Men experience more pleasure, anxiety than women during their "first time"

[MineralMan]

2. Such a personal experience is bound to vary

a great deal from person to person. For me, the first time was little more than a transition from "everything but" to "let's go" at a young age in my teens. No anxiety. No stress. Plenty of pleasure for both of us. Nothing really changed except adding one more thing to what had already been going on for an extended period of time.