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In reply to the discussion: A Very Tearful Farewell [View all]

2naSalit

(93,297 posts)
36. I wish you would stay...
Thu Jul 4, 2024, 07:00 AM
Jul 2024

Take a break, we all need to do that in these heated times.

We need your sane and eloquent voice here, your insight is like healing balm and sometimes like the cure to cancer around here. Your worth is far more than you might imagine.

With that said, I too, have been weaning myself from my time at DU though I am loathe to "miss" breaking info since I have limited news access otherwise. It's damaging to our psyches, individually and collectively... some of us handle it better than others.

This next four months will be the test of our resolve to remain a democracy, it will take everything we have in us to keep it and avoid having nothing less than tatters left come next year. I'm not looking forward to this next several months either.

Please consider taking a vacation, come back after the election or at least after this dark cloud moves out to sea. I would even consider begging but....

We are being flooded by trolls, bots, sleeper trolls and everything imaginable to disrupt and upset us such that we fight amongst ourselves, the debate was a strategic blow that landed pretty squarely on the mark. Once we get beyond this, and it will take at least until after the convention, to be marching in one direction as a force of we the people energy but I see it happening. It just won't be pretty getting there as we can see. I hope we all can remember this as we go on.

We love you, Nance, and your wisdom that you share with us even in this post. I understand your reasoning and need to step back, it's kind of dangerous here right now, but I hope you will return when things calm down and we can act more civilly toward each other again. The negativity is pretty dense right now.

I just hope you'll change your mind in time.

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A Very Tearful Farewell [View all] NanceGreggs Jul 2024 OP
Please don't leave samplegirl Jul 2024 #1
Most of what I have read at DU PatSeg Jul 2024 #77
I have see a number of anti biden posts wnich i think SHOULD NOT Trueblue1968 Jul 2024 #92
Wishing you comfort and heart's ease. Been on a million juries, alerts on those posts. mahina Jul 2024 #2
This is very important information. This should be a message from DU leaders to all DU members SupportSanity Jul 2024 #166
Please stay and fight. Mister Ed Jul 2024 #3
The most important objective is beating TCF. Voltaire2 Jul 2024 #4
My 1st reaction was 'Naturally. Everything else is falling apart, so naturally here's one more..." lostnfound Jul 2024 #5
NanceGreggs, if you leave, you leave the rest of us who feel as you do... hlthe2b Jul 2024 #6
I share your dismay. madamesilverspurs Jul 2024 #7
Rec'd because you have been such a great DU'er BeyondGeography Jul 2024 #8
Oh No, Nance! I know what you mean by Cha Jul 2024 #9
Please don't go, Dear Nance solara Jul 2024 #10
Don't go for good. Just take some time. It is a applegrove Jul 2024 #11
I don't like this sort of defeatist attitude. ClearSky24 Jul 2024 #12
Defeatist is strong language. This is a damn yorkster Jul 2024 #68
Best you excuse yourself from this discussion then. Nance is an old & much valued friend of 20 years... Hekate Jul 2024 #81
Thank you. niyad Jul 2024 #145
No one here is being defeatist. n/t hlthe2b Jul 2024 #117
Cold mahina Jul 2024 #128
See post 143. niyad Jul 2024 #144
Please don't be gone for long Easterncedar Jul 2024 #13
I feel the same. I don't want to lose our country. Fight with us. we can do it Jul 2024 #14
Back when I lurked for years, you were DU. Think it was called Nance Rants? betsuni Jul 2024 #15
No need for straw men. Oof. themaguffin Jul 2024 #16
Don't be bamboozled by the bots BoRaGard Jul 2024 #17
The majority of us are complaining about outside sources: LeftInTX Jul 2024 #18
Not to say your post was premature, but please consider the following: DFW Jul 2024 #19
I noticed that too. Low post count, long time member LeftInTX Jul 2024 #53
Exactly. They're here, but they ain't all us. DFW Jul 2024 #59
Geez, here comes the McCarthyism notemason Jul 2024 #103
Perhaps this discussion is not where you need to be just now Hekate Jul 2024 #105
Wow notemason Jul 2024 #107
Amazing that on a discussion board, in a subforum called Rob H. Jul 2024 #169
For you to have used that term as a response to DFW's post suggests to me niyad Jul 2024 #146
Your response suggests to me notemason Jul 2024 #148
. . . . niyad Jul 2024 #150
I also think you need to read DFW's posts. shrike3 Jul 2024 #170
THANK YOU, DFW. elleng Jul 2024 #90
Why were the anti posts allowed to be posted then. Strong measures are needed to keep du strong Trueblue1968 Jul 2024 #94
Deleting someone else's post is a drastic measure DFW Jul 2024 #102
And maybe they dont. Anger is too much to be seen here now, i think. Trueblue1968 Jul 2024 #110
It a post is deliberately and aggressively against the terms of service DFW Jul 2024 #112
Thank you for your voice. In the moment you are not only wise and experienced, but gentle... Hekate Jul 2024 #96
Yep. I just interacted with one of them. Who proceeded to spew right-wing talking points. shrike3 Jul 2024 #111
The reveal their true colors soon enough, don't they? n/t DFW Jul 2024 #114
They sure do. All while proclaiming their innocence. shrike3 Jul 2024 #115
They always proclaim their innocence DFW Jul 2024 #116
Thank you so much! niyad Jul 2024 #151
Thank you DFW. AllyCat Jul 2024 #175
I had emptied out my ignore list. It's building back up again now. woodsprite Jul 2024 #20
My ignore list SilverDawg Jul 2024 #22
I assumed (wrongly, maybe) that the debate would change nobody's mind. JustABozoOnThisBus Jul 2024 #21
... spanone Jul 2024 #23
Please stay. Elessar Zappa Jul 2024 #24
I have always enjoyed your posts and your thoughtful analysis of issues. Lonestarblue Jul 2024 #25
How is your message different than the ones you're denouncing? Renew Deal Jul 2024 #26
Loyalty goes both ways, & we're all doing the best we can with what we've got. Especially when depleted... Hekate Jul 2024 #104
Exavtly! niyad Jul 2024 #149
Yes, it is very frustrating. NT Patton French Jul 2024 #27
I came back here looking for truth and some stability babsbunny Jul 2024 #28
I wish I had better expectations bigtree Jul 2024 #29
I'm glad I'm not the only one. shrike3 Jul 2024 #69
🪷🪷🪷 Hekate Jul 2024 #108
Barbarians at the gate bucolic_frolic Jul 2024 #30
I feel the same. Have stoped posting and trying to stay in sinkingfeeling Jul 2024 #31
Yea, it's been a tough time. Biophilic Jul 2024 #32
DU needs your voice! GoneOffShore Jul 2024 #33
I don't think you should leave because people are disagreeing. That's the way Democrats are. Vinca Jul 2024 #34
Please don't leave! Bluethroughu Jul 2024 #35
I wish you would stay... 2naSalit Jul 2024 #36
This is beautiful, Tuna. I hope Nance reads what her friends are saying... Hekate Jul 2024 #120
I know exactly how you feel. edisdead Jul 2024 #37
If you leave, who will speak for me? slingsam Jul 2024 #38
🪷🪷🪷 Hekate Jul 2024 #121
I know its painful to watch/see that stuff. Believe me. BootinUp Jul 2024 #39
Don't leave, please. Plenty of us support Joe and Kamala, and won't quit, ever. Timeflyer Jul 2024 #40
Nance , True Blue American Jul 2024 #41
I agree True Blue American Jul 2024 #42
In these treacherous times, we need your voice of reason now, more than ever dlk Jul 2024 #43
🪷🪷🪷 Hekate Jul 2024 #130
It is very sad to see you go, Nance. brer cat Jul 2024 #44
They don't belong here. They should all go. You would be missed more than you could imagine. Judi Lynn Jul 2024 #45
🪷🪷🪷 Hekate Jul 2024 #132
I know where you're coming from on this. MineralMan Jul 2024 #46
🪷🪷🪷 Hekate Jul 2024 #133
NanceGreggs, plz don't go, you are a valued member here on DU, MarineCombatEngineer Jul 2024 #47
I put the worst of 'em on ignore. hunter Jul 2024 #48
oh geez, don't go..... Takket Jul 2024 #49
Nance...we need good thinkers and good writers here. LuckyCharms Jul 2024 #50
It's been a difficult stretch here on DU mcar Jul 2024 #51
Nance, you are one of the few who "get it." gab13by13 Jul 2024 #52
No!!! rzemanfl Jul 2024 #54
PLEASE do not leave, Nance. You are truly one of our most valued members, niyad Jul 2024 #55
Right behind you. pwb Jul 2024 #56
Please reconsider StarryNite Jul 2024 #57
Nance don't leave .. we need you.. we have been around this corner before.. Peacetrain Jul 2024 #58
Please don't go! Dave says Jul 2024 #60
I've been struggling with the same impulse to leave for a couple of days now. But Beastly Boy Jul 2024 #61
Nance...... essaynnc Jul 2024 #62
I'm sorry to hear that but, Disaffected Jul 2024 #63
You are among the few DUers whose handle I instantly recognize. shrike3 Jul 2024 #64
I am also disgusted by the people who want to get President Biden off the ticket LetMyPeopleVote Jul 2024 #65
Do what gives you peace of mind. blogslug Jul 2024 #66
Respectfully, LLC Jul 2024 #67
What everyone else said, but also please consider Qutzupalotl Jul 2024 #70
I prefer you stay and they go! Emile Jul 2024 #71
Please stay! It's always darkest before the dawn Jersey Devil Jul 2024 #72
Those who are questioning Biden are seccumbing to fear & playing into what maga wants. I'm Supporting Joe! NowsTheTime Jul 2024 #73
NanceGreggs, thank you for this post. It actually makes me feel better because I believe you are c-rational Jul 2024 #74
This makes me so sad. greatauntoftriplets Jul 2024 #75
I am with you on this.... FarPoint Jul 2024 #76
There are many people on this board, the majority, who support Biden. 58Sunliner Jul 2024 #78
I wish that you would reconsider leaving DU Niagara Jul 2024 #79
I believe I have read almost all, if not all of your posts over the years. llmart Jul 2024 #80
I can relate hermetic Jul 2024 #82
I'm still Ridin' With Biden. mucholderthandirt Jul 2024 #83
Yep republianmushroom Jul 2024 #97
"All your bags are packed, you're ready to go..." BannonsLiver Jul 2024 #84
You think this is funny, BannonsLiver? Hekate Jul 2024 #156
You've never heard John Denver's "Leaving on a Jet Plane"? BannonsLiver Jul 2024 #162
Wait! H2O Man Jul 2024 #85
🪷🪷🪷 Hekate Jul 2024 #154
Don't let the door hit you in the @$$ on your way out.... SKKY Jul 2024 #86
+1000 BannonsLiver Jul 2024 #89
We will not CHANGE the result of the primaries. nt BootinUp Jul 2024 #100
We are also a community who cares about each other, SKKY. Hekate Jul 2024 #155
How about we save the vitriol for our actual opponents? hlthe2b Jul 2024 #160
Sorry you feel the need to depart, Nance. elleng Jul 2024 #87
Hello Nance MorbidButterflyTat Jul 2024 #88
Please don't. underpants Jul 2024 #91
Like primary season... moondust Jul 2024 #93
Don't blame you vercetti2021 Jul 2024 #95
Please don't go for long. redwitch Jul 2024 #98
Well, that sucks. The circle jerk of doom is exhausting and I find trashing threads helpful. Nevilledog Jul 2024 #99
Have and will miss your rants, they were almost always spot on. burrowowl Jul 2024 #101
Nance - c'mon. You should stay. Algernon Moncrieff Jul 2024 #106
i understand how you feel, Nance. Different Drummer Jul 2024 #109
Please no !! Think about your action. Contact DU management and tell them how you feel. U r too important Trueblue1968 Jul 2024 #113
There is a difference in the honest questioning of ..... Kingofalldems Jul 2024 #118
Please don't leave. Just take a break if necessary. I have at times, and a lot of other DUers have as well. highplainsdem Jul 2024 #119
Please stay. pandr32 Jul 2024 #122
Dialogue is so important, Nance. Even disturbing ones. nolabear Jul 2024 #123
This message was self-deleted by its author Blue Idaho Jul 2024 #124
Sorry these discussions bother you so much. Music Man Jul 2024 #125
Please don't give up! kimbutgar Jul 2024 #126
This is a temporary situation. rubbersole Jul 2024 #127
Well, I guess I'm one of those who caused you to leave.... Goodheart Jul 2024 #129
You've been gone before dweller Jul 2024 #131
Nance, you're not the one who needs to go. I've wondered why DU has allowed this s**t to take hold, and why... Tarheel_Dem Jul 2024 #134
💔🪷🪷Nance, I am just about out of words, & others are saying it so much better than I can right now... Hekate Jul 2024 #135
I'm with you Nance snowybirdie Jul 2024 #136
Maybe I'm ForgedCrank Jul 2024 #137
I can't believe this thread GenThePerservering Jul 2024 #138
There is no weakness involved in LuckyCharms Jul 2024 #139
Then just step away - nothing wrong with that nt GenThePerservering Jul 2024 #140
She did the right thing by posting. LuckyCharms Jul 2024 #141
And I cannot believe how callous some people are, especially in these fraught, niyad Jul 2024 #143
Please Don't Leave, Nance! Deep State Witch Jul 2024 #142
It's 2016 again bdamomma Jul 2024 #147
Oh my dear Nance . . . CaliforniaPeggy Jul 2024 #152
🪷🪷🪷 Hekate Jul 2024 #163
I want to add to all the support you are receiving here jmbar2 Jul 2024 #153
🪷🪷🪷 Hekate Jul 2024 #164
Politics isn't for the faint hearted. Autumn Jul 2024 #157
You always say what I want to and can't. Chipper Chat Jul 2024 #158
I hope you reconsider, Nance! We need your voice here! nt pnwmom Jul 2024 #159
Please stay. Moderators removed many of those post. You're one of my favorite posters! Liberty Belle Jul 2024 #161
Stay!!!!!! Eko Jul 2024 #165
Please stay!!!! lotusblossom Jul 2024 #167
Give yourself a little time and remember why you came here in the first place. chouchou Jul 2024 #168
I came back recently after a break - TBF Jul 2024 #171
I hear you. But I wish you would stay. Joinfortmill Jul 2024 #172
This is heartbreaking malaise Jul 2024 #173
Nance you know there is the IGNORE function Skittles Jul 2024 #174
We all share the same Democratic values of fairness for all, to preserve our democracy and planet, and to dump Trump. Doodley Jul 2024 #176
I've decided to become as ruthless as a farmer culling a herd when on jury duty. Hermit-The-Prog Jul 2024 #177
The wrong candidate is getting thrown under the bus. Initech Jul 2024 #178
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