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WhaTHellsgoingonhere

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52. Update #2: If it feels like intimidation, is it intimidation?
Wed May 13, 2015, 09:26 PM
May 2015

So, surprise!, I didn't get fired.

After I was told to stay home while the director and HR got their ducks in a row, I met with the director and supervisor the next day. The upshot of the meeting was that I was on the thinnest of thin ice and if I slipped it would be grounds for termination. Then the director made some prepared comments: "Well, aren't you concerned about getting fired? I mean, won't that look really bad?" to which I replied, "I absolutely am concerned but I should be able to fix what's broke, and if I can't, I'll accept my fate."

3 weeks pass and all is good.

Then a week and a half ago the director says, "Hey, did you get an email from (said) company? It's not a big deal. HR just hired a new company to do background checks and want one on you."

So we chit chat and make nice and laugh at things we've overcome and he says he likes me and nothing's happened in 3 weeks so that's good. So then I ask him, "Do you even want me on your team?" He says, 'Yes, I do."

The next week and a half is great. That brings us to today.

I get the email from the background company that says my employer has requested to do a background check and I have 48 hours to complete it. If you have questions, call 800#. So I call the 800# and tell them to send me a file so that I can read through it and I'll mail it back. They said they can't do that. So I ask, "Why are you doing this?" He asks, "Are you a new hire?" I reply, "No. I've been with this company for more than a year. Why am I being asked for one now?" He says, "I don't know." So I ask, "Who ordered this?" The guy gives me the name of someone in HR.

I email HR the following:

I received this email this morning from (company). Of course I have questions, so I called the 800 number they provided. They referred me to you. I have a couple of simple questions and a request to ask of you. First, I'm not a new hire, I've been with the company for over a year. Is this standard procedure after a year of employment? Why are you requesting this background check of me now and not when I applied for the position in early 2014? Second, as I'm sure you will agree, the term "background check" is rather vague. For instance, many companies look at someone's credit. I'd like to know specifically what it is you'll be "screening" me for before I start clicking on boxes that read "you understand." Frankly, I don't understand.

They just won't relent. This is their 3rd run at me. I do feel like they are trying to intimidate me so that I quit.

aside: It seems like the didn't do their due diligence a year ago and run a background check, and now they want me to help them save some face. No thanks!

Thoughts?

Say nothing to the employer. elleng Apr 2015 #1
I love this place! WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #4
First, look at the Fair Labor Standards Act. guillaumeb Apr 2015 #2
I love this place x2 WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #3
glad to help guillaumeb Apr 2015 #5
No union. We're helpers. We take care of others. Social workers. We do it for love, not money WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #7
non-profits still have to follow the law. guillaumeb Apr 2015 #9
Age is a qualifier for discrimination. You are old enough. guillaumeb Apr 2015 #11
Yeah, he said that. Each office is an island WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #17
few people have the resources to sue guillaumeb Apr 2015 #19
Attorney said he can get access to all the work EVERYONE... WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #23
if you record work interactions electronically guillaumeb Apr 2015 #24
Yep, I've been doing it all remotely all along WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #27
Oh yeah, we all "officially" were asked to work Saturdays... WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #6
that is a prima facie violation of the FLSA guillaumeb Apr 2015 #8
I make almost $14/hour! WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #10
Overtime is mandated EXCEPT for exempt employees. guillaumeb Apr 2015 #13
Will do! Absolutely. I felt lost an hour ago. There had to be something better than Google WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #15
I received my training from my union. guillaumeb Apr 2015 #16
HA! I saw Billy Bragg years ago WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #18
really like Billy Bragg guillaumeb Apr 2015 #21
Are you quitting? Let them fire you. And don't do #1. msanthrope Apr 2015 #12
I let them fire me! Director called me after work to tell me... WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #14
You aren't fired yet. Sounds like they are trying to fire you msanthrope Apr 2015 #22
OK, so what you are saying is I do as follows: WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #25
Good email, and yes, you can sue and collect msanthrope Apr 2015 #32
Thanks for the advice and reading my email WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #33
should I keep it simple or raise the stakes WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #34
Perfectly fine to add. There's never "too much" msanthrope Apr 2015 #35
Documentation! What do you think about this WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #36
no......I would not do that. I would listen on Friday and document later. msanthrope Apr 2015 #37
and by read them in private, you mean with my attorney? WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #38
Sign nothing. Request copies to take with you, to read in private. msanthrope Apr 2015 #41
Poker Face: That's the kind of stuff I'm not good at and need to be told :D WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #42
I'm not even planning on reading anything WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #39
treble damages rumbling around somewhere. lonestarnot Apr 2015 #20
Good to know. I kind of thought so since there's so much illegal behavior and intimidation WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #26
You might be jumping the gun on suing as that runs into money. gvstn Apr 2015 #28
That's good to know, too WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #31
I just wanted to clarify a bit on how I have seen these things go. gvstn Apr 2015 #43
"...reverse the threat of a bad reference" WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #45
when they ask if I want to make a final statement, can I say... WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #47
Again don't go into to much detail about your grievances during any meetings with your supervisors. gvstn Apr 2015 #49
Yeah, when they took sides against me, I started think one thing... WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #50
when they ask if I want to make a final statement, can I say... WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #48
Talk to a lawyer. This place hates them, like cops flvegan Apr 2015 #29
The whole "fear of losing unemployment" thing gives them so much power WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #30
This is a beautiful thing. Must read my email log with my supervisor WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #40
The DOL is free Omaha Steve Apr 2015 #44
Thanks WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #46
Update #1: They wanted me to quit but wouldn't fire me WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2015 #51
Update #2: If it feels like intimidation, is it intimidation? WhaTHellsgoingonhere May 2015 #52
Update #3: DOL! WhaTHellsgoingonhere May 2015 #53
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