Indiana. Go ahead and make fun Emile Mar 2023 #72
Thank you arkielib Mar 2023 #79
I live in a Blue State but a Red town. Discouraging here. Paper Roses Mar 2023 #81
I post this often. Feel free to do the same. CrispyQ Mar 2023 #82
And... animated BumRushDaShow Mar 2023 #102
Oh my, that is fab! And the message is perfect! CrispyQ Mar 2023 #105
The way the guys have the sigs set up BumRushDaShow Mar 2023 #107
I absolutely love that animation. I saved the link for when I want to use it again. ... Hekate Mar 2023 #129
I remember seeing it in someone's sig BumRushDaShow Mar 2023 #134
Excellent graphic Alice Kramden Mar 2023 #146
You're welcome! BumRushDaShow Mar 2023 #152
The red disappearing is very satisfying Alice Kramden Mar 2023 #155
Many of the blue dots in the sparsely populated areas are college towns. PufPuf23 Mar 2023 #158
Sick of it too here in IN and Ive said so Cheezoholic Mar 2023 #83
Logged on to say thank you democrank Mar 2023 #84
This Floridian thanks you mcar Mar 2023 #85
As does this Floridian 🙏 Deuxcents Mar 2023 #131
Agree. The gerrymandering by R legislatures is shredding D districts. So much so that any Dem with allegorical oracle Mar 2023 #86
This Texas Democrat thanks you so much for your comments. (nt) Paladin Mar 2023 #87
Well my state "looks like" this BumRushDaShow Mar 2023 #91
My attempt to explain why these states are badmouthed on DU. world wide wally Mar 2023 #92
Tired Floridian here AmBlue Mar 2023 #95
Thank you! BlackSkimmer Mar 2023 #96
++ A million. I think the 'Y''all' is waning, TG. And Amazon Echo/Alexa 'for Southerners' maybe. appalachiablue Mar 2023 #120
This. n/t ms liberty Mar 2023 #185
i don't know. barbtries Mar 2023 #97
+1 SouthernDem4ever Mar 2023 #156
Others here BigOleDummy Mar 2023 #100
I live in Seattle ismnotwasm Mar 2023 #104
Thank you for this. rwheeler31 Mar 2023 #108
I hear you. Like you, I've been on DU since 2004 and live in a red state, japple Mar 2023 #109
Maybe when we figure out how to stop the minority from controlling everything SouthernDem4ever Mar 2023 #157
We're in NH - a red state surrounded by blue Tesha Mar 2023 #110
The demographics are with us (Actually, we are with the demographics!) usonian Mar 2023 #112
Excellent point Seinan Sensei Mar 2023 #195
Fellow Missourian here UpInArms Mar 2023 #113
I live in Ohio, and I do more Buckeye Bashing than anyone. JohnnyRingo Mar 2023 #115
It's the same in Washington and Michigan. LisaM Mar 2023 #118
I called someone out for this the other day. hippywife Mar 2023 #119
Agree 100% Mollyann Mar 2023 #121
as a resident of Indiana, which very frustratingly has gotten much more red in recent years, LymphocyteLover Mar 2023 #122
Don't feel bad. Even here in Michigan, currently a shining beacon of hope for catbyte Mar 2023 #124
All states are Purple, though different shades Martin Eden Mar 2023 #128
Hear, hear!!! MayReasonRule Mar 2023 #130
I live in Florida. Earth-shine Mar 2023 #132
Texas will turn blue LetMyPeopleVote Mar 2023 #133
Thank You from a Texan. The most bashed state here on DU. flying_wahini Mar 2023 #135
And likely the most misunderstood. TwilightZone Mar 2023 #160
We are gerrymandered up to our ears. Surprised that we are even allowed to vote. flying_wahini Mar 2023 #184
Checking in from NW Montana Glacier Country Maru Kitteh Mar 2023 #139
Agreed. Blaming the victim orthoclad Mar 2023 #143
Thanks, xmas74! calimary Mar 2023 #145
K&R Alice Kramden Mar 2023 #147
I am against all attacks Meowmee Mar 2023 #149
Great post. You are correct and we are in a very "unusual" time. May we prevail. Thank you! Evolve Dammit Mar 2023 #153
Because stereotyping is much easier than understanding the reality and context of situations. TwilightZone Mar 2023 #159
I guess we don't remember that this is how the fascists have come to power SouthernDem4ever Mar 2023 #170
excellent point - I live in a blue state... bluboid Mar 2023 #173
I agree Conjuay Mar 2023 #175
It's my understanding Jilly_in_VA Mar 2023 #191
don't take any of it personally.... Gato Moteado Mar 2023 #176
I appreciate your post. As a blue stater, I feel nothing but appreciation for Democrats pnwmom Mar 2023 #178
I have markie Mar 2023 #180
you know what they mean treestar Mar 2023 #182
No xmas74 Mar 2023 #189
not common treestar Mar 2023 #193
I currently live in TN and and am also sick of the South bashing Generic Brad Mar 2023 #183
Indiana agrees RecoveringJournalist Mar 2023 #187
Here since 03 and I agree. Thanks n/t ms liberty Mar 2023 #188
But we're just trying be play victim, right? xmas74 Mar 2023 #190
I'm just a blue dot Jilly_in_VA Mar 2023 #192
So sit back and take it? Patton French Mar 2023 #196
Sit back and take what? xmas74 Mar 2023 #197
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