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NaturalHigh

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68. This was intended as a light-hearted thread...

Mon Nov 11, 2013, 10:32 AM

Nov 2013

about a story I read online. It wasn't intended as some sort of deep, introspective thread about supposedly sexist language that has managed to offend nobody but you so far. If you're interested, there is a companion site to this one where you can go and trash the men too.

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Scorned women expose mistresses on ‘homewrecker’ website [View all] NaturalHigh Nov 2013 OP

Sounds like a source of employment for lawyers. nt bemildred Nov 2013 #1

I thought about that too. NaturalHigh Nov 2013 #2

Yes, but I expect enough money could help your case. bemildred Nov 2013 #3

True. NaturalHigh Nov 2013 #4

Or it may... Bay Boy Nov 2013 #6

Wouldn't the burden of proof go the other way? DanTex Nov 2013 #9

No gollygee Nov 2013 #13

Actually you have to prove damages tina tron Nov 2013 #59

Yeah you have to prove that as well gollygee Nov 2013 #61

I love how they blame the women their husbands cheated with gollygee Nov 2013 #5

I'm betting the husbands are taking some heat too... Bay Boy Nov 2013 #8

It's easier for these women to get P.O. at the other woman than to get P.O. at their spouse. nt raccoon Nov 2013 #53

I always laugh at that malaise Nov 2013 #26

I can walk and chew gum at the same time laundry_queen Nov 2013 #106

Kinda rough justice, I guess. But how about the man? CTyankee Nov 2013 #7

The article mentions that there's a companion site targeting men who cheat or petronius Nov 2013 #24

I read the story, but I haven't actually checked out either site yet. NaturalHigh Nov 2013 #25

I was just guessing that it was ad-supported. Maybe eHarmony will petronius Nov 2013 #27

Now that would be ironic. NaturalHigh Nov 2013 #58

Or Christian Mingle! VanillaRhapsody Nov 2013 #80

well, spread the blame around...it's only fair... CTyankee Nov 2013 #33

that already happened years ago on dontdatehimgirl.com JVS Nov 2013 #38

Don't Date Him Girl JustAnotherGen Nov 2013 #56

That is gross... Agschmid Nov 2013 #10

I didn't look at it. NaturalHigh Nov 2013 #11

Yup. Agschmid Nov 2013 #18

What if the mistress has no idea about the marriage chowder66 Nov 2013 #12

This actually happened pipi_k Nov 2013 #32

Whoa... chowder66 Nov 2013 #62

I was very surprised that a woman mentioned in that story... NaturalHigh Nov 2013 #64

An aol video chowder66 Nov 2013 #69

Interesting...she didn't say that in the NY Daily News study. NaturalHigh Nov 2013 #70

Transcript snippet chowder66 Nov 2013 #81

Here is some more info about the site and the woman mentioned. NaturalHigh Nov 2013 #73

I know, right? pipi_k Nov 2013 #103

That might work chowder66 Nov 2013 #104

Some shocking stories on that site. Here's one LittleBlue Nov 2013 #14

Gross. Iggo Nov 2013 #15

Dang...that was brutal. NaturalHigh Nov 2013 #17

The jilted wife has issues Capt. Obvious Nov 2013 #65

I've never understood the phrase homewrecker. tammywammy Nov 2013 #16

Yup. 100% agree... Agschmid Nov 2013 #19

Absolutely, but so is the partner in the homebreaking... CTyankee Nov 2013 #39

I think it makes them look human Mojorabbit Nov 2013 #44

Unfortunately, everyone seems to put their lives on the net these days. NaturalHigh Nov 2013 #48

Yes. Iggo Nov 2013 #46

Agreed Capt. Obvious Nov 2013 #66

That is just bullshit laundry_queen Nov 2013 #107

Self reflection is in order Capt. Obvious Nov 2013 #109

LOL. sounds like you are a cheater. nt laundry_queen Nov 2013 #110

LOL. Not really Capt. Obvious Nov 2013 #111

"not really" tells me all I need to know. laundry_queen Nov 2013 #112

Your hysterics tell me all I need to know about you Capt. Obvious Nov 2013 #113

Wow. Sexist much? I'm hysterical? laundry_queen Nov 2013 #114

As do you Capt. Obvious Nov 2013 #115

Whatever. Even my ex agrees that I was a great wife. nt laundry_queen Nov 2013 #116

LOL Capt. Obvious Nov 2013 #118

As does my MIL. Who is still one of my best friends. And doesn't talk to her son anymore. nt laundry_queen Nov 2013 #119

You're obviously a wonderful daughter in-law too Capt. Obvious Nov 2013 #124

Yes. Capt obvious is that obvious. Let him off the hook to swim away to seabeyond Nov 2013 #121

Yep. laundry_queen Nov 2013 #122

This message was self-deleted by its author seaglass Nov 2013 #20

Yeah, the story mentioned that as sort of a companion site. NaturalHigh Nov 2013 #21

The parents may be doing the adultery, but it's always the kids that get royally "messed up". libdem4life Nov 2013 #22

Very good point. NaturalHigh Nov 2013 #23

Always the innocent victims... pipi_k Nov 2013 #34

That would damn near be the end of the human race Fumesucker Nov 2013 #47

Message auto-removed Name removed Nov 2013 #28

all is fair in Niceguy1 Nov 2013 #29

This site seems like it's heavy on the war and light on the love. NaturalHigh Nov 2013 #49

Typical that the women are portrayed as the wrongdoers in these situations. MadrasT Nov 2013 #30

you are absolutely right. The men need as much scrutiny as the women and also if they started it! CTyankee Nov 2013 #35

This will not end well. nt treestar Nov 2013 #31

Women are competitive when it comes to men davidn3600 Nov 2013 #36

Hint: change your calendar. Its 2013 not 1950 u4ic Nov 2013 #45

I know, right? treestar Nov 2013 #77

guys dont fight over women?! bunnies Nov 2013 #54

exactly La Lioness Priyanka Nov 2013 #101

Ugh CFLDem Nov 2013 #37

Yeah, and women cheating should just aim for their best chance... CTyankee Nov 2013 #41

Everybody loves a good slut-shaming. TransitJohn Nov 2013 #40

No man (or woman) Le Taz Hot Nov 2013 #42

I imagine that a lot of the people... NaturalHigh Nov 2013 #50

If the site had existed 20+ years ago frogmarch Nov 2013 #43

men get revenge. women are scorned. when a man is being dumped on, he takes revenge. seabeyond Nov 2013 #51

Whatever. NaturalHigh Nov 2013 #52

language matters. kinda why you have the woman go after the woman, while men go after the woman. seabeyond Nov 2013 #55

I'll put on my outrage hat. NaturalHigh Nov 2013 #57

because just making a statement ='s outrage. seabeyond Nov 2013 #67

This was intended as a light-hearted thread... NaturalHigh Nov 2013 #68

then you should not have gotten all outraged over a simple point. let it go.... seabeyond Nov 2013 #72

Who said I was outraged? NaturalHigh Nov 2013 #75

hmmmm, ya. lol. right. wink seabeyond Nov 2013 #82

Wink back atcha. NaturalHigh Nov 2013 #85

re read. i made a statement. that simple. i have focused on that statement, again, that simple. YOU seabeyond Nov 2013 #87

What names did I call you? NaturalHigh Nov 2013 #90

you can NOT let it go. more more more. oh please, fight with me. see ya. seabeyond Nov 2013 #92

Never mind answering the questions I asked. NaturalHigh Nov 2013 #93

That's silly. Go to the Lounge. You obviously want mindless entertainment. ancianita Nov 2013 #84

Gee... NaturalHigh Nov 2013 #86

ya. lol. i am off to play... seabeyond Nov 2013 #88

Bravo! Sheldon Cooper Nov 2013 #94

Shit's just not funny. It should be in the DU Lounge, anyway. ancianita Nov 2013 #95

Yeah well... NaturalHigh Nov 2013 #96

Sure you can have a different opinion. Sheldon Cooper Nov 2013 #97

Of course she is entitled to her opinion. NaturalHigh Nov 2013 #98

"The HOF crowd"? Sheldon Cooper Nov 2013 #102

How exactly am I struggling? NaturalHigh Nov 2013 #105

+1 MadrasT Nov 2013 #99

Why do you suppose that is? And what might be done about it? Orrex Nov 2013 #71

well, stating it outloud to recognize we do this with women is a start. but, then, people seabeyond Nov 2013 #74

I'm outraged that you replied to me. Orrex Nov 2013 #89

you are funny... seabeyond Nov 2013 #91

Yes, it shows the way they want to be fairly well treestar Nov 2013 #78

and a man fuckin around with a married woman certainly doe snot get a title like "mistress" seabeyond Nov 2013 #83

Thank jeebus nobody ever lies when relationships go bad. tridim Nov 2013 #60

I'm good with it. If you are screwing around with someone's spouse IdaBriggs Nov 2013 #63

I agree. HappyMe Nov 2013 #79

:) laundry_queen Nov 2013 #108

More info on the site: NaturalHigh Nov 2013 #76

ugh. this is truly awful. La Lioness Priyanka Nov 2013 #100

Agreed oberliner Nov 2013 #117

I'm sure all the scorned wives here are perfect saints *eyeroll* cbdo2007 Nov 2013 #120

There is a bigger site called "Cheaterville" AgingAmerican Nov 2013 #123

Wow...not only exposed but Google bombed too. NaturalHigh Nov 2013 #125

This message was self-deleted by its author jeff47 Nov 2013 #126