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Warpy

(111,169 posts)
9. I was lucky. My dad drove up until his final illness
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 05:37 PM
Nov 2012

and even managed to drive to and from his cataract surgery. It's a good thing because he picked a place with no cabs and no public transit to retire to.

When I have to give it up, I'll be in decent shape because I learned from their mistakes and moved to an area with buses and cabs. OK, the neighborhood sucks but at least it's convenient.

There are services available (and were in my parents' area) to transport old folks. What you need to do is put in the application before it's needed and then schedule the trips in advance--some require 48 hours, some 24, and some a full week. Cabs are usually cheaper, but the transport services are handicapped friendly.

Contact the local Senior Center. Mr.Bill Nov 2012 #1
Haven't faced it yet here in the Twin Cities, but there is MineralMan Nov 2012 #2
When my mother lived in LA she bought a book of discounted passes from the cab company NV Whino Nov 2012 #3
i think he would be most comfortable with the cab company. How did that work out for your mother? hedgehog Nov 2012 #8
It worked great for my mother NV Whino Nov 2012 #13
My dad's driving was getting kind of scary and finally he had a little fender-bender The Velveteen Ocelot Nov 2012 #4
After 3 fender benders in less than 3 months, we removed Mom's car keys from her house Siwsan Nov 2012 #5
I take my Mother to her Doctor appointments Turbineguy Nov 2012 #6
Yes, it's easy to do in a small town. My mother grudgingly gave up Laurian Nov 2012 #7
I'm thinking that auto insurance is $700 a year. Toss in the cost of gas and tires, hedgehog Nov 2012 #15
I was lucky. My dad drove up until his final illness Warpy Nov 2012 #9
We were unsuccessful frazzled Nov 2012 #10
just remember. It's not your parents driving onethatcares Nov 2012 #11
I'm confused by your post TrueBlueinCO Nov 2012 #12
don't be confused. picture this. onethatcares Nov 2012 #21
difficult transition bluemarkers Nov 2012 #14
We moved M-I-L in with us. Now we do the driving. jtuck004 Nov 2012 #16
I moved my 90-y.o. mom in with me so I can drive her where she needs to go. nt Speck Tater Nov 2012 #17
My dad lives in the house we grew up in - there are grandchildren in the area, hedgehog Nov 2012 #18
A lot of municipalities have shuttle services for a really small fare like Cleita Nov 2012 #19
decent public transportation is something folks around here give up when they move to the burbs dembotoz Nov 2012 #20
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