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csziggy

(34,136 posts)
30. When a friend died his veteran's benefit was not enough to pay for cremation
Mon Mar 13, 2017, 08:01 PM
Mar 2017

At the cheapest place in Southwest Georgia. His wife had the memorial service at their five acre place - outside because the only structure, the camper they lived in, wasn't big enough to fit his family much less all his friends. We all chipped in some money to help out his widow, but it took her two years to finish paying off that bill and his final medical bills.

My sister has had a number of friends who were borderline homeless and dying. Over the last ten years she has paid for several cremations so they weren't a burden to the county. She and her husband have prepaid their final expenses. I need to make those arrangements, too, so my husband doesn't have to deal with it if I go first - if I can afford to, I'd like to pre-pay for us both. It's a good idea if at all possible so all the choices are made and no one has to deal with it at the worst time.

Costs more, works less. underpants Mar 2017 #1
Yep sakabatou Mar 2017 #2
Surprise Surprise Surprise montanacowboy Mar 2017 #3
Exactly as predicted...less coverage for greater costs....the GOP way... Docreed2003 Mar 2017 #4
They hate the people. The zentrum Mar 2017 #26
True! The world could do with a little more Lenny Bruce today!! Docreed2003 Mar 2017 #27
Guess we can go back to some old time religion for our health care. Botany Mar 2017 #5
So it takes care of the republican social security and medicare problem also, people will not be still_one Mar 2017 #6
Associated Press Twitter feed: mahatmakanejeeves Mar 2017 #7
Now the CBO is going to be purged Dopers_Greed Mar 2017 #8
Horrible, just horrible. Kimchijeon Mar 2017 #9
I think you're all missing the point... brooklynite Mar 2017 #10
CBO predictions on the ACA were right on the money. grantcart Mar 2017 #11
Almost a trillion cut in Medicaid, biggest reason it will save money wishstar Mar 2017 #12
Wonder how this applies to the filibuster? LeftInTX Mar 2017 #13
The ACA was passed under Reconciliation maxsolomon Mar 2017 #20
As long as the proposal is revenue neutral or reduces the deficit... yallerdawg Mar 2017 #28
Thanks...that's what I was wondering..... LeftInTX Mar 2017 #31
Ahh, freedom. Paul Ryan is their "policy genius" JDC Mar 2017 #14
+1 - Paul Ryan is a Policy Wanker not Wonk, a devious little snit. dae Mar 2017 #17
Other than the fact that Obama's name has been attached to the ACA, what is the problem, world wide wally Mar 2017 #15
In a word, Soshlyzm maxsolomon Mar 2017 #21
His puppetmasters the kochs-- not fooled Mar 2017 #34
As I recall, there were some folks here angry at being "forced" to buy "corporate" insurance. brooklynite Mar 2017 #39
Add another 100 mil-Insured by "TRUMPCARE" who struggle to make a $2,000 a month payment. Sunlei Mar 2017 #16
I see a lot of people rebelling and just having no insurance at all. world wide wally Mar 2017 #22
That's like playing the lottery with your life. Everything medical is so expensive to treat. Sunlei Mar 2017 #36
Yes, it sucks. world wide wally Mar 2017 #37
same here, its been a wonderful 3yrs with my obamacare' I got off healthcareDOTgov website. Sunlei Mar 2017 #38
W. T. F. Highway61 Mar 2017 #18
Huge boost to industry klook Mar 2017 #19
Not really - communities will end up like West Virginia csziggy Mar 2017 #25
Ugh - true enough. klook Mar 2017 #29
When a friend died his veteran's benefit was not enough to pay for cremation csziggy Mar 2017 #30
I'm making plans to dump MontanaMama Mar 2017 #23
It's a Die in the Gutter Cut to Medicaid. Most will need medicaid for nursing homes someday stuffmatters Mar 2017 #24
I think nearly my entire family descendants of my grandma exboyfil Mar 2017 #32
When the costs become to prohibitive...we'll see a return to the so called "good o'le days".. Xolodno Mar 2017 #33
They want to get us used to not fooled Mar 2017 #35
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