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calimary

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77. As my late mother-in-law used to say: "they don't suck it out of their thumbs."
Wed Jun 12, 2013, 09:13 PM
Jun 2013

That kid evidently heard the toxic talk in a laissez-faire environment, where it wasn't an outrage, wasn't objected to, wasn't corrected, no penalties imposed for having done so, no effort to discourage. Something he was used to hearing, perhaps? Seems as though the kid learned to be comfortable with it. Perhaps it occurred a LOT in that household. Just speculation, mind you.

But it seems to me when you use offensive terms so flagrantly (it's one of the names he uses in his frickin' games??????), either you're accustomed to hearing it around you that you're inured to it and you're used to not giving it a second thought, or you're just an asshole who likes to stir things up and you're going for shock value. Either way, it's indicative of how he was brought up, at least to me.

wow, that's fucked up, doesn't Flake have a gay cousin or nephew who is with JI7 Jun 2013 #1
I like how Flake says his son apologized. To who? His dad? Is his dad Mexican or a gay? DonRedwood Jun 2013 #3
Gosh, Dad, I didn't realize you are a politician with a national name. I thought my online handle... Hekate Jun 2013 #61
It's the environment his son lives in...AZ. AlbertCat Jun 2013 #128
His son hasn't apologized, I don't believe... Orsino Jun 2013 #140
Flake kardonb Jun 2013 #64
I believe he has an older son who is gay TxDemChem Jun 2013 #157
What a pathetic family to be born into Heather MC Jun 2013 #158
That's a detail I hope is brought up in his next election Auggie Jun 2013 #2
I'm hoping it is front page news on DU, at least. DonRedwood Jun 2013 #4
It didn't make it to the front page of our local paper: Wait Wut Jun 2013 #134
The bad news is that that next election is scheduled for 2018. existentialist Jun 2013 #125
The turd doesn't drop far from the asshole. City Lights Jun 2013 #5
Lol...I have never heard that saying before! DonRedwood Jun 2013 #8
When does Tanner start his job at Booz Allen Hamilton? FSogol Jun 2013 #6
Internship? DonRedwood Jun 2013 #25
hunh? frylock Jun 2013 #79
Really? atreides1 Jun 2013 #116
Here's Flake and his laddie Skidmore Jun 2013 #7
Looks like King Joffrey on GOT. Sounds like him to. n/t. zeeland Jun 2013 #11
LOL. That was my first thought as well. Skidmore Jun 2013 #12
Can't unsee that. Thanks. (nt) Posteritatis Jun 2013 #13
Just what I thought too. kiva Jun 2013 #55
OMG Aerows Jun 2013 #68
Lovely, the hitler youth with a grenade launcher Half-Century Man Jun 2013 #45
closet case? nt msongs Jun 2013 #52
Obviously somebody with a teeny weenie problem. . . DinahMoeHum Jun 2013 #70
Gee, not campaigning at a water-recycling center or a Carpet Outlet? johnnyreb Jun 2013 #80
That's what I say. These guys get paid for who they are, not what they can can do. Like us peons who freshwest Jun 2013 #89
Here's video & story re: their "survival trip" this past Memorial Day weekend liberalla Jun 2013 #90
More of the fabulous lifestyles of the rich and dangerous. freshwest Jun 2013 #142
He was my representative and is now my senator. At no point have I not been ashamed. Gravitycollapse Jun 2013 #9
Is this in the news there? DonRedwood Jun 2013 #21
Yes, it is in the news here. Gravitycollapse Jun 2013 #24
Wow...they really whitewash it. "A racist term" Your Senator's son is using the word but the news DonRedwood Jun 2013 #29
Our local newspaper won't print the term vagina. Gravitycollapse Jun 2013 #30
Maybe you should be saying va*ina, just in case. We don't want them coming after you DonRedwood Jun 2013 #48
But having your kid pose for a photo with a high-powered weapon isn't even blinked at. nomorenomore08 Jun 2013 #73
Nope, not at all: freshwest Jun 2013 #91
sheesh,,,, some days it is so embarrassing to live in Arizona. KarenS Jun 2013 #10
what was the other one? DonRedwood Jun 2013 #17
Trent Franks (Rapepublican AZ) thelordofhell Jun 2013 #32
Good Lord Arizona! DonRedwood Jun 2013 #50
And for the Trifecta.....Rick Renzi (Rescumblican,AZ) thelordofhell Jun 2013 #54
oh yes,,,, I forgot about this one,,,,, embarrassing!! n/t KarenS Jun 2013 #93
edited out snarky comment about the kid.. one_voice Jun 2013 #14
Kids are a big tell. Jamastiene Jun 2013 #38
Nail meet hammer. snagglepuss Jun 2013 #41
Hey thanks! DonRedwood Jun 2013 #53
dragged? dothemath Jun 2013 #109
Hey! You got gay Jewish friends too! Behind the Aegis Jun 2013 #105
How could I forget you!!! one_voice Jun 2013 #121
How, indeed! Harumpf! Behind the Aegis Jun 2013 #144
thought on nuts and trees arely staircase Jun 2013 #15
Please don't use this post to make fun of the kid. His words speak for themselves and I prefer DonRedwood Jun 2013 #16
the evidence points to a racist shithead kid who should be shamed. galileoreloaded Jun 2013 #18
Yes, but he is a kid, and what he said was bad, but I choose not to make fun of him DonRedwood Jun 2013 #22
A 15 or 16 year old knows damn well what he said and unless you can newmember Jun 2013 #26
Some of the 15 year olds I know Ratty Jun 2013 #47
Well said! JNelson6563 Jun 2013 #75
Little flake is a chip off of big flake. Half-Century Man Jun 2013 #97
+1 uponit7771 Jun 2013 #139
i think its both. clearly he heard it in his environment but he needs to take accountability. galileoreloaded Jun 2013 #28
Yes DonRedwood Jun 2013 #42
Fuck the little douchebag dbackjon Jun 2013 #104
You're fighting an uphill battle here. I agree with you Eleanors38 Jun 2013 #44
this heaven05 Jun 2013 #58
I don't know if this was directed to me... one_voice Jun 2013 #46
It's the dad's doing, alright DFW Jun 2013 #19
Just because a kid grows up a shithead newmember Jun 2013 #33
I realize that--I'm married to a social worker DFW Jun 2013 #40
Plus, you know, Bloomberg targeted Flake Robb Jun 2013 #49
Thats a good point. I mean, look who raised Ron Reagan. There are plenty of examples. 7962 Jun 2013 #152
The nut didn't fall from the tree...The sad thing is the brother, Frosty Flake rustydog Jun 2013 #20
what about brother Dandruff Flake? kwassa Jun 2013 #100
Sounds like the type of parents that went out of their way to shield their kids from obscene content Initech Jun 2013 #23
He learned it all from his own folks malaise Jun 2013 #27
Time for Mr. Flake to resign, he really needs to spend time with his family! reformist2 Jun 2013 #31
Like father, like son. I was raised in a family where NO ONE ever dared speak that way, kestrel91316 Jun 2013 #34
The apple doesn't fall far from the tree AgingAmerican Jun 2013 #35
Flake's son pretends to commit suicide kidgie Jun 2013 #36
this kid needs help. Phillip McCleod Jun 2013 #106
He needs help very soon or mimi85 Jun 2013 #111
It's all about word choice. LuvLoogie Jun 2013 #37
Exactly. Apologizing for insensitivity and language?? thesquanderer Jun 2013 #81
oh, yeah, the 'insensitivity'. what a fucking fascist. 'wh1teykiller,' bet that would go over well HiPointDem Jun 2013 #39
lol & sure the kids will c arry on the hate just fine..... lunasun Jun 2013 #62
i suspected that flake had ties to the apartheid regimes when i saw that & it seems he did/does. HiPointDem Jun 2013 #102
You got a K&R from me wryter2000 Jun 2013 #43
Flake was recently assisted by Di Fi and Dick Durbin on removing LGBT protections from the Bluenorthwest Jun 2013 #51
as to flake's views, this may be of interest. HiPointDem Jun 2013 #56
What's of real interest to me is the desire by 'moderate Democrats' to pander to this type of Bluenorthwest Jun 2013 #63
Republican family values on display. BVictor1 Jun 2013 #57
Ding Ding Ding! Winner! You have to be carefully taught to hate. mnhtnbb Jun 2013 #65
It takes very little work to teach a child to hate. Mariana Jun 2013 #95
I was referring to the song lyrics mnhtnbb Jun 2013 #98
It's sad that they need to apologize for speaking their feelings Snake Plissken Jun 2013 #59
No Surprise Here... azbillyboy Jun 2013 #60
Gosh! Where did this young man learn so much hate? Captain Stern Jun 2013 #66
As the saying goes "Like father like son." Ganja Ninja Jun 2013 #115
Well isn't that Aerows Jun 2013 #67
No, that's Maynar Jun 2013 #84
My bad Aerows Jun 2013 #85
I normally think it's unfair to go after people because ... ReRe Jun 2013 #69
Fuck you Jeff! You taught that shit to Tanner! muntrv Jun 2013 #71
Oh, Arizona. . .when will the black eyes stop? Nanjing to Seoul Jun 2013 #72
If he didn't learn it at home.... nt DCKit Jun 2013 #74
And We titanicdave Jun 2013 #76
As my late mother-in-law used to say: "they don't suck it out of their thumbs." calimary Jun 2013 #77
He obviously gets this from his parents.. AsahinaKimi Jun 2013 #78
He learned it from you, daddy. OK? He learned it from you. Thor_MN Jun 2013 #82
Hey N1ggerkiller, catnhatnh Jun 2013 #83
I'll add this from his daddie's bio... catnhatnh Jun 2013 #86
Maybe he's just pissed at his dad for naming him "Tanner". BlueStater Jun 2013 #87
Maybe the Palins or Levi can use the name mimi85 Jun 2013 #112
The son just forgot to gloss over the family's racist, bigoted, fascist beliefs. Arugula Latte Jun 2013 #88
Wonder where he got his views? Most young men (myself included) get our views from our fathers. silvershadow Jun 2013 #92
This is why some of us close ranks behind Obama. This is the opposition party. Yavin4 Jun 2013 #94
+1 DinahMoeHum Jun 2013 #96
A question for young master Tanner.. Half-Century Man Jun 2013 #99
Flake is "very disappointed" that his son is so stupid as to Twitter Cha Jun 2013 #101
I note that Flake apologizes for the "words" and "language" but not for the attitude behind them. KurtNYC Jun 2013 #118
Dog whistles to his supporters? Cha Jun 2013 #150
Yep. Dog whistle. hunter Jun 2013 #155
What bigoted freaks we elect in this ignorant population. lonestarnot Jun 2013 #103
When a person uses words like that libodem Jun 2013 #107
Pretend hard, like most representatives of the GOP. n/t Orsino Jun 2013 #141
I'm not sure what you are saying? libodem Jun 2013 #146
I'm not going to hold Jeff Flake responsible for his son's behavior. JohnnyRingo Jun 2013 #108
Well, I do because, in this case, I think the son reflects the father's beliefs, and Jeff Flake is a mountain grammy Jun 2013 #119
Let's at least keep it partisan... JohnnyRingo Jun 2013 #145
Hey, I've got kids of my own who don't always do what I'd like, but Jeff Flake is a Teabagger mountain grammy Jun 2013 #147
" It seems like MSNBC is taking all their news from DU's Greatest Page lately." alp227 Jun 2013 #110
Being a Secret Muslim, Obama caused it Kennah Jun 2013 #113
apples and trees ElsewheresDaughter Jun 2013 #114
Flake voted against background checks for guns perdita9 Jun 2013 #117
I don't live in AZ, and don't know much about Flake... Dr Hobbitstein Jun 2013 #120
...typical PukeBagger. SoapBox Jun 2013 #122
Gee, wonder where the kid learned all that? CanonRay Jun 2013 #123
Dayum--I feel queasy reccing this, but you just KNOW that boy didn't MADem Jun 2013 #124
There but for the grace of God go I. reflection Jun 2013 #126
He learned it from his daddy... SummerSnow Jun 2013 #127
Very disturbing. SpankMe Jun 2013 #129
Flake is training his kid to be one of the Masters of the Universe, deciding who dies. freshwest Jun 2013 #143
Just my observation Nac Mac Feegle Jun 2013 #130
The father has made a public apology for his son. William769 Jun 2013 #131
Well, the Flake doesn't fall far from the Shitball. ananda Jun 2013 #132
No suprise GarH Jun 2013 #133
That kid azmom Jun 2013 #135
Don't apologize for his words, asshole, apologize that you raised him to think that way! Myrina Jun 2013 #136
The apple doesn't fall far from the tree...... Swede Atlanta Jun 2013 #137
Gosh, WHERE OH WHERE might he have learned that kind of sh*t? Bake Jun 2013 #138
The Dad resents having to do clean-up damage control more than anything else. Nika Jun 2013 #148
Language...insensitivity... EC Jun 2013 #149
What Do You Want....He Apologized!!! SoCalMusicLover Jun 2013 #151
Dad must be so proud, Lebam in LA Jun 2013 #153
Here's my response to both tick turds 47of74 Jun 2013 #154
Times have changed Bluzmann57 Jun 2013 #156
Why do we have the likes of this type of fuckwit such as Flake as an elected official? lonestarnot Jul 2014 #159
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