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deurbano

(2,946 posts)
31. I'm very sorry about that. My daughter is developmentally disabled, although not intellectually disabled...but since
Thu Aug 8, 2024, 11:20 AM
Aug 8

she has a speech disability (and is also quadriplegic, as a result of cerebral palsy), she has faced some of the stereotypes (stigma) of having an intellectual disability. (Because that's the assumption many people make.) I had Sascha when I was a teenager (she's 50 now!)...and we both worked for a nonprofit for twenty years in schools trying to dispel stereotypes about people with intellectual and other disabilities, and to prevent bullying/promote inclusion. Sascha's chair of the CA Dems Disability Caucus, and used to be chair of the State Council on Developmental Disabilities. I'll ask her what the situation is in CA in terms of the right to vote and guardianship.

I think you might appreciate that Sascha is also an elected Harris delegate to the convention from Nancy Pelosi's district (since that's where we live). She had been appointed as a Biden delegate by Pelosi for the last (remote) convention, but this time Christine Pelosi encouraged her to run for an elected spot. Nancy Pelosi endorsed her, and Sascha got the second highest number of votes to become one of the three delegates (and one alternate) elected for the female/not male delegate slots. This is (at least) a start in helping to break a glass ceiling (to be an elected delegate) for someone with her type and level of disability, and Sascha feels she is in a small way representing all Americans with developmental disabilities, including your son.

Again, I'm very sorry to hear your son's situation (which is so disappointing), and we should try to change these kinds of laws. (Nancy Pelosi also appointed my daughter to the National Council on Disability, so maybe they could look at this issue.) What state are you in?

I don't see anything wrong with your post. TurboDem Aug 8 #1
If I were to hazard a guess melm00se Aug 8 #8
But that's an important point arlyellowdog Aug 8 #15
Unfortunately, if someone has a legal guardian, they are declared "legally incompetent" and thus LisaL Aug 8 #2
It doesn't have to be that way arlyellowdog Aug 8 #16
It depends on the state I think geardaddy Aug 8 #23
That's not a good or fair thing Jarqui Aug 8 #24
This is not true in Ohio. Ms. Toad Aug 8 #40
State specific, according to this; in CA, ME, MD, NV, NM, and WA, right to vote is retained by default lostnfound Aug 8 #53
Hugs to you. AllyCat Aug 8 #3
Thank you for posting this. We had to get a guardianship on my MIL MaryMagdaline Aug 8 #4
That option doesn't exist in our county. LisaL Aug 8 #5
I'm so sorry. MaryMagdaline Aug 8 #9
I recall my most contentious PoliSci class from college nuxvomica Aug 8 #6
Exactly. MaryMagdaline Aug 8 #10
Virginia is the same AverageOldGuy Aug 8 #7
Why focus on empathy from Democrats specifically? live love laugh Aug 8 #11
There's even a word for that mahina Aug 8 #13
That doesn't answer a valid question. I'm asking about something needed from EVERYONE. live love laugh Aug 8 #17
Very valid question. wordstroken Aug 8 #20
I am avoiding your question because I wanted to bring light to the issue arlyellowdog Aug 8 #26
You're implying that Democrats don't have empathy. Why? live love laugh Aug 8 #34
You're trying to get me in trouble arlyellowdog Aug 8 #37
It's an unusual conversation, and memorable. mahina Aug 8 #38
And still you don't answer why. live love laugh Aug 8 #41
Because of a DU post mocking disabled people arlyellowdog Aug 8 #42
How would anyone know whether compassion is or if is not asked elsewhere? mahina Aug 8 #36
That's not part of this conversation. This is about what's posted here. live love laugh Aug 8 #44
It's directly responding to you asking why empathy isn't being asked of others mahina Aug 8 #45
Ad hominems are indicative of an inability to argue. live love laugh Aug 8 #48
Please specify what I said that was an ad hominem attack. mahina Aug 8 #49
Non sequitur mahina Aug 8 #50
Because we know that the 'r's" demonstrate that they are not capable niyad Aug 8 #22
Exactly. In addition if all of Democratic Party members don't fully support the right to vote, how can one expect others Wonder Why Aug 8 #25
Who said Democrats don't support the right to vote? live love laugh Aug 8 #32
Your statement suggested it: Wonder Why Aug 8 #35
What??? "If no Democrats did not support it, then why was it brought up?" live love laugh Aug 8 #43
They are incapable but that doesn't mean we aren't capable. So why call us out on this? live love laugh Aug 8 #33
When I put an alert on a post making fun of "mentally disabled" people arlyellowdog Aug 8 #39
Thank you for sharing your fight for your son's rights. Fla Dem Aug 8 #12
In New Jersey Rocknation Aug 8 #14
Same thing happened with our son hauckeye Aug 8 #18
It just kills your soul doesn't it? arlyellowdog Aug 8 #28
We are guardians for our granddaughter (autistic) Scalded Nun Aug 8 #19
Do the laws in your state prohibit him from voting? Ms. Toad Aug 8 #21
So are you saying by entering a group home, he lost his right to vote? Bev54 Aug 8 #27
To clarify: we petitioned the court for guardianship arlyellowdog Aug 8 #29
OK so the act of gaining guardianship was the trigger. My sister got guardianship of my brother when my Bev54 Aug 8 #30
I'm very sorry about that. My daughter is developmentally disabled, although not intellectually disabled...but since deurbano Aug 8 #31
I can see on one level why people who can't take care of their own affairs dsc Aug 8 #46
It must be separate. No one else has to prove they can vote arlyellowdog Aug 8 #51
I'm so sorry! Bluesaph Aug 8 #47
Have you tried contacting your Rep or Senator? nt. druidity33 Aug 8 #52
What state are you in? There's some good information in these two documents lostnfound Aug 8 #54
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